The Most Underrated Way To Change Your Life | Ed Mylett

What If Changing Your Life Was Easier Than You Thought? In this episode, I’m breaking down one of the most underrated tools for transformation: your identity. The thermostat of your life is set by the beliefs you hold about yourself, and until you change that internal setting, no amount of external success will stick. I’m joined by Matthew McConaughey, who shares a profound perspective: discovering who you are is often about eliminating who you’re not. Together, we unpack how letting go of limiting beliefs, unhelpful habits, and relationships that drain you can make room for the person you're destined to become​. You’ll hear me break down the thermostat analogy—the invisible force that regulates every area of your life, from finances to fitness to relationships. I’ll show you how association with people who live at higher levels can naturally raise your own standard, and how short bursts of intense, intentional effort can permanently shift your internal settings. Matthew brings his signature wisdom, emphasizing the power of subtraction in personal growth and why clarity often comes from identifying what doesn’t serve you​. We’ll explore how your story—the one you tell yourself about your past, your failures, or even your victories—can either trap you or set you free. I’ll challenge you to rewrite your narrative, to stop clinging to outdated versions of yourself, and to start stepping boldly into the person you’re meant to be. Because here's the truth: you are always in control of the pen that writes your story​. Key Takeaways: - Why your identity thermostat dictates every result in your life - The role of associations in raising your personal standards - How short, intense bursts of new habits can rewire your mindset - Matthew McConaughey’s advice on the power of eliminating what doesn’t serve you - Why rewriting your story is essential to building a new identity If you’re tired of external changes never leading to lasting results, this episode is for you. It’s time to adjust the thermostat, rewrite your story, and step fully into the version of you that you know you’re capable of becoming. This isn’t just about small changes—it’s about a complete internal shift that sets the tone for your entire life. Thank you for watching this video—Please Share it and get the word out! What part of this video resonated with you the most? Comment below! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Your Greatest Superpower: The Skill Everyone Thinks They Have but Few Truly Master Most people believe they're good listeners—but are they really? Today, I’m unpacking one of the most underestimated yet transformative skills: the art of listening. And I’m not talking about just nodding your head or waiting for your turn to speak. I’m talking about truly hearing people, making them feel understood, and using this skill to deepen connections in every area of your life—from your business to your relationships. I share personal stories, including a revealing encounter with an entrepreneur who spent hours talking at me instead of with me. We’ll break down why listening is not only about respect but also one of the most powerful tools for influence and impact. I’ll give you actionable strategies—like asking clarifying questions, aligning your body language, and even using a simple follow-up text—to make sure people don’t just hear you, but feel you long after the conversation ends. When you become an exceptional listener, people won’t just like you—they’ll trust you. And trust is the gateway to influence. Whether you're leading a team, raising a family, or simply building friendships, mastering this skill will set you apart. Key Takeaways: Why people respond to how you make them feel, not just what you say. The importance of asking for clarification to show you’re truly present. How your body language, facial expressions, and even pauses speak louder than words. The power of acknowledgement statements to leave people feeling valued. A simple follow-up text strategy that can cement lasting connections.  Start listening in a way that transforms relationships and amplifies your influence. Because when people feel heard, they lean in, trust deeper, and follow your lead. Now let’s get to work—Max Out!. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What if I told you the most exciting time to be alive is right now—and tomorrow is even better? In this eye-opening conversation, I sit down with my friend and one of the world’s greatest visionaries, Peter Diamandis, to talk about a future where aging might not just slow down but could actually reverse. This isn’t science fiction—it’s science fact, and Peter breaks down the advancements that are pushing us closer to what’s called Longevity Escape Velocity, where for every year you live, science extends your life by more than a year. We dive into the practical tools, habits, and routines you can start implementing today to extend not just your lifespan but your health span—because living long only matters if you’re living well. From the critical role of diet, sleep, exercise, and mindset to the groundbreaking technologies reshaping healthcare, Peter shares insights from his new book, The Longevity Guidebook: How to Slow, Stop, and Reverse Aging and Not Die from Something Stupid. This isn’t just a conversation about futuristic medicine—it’s about your life right now. We explore the importance of regular health scans, personalized supplementation, and the transformative power of optimism. Plus, Peter reveals the role of AI in healthcare and how it’s revolutionizing disease detection and treatment. Key Takeaways: How Longevity Escape Velocity could make aging a thing of the past. The four foundational pillars of health: sleep, diet, exercise, and mindset. Why regular health scans could save your life—and how diseases hide until it’s too late. The groundbreaking role AI is playing in diagnostics and treatment. Practical habits you can adopt today to optimize your health and extend your health span. If you want to future-proof your health, this is the episode you can’t afford to miss. Remember, the choices you make today aren’t just adding years to your life—they’re adding life to your years. Go grab The Longevity Guidebook and start building your blueprint for a healthier, longer life. Share this episode with the people you care about most—this knowledge could change their lives. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Are You Willing to Do What Others Won’t? In this episode, I’m joined by champions in their fields—Troy Aikman, James Lawrence, and Mike O'Hearn—as we unpack the mindset, habits, and sacrifices required to achieve your most ambitious goals. These aren’t just stories of talent and opportunity; they’re lessons in grit, focus, and relentless execution. Troy Aikman reveals the mindset that helped him not just win one Super Bowl but repeat that success—a hunger that never faded and a discipline that still drives him today. He shares how relief often outweighs euphoria after achieving a monumental goal, and why showing up consistently matters more than raw talent. James Lawrence, famously known as the "Iron Cowboy," shares the brutal yet inspiring reality of pushing through 100 consecutive Ironman triathlons. He opens up about walking through physical pain, the power of mental resilience, and how vulnerability and trusting his team were the keys to finishing the seemingly impossible. Mike O'Hearn takes us inside his world of relentless discipline, where every meal, every workout, and every moment is a commitment to excellence. He reminds us that true champions don’t measure themselves against others—they measure themselves against their own potential. Key Takeaways: - The Power of Hunger and Focus: Why staying desperate for your goals can be your greatest advantage. - Discipline Over Motivation: How daily habits and routines separate the good from the great. - Trust and Vulnerability: The role of a strong team in achieving what seems impossible. - Relentless Consistency: How small, repetitive actions compound into extraordinary results. This episode is your playbook for eliminating distractions, embracing sacrifice, and staying obsessed with your goals. Whether you're at the starting line or in the middle of your climb, the lessons here will ignite a fire in you to keep going. Listen now and make the commitment to outwork, outlast, and outperform—because your dream isn’t just a possibility, it’s a responsibility.​ Thank you for watching this video—Please Share it and get the word out! What part of this video resonated with you the most? Comment below! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

When You’re 90% There, You’re Only 50% Done: Are You Ready for What’s Next? Most people think getting to the top 10% is the finish line—but here’s the truth: when you’re 90% there, you’re only halfway done. The climb to your next level isn’t about coasting on momentum; it’s about realizing that what got you here won’t get you there. Today, we’re talking about the habits, standards, and vision you’ll need to break through that final barrier and step into the next version of yourself. In this episode, I’m challenging you to audit your dream. Is it still your dream, or is it a leftover goal from a past version of you? Dreams need to evolve as you grow, and your vision needs to match the season you’re in. We’ll also talk about the difference between fun goals and fulfilling goals, and why chasing a dream that doesn’t nurture your soul will always leave you empty. I’ll share the power of updating your standards—not just your goals. Goals are targets, but standards are the rules you live by. And if you’re not where you want to be, it’s not because your goals aren’t good enough—it’s because your standards aren’t strong enough. You’ll also hear why clarity is everything and how writing down your vision with specificity can quadruple your chances of success. Here’s what you’ll take away: Why 90% done means you’re only 50% finished. The difference between fun dreams and fulfilling dreams. How to audit your goals and create a clear, updated vision. The power of specific standards in achieving your goals. Why writing down your dream creates unstoppable momentum. You weren’t born to settle, and you weren’t born to stop climbing just because you’ve reached a comfortable peak. You were born to do something great with your life. So grab the pen, rewrite your vision, and let’s make this next season the one where you step fully into your purpose. It’s your time—don’t leave this life with any chapters unwritten. Let’s go! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Are Your Thoughts Controlling You, or Are You in Control of Them? In this incredible conversation with Dr. Ethan Kross, we unpack the invisible force that shapes our emotions, actions, and ultimately, our lives—our inner voice. Dr. Kross is not only one of the world’s leading experts on emotional regulation, but his insights on how we talk to ourselves and manage our emotions are absolutely life-changing. We discuss how your thoughts and emotions are deeply intertwined, and how you can use simple, science-backed strategies to shift your emotional state instantly. Whether it’s sensory triggers, the power of perspective, or the way we narrate our experiences, this conversation gives you the tools to regain control of your mind and your life. Dr. Kross shares stories and actionable strategies that demonstrate how small mental shifts can create massive change. From breaking free from emotional loops to finding clarity during life’s toughest moments, this is a masterclass in mental resilience. Here’s what you’ll learn: How to stop your thoughts from spiraling into anxiety and fear. The surprising connection between your senses and emotional state. Why helping someone else in your darkest moments might be the key to your own healing. How simple perspective shifts can change your emotional trajectory. Why your inner voice can be your greatest coach—or your worst enemy. This conversation isn’t just about managing your emotions—it’s about mastering them. Take these lessons, apply them to your life, and start creating a mental space where you thrive. Your thoughts don’t have to control you. You have the power to control them—and that changes everything. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Winning isn’t just about talent—it’s about preparation, resilience, and an unshakable mindset. In this Mashup Episode, I bring together four elite minds—Michael Chandler, Mikey Garcia, Tim Grover, and David Goggins—to break down the mental playbook behind what it truly takes to succeed at the highest level. You’ll hear Mikey Garcia, a world-champion boxer, reveal how visualization isn’t just about picturing success but also anticipating obstacles—like a knockdown or an injury—and planning how to respond without panic​. Michael Chandler, one of the most relentless fighters in the UFC, shares his approach to balancing media pressure, preparation, and conserving mental energy in the days leading up to a monumental fight​. Legendary mindset coach Tim Grover, who trained Michael Jordan and Kobe Bryant, uncovers the difference between athletes who “compete” and those who win at winning—and why obsession isn’t a flaw, but a requirement​. Finally, David Goggins brings his raw and unfiltered perspective on pushing past self-imposed limits, facing inner demons, and how confronting your past can set you free to pursue your greatest potential​. Key Takeaways: - The power of specific visualization to anticipate and prepare for adversity. - How elite performers handle the intense pressure of high-stakes moments. - Why obsession and an unbalanced focus are often the real keys to sustained success. - The role of relentless accountability in achieving the extraordinary. This episode isn’t just about fighting—it’s about winning in every area of your life. These lessons apply whether you’re stepping into a ring, leading a team, or navigating life’s challenges. If you’re ready to uncover what separates the good from the great and apply these strategies to your own journey, you won’t want to miss this one. Thank you for watching this video—Please Share it and get the word out! What part of this video resonated with you the most? Comment below! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

New Levels, New Devils: Are You Ready to Fight for Your Next Chapter? At any point in your life, you can grab the pen and start writing a new chapter. You are the lead character in your story, and this year doesn’t have to look like the last. But here’s the truth: New levels bring new devils. Every time you aim higher, challenges will meet you at the gate. The real question is—are you still hungry enough to fight for it? In this episode, I’m breaking down what it really takes to level up—not just in your goals, but in your standards, your habits, and the language you speak to yourself. You don’t get your goals—you get your standards. And until you change those, you’ll keep circling the same mountain, year after year. We’ll talk about how to set an accelerator habit—one habit that acts like a domino, knocking down every other barrier in your life. You’ll also learn the importance of being around people who challenge your comfort zone and why the voices you allow into your life will determine your results. And finally, I’ll challenge you to stop letting the background actors—those people who aren’t even in your life’s main story—hold you back from stepping fully into your purpose. Here’s what you’ll take away: Why new levels always come with new devils and how to prepare for them. The critical difference between goals and standards—and which one shapes your future. How to identify your accelerator habit to create unstoppable momentum. The life-changing power of speaking your goals out loud and changing your internal narrative. Why comfort zones are your biggest enemy and how to break free from them. This isn’t just about success—it’s about knowing yourself on a deeper level. Because when it’s all said and done, the ultimate victory is looking in the mirror and recognizing the person staring back at you. It’s time to grab the pen, turn the page, and write a new chapter. Let’s go!. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

