The Myth of the Perfect Conversation with Aggie Mutuma

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ In this stirring episode of "Negotiate Anything," hosts Kwame Christian and guest Morra Aarons-Mele delve into the often-overlooked intersection of negotiation, mental health, and workplace anxiety. They tackle the challenge of maneuvering through negotiations with heightened emotions and the reality of dealing with anxiety while striving for professional success. The conversation provides insightful strategies for managing psychological stressors during high-stake conversations and underscores the importance of mental health literacy. Listeners will gain an understanding of how to harness anxiety positively and maintain control in negotiations, even under pressure. What will be covered: - Exploration of anxiety's spectrum and its impact on negotiation dynamics. - Techniques for managing anxiety and maintaining composure during critical moments in negotiations. - Understanding "anxious achievers" and normalizing conversations about mental health in professional spaces. Connect with Morra https://morraam.com/ BUY NOW: The Anxious Achiever: Turn Your Biggest Fears into Your Leadership Superpower: https://www.amazon.com/Anxious-Achiever-Biggest-Leadership-Superpower/dp/164782253X Follow Morra on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/morraaaronsmele/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1

Discover the true essence of authentic connections and vulnerability in difficult conversations with guest Aggie Yemurai Mutuma. Kwame Christian leads a thought-provoking discussion on the power of forgiveness and its role in fostering relaxed and real dialogues. Tune in to gain practical insights that will revolutionize your communication skills. Guest Bio: Aggie is an award-winning diversity, inclusion, and anti-racism strategist. Explore her remarkable work at https://mahoganyinclusionpartners.com/. Key Takeaways: The meaning of belonging and inclusion and their significance in fostering positive organizational cultures.  How vulnerability can be a powerful tool to establish genuine connections and navigate difficult conversations.  The transformative power of forgiveness in creating relaxed and authentic dialogues.  Follow Aggie on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/aggie-mutuma/ Work with Aggie https://mahoganyinclusionpartners.com/

https://www.theconqueringunforgivenessmovement.com/ liveyourbestlifeforyou.com/  In this empowering episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian welcomes Dionne Nicholls-Germain, a dynamic life and leadership coach, speaker, and author, to delve into the transformative power of self-forgiveness in high-performance individuals. Together, they discuss the common theme of executives being unduly hard on themselves and how perfectionism can create barriers to personal and professional growth. Dionne introduces her 90-day Conquering Unforgiveness journal that serves as a tool for individuals to foster self-compassion and embrace a growth mindset. The conversation emphasizes the importance of self-forgiveness in negotiation and conflict resolution, highlighting how cultivating a forgiving attitude towards oneself can lead to greater innovation, productivity, and improved business outcomes. Listeners will learn: - Strategies for managing their own inner critic to enhance negotiation capabilities. - How self-forgiveness can transform one's approach to difficult conversations and conflict resolution. - The impact of self-forgiveness on fostering a corporate culture of innovation and engagement. Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ In this episode, Lisa Valene Thomas, Ethical Maverick and Lawmom to Baby Lawyers offering FREE Legal Mentorship Platform, discusses the many benefits of empathetic leadership when training newcomers in the law profession in South Africa. You'll learn as we discuss: Empathetic leadership Psychological safety Being non-judgmental Cognitive empathy Difference between validation and agreement Follow Lisa Valene Thomas on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisavalenethomas97737b72/ Lisa's website https://lisavalene.wixsite.com/website Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ In this episode, Nick Cegelski, Founder and host of the podcast, "30 minutes to President's Club," discusses how to negotiate and have difficult conversations about sales talks, newsletters, and webinars, exclusively on what salespeople can do, say, or write on that particular day. In it, we talk about; 1. Seek first to understand before trying to be understood, by using the phrase, "What did you have in mind?" 2. Silence. Bring a cup of tea to your calls for strategic pauses. 3. If you sense hesitation, call out on it.  Follow Nick Cegelski on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/nick-cegelski/ 30 minutes to president's club LinkedIn page https://www.linkedin.com/company/30-minutes-to-president-s-club/ Listen to Nick's Podcast - 30 Minutes to President's Club https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/30-minutes-to-presidents-club-no-nonsense-sales/id1510861233 Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ In this episode, Marylin McClure, discusses exercising negotiation strategies while still maintaining a personal brand Follow Marilyn on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/marilyn-mcclure-demers-0275602/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ In this episode, Henri Nkuepo, risk management professional, mentor, author of the New Immigrant Playbook, and co-host of the Diaspo podcast, discusses how to get the most out of your negotiations even when the conversations are outside of your comfort zone Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ In this episode, Scott Anthony Barlow, CEO & Host of the Top Career Change Apple Podcast, "Happen to your career", Best-selling author on Amazon of guess what? You guessed it! "Happen to your career," discusses how to negotiate and have difficult conversations about work. In it we talk about;  1. How to negotiate your role, not just compensation. 2. How to gain flexibility and autonomy through partner-based negotiation. 3. How to create your ideal career through difficult conversations. Follow Scott Anthony Barlow on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/scottanthonybarlow/ Buy Scott's No.1 Bestselling book on Amazon, "Happen to Your Career." https://www.amazon.com/Happen-Your-Career-Unconventional-Meaningful/dp/B0BD2TRZ7T/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=happen+to+your+career+book&qid=1666794399&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjAwIiwicXNhIjoiMC4wMCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMDAifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=happen+to+yo%2Caps%2C362&sr=8-1 Happen To Your Career- Apple Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/happen-to-your-career/id717653288 Unhappy with your career? Click here! https://happentoyourcareer.com/8day/ Scott's LinkedIn Company page https://www.linkedin.com/company/happen-to-your-career/ Happen to Your Career Website https://happentoyourcareer.com/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ In this episode, Karen Briscoe, Author of Flip Time/Love Life: A Heroine's Journey at 5 Minute Success/5 Minute Press, discusses how to overcome skepticism. Flip Time/Love Life: A Heroine's Journey https://www.amazon.com/Flip-Time-Love-Life-Heroines/dp/1936961423 5 Minute Success https://www.5minutesuccess.com/ Follow Karen on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/karenbriscoe/ Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1

Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ In this enlightening episode, Kwame Christian welcomes Glin Bayley, a former finance professional turned executive coach, to dive into the transformative power of emotional intelligence in the art of negotiation. Glin shares her personal narrative of shifting from the financial world to a career where heart meets intellect, offering a unique perspective on how to embrace being a value negotiator. Together, they unpack the intricate relationship between self-awareness, emotions, and successful negotiation tactics. This discussion is a must-listen for anyone looking to enhance their negotiation skills with a blend of empathy and strategic intellect. **What will be covered:** - Glin Bayley's career transition from finance to executive coaching and negotiation consulting. - The role of emotional intelligence and self-leadership in negotiation. - How personal identity and values influence negotiation outcomes and ethical considerations. **Listeners will learn:** - Strategies to balance heart and intellect in professional negotiations for greater effectiveness. - Techniques for improving self-awareness and managing emotions during tough negotiations. - The significance of aligning negotiation approaches with personal identity to maintain integrity and authenticity. Follow Glin Bayley on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/glinbayley/ thevaluenegotiator.com  youtube.com/@thevaluenegotiator/  heartofhuman.com  Contact ANI Request A Customized Workshop For Your Company: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/services/workshops/ Follow Kwame Christian on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kwamechristian/ The Ultimate Negotiation Guide: https://www.americannegotiationinstitute.com/guides/ultimate-negotiation-guide/ Click here to buy your copy of How To Have Difficult Conversations About Race!: https://www.amazon.com/Have-Difficult-Conversations-About-Race/dp/1637741308/ref=pd_%5B%E2%80%A6%5Df0bc9774-7975-448b-bde1-094cab455adb&pd_rd_i=1637741308&psc=1 Click here to buy your copy of Finding Confidence in Conflict: How to Negotiate Anything and Live Your Best Life!: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Confidence-Conflict-Negotiate-Anything/dp/0578413736/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2PSW69L6ABTK&keywords=finding+confidence+in+conflict&qid=1667317257&qu=eyJxc2MiOiIwLjQyIiwicXNhIjoiMC4xNCIsInFzcCI6IjAuMjMifQ%3D%3D&sprefix=finding+confidence+in+conflic%2Caps%2C69&sr=8-1