Potty Training, Pull-Ups + Krystal’s Third Trimester Update

We're wrapping up another season of Nightclubs to Nightfeeds with one last mom-life catch-up! Would you travel internationally SOLO with your four-year-old? Because Kristine did! In our season finale, she's sharing the highs, lows, and everything in between from her family's three-week European adventure through Scotland, England, and France. From scrambling to get a last-minute passport and navigating trains with a stroller and luggage to crying in the London Underground, she's got stories AND tips for any mama brave enough to take on solo international travel with little ones.Meanwhile, Nicole shares her latest journey to figure out Saint’s sleep struggles, leading to some unexpected discoveries about his breathing and airway health. We're talking sleep consultants, specialists, and trusting your mom gut when something just doesn't feel right. As we close out another season of motherhood, we're reminded that no matter how much our kids grow, we're still figuring it all out right alongside them. Thanks for growing, laughing, and navigating this wild ride with us. Until next season, mamas! 💕If You're New Here, Subscribe 🤗 ➡ https://www.youtube.com/@NightclubsToNightfeeds Tune in to Nightclubs to Night Feeds for relatable stories, practical tips, and a reminder that you’ve got this—one craving, one baby registry decision, and one deep breath at a time! 👶 Ready for real talk, laughs, and sisterly advice? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications! 🔔 CONNECT: Instagram: @nightclubs2nightfeeds TikTok: @nightclubs2nightfeeds Kristine: Instagram: @HeyKristine16 TikTok: @heykristine16_ Nicole: Instagram: @WithNicoleGarcia TikTok: @WithNicoleGarcia Krystal Bee: Instagram: @KrystalBee TikTok: @TheKrystalBee 🎧 Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, iHeartRadio or wherever you get your podcasts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Baby #2 is HERE — and we’re checking in with Krystal live from her hospital bed just 48 hours after giving birth! Krystal had planned to have another vaginal birth but at 38 weeks the baby had other plans. What was supposed to be a scheduled C-section quickly changed when her water broke days early, sending her to the hospital in the middle of the night to meet her breech baby boy.Krystal gives us the real-time update on her first 48 hours as a mom of two: recovering from a C-section versus her previous vaginal birth, surviving that first night of cluster feeding, supplementing with formula while waiting for her milk to come in, and why this postpartum experience already feels completely different. We also get into the stigma around C-sections, trusting your gut when birth doesn’t go according to plan, and the unexpected confidence — and mom guilt — that comes with doing the newborn stage for a second time.0:18–3:25 — Baby #2 is HERE! Breech baby + deciding on a C-section3:25–7:30 — Krystal’s water breaks early7:31–12:22 — The first 48 hours: newborn life, cluster feeding + supplementing with formula12:23–18:00 — C-section recovery vs. vaginal birth18:01–21:35 — C-section stigma + trusting your birth decisions21:36–25:18 — Being a second-time mom, hospital care + breastfeeding/formula decisions25:19–28:27 — The confidence of baby #2 + unexpected mom guilt👶 Ready for real talk, laughs, and sisterly advice? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications! Instagram: @nightclubs2nightfeeds TikTok: @nightclubs2nightfeeds Kristine: Instagram: @HeyKristine16 TikTok: @heykristine16_ Nicole: Instagram: @WithNicoleGarcia TikTok: @WithNicoleGarcia Krystal Bee: Instagram: @KrystalBee TikTok: @TheKrystalBee Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, iHeartRadio or wherever you get your podcasts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on Nightclubs to Nightfeeds we have Grammy-nominated songwriter, entrepreneur, CEO and mama of three Kay Cola joins us for an honest conversation about building a business, raising three kids and navigating motherhood when life doesn’t go according to planned. Kay takes us from leaving life on the road as an artist and investing her last $5,000 into a business idea, to building her brand from her apartment with her kids by her side and eventually growing it into a million-dollar business.Behind the success, Kay opens up about severe postpartum depression after her third baby, single motherhood, postpartum hair loss and hormones, asking for help, and learning to balance her family, business and herself. From motherhood and entrepreneurship to relationships and redefining what a full life looks like, this episode is a reminder that success—and family—don’t have to look one specific way.Time stamps:0:30–8:54 — From Music to Building a Million-Dollar Business 8:54–19:09 — Postpartum Hair, Hormones & Postpartum Depression19:09–24:00 — Asking for Help & Why Moms Need a Village24:00–31:18 — Three Babies, Three Very Different Motherhood Experiences 31:18–40:00 — A Day in the Life of a CEO & Mom of Three40:00–49:28 — Raising Older Kids, Relationships & Breaking Old Expectations49:28–53:07 — Kay’s 3 Mom Non-Negotiables👶 Ready for real talk, laughs, and sisterly advice? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications! Instagram: @nightclubs2nightfeedsTikTok: @nightclubs2nightfeedsKay Kola: @kaykola @organigrowhair Kristine: Instagram: @HeyKristine16TikTok: @heykristine16_Nicole:Instagram: @WithNicoleGarciaTikTok: @WithNicoleGarciaKrystal Bee:Instagram: @KrystalBeeTikTok: @TheKrystalBee Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, iHeartRadio or wherever you get your podcasts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Potty training… where do you even start?! 🚽 This week, we’re getting into the very different ways to potty train, navigating nighttime bedwetting, and the great pull-up debate.Then we check in with Krystal as she officially enters the home stretch of pregnancy! Baby is currently breech, the hospital bag is PACKED, and she’s figuring out whether bringing a doula into the mix makes sense this time around. She also shares some unexpected third-trimester updates—including leaking breastmilk already, thoughts on pumping, and how she’s preparing for birth the second time around.Plus, we get into the pressure to “snap back” after having a baby, what Krystal wants to do differently postpartum this time, and how we can actually show up for our friends after they give birth—because sometimes the best support has nothing to do with holding the baby.In this episode:00:30 – Different potty training methods26:14 – Bedwetting + pull-ups32:22 – Krystal’s third trimester update + getting a doula?36:04 – Leaking breastmilk + should you pump?38:03 – Breech baby + doula logistics44:11 – The hospital bag is PACKED47:48 – The postpartum “snapback” + what’s different this time52:26 – How to really be there for a friend postpartum👶 Ready for real talk, laughs, and sisterly advice? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications!  Instagram: @nightclubs2nightfeedsTikTok: @nightclubs2nightfeedsKristine: Instagram: @HeyKristine16TikTok: @heykristine16_Nicole:Instagram: @WithNicoleGarciaTikTok: @WithNicoleGarciaKrystal Bee:Instagram: @KrystalBeeTikTok: @TheKrystalBee Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, iHeartRadio or wherever you get your podcasts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we're catching you up on everything happening in our mom lives—from second trimester updates to toddler triumphs (and tantrums). Krystal shares how she's feeling as she heads deeper into pregnancy and what she's doing to physically and mentally prepare for giving birth again. Kristine opens up about dealing with exertion-induced migraines, the unexpected return of mastitis four years postpartum, and the importance of listening to your body.We also dive into our summer plans for the kids, including whether swim lessons are worth it, navigating the threenager stage, and a parenting tool that's become a game changer for language development. Plus, we're introducing a brand-new segment, Funny Mom-ents of the Week, where we share the hilarious things only parents can truly appreciate.Whether you're pregnant, chasing a toddler, or somewhere in between, this episode is a reminder that motherhood is equal parts preparation, problem-solving, and laughing through the chaos.Time Stamps:00:23 – 5:11 | Krystal's second trimester update5:12 – 8:01 | Physical therapy & breathwork to prepare for baby #28:02 – 14:02 | Kristine's exertion-induced migraines & mastitis four years postpartum14:03 – 19:06 | Mentally preparing to give birth again19:07 – 30:18 | Summer swim lessons: What we're choosing for our kids30:19 – 31:57 | Nicole's threenager era31:58 – 35:31 | Why the Toniebox has been a language-learning game changer35:32 – 41:48 | Funny Mom-ents of the Week (our newest segment!)41:49 – 42:35 | When toddlers challenge us—and how we're learning to respond👶 Ready for real talk, laughs, and sisterly advice? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications!  