4. The One with Dealbreakers, Standards, and Values

Is regret the same as assault? Can consent exist under pressure? What happens when words aren't spoken, but the message feels clear? How has the conversation around consent evolved? 

What are the early signs of abuse? Does no ALWAYS mean no? How can we better protect ourselves? In this episode, Kara reflects on her assault with the Actor and how she is reclaiming her power.  Download your FREE Trans Online Dating Guide: tinyurl.com/transdateguide

Was it love or abuse? Why do we fall for toxic people? Why do we justify red flag behavior? Has my childhood ruined me forever?! In this episode, Kara reflects on her past flame with the infamous Moderate and how she's healing her inner child.

How do I assess someone for red flags in early dating? How do I respond when someone exhibits red flag behavior? Everyone has a past - am I being too judgy? Can I really change someone? Can I save them from themselves?! All this and more answered in this edition of Relation Sis!

What are your goals in your love life? What are your motivations for dating? What are your values, standards, dealbreakers, and preferences? All this and more in this episode of Relation Sis! 

Kara reflects on dating a millionaire who was previously engaged. What is a situationship, and what keeps us in one? What happened to his fiancee? What was in the West Wing of his mansion? How do you buy a mountain?! All this and more in Episode 3 of Relation Sis! Kara's bestie Sandra co-hosts. 

Kara expands on last week's episode with the infamous 38 Year Old. What is love bombing? What are the signs? Is your relationship rooted in reality or fantasy? What are the dynamics in an anxious-avoidant relationship? Does commitment mean happily ever after?! All this answered and more!

Kara reflects on a past relationship with an older man. Was Kara fetishized? How do we heal from heartbreak? What's it like to be lovebombed? Were they the one that got away? How is trust built? Was HIPAA violated?! All of this answered and more in this first episode of Relation Sis! Kara's friend Andy co-hosts.