How Do You Adapt When Life Changes Everything? This week, I’m honored to share one of the most unforgettable conversations I’ve ever had, with an extraordinary woman—Brie Bauer. Brie’s story isn’t just about survival; it’s about resilience, faith, and redefining what it means to show up for life. After giving birth to her third child, Bo, at just 27 weeks, Brie faced a series of life-threatening complications that resulted in a medically induced coma, multiple surgeries, and ultimately, the amputation of her limbs. But this isn’t a story of loss—it’s a story of transformation. Brie shares how she confronted the unimaginable with a mindset anchored in faith and perspective. From the moment she woke up and made the decision to move forward, she has been determined to focus on what she can do instead of what she’s lost. Her love for her family, her honesty about the hard days, and her commitment to adapting to her new reality are lessons we can all learn from. As she says, “You have to adapt. You have to change with what comes to you.” In our conversation, Brie opens up about motherhood—how her definition of being a mom has evolved and how she still shows up for her three boys every single day. She also speaks candidly about her faith journey, admitting to moments of frustration with God while remaining open to growth and connection in her relationship with Him. And through it all, her husband Reed has been a rock—showing what true partnership and love look like in the face of overwhelming odds. Key Takeaways: Adapt to Your Reality: Life doesn’t always go as planned, but your ability to adapt determines your quality of life. Perspective Is Everything: The way you frame your challenges can completely shift your experience of them. Motherhood Redefined: Being a parent isn’t about what you can physically do—it’s about being present in every way you can. Faith Isn’t Always Perfect: It’s okay to wrestle with your faith and still remain open to its growth. Love Shows Up: True partnership means being there for each other in ways you never expected. Brie’s story isn’t just about overcoming—it’s about becoming. She’s a living example of how even in the face of unthinkable challenges, we can still choose gratitude, resilience, and love. Tune in and let Brie’s courage inspire you to face your own challenges head-on. This is an episode you’ll carry with you long after it ends. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Do You Have What It Takes to Win When Life Plays Rough? In this electrifying mashup episode, I’m joined by an all-star lineup of thought leaders and game-changers, including Deion Sanders, Tim Grover, Trent Shelton, Dr. Taryn Marie, and Garrain Jones. Together, we explore the true essence of resilience, leadership, and the mindset required to play hurt and still dominate both on and off the field. Coach Prime, Deion Sanders, shares his hard-earned wisdom on leading with purpose and playing through pain—not just on the field, but in life. His philosophy of “never having a bad day, only bad moments” is a masterclass in turning adversity into strength. Tim Grover, who’s coached legends like Michael Jordan and Kobe Bryant, delves into the obsession and preparation required to win relentlessly. He reminds us that the road to paradise starts in hell, and only those willing to endure can truly claim greatness. Trent Shelton opens up about his journey of facing life’s toughest challenges, including his mother’s battle with cancer, and how he transformed personal pain into a mission of global impact. Dr. Taryn Marie reveals the power of rewriting your narrative, teaching us how healing is our responsibility, even when the pain isn’t our fault. And Garrain Jones reminds us that returning to our childlike authenticity can unlock a joy and freedom that fuels transformation. Key Takeaways: - Playing Hurt: Deion Sanders on how resilience and preparation allow us to thrive despite setbacks. - Winning Habits: Tim Grover’s insights into the relentless discipline of the world’s greatest athletes. - Own Your Pain: Trent Shelton’s powerful testimony about finding purpose in adversity. - Rewrite Your Story: Dr. Taryn Marie on how changing your narrative can reshape your life. - Rediscover Joy: Garrain Jones encourages us to reconnect with our authentic selves to find fulfillment. Winning isn’t easy, and it’s not always glamorous. But as we uncover in this episode, the real victories come when you embrace the struggle, stay the course, and refuse to quit. These conversations aren’t just lessons—they’re the playbook for building an unbreakable mindset and achieving the greatness you were born for. Join us and step into the arena—you’re closer to your breakthrough than you think. Thank you for watching this video—Please Share it and get the word out! What part of this video resonated with you the most? Comment below! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices