#171 - Why You Aren’t Attracting The Love You Want - Seth Loss

Join My Weekly Newsletter - https://www.thechrisgeisler.com/midweekmedicine*Join WHISPR - https://ref.wisprflow.ai/christopher-geisler*My Top 20 Books Every Man Needs To Read: https://bit.ly/3NnVqNzSven Loss is a relationship and transformation coach dedicated to helping people build healthier relationships with themselves and others. After facing his own struggles with self worth, confidence, and unhealthy relationship patterns, Sven began a deep personal journey of inner work, learning from coaches, therapists, and leading practitioners. Today he guides clients through emotional healing, self awareness, and breaking unconscious patterns so they can experience authentic connection, mental freedom, and more fulfilling relationships.====== SVEN LOSS =====IG ▶ https://www.instagram.com/sven_loss/WEBSITE ▶ https://svenloss.com/====== CHRIS GEISLER ======WEBSITE ▶ thechrisgeisler.comMEN OF EARTH ▶ www.menofearth.co.ukMENS Community ▶ https://www.menofearth.co.uk/innercircle====== PODCAST ======Support The Podcast: https://www.patreon.com/thechrisgeislerWhatsapp Communty: https://t.me/thechrisgeislerpodcast=======TIMESTAMPS=======0:00 - Intro00:16 - Why Is Self Worth Overlooked?03:39 - How Long Do You Need To Be In A Relationship Before You Know It’s Not Right?05:09 - What Is Chemistry In Relationship?08:21 - Why We Attract The Same Unhealthy Patterns12:26 - What To Do If You Are Stressed In Relationship18:56 - How To Be More Present To What Is?21:46 - Seth’s Backstory25:43 - Not Feeling Enough And What Happens In Relationship31:57 - Healing The Nice Guy41:19 - Inner Child Healing48:10 - How Do You Create Freedom?53:12 - Those Who Can’t Feel Pain, Can’t Love55:28 - Finding Faults And Avoidant Tendencies59:48 - Being Loved Beyond Belief Heals Everything

Join WHISPR - https://ref.wisprflow.ai/christopher-geislerMy Top 20 Books Every Man Needs To Read: https://bit.ly/3NnVqNzBen is an activist, advocate, speaker, host, presenter, facilitator, trainer and model. As the Head of Facilitation and Training at Beyond Equality, he focuses on deconstructing and reconstructing masculinities with men and boys. Ben also works as a freelance Diversity and Inclusion Consultant with a focus on race and gender.His focus is on making important conversations accessible for young people and adults from all walks of life and he is currently working on his first book.Topics / Themes We ExploreIdentity Crisis Men & Boys - Economic & Cultural ShiftsHow do we prevent further gender division at young ages.Cultivating more empathy, self-esteem & compassion as a societyDid You Know..In 2023, about 1 in 5 children and young people aged 8 to 25 years had a probable mental disorder.One in four UK males between 19-29 think it’s harder to be a man than a woman.30% of Gen Z surveyed think it’ll be harder to be a man than a woman in 20 years’ timeAnd of that group, 19% think it’ll be much harder to be a Man====== BEN HURST =====IG ▶ https://www.instagram.com/therealbenhurst/WEBSITE ▶ https://www.therealbenhurst.com/Beyond Equality ▶ https://www.beyondequality.org/TED TALK ▶ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3dp08bAUwi8⁠====== CHRIS GEISLER ======WEBSITE ▶ thechrisgeisler.comMENS WORK ▶ www.menofearth.co.ukCOACHING ▶ www.menofearth.co.uk/coachingMENS COMMUNITY ▶ www.menofearth.co.uk/innercircle====== SUPPORT ======Support The Podcast: www.patreon.com/thechrisgeislerTelegram: https://t.me/thechrisgeislerpodcast

Join WHISPR - https://ref.wisprflow.ai/christopher-geislerBook A Call With Chrishttps://bit.ly/458UXoaJoin The Mens Online Community:https://www.menofearth.co.uk/innercircleDownload My Top 20 Books Every Man Needs To Read:https://books.menofearth.co.uk/In this conversation, I’m joined by the founder of Men’s Circle, a leading international community supporting men’s wellbeing, connection, and conscious leadership.His work emerged from lived experience: loneliness in a crowded city, the loss of close friends to suicide, and a clear recognition that real change begins within. What started in 2020 as a small men’s circle in a London park has since grown into a global movement, built on creating safe, well-held spaces where men can speak honestly and be truly seen.Over the years, he has helped shape Men’s Circle into a strong ecosystem for men’s mental, emotional, and relational health, working alongside experienced facilitators and clinicians to ensure depth and integrity in the work.Today, Men’s Circle operates as The Men’s Wellness Club, offering:Circles – peer-mentoring spacesTraining – facilitation and leadership developmentSocials – because strong friendships matterThis episode explores what becomes possible when men take responsibility, do the inner work, and grow together.====== PASCO =====IG ▶ https://www.instagram.com/beingpasco/WEBSITE ▶ https://www.menscircle.club/====== CHRIS GEISLER ======WEBSITE ▶ thechrisgeisler.comMENS WORK ▶ www.menofearth.co.ukCOACHING ▶ www.menofearth.co.uk/coachingMENS COMMUNITY ▶ www.menofearth.co.uk/innercircle====== SUPPORT ======Support The Podcast: www.patreon.com/thechrisgeislerTelegram: https://t.me/thechrisgeislerpodcast

