Ep. 298 - Andrea and her 35 year battle with anxiety and trapped panic

In this episode of the Lovefly podcast, Paul speaks with Andrea about her 35-year battle with flight anxiety and trapped panic. After an offhand remark during a 1991 flight triggered a panic attack, Andrea spent decades avoiding air travel, missing out on family trips, and struggling with anticipatory dread. Discover how she broke a 35-year avoidance loop using full-scenario visualization, EFT tapping, flight chunking, and the Lovefly community—and how she’s now heading to Europe! What you'll learn in this episode: Why fear of flying is often about panic and control, not plane safety. How childhood memories and offhand comments can plant seeds of flight anxiety. The danger of "stopping the mental movie" at peak panic—and how visualization fixes it. Daily preparation habits: EFT tapping, flight footage desensitization, and positive affirmations. The 15-minute in-flight "chunking" method to stay grounded during long trips. Lovefly Courses www.lovefly.co.uk/courses/ FB - Lovefly Insta @loveflyhelp #fearofflying #flyingwithoutfear #anxiety #aviation #lovefly #pilots #turbulence #claustrophobia #cleithrophobia Private Members Group: https://lovefly.podia.com  Lovefly Courses & Resources: https://linkup.shop/lovefly Intro and outro music 'Fearless' Daniel King Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Captain Steve Jangelis, Safety Chair, Air Line Pilots Association International Captain Steve Jangelis is the Aviation Safety Chair for the Air Line Pilots Association, Int’l Air Safety Organization. The ALPA Air Safety Organization has over 450 line-pilot volunteer safety subject matter experts and is the largest non-governmental safety organization in the world, representing over 80,000 pilots at 42 airlines in the United States and Canada. Captain Jangelis represents ALPA as a member of the FAA/Industry Aviation Safety Team (AST) and served on several government and industry groups. These include his tenure as Industry Co-Chair for the US FAA’s Aviation Safety Information Analysis and Sharing System (ASIAS), the Industry Co-Chair for the US FAA’s Runway Safety Council and was seated as a founding member on the US FAA’s Airport Construction Advisory Council. Currently an Airbus A-330 Captain and formerly a Line Check Airman/Standards Pilot on the Boeing 757/767 for Delta Air Lines, Captain Jangelis has also previously flown the Airbus A320, Boeing 717, 727, and the McDonnell Douglas MD-80/90 series aircraft. Captain Jangelis has also participated in safety risk management panels on runway construction, airspace modifications, UAS, and Commercial Space integration. Lovefly Courses www.lovefly.co.uk/courses/ FB - Lovefly Insta @loveflyhelp #fearofflying #flyingwithoutfear #anxiety #aviation #lovefly #pilots #turbulence #claustrophobia #cleithrophobia Private Members Group: https://lovefly.podia.com  Lovefly Courses & Resources: https://linkup.shop/lovefly Intro and outro music 'Fearless' Daniel King Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Brent Keyes is Director of Aviation and he manages a Part 91 corporate flight department for domestic and international operations based in Florida, USA. Lovefly Courses www.lovefly.co.uk/courses/ FB - Lovefly Insta @loveflyhelp #fearofflying #flyingwithoutfear #anxiety #aviation #lovefly #pilots #turbulence #claustrophobia #cleithrophobia Private Members Group: https://lovefly.podia.com  Lovefly Courses & Resources: https://linkup.shop/lovefly Intro and outro music 'Fearless' Daniel King Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this episode of the Lovefly Podcast, Paul Tizzard talks to Jade Whyley about her lifelong fear of flying and the traumatic experiences that shaped it from childhood. Jade shares how anxiety and avoidance affected her relationships, holidays and family life, and how therapy, education, community support and gradual exposure helped her rebuild her confidence. After years of struggling, Jade recently took her first flight in eight years—and landed with a powerful new sense of achievement. An honest and inspiring story about breaking the cycle of fear and learning that fear can be unlearnt. Lovefly Courses www.lovefly.co.uk/courses/ FB - Lovefly Insta @loveflyhelp #fearofflying #flyingwithoutfear #anxiety #aviation #lovefly #pilots #turbulence #claustrophobia #cleithrophobia Private Members Group: https://lovefly.podia.com  Lovefly Courses & Resources: https://linkup.shop/lovefly Intro and outro music 'Fearless' Daniel King Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Amy Julia Becker joined Paul Tizzard on the Lovefly Podcast discussing how it felt to trust Delta Airlines with her daughter Penny, flying on her own as a young adult with disability. Amy Julia Becker invites people to reimagine the good life through her writing and speaking on disability, faith, and culture. She is the author of To Be Made Well, White Picket Fences, Small Talk, and A Good and Perfect Gift. She is a guest opinion writer for national publications and hosts two podcasts: Take the Next Step and Reimagining the Good Life. Becker is a graduate of Princeton University and Princeton Theological Seminary (MDiv). She is a member of the Disability Ministry Network, as well as the Alliance for Disability Justice and Ethics in Reproductive Genetics. She lives with her husband and their three children in western Connecticut. SOCIAL MEDIA: Instagram: @amyjuliabecker Facebook: @amyjuliabeckerwriter YouTube