Instagram: @nightclubs2nightfeedsTikTok: @nightclubs2nightfeedsKristine: Instagram: @HeyKristine16TikTok: @GRL_CollectiveNicole:Instagram: @WithNicoleGarciaTikTok: @WithNicoleGarciaKrystal Bee:Instagram: @KrystalBeeTikTok: @TheKrystalBee Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, iHeartRadio or wherever you get your podcasts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this week’s episode of Nightclubs to Nightfeeds, we're joined by DJ So Super Sam for a candid conversation about the many identity shifts that come with motherhood, stepmotherhood, and navigating life's unexpected transitions. From being a globe-trotting DJ whose world came to a sudden halt during COVID, to emerging from the pandemic as a mom, Sam shares what it looked like to rebuild herself in a completely new season of life.We talk about the habits and mindset shifts that helped her bloom, the importance of having a village, and the everyday realities no one warns you about—like the mental load of packing lunches (yes, she has a spreadsheet!).Sam also opens up about recognizing burnout, why sometimes a solo escape is necessary, and the unique joys and challenges of stepmotherhood.Time stamps::18-17:11: The big identity shifts with COVID + Motherhood 17:12-24:16: What did you implement that allowed you to bloom?24:17-27:24: What does your village look like? 27:25-37:32: Packing lunches- why does no one talk about this?! 37:33 -44:03: Chateau Marmont44:04-51:54: Take it off your docket! 51:55- 01:03:00: Stepmotherhood01:04:00:-01:11:11: 3 Mom Non-negotiables👶 Ready for real talk, laughs, and sisterly advice? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications! CONNECT:DJ So Super Sam: Instagram: @Sosupersam Youtube:  ⁨@SOSUPERSAMtv⁩  Instagram: @nightclubs2nightfeedsTikTok: @nightclubs2nightfeedsKristine: Instagram: @HeyKristine16TikTok: @GRL_CollectiveNicole:Instagram: @WithNicoleGarciaTikTok: @WithNicoleGarciaKrystal Bee:Instagram: @KrystalBeeTikTok: @TheKrystalBee Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, iHeartRadio or wherever you get your podcasts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Nightclubs to Nightfeeds, we sit down with celebrity stylist Alejandra Hernandez — also known as LaPilusa — whose work with artists like SZA, Kali Uchis, and Kehlani has helped shape some of music’s most iconic looks. But beyond fashion, Alejandra opens up about motherhood, identity, and advocating for her autistic son.We talk about representation in fashion, how personal style evolves through different seasons of motherhood, therapy and body image changes, and the emotional journey of noticing developmental delays and pursuing an autism diagnosis. Alejandra shares the realities of navigating IEPs and frustrations with Los Angeles Unified School District, raising a neurodiverse child with freedom and confidence, and the things she wishes people would stop saying about autism. It’s an honest, emotional, empowering conversation about motherhood, advocacy, and learning to trust yourself as a parent.Time stamps: :30-2:24: Who is Alejandra Hernandez/ LaPilusa?! 2:31- 6:47: Representation in fashion 6:38- 15:58: Style changing through motherhood seasons 15:59-18:23: Therapy and body changes 18:24 -24:02: Noticing developmental delays + advocating for your child24:03-27:23: Autism diagnosis 27:24-33:38:  Milestones + Finding the right school  33:39-35:03: Regulating emotions on the spectrum 35:04-38:03: Raising kids to be free38:04-43:10: Does he know he is neurodiverse?43:11-54:52: LAUSD/ IEP/ legal school frustration54:53-57:33:  Autism in different cultures57:34-1:03:00: Things you wish people would stop saying about autism 1:04:00-01:08:00: 3 Mom non- negotiables  👶 Ready for real talk, laughs, and sisterly advice? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications! CONNECT:Alejandra: Instagram: @aleherself Instagram: @nightclubs2nightfeedsTikTok: @nightclubs2nightfeedsKristine: Instagram: @HeyKristine16TikTok: @GRL_CollectiveNicole:Instagram: @WithNicoleGarciaTikTok: @WithNicoleGarciaKrystal Bee:Instagram: @KrystalBeeTikTok: @TheKrystalBee🎧 Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, iHeartRadio or wherever you get your podcasts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

After years of manifesting…Nicole is officially ENGAGED! In this episode of Nightclubs to Nightfeeds, we’re diving into the list that started it all — from setting standards for a future husband to figuring out the difference between wants vs. needs in a partner.Nicole shares what it was like thinking the proposal was coming… only for it to actually happen, and we get into all the emotions, surprises, and details leading up to the big moment. Plus, now that the ring is on the finger — what’s the vision for the wedding?! From dream vibes to reality checks, we’re talking all things engagement, expectations, and stepping into a whole new season of life. Time stamps::30-2:58: Your girl is ENGAGED! 2:59-10:46: Setting standards for your future husband, Wants & needs, making a list to give to your partner 10:47- 19:44: Thinking he's going to pop the question....then he does! 19:45-29:00 Vision for the wedding?! 