98. Overdoing Boundaries

Whaaaat?! 100 episodes? This calls for a celebration of reflections and learnings that we have gathered in the almost 2 years of doing this podcast! Thank you so much for listening to our show, sharing your experiences with us and for sharing the podcast with others in your lives. Really means the world to us! Send us a textSending you so much love!Love our show? Please rate and review! And share it with as many friends as you think would benefit! You can follow us on TikTok, IG or YouTube (@queerloverelationships). Want to work with E one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session! Want to work with Li one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session! Want to become a certified relationship coach? Love Mastery info here! Find out more on our Linktree. Until next time, keep loving y'all.

There is SO much to be said and learned inside of the world of attachment styles, so we are really skimming the surface in this episode. We give a high overview around secure vs insecure attachment styles and some different indicators of each, especially when it comes to conflict in relationships, as well as some ways to make changes and heal in the process. Send us a textSending you so much love!Love our show? Please rate and review! And share it with as many friends as you think would benefit! You can follow us on TikTok, IG or YouTube (@queerloverelationships). Want to work with E one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session! Want to work with Li one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session! Want to become a certified relationship coach? Love Mastery info here! Find out more on our Linktree. Until next time, keep loving y'all.

Too much of a good thing. Boundaries are a relationship topic that are all the rage, and for good reason since they are necessary for healthy relating, but what happens when you overdo it with boundaries? And what can be done when you have crossed that threshold? Send us a textSending you so much love!Love our show? Please rate and review! And share it with as many friends as you think would benefit! You can follow us on TikTok, IG or YouTube (@queerloverelationships). Want to work with E one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session! Want to work with Li one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session! Want to become a certified relationship coach? Love Mastery info here! Find out more on our Linktree. Until next time, keep loving y'all.

Maybe communication is going well for you, but you want to go deeper in conversations within your relationships. Or maybe you need to deepen your conversations so that communication actually improves. Regardless, let's get into it! Send us a textSending you so much love!Love our show? Please rate and review! And share it with as many friends as you think would benefit! You can follow us on TikTok, IG or YouTube (@queerloverelationships). Want to work with E one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session! Want to work with Li one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session! Want to become a certified relationship coach? Love Mastery info here! Find out more on our Linktree. Until next time, keep loving y'all.

We are in and out with this episode giving some tips on keeping your relationships fresh! Some simple boosts to inject in your dynamics and connect in ways that feel nourishing. What tips would you add to the list? Send us a textSending you so much love!Love our show? Please rate and review! And share it with as many friends as you think would benefit! You can follow us on TikTok, IG or YouTube (@queerloverelationships). Want to work with E one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session! Want to work with Li one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session! Want to become a certified relationship coach? Love Mastery info here! Find out more on our Linktree. Until next time, keep loving y'all.

Secrets are a juicy topic in any context, but especially when it comes to partnerships. This episode is all about navigating relationships when you are thinking that the other is withholding truths from you and some possible approaches to take. There are nuances, as with most things, around what is having you think secrets are at play, so we also talk on some questions to get curious on with yourself to have a better understanding of what is going on. Send us a textSending you so much love!Love our show? Please rate and review! And share it with as many friends as you think would benefit! You can follow us on TikTok, IG or YouTube (@queerloverelationships). Want to work with E one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session! Want to work with Li one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session! Want to become a certified relationship coach? Love Mastery info here! Find out more on our Linktree. Until next time, keep loving y'all.

Waiting for things to clear up to the point where the best choice is crystal clear around something in your relationship? Let's get into all the nuances of making decisions when barely anything feels certain. Send us a textSending you so much love!Love our show? Please rate and review! And share it with as many friends as you think would benefit! You can follow us on TikTok, IG or YouTube (@queerloverelationships). Want to work with E one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session! Want to work with Li one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session! Want to become a certified relationship coach? Love Mastery info here! Find out more on our Linktree. Until next time, keep loving y'all.

Did your heart start to beat a little faster at the thought of getting feedback from someone you are in a relationship with? Or maybe you already ran out the door...We all have our own unique response to feedback and that is what we are going into today. We start with what is unhealthy when it comes to giving and receiving feedback, and then give some experiences around what it looks like done in a healthy manner. Send us a textSending you so much love!Love our show? Please rate and review! And share it with as many friends as you think would benefit! You can follow us on TikTok, IG or YouTube (@queerloverelationships). Want to work with E one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session! Want to work with Li one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session! Want to become a certified relationship coach? Love Mastery info here! Find out more on our Linktree. Until next time, keep loving y'all.

Change. We have talked on it from a number of angles, but this time around, let's go into the changes you actually want to make in your relationships. Maybe it is an old pattern in communication, a tendency to shut down, a habit of trying to "fix"...whatever it is, this is something you actually want to be different moving forward. What does that process look like? Because yes, it is a process, and can be quite a long one. E reflects on the process of change when it comes to her relationship with anger and how that has taken years, and is still ongoing. Sometimes "letting go" is something you will be doing for quite some time. What is a change you are actively working on or want to be working on in your relationships? Send us a textSending you so much love!Love our show? Please rate and review! And share it with as many friends as you think would benefit! You can follow us on TikTok, IG or YouTube (@queerloverelationships). Want to work with E one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session! Want to work with Li one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session! Want to become a certified relationship coach? Love Mastery info here! Find out more on our Linktree. Until next time, keep loving y'all.

Change is going to happen in relationships, so DEAL WITH IT. Whoa, actually not taking that aggressive approach, but let's be real, change happens and will continue to happen so how do you approach this in relationships? Especially when new agreements and expectations are coming along with the change, as well as the big emotions that are swimming around you in this experience. We talk on common blocks to change, as well as some practical tips to help you navigate these new experiences with a bit more grace. Send us a textSending you so much love!Love our show? Please rate and review! And share it with as many friends as you think would benefit! You can follow us on TikTok, IG or YouTube (@queerloverelationships). Want to work with E one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session! Want to work with Li one-on-one? Sign up for a Discovery Session! Want to become a certified relationship coach? Love Mastery info here! Find out more on our Linktree. Until next time, keep loving y'all.