bh227: checking out Secret Desire

Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast.  In this episode we talk about Mrs H's birthday, review the recent Ssocial Club and SCN hotel takeover event and explore a bit of a meltdown from Mr H at the event. If you've ever struggled at an event, worked to figure out your approach or felt a bit left out - this might be a helpful one.  Extra note Mr H here (although TBF, it's always me!). I've thought long and hard (that's what she said) about posting this one. As the title suggests, I might have had a bit of a toys out of the pram sulky sulk whilst attending an event. It happens. There's a whole host of issues behind it but we thought it was important to share the story. I'm really conscious that we don't always get it right. This is one of those moments. We've had some fun times and we've had struggles too. There's much to adore about swinging and the lifestyle - but there can be tough moments where your brain doesn't help you. That's why I've decided to share it, explain why I flounced off declaring 'I'm never doing this again' and what we've been doing to prevent this in the future. I know it's another negative moment, I realise that we have these more than I'd like. But I want to be honest about my experience. I hope you find it useful. Handy links: Find out more about SSocial Club: https://www.instagram.com/the_ssocial_club/ Find out more about SCN: https://www.instagram.com/thesouthcoastnetwork/  

In this mini-episode we talk about a new club that's opened near us run by the Secret Desires team. We pop along for opening night and explore the new venue. We chat about our experience, how the night ended for us and why Mrs H decided to wear some very transparent garments along the way. We had a fun time - and recommend you check out the space if you get the chance! Thanks for hopping into our podcast! Handy links Check out Secret Desires on SwingHub here (on mobile): https://qr.swhub.me/page-49/i2jwcn

Thanks for checking out our podcast. In this episode we take a look at swinging in the media - with a couple of different sides to the story. The first is a serious chat about a recent BBC news article and podcast series on a woman called Ruth, who says she was pressured into having sex with strangers through the Fabswingers website more than 100 times. The second is a bit of a download around recent movie The Invite, staring Olivia Wilde, Seth Rogan, Penelope Cruz and Edward Norton. We talk about how things have been portrayed in the media, the up and downsides and share our feelings on how much responsibility swinger sites have. If you've experienced the podcast or the movie, get in touch with us and let us know what you thought - [email protected].  Thanks for hopping into our bed! Handy links Here's a link to the story on the BBC: https://www.bbc.co.uk/mediacentre/2026/bbc-sounds-podcast-swingers And you can listen to the podcast here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/p0ns3q5d Here's the IMDB link to the Invite: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt14173636/?ref_=fn_t_1  

Trigger warning: There are some tough themes in this episode including hospitals, operations, trauma and near death descriptions. If any of these impact you, you might want to skip this one. In this episode we cover what's been going on and why this month has perhaps been the toughest we've ever faced. During a routine operation Mrs H goes into anaphylactic shock - we talk about what happened, what it meant for us and how she's doing several weeks on. We take the opportunity to thank family and friends for their help, care and support. Hopefully normal service will resume shortly. Thanks for hopping into our bed.

Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast. In this episode we interview filmmakers Dillon and Urvashi, who discuss their documentary ‘More Than Monogamy’. The film is designed to educate on ethical non-monogamy - and is a fantastic beginners guide to swinging, ENM and more. Dillon and Urvashi talk about some of the trials of getting the film made, why they set out to explore the topic and tell us a little bit about their own journeys in swinging. We cover the positives and negatives of the swinging lifestyle and have some fun along the way. If you’re thinking of taking your first steps in ethical non monogamy, are looking to find out more about it or would just like to watch a film about the topic - this could be the movie for you. Check out the links below for more info. Hope you enjoy the interview - as ever, thanks for hopping into our bed.   Handy links You can find the More than monogamy film here: https://www.morethanmonogamy.com/ Check out Dillon’s other films here: https://www.allthebirdsllc.com/ And find Urvashi’s erotica here: https://sparkerotic.com/  

Welcome to the bed hoppers podcast.  In this episode, we revamp the show a little bit and also interview the delightful Bex and Paul from untamed nights. We talk about their journey, how they got started and what it's like running events. They offer some top tips for heading to events and how to make the most of your experience. We cover items for desert islands and have a great natter about all things swinger lifestyle.  We hope you enjoy the new stuff - thanks for hopping into our bed. Handy links You can find out more about untamed nights here: https://www.untamednights.co.uk/ Want to come along to one of our events - reach out at [email protected]   

Hello and welcome to episode 222 - the last of season one! In this edition Mrs H poses some questions around performative sexy times. Do you put on a show when you play with someone? Is it performative or are you just being you? We talk about putting on a show and if that's our bag, what we do for solo dates and if we prep more for other people. It's a fun little end to the first season of the bed hoppers podcast.  Until season two arrives, thanks for hopping into our bed!

In this episode we recount our visit to Bristol Gardens Health Spa in Brighton. We talk about the venue being a professional naturist spa and its features, including a cafe, steam rooms, and private themed playrooms. We ponder if it’s a hook up place or somewhere to relax and unwind… Take a listen to our review to find out more. We also mark our podcast’s eight-year anniversary. Mr. H reflects on the personal "cost" of production, including the intensive editing time and the emotional toll of negative online feedback. We talk about the future of the show and how you can get involved. Got thoughts? Email us at [email protected] This one has something for everyone! Thanks for hopping into our bed.

Welcome to the latest edition of the bed hoppers podcast. We're back after a few weeks of illness for Mr H. We talk about what we've been up to since Christmas and New Year and take a look at what we've got coming up. Mr H asks Mrs H if we're really swingers - and what all of this stuff means to us. Are we successful, would or should we change things? Is our approach moving along? It's a pretty big discussion that gets a little pokey (don't worry though - we're all good, promise!). We hope you enjoy it or can take something from it - it was important for us to work through some of these questions, even if we don't know the answers! If you've had similar discussions, thoughts or theories, we'd love to hear from you - reach out to [email protected]. Until then, thanks for hopping into our bed!

In this episode we invite sexy friends Secret Stag and Secret Vixen behind the mic once more and catch up on what they've been up to over the last year. They talk about adventures in hot wifing, a trip to a hotwife takeover event in the states, answer our questions and share some of their sexiest moments. We cover how they're going in their lifestyle journey and look to what 2026 might mean for them.  It's a handy episode if you've been following them, are interested in hotwifing and hot wife events and if you're up for a cheeky little conversation. Thanks for hopping into our bed.