Let's Talk About Consent

Hindi namin kayo kino-kontra, pinapaalalahanan lamang because safe sex is the best sex! The ladies of LLF zones in on the contraceptives available here in the Philippines: how to get them, where to get them, and which option you think is the best for your body or for you and your partner.  ••• Follow us on @livelovefckpod on Instagram.

We’re back to non-PG programming! In this episode, the girls list tips, dos and dont’s para extra pak ang booking. Can you ask your partner's sexual history? Paano ang venue? What if nagka-feelings? Ming answers all these questions to make sure all sides are covered in fun and respect.  ••• Follow us on @livelovefckpod on Instagram.

Heto na, nasa season 2 na tayo! Your LLF squad is kicking off this season with a controversial (?) topic: AGE. Is age really just a number? In this episode, we’ll be talking about the factors to consider when entering a relationship with someone who could be “too” old or “too” young for you.  ••• Follow us on @livelovefckpod on Instagram.

For our season-ender, Ming and Nes tackle a heavy topic but one that needs to be discussed more: CONSENT. How *do* we define consent? We explore four models that shed light on our evolving notions of it. Is it a women’s-only issue? When is consent never valid? And can you take it back? ⚠️ TW: Mentions of rape, crimes against minors, and other forms of abuse as discussion points. Listener discretion is advised. ⚠️ If you are a victim of sexual abuse, call 177 or 911, or get in touch with any of these organizations: Maya’s Organisation [email protected] Luna Legal Resource Center for Women and Children (082) 306-5761 Gender Watch Against Violence and Exploitation (GWAVE) (035) 422 84 05 | +63 915 259 3029 | +63 999 576 6679 ••• Follow us on @livelovefckpod on Instagram, Twitter, and Tiktok. 

"Help! My partner is committed but not with the idea of marriage." "Is there a difference between 'casually dating' and 'seeing each other'? How do we know if we've reached the next step?" Ming and Nes address a spectrum of questions, from dating to marriage, in this week's minisode.  ••• Follow us on @livelovefckpod on Instagram, Twitter, and Tiktok. Submit your questions: bit.ly/LLFQuickieQuestions

Ming and Nes talk about their dating and relationship resolutions and manifestations for 2022. Listen to them share their reflections from the past year and how they wish to apply their learnings in their current relationships as they take on the new year from different dating perspectives. ••• Follow us on @livelovefckpod on Instagram, Twitter, and Tiktok. Submit your questions: bit.ly/LLFQuickieQuestions

How do you spot red flags early on? And what's the difference between Filipino men and foreigners in bed? You ask—Nes and Ming answer on the first minisode of 2022.  ••• Follow us on @livelovefckpod on Instagram, Twitter, and Tiktok. Submit your questions: bit.ly/LLFQuickieQuestions

Gray areas. They happen, they’re normal, and—dare we say—at times they may be necessary. But what do you do when all the lines get blurred? In our last episode of 2021, Ming and Nes explore three shades of gray and figure out some ways to either feel safe or get out of murky situations. ••• Follow us on @livelovefckpod on Instagram, Twitter, and Tiktok. Submit your questions: bit.ly/LLFQuickieQuestions

Nes talks about friendships—broken ones, specifically, in the pandemic. How do you mend one, and what is the right way of letting it go when it’s no longer working out? Meanwhile, Ming sets the truth on big schlongs. Is bigger really better? Your questions get answered in this episode. ••• Follow us on @livelovefckpod on Instagram, Twitter, and Tiktok. Submit your questions: bit.ly/LLFQuickieQuestions

Tinder or Bumble not working out for you? We got you, sis! In this episode, Ming and Nes look into alternative apps to try whether you’re looking for a quick hookup or a long-term date, dito man or a timezone away. All you need is your phone and an open mind. ••• Follow us on @livelovefckpod on Instagram, Twitter, and Tiktok. Submit your questions: bit.ly/LLFQuickieQuestions