Channel Threads: @amyjuliabecker WEBSITE: com PODCASTS: Take the Next Step (for families experiencing disability) Reimagining the Good Life BOOKS: To Be Made Well: An Invitation to Wholeness, Healing, and Hope White Picket Fences: Turning Towards Love in a World Divided by Privilege Small Talk: Learning From My Children About What Matters Most A Good and Perfect Gift: Faith, Expectations, and a Little Girl Named Penny Also, here are a couple of posts that Amy Julia wrote about Penny's flying experience: Tips we received from parents, family, and individuals with disabilities Taking the Next Step: Preparing for Penny’s First Solo Flight Lovefly Courses www.lovefly.co.uk/courses/ FB - Lovefly Insta @loveflyhelp #fearofflying #flyingwithout fear #anxiety #aviation #lovefly #pilots #turbulence #claustrophobia #cleithrophobia #disability #delta Private Members Group: https://lovefly.podia.com  Lovefly Courses & Resources: https://linkup.shop/lovefly Intro and outro music 'Fearless' Daniel King Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

What is the case for fear of flying courses and resources?  John and Paul discuss this and includes a call to action if you are involved in aviation in any way whatsoever. Lovefly Courses www.lovefly.co.uk/courses/ FB - Lovefly Insta @loveflyhelp #fearofflying #flyingwithout fear #anxiety #aviation #lovefly #pilots #turbulence #claustrophobia #cleithrophobia Private Members Group: https://lovefly.podia.com  Lovefly Courses & Resources: https://linkup.shop/lovefly Intro and outro music 'Fearless' Daniel King   Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Meet Gill... 'I'm 72, retired and living Somerset with my partner, three dogs and two goats. I love the countryside and still enjoy horse-riding and dog walking.  I've one son, a Vietnamese daughter in law and two grandsons, now living in Malaysia.' Gill has to travel now otherwise, she will miss out on visiting her Grandsons. Lovefly Courses www.lovefly.co.uk/courses/ FB - Lovefly Insta @loveflyhelp #fearofflying #flyingwithout fear #anxiety #aviation #lovefly #pilots #turbulence #claustrophobia #cleithrophobia Private Members Group: https://lovefly.podia.com  Lovefly Courses & Resources: https://linkup.shop/lovefly Intro and outro music 'Fearless' Daniel King   Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

In this episode of the Lovefly Podcast, host Paul sits down with Joanna to discuss her incredible journey from severe flight anxiety to taking 14 flights in a single year. Joanna breaks down the practical strategies that helped her reclaim her freedom: from changing seat locations to understanding turbulence and using aviation education as a shield against panic. What you'll learn in this episode: Why fear of flying develops (even without a traumatic flight experience) The power of sitting by the window to ground your physical senses How education about pilot testing and wing flexibility cures turbulence fear Why "courage is contagious" inside the Lovefly community How to swap your fear of flying for a Fear Of Missing Out (FOMO) Lovefly Courses www.lovefly.co.uk/courses/ FB - Lovefly Insta @loveflyhelp #fearofflying #flyingwithout fear #anxiety #aviation #lovefly #pilots #turbulence #claustrophobia #cleithrophobia Private Members Group: https://lovefly.podia.com  Lovefly Courses & Resources: https://linkup.shop/lovefly Intro and outro music 'Fearless' Daniel King Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Josh Aronson.  Navigating an airport can be overwhelming, but flying with autism or severe flight anxiety adds an entirely different layer of sensory friction. In this episode of the Lovefly Podcast, we sit down with international journalist and neurodiversity advocate Josh Aronson. Josh flies constantly and shares exactly how he manages traveling the world on the autistic spectrum. From cracking the code on hidden airline assistance systems to mastering in-flight sensory triggers, this conversation is an essential roadmap for anyone looking to push past their comfort zone and see the world safely. What you'll learn in this episode: What the DPNA code is and how to get free, dedicated airport assistance. The psychological link between autism, anxiety, and the "fear of the unknown." Tactical tips for choosing the right seat and managing cabin stimulation. How to handle airline delays, missed connections, and advocating for your passenger rights. Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: Meet Josh Aronson 02:15 - Living and Reporting on the Autistic Spectrum 04:30 - The Travel Reality: Flying to 6 Countries in 2 Months 06:45 - Navigating Airport Failures & Knowing Your Passenger Rights 10:15 - Demystifying the DPNA Code for Hidden Disabilities 13:50 - The Best Airlines & Airports for Neurodivergent Travelers 17:20 - Sensory Survival: Seat Selection & Headphone Hacks 21:05 - The Psychology of Flight Anxiety & The Fear of the Unknown 24:45 - Pushing Through the Comfort Zone: Josh’s Final Advice Lovefly Courses www.lovefly.co.uk/courses/ FB - Lovefly Insta @loveflyhelp #fearofflying #flyingwithout fear #anxiety #aviation #lovefly #pilots #turbulence #claustrophobia #cleithrophobia Private Members Group: https://lovefly.podia.com  Lovefly Courses & Resources: https://linkup.shop/lovefly Intro and outro music 'Fearless' Daniel King About Josh Josh Aronson is a journalist on the autistic spectrum, community leader, and advocate for global Jewish engagement and inclusion. He currently serves as the Jewish