Esther Perel

Oscar-winning screenwriter and playwright Aaron Sorkin joins Monica this week on Reclaiming for a conversation about the places that shape us and the years we wish we could get back. Aaron reflects on falling in love with theater as a child, why it still matters to watch a movie in a room full of strangers, and what he missed when Broadway went dark during the pandemic. Even with To Kill a Mockingbird on hold, he kept running the play in his head, right down to intermission. He and Monica revisit the unexpected connection between the 1998 scandal and the early days of The West Wing. Aaron also opens up about what it means to look back on a decade lost to addiction and how he thinks about that time today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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“America’s Government Teacher” Sharon McMahon joins Monica on Reclaiming this week for a timely conversation about what’s at stake when we turn away from understanding and participating in government. Together, they explore the cost of neglecting civics education, how “democracy” became a loaded word, and the outrage machine that keeps us reacting instead of engaging. From the courage to stay curious to choosing hope without ignoring reality, this is a conversation about finding common ground without abandoning your convictions—and turning those convictions into action.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

As part of Breast Cancer Awareness Month, surgeon and author Dr. Elisa Port joins Monica on Reclaiming this week to separate fact from fear. What do we get wrong about breast cancer—and how can better information help us feel more empowered, not more afraid? Drawing on her book, The Breast Advice, Dr. Port pairs medical expertise with patient stories to unpack individualized screening, dense breasts, genetic testing, and common misconceptions about mammograms and biopsies. Together, they explore the questions behind the headlines—from hormone replacement therapy and GLP-1 medications to AI’s potential in breast cancer detection. It’s a candid, practical conversation about understanding your risk, weighing your options, and reclaiming a sense of agency over your health. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Actor, director, and activist Tony Goldwyn joins Monica this week on Reclaiming for a candid conversation about power, empathy, and life beyond the spotlight. They revisit his years as President Fitz on Scandal, the surreal experience of watching real-life political scandals unfold while making the show, and what playing flawed characters has taught him about the stories we attach to people. Tony reflects on his Hollywood inheritance—his grandfather Samuel Goldwyn was the “G” in Metro-Goldwyn-Mayer—and the complicated conversation around nepotism, privilege, and forging your own path with a famous last name. Away from Hollywood, Tony shares lessons from his enduring marriage to production designer Jane Musky, the boundaries that keep family at the center of his life, and the joy of collaborating with his daughter Anna on their podcast, Far From the Tree. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Musician, photographer, and activist Michael Stipe joins Monica this week on Reclaiming fresh from the studio as he is in the midst of recording his first ever solo album. Michael reflects on navigating the public image that came with R.E.M, how vulnerability has emerged as his true superpower and the tricky work of finding your way back from depression. Together, they explore the energy he’s feeling in his return to music and why hope matters even more in today’s world. It’s a conversation about remaining curious—and becoming more fully yourself—after the world thinks it already knows you. We even get a little listen to a new, not-yet-released track. Get 15% off OneSkin with the code RECLAIMING at https://www.oneskin.co/RECLAIMING #oneskinpod Get 40% off select Lola Blankets products at Lolablankets.com by using code RECLAIMING at checkout. Experience the world’s #1 blanket with Lola Blankets. Head over to Bombas.com/RECLAIMING and use code RECLAIMING for 20% off your first purchase. Check out Uber's new Women Preferences feature that lets women riders request a woman driver. Learn more on the Uber app. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Actor, comedian, and writer Jenny Slate joins Monica this week on Reclaiming for a truly adorable conversation about creativity, motherhood, and embracing every tender, strange part of yourself. Jenny reflects on finding raw, unexpected humor in birth and parenting, the creation of Marcel the Shell with Shoes On, and on the public rejection that transformed her relationship with performing. Together, they explore artistic courage, womanhood, and how to trust that we can not only survive life’s hardest moments, but emerge from them more fully ourselves. It feels like a conversation between old friends —though they are not! Head over to Bombas.com/RECLAIMING and use code RECLAIMING for 20% off your first purchase. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Award-winning journalist and women’s rights advocate Gretchen Carlson joins Monica for a deeply personal conversation about transforming enforced silence into systemic change. Gretchen reflects on her landmark 2016 sexual harassment lawsuit against Fox News chairman Roger Ailes—and the complicated reality of helping catalyze a cultural reckoning while remaining unable to tell her full story. Together, they explore the cost of speaking out, the importance of bipartisan advocacy, and Gretchen’s work with her non-profit Lift Our Voices to challenge forced arbitration and restrictive NDAs. Honest and inspiring, this conversation is about reclaiming your voice—and using it to help others reclaim theirs. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Oscar-winning performer Ariana DeBose joins Monica for a deeply personal conversation about her rise to fame, navigating public scrutiny, and moving through grief. Ariana reflects on launching her Broadway career as a member of the original cast of Hamilton, becoming the first openly queer woman of color to win an acting Oscar for her performance in West Side Story, and the complicated experience of being truly seen. She also opens up about losing her mother and grandmother—and how she carries their love, strength, and lineage with her as she enters a new chapter.Together, Ariana and Monica explore representation, the transformative power of creative mentors, and the importance of protecting your choices—even when the noise gets loud. Honest, funny, and deeply moving, their conversation is about honoring where you come from, defining success on your own terms, and reclaiming the freedom to become who you are. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Writers and couple Priya Parker and Anand Giridharadas join Monica this week on Reclaiming for an energized conversation about intentional gathering, healthy conflict, and building a shared intellectual life within their marriage. Priya explains how her new book, The Art of Fighting, explores the ways disagreement can deepen—rather than destroy—our sense of belonging. Anand discusses Man in the Mirror, his book that examines the fatal subway encounter between Jordan Neely and Daniel Penny, and what it reveals about safety, care, and institutional failure in a divided country. Together, they reflect on how their ideas challenge and sharpen each other, how they sustain two ambitious careers while raising a family, and how to distinguish a fight that creates change from one that merely causes harm. Moving through humor and honesty they consider what we owe the people—and the communities—to which we still hope to belong. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices