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There are small things we do in the early stages of dating that can have a surprisingly big impact on how someone sees us, and on the kind of relationship we end up creating with them.Sometimes we’re so focused on whether someone likes us that we don’t stop to think about the tone we’re setting. Are we showing them what we value? Are we making it too easy for the relationship to exist entirely on their terms? Are we communicating what we want without even realizing it?In this episode, I’m giving you 13 practical ways to be taken more seriously by someone you’re dating. Some are incredibly subtle, but they can change the entire dynamic. And I won’t just tell you what to do: I’ll explain the psychology behind each one and give you specific examples and texts you can adapt to your own situation.Because what you establish in the beginning can follow you throughout an entire relationship. Get this part right, and you give yourself a much better chance of building something where you’re not simply hoping they choose you; you’re finding out whether the two of you can actually build something together.---►► Want to Change the Way You Show Up in Your Relationships? Join Me at the Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why can someone who treated you terribly still be so hard to get over?You know they lied. You remember the manipulation, the gaslighting, and all the ways they made you question yourself. And yet, even after you leave, you can still find yourself replaying what happened, searching for answers, or wondering whether somehow you were the problem.That’s because getting a narcissist out of your life and getting free from their effects are two very different things.In this week’s episode, I break down three of the biggest traps that can keep us emotionally tied to a narcissist long after the relationship ends, and what it actually takes to start getting your life back.---►► Ready to Break the Patterns That Keep You Stuck With the Wrong People? Join Me at the Matthew Hussey Retreat MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever walked away from a conversation with a guy thinking, “Wait... what did he actually mean by that?”Maybe he says he “isn’t ready for a relationship right now” but continues acting like your boyfriend. Or he tells you he “doesn’t want to hurt you” while still pursuing you. Suddenly, you’re analyzing every word, wondering whether you should give him a chance or take what he’s saying as a warning.In this episode, I’m breaking down 9 of the most confusing things men say in dating, based on real examples you sent me, including:How to tell when an “excuse” is actually a red flagWhat to listen for when someone says they’re not ready for a relationshipHow to know when someone is keeping things deliberately vagueThe difference between someone who genuinely needs time and someone who just wants something casualWhen to stop analyzing their words and start paying attention to their actionsIf you’ve ever found yourself trying to decode mixed messages or wondering whether you’re reading too much into what someone said, this episode will help you see the situation more clearly and know when it’s safe to keep going, and when it’s time to walk away.---►► Ready to Break the Patterns That Keep You Stuck With the Wrong People? Join Me at the Matthew Hussey Retreat → MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever wondered why you can feel so much chemistry with someone who's inconsistent, unavailable, or clearly wrong for you... yet struggle to feel the same spark with someone who actually treats you well?You may genuinely want a healthy, stable relationship. But when you've become accustomed to the emotional highs and lows of unpredictable relationships, healthy attention can feel strangely unfamiliar—and sometimes even boring.So does that mean you have to choose between chemistry and a healthy relationship? Absolutely not.In this episode, I'll show you three ways to build real attraction with the right person, including:Why emotionally unavailable people can feel so addictiveHow unpredictability can get mistaken for chemistryWhy someone being consistent doesn't mean the relationship has to lack excitementThree ways to create attraction without relying on games, anxiety, or emotional highs and lowsThe good news is, you don’t have to choose between feeling a spark and being with someone who treats you well. You can have both. And once you learn to feel attraction without needing the emotional roller coaster, it can completely change who you choose next.---►► Break the Patterns That Keep Leading You to the Wrong People → MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Two years ago, I met Ann at one of my Retreats. She stood up in tears and told me something I’ll never forget:“I feel like I’m not worthy.”Life had given her plenty of reasons to believe it. She had spent years feeling unseen, making herself smaller, and slowly losing touch with the person she used to be.Two years later, I sat down with Ann again to find out what happened next.And even knowing parts of her story, I wasn’t prepared for everything she had to tell me.If life has ever made you question your worth or wonder whether it’s too late for things to be different, I really hope you’ll listen this one.---►► Transform Your Life in 2 Powerful Days. Learn More About the Matthew Hussey Weekend Retreat at: MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sex can bring up some of the biggest questions in dating: When is the right time to sleep with someone? Should you talk about what it means beforehand? And what if you have sex and they suddenly pull away?If you've ever worried that sleeping with someone too soon could make them lose interest—or felt like having sex somehow meant giving away your power—this episode is for you.I'm answering some of the questions people come to me with in full SOS mode, including:When to have sex with someone you're datingHow to talk about sex before you sleep together (including a simple script you can adapt)What to do if someone rejects or ghosts you afterwardHow to stop tying your sense of power to whether someone stays or leavesBecause your power doesn't come from making all the "right" moves so someone chooses you. It comes from knowing you'll be OK no matter what they choose.If you've been overthinking when to have sex, worrying about getting attached, or wondering whether sleeping with someone will change how they feel about you, this episode will help you approach sex and dating with more confidence and far less fear. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It starts off feeling like the relationship you've been waiting for.The connection is instant. They can't get enough of you. Every text makes you smile. They talk about the future, make you feel chosen, and leave you wondering how you got so lucky.Then everything changes.The messages slow down. The excitement disappears. You're left replaying every conversation, trying to figure out what happened and whether any of it was real.The hardest part? Love bombing doesn't always look like manipulation. Sometimes it looks exactly like the beginning of a healthy relationship, which is why so many smart, self-aware people don't recognize it until they're already emotionally invested.In this episode, I'll show you how to tell the difference between genuine interest and love bombing before it pulls you in. We'll unpack the subtle warning signs most people overlook, why intense chemistry can override your instincts, and how to protect your heart without becoming guarded or cynical.If you've ever found yourself asking, "How did something that felt so real disappear so fast?" this episode will give you the clarity to spot the difference and save yourself from that heartbreak in the future.---►► Need help with your own dating or relationship? Ask Matthew AI at AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

After so many requests, Audrey's finally back!In this week's episode, she's answering some of your biggest relationship questions. We talk about rebuilding trust after heartbreak, jealousy over a partner's past, feeling "behind" in dating, keeping a marriage strong, and what really makes someone attractive.Whether you're single, dating, or married, I think there's something in this conversation that will stay with you.---►► Transform Your Relationship With Life in One Powerful Weekend. Learn More About my Weekend Retreat at MHRetreat.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"Where can I actually meet someone?"It's one of the most common dating questions, and one that's become even more frustrating in the age of dating apps and endless swiping.In this episode, we explore why so many people feel stuck meeting the same kinds of people, whether there's really a "best place" to meet someone great, and the simple shifts that can dramatically increase your chances of finding a meaningful relationship.If you're tired of wondering where all the good men are, or feel like you've exhausted every dating app and social circle, this episode will help you rethink where, and more importantly, how you meet the right person.Have a question about your own dating or relationship? Ask Matthew AI anytime at AskMH.com. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Love bombing can feel exactly like the beginning of the relationship you've always wanted.The chemistry is instant. They want to see you all the time. They talk about the future, make you feel special, and everything seems to move at lightning speed. Then, just as quickly, something changes. The messages become less frequent, they start pulling away, and you're left wondering whether any of it was real.In this episode, Matthew breaks down three simple ways to tell the difference between genuine interest and love bombing. He explains why intensity isn't the same as intimacy, the warning signs many of us miss in the early stages of dating, and how to protect yourself without becoming cynical about love.If you've ever found yourself questioning whether someone's feelings were real—or worrying about getting swept up too quickly—this episode will help you date with more confidence and clarity.Have a question about your own dating or relationship? Ask Matthew AI at AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.