👶 Ready for real talk, laughs, and sisterly advice? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications! 🔔CONNECT:Instagram: @nightclubs2nightfeedsTikTok: @nightclubs2nightfeedsKristine: Instagram: @HeyKristine16TikTok: @GRL_CollectiveNicole:Instagram: @WithNicoleGarciaTikTok: @WithNicoleGarciaKrystal Bee:Instagram: @KrystalBeeTikTok: @TheKrystalBee🎧 Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, iHeartRadio or wherever you get your podcasts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Nightclubs to Nightfeeds, we’re joined by LMFT therapist April Mayorga for a raw and deeply needed conversation about navigating grief while parenting.We talk about what it really looks like to lose someone while raising little ones—and how easy it is to box up your grief just to get through the day. April walks us through the difference between sudden loss and anticipatory grief, and shares gentle, practical tools for when you feel ready to start processing.We also get into how to support loved ones who are grieving (and how to let yourself be supported), what happens when you don’t process your grief, and how to communicate loss to both toddlers and older kids in ways that feel honest but safe.From labeling emotions to leaning on your partner and navigating anxiety around loss, this episode is for any parent trying to carry grief while still showing up every day.Time stamps::20- 1:50: Introducing April Mayorga 1:51-6:46:  Losing someone while parenting6:47-12:41: Boxing in your grief 12:42-17:37: Sudden Loss 17:38-21:05 Helpful tools when you're ready 21:06-24:29 Those close to you experiencing grief 24:30-26:06:  Not processing? 26:07-27:50: Communicating loss to your toddler27:51-33:20: Labeling + processing your grief33:22-37:20: Partner support through grief 37:21-40:04: Losing a parent to grief? 40:05-43:02:  Anxiety/ Fear of loss 43:03-50:50: Talking to an older child about loss 50:51-55:50: Friends supporting you + Non-neogotiables👶 Ready for real talk, laughs, and sisterly advice? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications! 🔔CONNECT:Instagram: @nightclubs2nightfeedsTikTok: @nightclubs2nightfeedsApril: Instagram: @aprilmayorgamft Kristine: Instagram: @HeyKristine16TikTok: @GRL_CollectiveNicole:Instagram: @WithNicoleGarciaTikTok: @WithNicoleGarciaKrystal Bee:Instagram: @KrystalBeeTikTok: @TheKrystalBee🎧 Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, iHeartRadio or wherever you get your podcasts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of Nightclubs to Nightfeeds…one of us is officially entering a whole new era—preschool mom life 🥹—and we’re unpacking everything that comes with not having your child with you 24/7.From the emotional (and slightly shocking) adjustment of getting that time back, to the very real decisions around TK, public vs. private school, and suddenly… waking up early again?!—we’re in it.We get into the different school philosophies—play-based, Montessori, wilderness, academic—and even ask the question: is homeschooling on the table? Plus, the pressure of enrolling your toddler in activities before they even start school, and how much outside time really matters depending on the type of program.We also talk about iPads in traditional classrooms, what actually happens when you start touring schools, and the moment that hits every parent: wait… I’m leaving my kid with someone I just met? 👀And of course, we dive into body boundaries, trust, and letting go (just a little) as our kids take this next step.:30-04:57: Life updates with not having your child 24/704:58-07:19: TK's public vs. private 07:20 -08:26:  Waking up early now?! 08:27-09:36: Play-based, Montessori, Wilderness, Academic schools  09:37 -10:56: Homeschool? 10:57-12:08: Activity/Class enrollment before starting school 12:09-14:09: Outside time based on school type 14:10-15:33: Ipads in traditional schools15:34-22:19: Touring schools 22:20-24:47: Leaving my kid with someone I met once?! Body Boundaries If You're New Here, Subscribe 🤗 ➡ https://www.youtube.com/@NightclubsToNightfeedsTune in to Nightclubs to Night Feeds for relatable stories, practical tips, and a reminder that you’ve got this—one craving, one baby registry decision, and one deep breath at a time!👶 Ready for real talk, laughs, and sisterly advice? Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications! 🔔CONNECT:Instagram: @nightclubs2nightfeedsTikTok: @nightclubs2nightfeedsKristine: Instagram: @HeyKristine16TikTok: @GRL_CollectiveNicole:Instagram: @WithNicoleGarciaTikTok: @WithNicoleGarciaKrystal Bee:Instagram: @KrystalBeeTikTok: @TheKrystalBee🎧 Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, iHeartRadio or wherever you get your podcasts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.