World and Diaspora Correspondent for Maariv, one of Israel's leading newspapers. Based in Manchester, UK, where he lives with his wife, Josh is deeply involved in Jewish communal life both locally and internationally. He is a Deputy at the Board of Deputies of British Jews, a Board Member of the Zionist Federation UK, and was recently elected to the Zionist Congress as a representative of JLM–Meretz UK. He also serves on the Board of Keep Olim in Israel and is a Global Ambassador for both the Orthodox Jewish Chamber of Commerce (USA) and Magen for Communities. He is a Council Member of President Isaac Herzog’s “Kol Ha’am” (Voice of the People) initiative — a distinguished group of 150 influential Jewish leaders from around the world. Josh holds a Bachelor's degree in Business Administration, specializing in Marketing and Advertising, from Ono Academic College, and has just finished a Master’s degree in International Journalism at the University of Salford. His advocacy work focuses on disability inclusion and accessibility. He leads initiatives honoring Holocaust victims with disabilities, improving travel accessibility for individuals on the autism spectrum, and promoting global use of the inclusive term “people with determination,” inspired by terminology adopted in Dubai. Current Positions: Reporter on Jewish World and the Diaspora for Maariv Zionist Congress Elect representing JLM–Meretz UK Member of the Board of Directors, Zionist Federation of the UK Deputy, Board of Deputies of British Jews Council Member, Voice of the People Initiative by President Isaac Herzog — one of 150 influential Jewish figures worldwide Board Member, Keep Olim in Israel Organization Global Ambassador, Orthodox Jewish Chamber of Commerce (USA) Global Ambassador, Magen for Communities Organization Manager, 144VIP Group Education: B.A. in Business Administration, Ono Academic College — Specialization: Marketing and Advertising M.A. in International Journalism, University of Salford Social and Policy Initiatives: Led efforts for the commemoration of people with disabilities murdered in the Holocaust Advocate for accessibility in aviation and transportation for passengers on the autism spectrum Promotes inclusive terminology globally by adopting the Dubai-based language shift from "people with disabilities" to "people with determination" https://linktr.ee/josharonson Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Did you use to fly with ease, but now the mere thought of an airplane cabin triggers intense panic and heart palpitations? The problem might not be the flight itself—it could be your hormones. In this episode of the Lovefly Podcast, we sit down with former NHS nurse and specialized Menopause Coach Caroline Milne to pull back the curtain on the hidden biological link between perimenopause and sudden travel anxiety. Discover how fluctuating oestrogen and progesterone levels steal your brain's natural ability to stay calm, why it leads to "catastrophizing" on flights, and how you can take control of your nervous system to travel freely again. What you’ll learn in this episode: The science of how a drop in progesterone directly sparks sudden, midlife anxiety. Why physical symptoms like hot flushes are frequently misidentified by the brain as flight panic. Unusual signs of perimenopause you probably haven't heard of (tinnitus, joint pain, and formication). The exact step-by-step lifestyle changes—from hydration to strategic breathwork—that eliminate brain fog and anxiety. What "postmenopausal zest" is and why there is massive hope for the future. Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: The Unexpected Link Between Hormones & Fear of Flying 02:15 - Meet Caroline Milne: From NHS Nurse to Menopause Coach 04:45 - The Truth About Perimenopause: 34 to 90 Symptoms Explained 08:20 - The Chemistry of Panic: How Progesterone, GABA, and Estrogen Control Your Calm 12:10 - Brain Fog & The New Onset Fear of Flying and Driving 15:40 - Tools for Relief: Nervous System Regulation & Breathwork 19:15 - Holistic Recovery: Hydration, Diet, and Setting Boundaries 22:30 - What is Postmenopausal Zest? Light at the End of the Tunnel #FearOfFlying #PerimenopauseAnxiety #MenopauseSupport #WomenHealth #FlightAnxiety #Lovefly #NervousSystemRegulation BIO Caroline Milne is a former NHS nurse, certified menopause coach and founder of Unmenopaused, supporting people experiencing perimenopause and menopause to navigate the physical and emotional challenges of this life stage with confidence. Drawing on over 20 years in healthcare alongside her own lived experience, Caroline combines evidence-informed menopause education, coaching and breathwork-based nervous system regulation techniques to help people understand the relationship between hormones, the nervous system and emotional wellbeing, so they can feel more like themselves again. She delivers coaching programmes, workplace education and community menopause support, creating welcoming spaces where people feel heard, understood and empowered. Contact details that can be shared: website: unmenopaused.co.uk email: [email protected] Lovefly Courses www.lovefly.co.uk/courses/ FB - Lovefly Insta @loveflyhelp #fearofflying #flyingwithout fear #anxiety #aviation #lovefly #pilots #turbulence #claustrophobia #cleithrophobia Private Members Group: https://lovefly.podia.com  Lovefly Courses & Resources: https://linkup.shop/lovefly Intro Music 'Fearless' Daniel King Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.