3568: [Part 2] The Power of Words - 3 Phrases That Will Destroy Your Happiness by Sabrina of Budding Optimist

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3568: Sabrina of Budding Optimist explores how the everyday phrases "if only" and "not now" can quietly sabotage our happiness, anchoring us in regret and procrastination. With personal stories and sharp self-reflection, she shows how shifting our language can lead to a deeper sense of contentment and purposeful action. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://buddingoptimist.com/power-of-words/ Quotes to ponder: "If only” also prevents us from enjoying the present. It has us looking constantly at the pot on the stove, wondering what other delicious bits might be in there, instead of savouring the food already on our plate." "The words 'not now' had created a fortress of excuses that had confined me to the status quo. And I was miserable inside it." "The simple act of taking notice of what you say, to others and to yourself, will build the foundation for change to happen." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3567: Sabrina explores how seemingly harmless phrases like “why me” and “if only” subtly erode our happiness by reinforcing feelings of helplessness and dissatisfaction. Through her own experiences with serious illness, she illustrates how acceptance and a shift in mindset can reclaim peace and power in our lives. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://buddingoptimist.com/power-of-words/ Quotes to ponder: "Words can comfort, energize, and encourage. They can also provoke, stifle, and frustrate." "So don’t ask 'why me?' It is an unanswerable question." "The biggest problem with the phrase 'if only' is that it describes a scenario that does not exist." Episode references: Words Can Change Your Brain: https://www.amazon.com/Words-Can-Change-Your-Brain/dp/0142196770 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3566: Stephen Warley shares how crafting a personal mantra transformed his anxious mornings into intentional beginnings. By aligning each line of his mantra with core values, creation, listening, learning, and action, he offers a practical, empowering tool to help reduce anxiety and reclaim focus throughout the day. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.lifeskillsthatmatter.com/blog/daily-mantra Quotes to ponder: "Mantras have evolved to become statements of how you might live your life or act in certain situations." "I believe one of the greatest expressions of love is to listen deeply." "Progress is better than perfectionism. You can learn from progress. Perfectionism makes you feel like a failure." Episode references: Transcendental Meditation: https://www.tm.org Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3565: Jay Harrington shares how decision fatigue sabotages our intentions by the end of the day, and how one-and-done decisions can preserve our willpower and simplify daily life. Paired with the parable of the two wolves, he reminds us that what we focus on, be it habits or mindsets, shapes our outcomes, and feeding the “good wolf” leads to more intentional, fulfilling living. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.lifeandwhim.com/first-moments-blog/make-better-decisions-by-only-making-them-once &  https://www.lifeandwhim.com/first-moments-blog/feeding-the-good-wolf-inside-of-us Quotes to ponder: "Every decision we make throughout a day progressively depletes our ability to make good decisions." "By making the decision once, I didn’t have to grapple with it every day." "The same fight is going on inside you - and inside every other person, too." "We get what we feed." Episode references: This is Water - David Foster Wallace’s Commencement Speech: https://fs.blog/david-foster-wallace-this-is-water/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3564: Tynan explores why achieving lasting satisfaction often feels elusive, especially when external success doesn't lead to deeper fulfillment. He offers a mindset shift, from chasing constant improvement to embracing contentment with what already is, as a key to a more peaceful, satisfying life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://tynan.com/satisfaction Quotes to ponder: "I started wondering whether it was really satisfaction that I wanted, or if I had been sold on the idea of perpetual dissatisfaction being the ideal state." "If we can be satisfied when there’s room for improvement, we can actually be happy all the time." "Accepting the present while striving for a better future seems like the best balance." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3563: Kerri Richardson explores how the energy we bring to our goals directly impacts the results we receive, urging us to examine the mindset and motivation behind our actions. By shifting from obligation to intention and aligning with joy and clarity, she shows how we can generate momentum that mirrors our truest desires. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://kerririchardson.com/you-get-what-you-give/ Quotes to ponder: "You get what you give, so if you want to receive different results, examine what kind of energy you’re putting out." "When you’re forcing yourself to do something out of obligation, dread, or guilt, the energy you’re putting out is one of resistance." "When you do things from a place of joy and clarity, you create an energy that fuels momentum." Episode references: The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: https://www.amazon.com/Life-Changing-Magic-Tidying-Decluttering-Organizing/dp/1607747308 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3562: Steve Pavlina shares a simple yet powerful technique to break free from overthinking and move into action using focused visualization. By mentally immersing yourself in your desired outcome, you generate a surge of internal energy that naturally propels you to take the first step, making consistent progress feel effortless and even enjoyable. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://stevepavlina.com/blog/2007/12/how-to-take-action-consistently/ Quotes to ponder: "Instead of pushing yourself to act, you’re riding a wave of energy that is actually pushing you." "Usually within 5-10 minutes, these positive thoughts build up so much energy in my body that I’m itching to do something." "What can I do right now to make this goal a reality?" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3561: Roger Lawson challenges the destructive habit of comparing ourselves to others and highlights how it saps our joy, progress, and peace of mind. Through personal stories and sharp insights, he urges us to redefine success on our own terms and embrace the unique journey we’re on, without needing to outpace anyone else. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://roglawfitness.com/stop-trying-to-keep-up-with-the-joneses/ Quotes to ponder: "Comparison robs us of the joy and satisfaction that come from walking our own path." "Stop looking sideways. The real game is happening in front of you, not beside you." "You’re not behind. You’re not late. You’re not missing out." Episode references: The Dip by Seth Godin: https://www.sethgodin.com/the-dip Atomic Habits by James Clear: https://jamesclear.com/atomic-habits Essentialism by Greg McKeown: https://gregmckeown.com/books/essentialism Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3560: James Altucher distills decades of hard-won wisdom into seven powerful rules for a richer, more resilient life. From eliminating toxic influences to mastering reinvention, his insights challenge conventional thinking and empower listeners to take full responsibility for their personal growth and happiness. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://archive.jamesaltucher.com/blog/top-seven-rules/ Quotes to ponder: "Nobody is going to solve your problems. You are not a precious little flower. You are the gardener." "Every day you need to wake up and say, ‘Who do I choose to be today?’" "If someone drains you every time you talk to them, delete." Episode references: Reinvent Yourself: https://www.amazon.com/Reinvent-Yourself-James-Altucher/dp/1541137132 The Power of No: https://www.amazon.com/Power-No-Because-Yes-Your/dp/1401945872 Choose Yourself: https://www.amazon.com/Choose-Yourself-James-Altucher/dp/1490313370 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3559: Keith Wilson explores the overlooked power of stillness in a world that celebrates hustle, achievement, and noise. Through timeless wisdom and modern-day relevance, he illustrates how cultivating inner peace can unlock clarity, strength, and a more meaningful life. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://medium.com/change-becomes-you/seeking-stillness-2765447bba6a Quotes to ponder: "Stillness is not about inactivity, it’s about presence." "It’s in stillness that we can hear the whispers of wisdom, truth, and clarity." "We are always reacting, always on, always responding. But stillness invites us to observe before we act." Episode references: Meditations by Marcus Aurelius: https://www.amazon.com/Meditations-Penguin-Classics-Marcus-Aurelius/dp/0140449337 The Daily Stoic: https://dailystoic.com Tao Te Ching by Lao Tzu: https://www.amazon.com/Tao-Te-Ching-Lao-Tzu/dp/1590305469 Stillness Is the Key: https://www.amazon.com/Stillness-Key-Ryan-Holiday/dp/0525538585 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices