How important is Physical Attraction In Your Dating Life?

On this week's episode, your expert dating coaches, Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel discuss if physical appearance should really be the determining factor in your dating life. Stop basing your expectations on movies and understand what real-life dating is all about. To submit your question for a future episode, go to www.MarriageMindedMentor.com/PodcastSupport the showContact Aleeza Ben Shalom https://marriagemindedmentor.com/Contact Rabbi Yisroel Bernath https://www.theloverabbi.com/Submit a Question for the Matchmaker, Matchmaker Podcast https://marriagemindedmentor.com/podcast/

Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath give some advice on dating someone who may be less or more religious than you. Giving real-life examples of when it has and hasn't worked, what you should be mindful of and some questions you should ask yourself before moving forward. Support the showContact Aleeza Ben Shalom https://marriagemindedmentor.com/Contact Rabbi Yisroel Bernath https://www.theloverabbi.com/Submit a Question for the Matchmaker, Matchmaker Podcast https://marriagemindedmentor.com/podcast/

On this first episode of the Matchmakers Matchmakers podcast, your hosts Aleeza Ben Shalom and Rabbi Yisroel Bernath share their thoughts on love at first sight. Is it true love or is it just desire? Should you know 'they're the one' from the first date? Join us on this episode to find out why we all should dig a little deeper. Support the showContact Aleeza Ben Shalom https://marriagemindedmentor.com/Contact Rabbi Yisroel Bernath https://www.theloverabbi.com/Submit a Question for the Matchmaker, Matchmaker Podcast https://marriagemindedmentor.com/podcast/Support the showContact Aleeza Ben Shalom https://marriagemindedmentor.com/Contact Rabbi Yisroel Bernath https://www.theloverabbi.com/Submit a Question for the Matchmaker, Matchmaker Podcast https://marriagemindedmentor.com/podcast/

In this episode, I sat down with Rivkah Fox, the matchmaker behind Blind Fate. What started as a playful Instagram game turned into real marriages.✨ Highlights:🎲 Anonymous bios + audience votes → real matches & babies🎉 Creative Philly events with fun stations & late-night vibes💪 Special events for singles with physical challenges🌎 A Brazilian man who quarantined in Mexico just to date in NY💼 A yeshivish guy + a Forbes 30 Under 30 woman = true love💡 Takeaway: Love shows up when you’re willing to play the game differently.mosaic: Exploring Jewish Issuesmosaic is Jewish Federation of Palm Beach County's news magazine show, exploring...Listen on: Apple Podcasts   SpotifySupport the showContact Aleeza Ben Shalom https://marriagemindedmentor.com/Contact Rabbi Yisroel Bernath https://www.theloverabbi.com/Submit a Question for the Matchmaker, Matchmaker Podcast https://marriagemindedmentor.com/podcast/

In this episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker, I sit down with my dear friend Laurie Young the Seattle Shadchan and the reason I ended up on Jewish Matchmaking on Netflix. We share gratitude, lots of laughs, and her bold love story that began with a note on a windshield and turned into 42 years of marriage. Plus, we talk about Zoom dating for 55+ singles, why momentum is the key to dating success, and how anyone can make a match.We talk about:📞 Passing on Netflix for herself and passing them my number instead💍 The “hold him for me” story that led to marriage✈️ Turning long-distance dating into real life dating🥂 Zoom dating events for 55+ singles and her easiest match ever🔥 The #1 killer of a match and how to keep sparks alive with momentum datingmosaic: Exploring Jewish Issuesmosaic is Jewish Federation of Palm Beach County's news magazine show, exploring...Listen on: Apple Podcasts   SpotifySupport the showContact Aleeza Ben Shalom https://marriagemindedmentor.com/Contact Rabbi Yisroel Bernath https://www.theloverabbi.com/Submit a Question for the Matchmaker, Matchmaker Podcast https://marriagemindedmentor.com/podcast/

🎙️ In this episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker, I sat down with Gina Samuels from Australia — a warm-hearted volunteer matchmaker. She’s made nine matches so far (including her brother!) and shared what it’s like to help people date in a small community where everyone knows everyone. We talked about her own love story, the beauty of organic setups, and why singles should also help make matches. It’s real, it’s inspiring, and it’s a reminder that love takes effort — and a little help from someone who cares.💬 We talked about:✡️ Dating in small communities like Melbourne and Sydney❤️ Gina’s personal love story🫶 How singles can make matches too Want more inspiration? Head to marriagemindedmentor.com and join the matchmaking movement.mosaic: Exploring Jewish Issuesmosaic is Jewish Federation of Palm Beach County's news magazine show, exploring...Listen on: Apple Podcasts   SpotifySupport the showContact Aleeza Ben Shalom https://marriagemindedmentor.com/Contact Rabbi Yisroel Bernath https://www.theloverabbi.com/Submit a Question for the Matchmaker, Matchmaker Podcast https://marriagemindedmentor.com/podcast/

In this episode, I sat down with Rabbi Leo and Aliza to explore what it means to rebuild a life and open your heart after deep loss.💬 We talked about:Going from unimaginable grief to hope and healingThe decision to date again after tragedyAliza’s 25-year journey of saying “yes” in datingWhy authenticity and connection go hand-in-handHow the most unexpected match became the right one💡 My favorite reminder from this episode:Possibilities exist especially when you lead with honesty, hope, and heart.mosaic: Exploring Jewish Issuesmosaic is Jewish Federation of Palm Beach County's news magazine show, exploring...Listen on: Apple Podcasts   SpotifySupport the showContact Aleeza Ben Shalom https://marriagemindedmentor.com/Contact Rabbi Yisroel Bernath https://www.theloverabbi.com/Submit a Question for the Matchmaker, Matchmaker Podcast https://marriagemindedmentor.com/podcast/

In this episode of Matchmaker Matchmaker, we’re talking about a different kind of love language: business matchmaking!  I sat down with Brian Spivak of Barzel Media in Tel Aviv, and we explored how every match romantic, professional, or even a new home can change someone’s life. We talked about: - How one casual intro turned into a full-time job- A real wedding that started with a Shabbat lunch match- Why showing up (even when you don’t feel like it) matters- Flipping the script on rejection and making bold moves in dating 💡Bottom line? Connection is everything. Whether you’re making a match in love or in life, it counts. Want to connect with Brian and learn more about what he’s building?📲 Instagram: @spibri85 | @barzel.media🌐 Website: barzelmedia.com📧 Email: [email protected] more inspiration? Head to marriagemindedmentor.com and join the matchmaking movement.mosaic: Exploring Jewish Issuesmosaic is Jewish Federation of Palm Beach County's news magazine show, exploring...Listen on: Apple Podcasts   SpotifySupport the showContact Aleeza Ben Shalom https://marriagemindedmentor.com/Contact Rabbi Yisroel Bernath https://www.theloverabbi.com/Submit a Question for the Matchmaker, Matchmaker Podcast https://marriagemindedmentor.com/podcast/

The Three-Match Club: Jenny's Matchmaker JourneyIn this heartwarming episode of *Matchmaker, Matchmaker*, I sit down with the fabulous Jenny Sved an organic connector, community builder, and now... official member of the “Three Match Club!” 💫Here’s what we schmoozed about:🧩 How Jenny made her own match (yes, it counts!).                                                    🪑 The wedding seating switch that led to a marriage (and three kids!).                   ✈️ A LaGuardia Airport spark that took years to ignite but was totally worth it         🚌 Our spontaneous idea for a matchmaking bus! (Seriously, call me if you want to sponsor it.).                                                                                                                            💬 Why timing matters, why you shouldn't give up on a match, and why it’s okay if more than one person gets creditWe laughed, we dreamed, and we even redefined the rules of matchmaking (because someone has to and it might as well be me 😉).🕊️ Whether you’ve made one match, three, or none yet you’ll walk away inspired to help create more love in the world.✨ Let’s all aim for that “matchmaker mitzvah addiction” – because more love means more light in the world.Support the showContact Aleeza Ben Shalom https://marriagemindedmentor.com/Contact Rabbi Yisroel Bernath https://www.theloverabbi.com/Submit a Question for the Matchmaker, Matchmaker Podcast https://marriagemindedmentor.com/podcast/

In this episode, I sat down with the incredible Irit Esses psychologist, matchmaker, and leader of a powerful matchmaking community in Mexico City.We dug into:💫 Irit’s journey from dating struggles to 24+ successful matches🛠️ The power of knowing your non-negotiables👶 Inspiring stories, including matches that led to babies and cross-border love❤️ Be a “vitamin person” uplift the singles in your life before pressuring them to date                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     Talking to Irit felt like talking to myself, we have so much in common! Her wisdom, spunk, and vibrant energy are changing lives and I hope her story inspires you to be part of the change too.   mosaic: Exploring Jewish Issuesmosaic is Jewish Federation of Palm Beach County's news magazine show, exploring...Listen on: Apple Podcasts   SpotifySupport the showContact Aleeza Ben Shalom https://marriagemindedmentor.com/Contact Rabbi Yisroel Bernath https://www.theloverabbi.com/Submit a Question for the Matchmaker, Matchmaker Podcast https://marriagemindedmentor.com/podcast/