09 - WTF Is Being You?

As the seasons turn, whispers of change are in the air. Do you follow them to a new, uncharted path? Or do you hold onto the familiar? Let’s explore in the Curious Universe. Join me in the Magic Lab for more engagements! https://t.me/+ZRva3k3pybpiZTkx

We all do it. Consciously and unconsciously. We project a certain image that we want people to believe is who we are. Some are more naturally talented at this than others, so those of us who struggle to find the right projection often feel extra wrong. Those are often my neurospicy friends. Hello friends! Me too. What if you didn’t have project anything? What if it were a tool you could use, not a need that limits you? There is so much to explore in this, so join me in the Curious Universe for more!

Have you seen the movie The Fountainhead? It’s a classic black and white film that will speak to anyone who has been gaslighted or pressured to diminish the greatness of them. Personally I have had this come up in my life many times in various ways and until recently I was still gently succumbing to it unconsciously. What if you could be truly free to be as brilliant as you are regardless of those that don’t like it. Not from fighting them or pushing them away but rather from allowance and choice. Let’s explore in the Curious Universe Podcast! PS If you wish to explore more about untwisting yourself from the insidious jails of Gaslighting join me for an online watch party where we will together watch the class movie Gaslight and then clear the energies that are controlling you. You truly can free yourself to have more of you again. More information here: https://www.asifbymagic.space/event-details/gaslight-2026

What would you be willing to give up to have a stable, predictable and safe life? Stable money, stable love, stable body/health… everything nice and predictably controllable. What would you be willing to give up to have an adventurous, free, and beautifully surprising life? Adventurous money, adventurous love, adventurous body…. everything out of control and unpredictable. And what if you had to choose between these options? If so, which would you choose? What if it’s your stories that are encouraging your choice here? Not your awareness. We all have our stories. How we grew up, the struggles, the achievements, the joys and the heartbreaks. Our stories create our identity, which creates our limitations. Our stories tell us what’s safe, what’s we are capable of, and what will happen if ______ (fill in the blank). So if you didn’t have any stories, no reference point for anything, what would you choose then? Join me for an exploration in the Curious Universe.

Spoken or unspoken, many of us at some time in our lives have been told that we are a burden. Or we felt that way even if it wasn’t being projected. The truth is being is never a burden. You can’t take up space when you are being. You can’t take from someone when you are being. You can’t burden anyone when you are being. Your being is always a gift, regardless of whether it is received. Let’s explore in the Cursious Universe. If you would like to explore more deeply what Being is, I invite you to my upcoming class, Being You. We may cry, we may laugh, and we may just fall in love with being. www.asifbymagic.space/event-details/byvancouver2026

We all have our limits.The limits of what we can handle, achieve, create, etc... And some of us know our limits intimately. We have suffered them, judged them, and surrendered to them. But what if your limits have been put in place by you? What if it’s not something external or out of your control when your body falls ill, that relationship falls apart, those unexpected money issues show up? What if you are creating it all to maintain your ceiling? To maintain your limits?Let’s explore in the Curious Universe!

Who are you? Are you defined by your personality? Your gender? What other people say about you? We hear it all the time, just Be You. But WTF is being you? How do you locate this mythical you and live from that? Being you in a relationship.Being you with your body. Being you in business and all the rest! The secret is everything is easier and greater when you are Being You, and this is what we are exploring in the Curious Universe! Check out my upcoming Being You class! Live in Vancouver, Canada and Online. www.asifbymagic.space/event-details/byvancouver2026

Give and Take. Tit for Tat. Everything in life is a transaction. I give you money, you give me the product. I work for you, and you pay me money. I buy you a gift for your birthday, you buy me a gift for my birthday. Did the last one catch your attention? It’s easy to see where transactions are helpful in the society we live in. I wouldn't want someone looting my store and not paying for anything. But where are you functioning from transactional reality and not realizing it? If someone does something nice for you, do you immediately start thinking of what you can do in return? Are you keeping score and trying to make it even? Or better yet, make sure others are in a deficit with you? Keeping score cards and functioning from transactional reality can only get you so far. What if there was a possibility far beyond all of this, where you can gift and receive endlessly? Join me in the Curious Universe Podcast!

You may think of the stereotypical “Lady” and cringe a little…. Or perhaps think highly of a Lady yet feel you are not of that stature or elegance. What if you are a different kind of Lady? What if it’s not about how you dress or speak from the right, correct perspective, but it is an energy you can choose that is full of untapped potency and power? Shall we explore in the Curious Universe? If you would like to join us on this 7-week exploration of The Lady: Being What Always Wins, register below. www.asifbymagic.space/event-details/theladybookclub

The Earth is this incredible, magical creature that we live upon, but often forget to truly engage with. It provides shelter, food, and magical possibilities beyond imaginiation yet the majority of the inhabitants here take it for granted. What if you could co-create with the earth? What if it were a priority for you? When you step into co-creation with the Earth, you open the door to many miraculous occurrences that you may not even suspect are related. However, if you are willing, this might just change everything, including a lot more ease showing up! Come explore with me in the Curious Universe Podcast!