Download My Top 20 Books Every Man Needs To Read:https://books.menofearth.co.uk/Join The Mens Online Community:https://www.menofearth.co.uk/innercircleGeorge Thompson is a filmmaker, teacher, and founder of Balance is Possible!— a 15-person team on a mission to inspire balance for people and planet. His films and teachings have touched over 25 million people and he is supported by renowned changemakers including Dr. Jane Goodall, Louie Schwartzberg, Tara Brach, Stephen Fry and many more.Drawing from years of deep study in the Wudang Mountains of China, George blends ancient wisdom with modern science, translating it into fun, practical tools for overcoming the challenges of modern life.Once plagued by anxiety and a sense of disconnection, George’s journey led him from pain to purpose. With playful kindness, George helps people to do the same: to awaken their potential. Balance is Possible!====== GEORGE =====IG ▶ https://www.instagram.com/george.thompson._/WEBSITE ▶ https://www.balanceispossible.com/YOUTUBE ▶ https://www.youtube.com/@George-Thompson====== CHRIS GEISLER ======WEBSITE ▶ thechrisgeisler.comMENS WORK ▶ www.menofearth.co.ukCOACHING ▶ www.menofearth.co.uk/coachingMENS COMMUNITY ▶ www.menofearth.co.uk/innercircle====== SUPPORT ======Support The Podcast: www.patreon.com/thechrisgeislerTelegram: https://t.me/thechrisgeislerpodcast

Download My Top 20 Books Every Man Needs To Read:https://books.menofearth.co.uk/Join The Mens Online Community:www.skool.com/menofearth/aboutThe Bear-Intentions GraduationIn 2019 he set out on a mission to simplify wellbeing… a homemade degree in order to study the simplest ways to manage stress- tension.He set himself 4 years of challenges;To Listen: Year 1 - 365 day vow of silenceTo Play: Year 2 - 365 days of wearing only fancy dress/costumesTo Love: Year 3 - 365 days of serviceTo Empower: Year 4 - 365 days barefoot====== BEAR =====IG ▶ https://www.instagram.com/bearintentionsWEBSITE ▶ https://www.bearintentions.com/====== CHRIS GEISLER ======WEBSITE ▶ thechrisgeisler.comMens Community ▶ www.skool.com/menofearth/about====== SUPPORT ======Support The Podcast: www.patreon.com/thechrisgeislerTelegram: https://t.me/thechrisgeislerpodcast

Download My Top 20 Books Every Man Needs To Read:https://books.menofearth.co.uk/Join The Mens Online Community: www.skool.com/menofearth/aboutCrops Not Shops - is a transformative movement that seeks to restore a deep connection between people, food, and community. Rooted in the belief that true well-being arises from harmony with the earth, this initiative is dedicated to creating self-sufficient, off-grid regenerative communities, where the values of food sovereignty, earth stewardship, and mutual care take centre stage.====== CROPS NOT SHOPS =====IG ▶   / cropsnotshops  JOIN THE MOVEMENT ▶ https://www.cropsnotshops.co.uk/Soverign Village Project ▶ https://mylittlefarm.co.uk/pages/sove...====== CHRIS GEISLER ======WEBSITE ▶ thechrisgeisler.comMens Community ▶ www.skool.com/menofearth/about====== SUPPORT ======Support The Podcast: www.patreon.com/thechrisgeislerTelegram: https://t.me/thechrisgeislerpodcast

Download My Top 20 Books Every Man Needs To Read:https://books.menofearth.co.uk/Join The Mens Online Community:www.skool.com/menofearth/aboutThe Great Kasrani is a storyteller of the ancient world, a bridge between cultures, and a guardian of ancestral memory. Born in the mountains of the land of Ashur/Iraq, he carries the voice of Mesopotamia into the future through music, language, and living tradition. His work weaves Assyrian wisdom with global indigenous knowledge, reminding humanity that we are not separate from the earth, nor from each other.====== KASRANI =====IG ▶ https://www.instagram.com/the_great_kasrani/GO FUND ME ▶ gofund.me/93753dcd8====== CHRIS GEISLER ======WEBSITE ▶ thechrisgeisler.comMens Community ▶ www.skool.com/menofearth/about====== SUPPORT ======Support The Podcast: www.patreon.com/thechrisgeislerTelegram: https://t.me/thechrisgeislerpodcastCHAPTERS===0:00 - Intro0:16 - Early Life / Growing Up2:54 - Religion, Culture & Love8:49 - Are We Spiritually Orphaned?11:24 - What Is Happening To Culture?12:56 - Creating A New System18:00 - LIVE Magic Show23:46 - Kasrani Social Media Journey32:16 - Conscious Festivals Scene38:45 - Problem With Transaction Culture41:39 - Does Gift Economy Work47:34 - Giving From The Right Place56:25 - There Are No Self-Less Good Deeds1:22:44 - Many Years As A NoMAD1:08:07 - You Need To Pray In The Morning1:18:40 - Wants Vs Needs

Download My Top 20 Books Every Man Needs To Read:https://books.menofearth.co.uk/Join The Mens Online Community:https://www.skool.com/menofearth/aboutIn this episode, I sit down with Pierre-Etienne Vannier to explore the intersection of trauma healing, facilitation, and spiritual practice. Pierre-Etienne trains Practitioners to Master Somatic Trauma Healing & Create Transformational Client Results & Founder of “Embodied Resilience Mastery Program” - he shares how his journey from international management to somatic and spiritual work has shaped his understanding of what true healing requires.We discuss the importance of nervous system regulation as the primary “medicine” a facilitator offers, the power of titration and safety in trauma work, and why embodied experience matters more than intellectual knowledge. Pierre-Etienne also speaks to the spiritual dimension of healing — drawing on Sufi and Islamic traditions that invite remembrance, surrender, and connection to something greater.If you’re a facilitator, therapist, or seeker interested in the art of holding space and walking the path of embodied healing, this conversation is for you.TIMESTAMPS=======00:00 - Intro01:54 - How Was Humanwork Experience?10:36 - The Western World12:14 - Who Is Pierre?14:58 - Wisdom Of Nervous System Work20:21 - What does it take to change?24:34 - How To Create Safety28:10 - What's In the way of Safety?32:14 - Is The Awakening Happening?34:06 - Integrity In Healing Spaces?39:01 - Why Do We Lack Spiritual Connection43:47 -Do You Lack Faith?55:03 - Don't Get Stuck In One State59:14 - Working With People To Heal1:05:35 - How Can We Tell What Works?====== PIERRE =====IG ▶ https://www.instagram.com/pevannier/?hl=enWEBSITE ▶ https://embodiedresilience.co/https://embodiedresilience.co/Join Pierre In Egypt - https://embodiedresilience.co/sinai-immersion====== CHRIS GEISLER ======WEBSITE ▶ thechrisgeisler.comMens Community ▶ https://www.skool.com/menofearth/about====== PODCAST ======Support The Podcast: https://www.patreon.com/thechrisgeislerTelegram: https://t.me/thechrisgeislerpodcast

Download My Top 20 Books Every Man Needs To Read:https://books.menofearth.co.uk/Join The Mens Online Community:https://www.skool.com/menofearth/aboutIn 2020, Zach’s life took an unexpected turn when he broke his neck and had a near-death experience. It was a profound moment that changed everything. During his recovery, the urge to begin sewing arose naturally and immediately. This new practice became a vital part of his healing process—both physically and emotionally. For the past four years, he has been weaving threads into the same tapestry, pouring his heart and spirit into every stitch while repeating the mantra, “May this stitch bring peace to many people.”====== ZACH =====IG ▶ https://www.instagram.com/nuestro_nanamoli/WEBSITE ▶ https://www.nuestronanamoli.com/====== CHRIS GEISLER ======WEBSITE ▶ thechrisgeisler.comMens Community ▶ https://www.skool.com/menofearth/about====== PODCAST ======Support The Podcast: https://www.patreon.com/thechrisgeislerTelegram: https://t.me/thechrisgeislerpodcast

Join - https://www.the-field.com/onlineListen to my Podcast With Rachel Rickards - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oSk3vmVQHUc&t=156sCatherine Hale is a transformative coach and educator specialising in nervous system coaching and leadership. She empowers clients, including coaches and leaders, to harness post-traumatic growth and align with their deepest purpose.Catherine advocates for heart-centred entrepreneurs to redefine their relationship with abundance, promoting businesses that resonate with their nervous systems and thrive authentically. Beyond personal transformation, Catherine champions trauma-informed practices, emphasising safe, compassionate spaces for healing and growth. She leads efforts to create a culture of care in coaching and facilitation, ensuring practitioners meet clients with empathy and understanding, fostering profound and lasting transformations.====== CATHERINE =====IG ▶ https://www.instagram.com/catherinehaleuk/WEBSITE ▶ https://catherinehale.co.uk/LINKS ▶ linktr.ee/CatherineHale.co.uk====== CHRIS GEISLER ======WEBSITE ▶ thechrisgeisler.comMens Community ▶ https://www.skool.com/menofearth/about====== PODCAST ======Support The Podcast: https://www.patreon.com/thechrisgeislerTelegram: https://t.me/thechrisgeislerpodcastSave 10% on https://mmmcacao.earth/ - CJ10https://mmmcacao.earth/?sca_ref=8361562.Ki9CfmGxJW