356. Turning Behavior Support into a Promise of Care: Featuring Tim Grivois

What if behavior support wasn’t a system to manage but a promise to keep? In this inspiring episode of Aspire to Lead, Joshua Stamper and guest Tim Grivois explore how leaders can transform traditional approaches to behavior into authentic commitments to student well-being and inclusion. Drawing from his experiences as a teacher, principal, and consultant, Tim challenges the norms of PBIS and “Check-In/Check-Out” systems, offering strategies that center relationships, trust, and belonging. Together, they unpack how to empower staff through meaningful professional learning, better support students with ADHD, and model true self-care that sustains both educators and school culture. About Tim Grivois: Dr. Tim Grivois believes professional development should feel like a conversation about something we are building together, not a compliance exercise. After more than twenty-two years as a teacher, school leader, and now the Executive Director of TGS Educational Consulting, Tim helps schools design learning experiences that respect how adults learn and make it easier to live the learning out loud in classrooms the next day. Through TGS, Tim partners with schools and districts across the country to simplify PBIS, Check-In/Check-Out (CICO), social-emotional learning, and ADHD-inclusive practices so they feel more human and less like paperwork. His sessions are known for being practical, relational, and fun, creating space for educators to laugh, connect, and try new ideas without fear of getting it wrong. A teacher once told him, “I was going to call out sick today, but I saw you on the calendar and decided not to.” That is the kind of PD Tim aims to create. Tim writes and speaks about adult learning, educator wellness, behavior support, and ADHD in ways that connect research to everyday realities. He believes that when educators feel safe, seen, and trusted, they learn better, and when professional learning feels relevant and collaborative, everyone wins. Tim lives in Tucson, Arizona, where he spends time cooking for his family, lifting heavy circles at the gym, and exploring the desert with his partner and kids. His guiding principle is simple: professional learning should honor the people doing the learning and invite everyone to live the learning out loud together. Follow Tim Grivois Website:www.tgseducationalconsulting.com Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/tgseducationalconsulting/ Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/tgsedconsultingLinkedin:https://www.linkedin.com/in/timothygrivois/YouTube:@timgrivois153 -- NEW Aspire to Lead Cohort: Join the December 1st Launch Ready to move from teacher to administrator? The Aspire to Lead Cohort is a monthly leadership program designed for educators pursuing administrative roles. <span style="font-weight:...

What happens when two longtime collaborators reunite to reimagine how we grow as leaders? In this uplifting episode of Aspire to Lead, Jeff Gargas joins Joshua Stamper to celebrate the return of authentic connection, collaboration, and purpose in leadership development. Together, they reflect on their early podcasting days, explore the challenges today’s leaders face, and unveil Joshua’s newest project—the Aspire to Lead Cohort, a transformational experience built for educators who crave meaningful growth, connection, and accountability. From personalized leadership assessments to live workshops and dynamic peer communities, Josh shares how this new model is helping educators rediscover their “why” and sustain their momentum all year long. Whether you’re an aspiring leader finding your footing or a seasoned administrator seeking renewal, this episode will reignite your passion for learning, leading, and belonging in community. &nbsp; Aspire to Lead Cohort: Join the December 1st Launch Ready to move from teacher to administrator? The Aspire to Lead Cohort is a monthly leadership program designed for educators pursuing administrative roles. Get expert training, peer accountability, interview prep, and a clear roadmap to advance your career. December 1st cohort launching soon. Limited spots available. READY TO JOIN? Apply for the Aspire to Lead Cohort: https://bit.ly/47xWzIu Limited spots available. Next cohort starts 12/1/25 📧 QUESTIONS? Email me: [email protected] #1 New Release, “The Language of Behavior” is NOW Available!  The Language of Behavior is an essential guide for school leaders committed to transforming their school culture and addressing student behavior through a more compassionate, effective approach. Drawing on their extensive experience in education, Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper challenge outdated disciplinary practices and offer a clear, trauma-informed framework that empowers educators to interpret student behavior as a form of communication. Through three core tenets—Consider the Environment, Explore the Root Causes of Behavior, and Respond with Intentionality—this book equips leaders with actionable strategies to foster positive behavior, build stronger relationships, and cultivate a more supportive school climate. Packed with real-world case studies, evidence-based practices, and insights into the lasting effects of childhood trauma, The Language of Behavior provides school leaders with the tools to create lasting, meaningful change. It offers a roadmap to reduce behavior issues, re-engage students and staff, and establish a culture of accountability and empathy. This book is not just a reference—it’s a call to lead with vision and transform how we approach discipline, ensuring every student has the opportunity to thrive. Bulk Orders: https://www.connectedd.org/bulk-orders Need a Presenter for a conference or school PD? Contact <a...

What if the secret to great leadership was hidden in the elements that shape our world? Educator and author Tyler Comeau believes it is. From the frozen courts of the Northwest Territories to international stages, Tyler’s journey has been one of discovery—of purpose, resilience, and the fire that fuels authentic leadership. In this episode of Aspire to Lead, Joshua Stamper and Tyler unpack The Elemental Leader—a framework where Earth grounds your values, Air strengthens your perseverance, Water nurtures your adaptability, and Fire ignites innovation and action. Through powerful stories and research-based insights, Tyler challenges leaders to think differently about growth, purpose, and balance. This isn’t just another leadership conversation—it’s a call to realign, recharge, and rediscover your spark. If you’ve ever felt pulled between the weight of responsibility and the need for renewal, this episode will remind you that great leadership begins where your roots meet your flame. About Tyler Comeau: Tyler Comeau is a dedicated educator, leader, and lifelong learner with a passion for pushing the boundaries of traditional education. As a Doctoral Candidate of Education in Educational Leadership from the University of Saskatchewan (2026 Completion) and a Master of Education in Educational Administration, Tyler has a robust academic and professional background. Tyler’s career spans various roles, including Principal and Assistant Principal within the province of Alberta and teaching positions in the provinces of Alberta and Saskatchewan. His extensive experience includes leading staff and students through outdoor education programs, curricular structure, optimizing engagement, operationalizing a mission and vision, supporting individuals, FNMI engagement, and coaching numerous athletic activities. Follow Tyler Comeau Website:https://elementaleducator.com/Twitter:https://x.com/elementaleducYouTube:https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLw4aYyzvNj52DGnQUXx20ynivtJIK_wU5Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/elemental_educatorPodcast:elementaleducator.podbean.com -- Unlock Your Leadership Potential: Free LIVE Event Aspire to Lead Cohort — Exclusive Info Session with Joshua Stamper October 30th, 7:00pm ET (30 Minutes Live on Zoom) Are school demands leaving you overwhelmed and unsure how to advance your leadership career? <span...

What keeps great leaders and teachers going when the work feels heavy and the energy starts to fade?  In this heart-centered conversation, my amazing guest, Dr. Julie Schmidt Hasson, explores what it truly means to sustain passion in education, long after the initial excitement wears off. Together, we unpack the practices that fuel resilience, the power of self-compassion in leadership, and the small moments of joy that remind us why we chose this work in the first place. If you’ve ever felt your battery running low, this episode offers more than motivation. It's a gentle reminder that thriving leaders don’t just pour into others; they learn how to refill themselves too. About Dr. Julie Schmidt Hasson: Dr. Julie Schmidt Hasson is an Associate Professor in School Administration at Appalachian State University and the founder of the Teacher Recharge project. Julie’s research on teacher resilience, engagement, and impact is the heart of her keynotes, training programs, and her TEDx Talk, The Teachers We Remember. Julie is the author of four books, including Pause, Ponder, and Persist in the Classroom. Julie is a former classroom teacher and school principal, now on a mission to help educators stay longer, grow stronger, and keep making an impact. Follow Dr. Julie Schmidt Hasson Website:teacherrecharge.com Twitter (X): @julieshassonInstagram: @julieshassonFacebook: Julie Schmidt HassonLinkedin: Julie Schmidt HassonYouTube: Julie Schmidt Hasson -- Unlock Your Leadership Potential: Free LIVE Event Aspire to Lead Cohort — Exclusive Info Session with Joshua Stamper October 30th, 7:00pm ET (30 Minutes Live on Zoom) Are school demands leaving you overwhelmed and unsure how to advance your leadership career? Do you want practical strategies, community support, and direct mentorship to break through barriers? Join Joshua Stamper for a powerful, free LIVE event: Discover how the Aspire to Lead Cohort transforms educators into confident, influential leaders — and get answers to your burning questions! Why Attend This Event? Understand the main...

In this special episode, Joshua Stamper welcomes Kim Gameroz to announce the launch of the Aspire to Lead Cohort. Discover how this exclusive program was designed to address the real challenges aspiring leaders face, and learn about the community, mentorship, and practical strategies that make this cohort the answer for educators seeking to advance their leadership careers. Hear personal stories, program highlights, and exciting opportunities for listeners to join this transformative journey. For more information about the Aspire to Lead Cohorts, go to https://joshstamper.com/leadership-cohorts/ About Kim Gameroz Kim Gameroz, M.Ed., is a change agent and founder of Teaching Inside Out, revolutionizing classrooms through a systematic approach to teaching social and emotional skills. With over 15 years of experience coaching, training, and mentoring educators, students, and families globally, Kim has spoken at numerous conferences, consults for school districts, serves on SEL panels, and contributes to various publications and podcasts. Through Teaching Inside Out, as well as her second company, SELebrate Good Times, she has created a supportive community for heart-centered educators nationwide where she is committed to making teachers feel seen, valued, and SELebrated at her events and teacher retreats. Kim's upcoming book, "Becoming The Bison," is set to be published in 2025.  She currently resides in Dallas, Texas with her husband, Shaun, and son, Wyatt, and is looking forward to spreading her knowledge of SEL and best practices in teaching even further to schools, districts, and homes around the world.  Visit SELebrate Good Times to learn more about the teacher community that is changing lives all over the country, and her annual National SELebration: The Bloom! Follow Kim Gameroz: Website:SELebrateGoodTimes.comandTeachingInsideOut.comInstagram:@SELebrateGoodTimesandTeaching_Inside_OutLinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/kim-gameroz-18144b1b0/ Private Facebook Group:Becoming the B.I.S.O.N. Unlock Your Leadership Potential: Free LIVE Event Aspire to Lead Cohort — Exclusive Info Session with Joshua Stamper October 30th, 7:00pm ET (30 Minutes Live on Zoom) Are school demands leaving you overwhelmed and unsure how to...

In this inspiring episode of Aspire to Lead, Joshua Stamper is joined by Jill and Mary, the powerhouse co-founders of Girls Mentorship, an Arizona-based organization helping tween and teen girls unlock their confidence, build emotional intelligence, and navigate life’s challenges with strength and self-awareness. Together, they dive into the importance of teaching personal development skills early, the role of mentorship in shaping young leaders, and how their POWER Framework—Perspective, Ownership, Worthiness, Empowered, and Reassurance—transforms the way girls see themselves and their potential. Jill and Mary’s energy, humor, and heartfelt stories will leave you inspired to foster growth, resilience, and empowerment in the next generation of changemakers. About Jill and Mary: Jill &amp; Mary are the co-founders of Girls Mentorship, an Arizona-based organization on a mission to empower tween and teen girls with the life and personal development skills they don’t always learn in school. Through 1:1 coaching, after-school programs, action-packed summer camps, and workshops, they help girls build confidence, navigate tricky friendships, and develop a strong sense of self. Together, Jill &amp; Mary bring a unique mix of fun and heart to their work—they make tough topics like self-esteem, social media, and body image relatable and approachable for both girls and parents. Over the past four years, they’ve built a movement that’s touched hundreds of families, schools, and communities, all rooted in their signature POWER framework: Perspective, Ownership, Worthiness, Empowered, and Reassurance. Known for their energy, humor, and ability to connect with audiences of all ages, Jill &amp; Mary are more than mentors—they’re community builders who believe every girl deserves the tools to thrive in today’s world. Follow Jill and Mary Website: www.girlsmentorship.com  Instagram: www.instagram.com/girlsmentorship — #1 New Release, "The Language of Behavior" is NOW Available!  https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DVT32KQ1?&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=aspirewebsite-20&amp;linkId=d18e5a44a6582a22d15ee23193af7bb8&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl The Language of Behavior is an essential guide for school leaders committed to transforming their school culture and addressing student behavior through a more compassionate, effective approach. Drawing on their extensive experience in education, Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper challenge outdated disciplinary practices and offer a clear, trauma-informed framework that empowers educators to interpret student behavior as a form of communication. Through three core tenets—Consider the Environment, Explore the Root Causes of Behavior, and Respond with Intentionality—this book equips leaders with actionable strategies to foster positive behavior, build stronger relationships, and cultivate a more supportive school climate. Packed with real-world case studies, evidence-based practices, and insights into the lasting effects of childhood trauma, The Language of Behavior<span...

In this powerful episode of Aspire to Lead, Dr. Rachel Edoho-Eket, co-author of Relational Intelligence, joins me to explore how trust, empathy, and authentic connection transform school leadership. Together, we discuss how leaders can shift from transactional to transformational practices, especially during times of crisis and change.Dr. Edoho-Eket introduces the HOPE framework—Hope, Opportunity, Praise, and Encouragement—as a practical tool for cultivating cultures where teachers feel valued and supported. We also unpack the common communication pitfalls leaders face and share strategies for fostering authentic dialogue that builds stronger relationships across a school community.Finally, we dive into one of the most pressing challenges today: burnout. Dr. Edoho-Eket shares how relational intelligence not only helps leaders model balance but also equips them to create healthier, more sustainable environments for themselves and their teams.If you’re ready to lead with heart and transform the way you connect with your staff, this episode will give you the insights and strategies you need.About Dr. Rachel Edoho-EketDr. Rachel Edoho-Eket is a wife, mother, principal, TEDx speaker, author, and the President of the Maryland Association of Elementary School Principals. With decades as a teacher and leader in public education, she has earned the reputation as a strong instructional leader, passionate educational advocate, and dedicated mentor. As the Principal of a National Blue Ribbon school in Maryland, she is a life-long learner who strives for excellence not only for herself, but also for everyone she serves. She also serves as an adjunct professor at McDaniel College helping to support the personal and professional growth of aspiring and current school leaders, and is an ASCD faculty member.Named as one of the Top 100 Influencers in Education by District Administration magazine, Dr. Edoho-Eket’s belief in fostering meaningful relationships serves as the foundation for everything she does, and her highly effective teaching and leadership style continues to inspire up and coming aspiring teacher leaders. During her educational career, she has proudly served as a classroom teacher, instructional team leader, mentor teacher, Assistant Principal, and Principal. Her first best-selling book, “The Principal’s Journey: Navigating the Path to School Leadership” provides a helpful and practical blueprint for educators to follow as they transition into new leadership roles. Her second bestselling book, "Relational Intelligence: The Key to Exceptional School Leadership" centers on the importance of trusting and authentic relationships as the driver of school success. Dr. Edoho-Eket holds a B.S. in Early Childhood and Elementary Education from Temple University, a M.S. in Curriculum and Instruction from McDaniel College, and a Doctorate in Leadership and Professional Practice from Trevecca Nazarene University.To invite Dr. Edoho-Eket to speak at your next event, please visit: www.racheledohoeket.comFollow Dr. Rachel Edoho-EketWebsite:Dr. Rachel Edoho-Eket&nbsp;Instagram:@racheledohoeketLinkedin:Dr. Rachel Edoho-EketTwitter:@racheledohoeketYoutube:https://www.youtube.com/@racheledoho-eketAmazon:<a href="https://www.amazon.com/author/dr.edoho-eket" rel="noopener noreferrer"...

In this inspiring episode of Aspire to Lead, I sit down with Danny Steele, veteran principal and author of The Instructional Leader in You. Together, we dive into what it truly takes to build a thriving school culture, stay inspired as an educator, and sustain longevity in leadership without burning out. Danny shares his insights from over 12 years as a principal and offers a fresh perspective on how to redefine the role of school leaders in ways that prioritize both staff and student success. Whether you’re looking to reignite your spark or discover new approaches to instructional leadership, this conversation is packed with practical wisdom and encouragement for every educator.About Danny SteeleDanny Steele worked for 31 years in education as a principal, assistant principal, teacher, coach, and assistant professor of Instructional Leadership. In 2005, Steele was recognized as Alabama’s “Assistant Principal of the Year,” and in 2016, he was recognized as Alabama’s “Secondary Principal of the Year.” He has written six books including two with Todd Whitaker, has presented at numerous state and national conferences, and has spoken in school districts around the country. Steele has an undergraduate degree in History from Covenant College; he has an Master’s in History from the University of Alabama, Birmingham, and a Doctorate in Educational Leadership from Samford University. He is the father of three grown children and resides with his wife in Birmingham, Alabama.Follow Danny SteeleWebsite: www.leadershiplearningandculture.com&nbsp;Twitter (X): https://x.com/SteeleThoughts&nbsp;Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/danny-steele-steelethoughts/https://www.amazon.com/Essential-Truths-Principals-Danny-Steele/dp/0367138018?crid=2FWWWWM9UB1O9&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.sOjdRz9lNnOCWG-nxcQH2PoaS6NheJtmPV80ihVNlw1481WUzQIIwW4mbS0Y9bHXY8VXD7pcu_3vBs2bA25x4cnI3QIGU20KJwo6KbIAzq8kwjD_TLypctu8zk_xxYVDB2On50FASbLGAjvMpwn3motSlJ3e-eSBvCCqy-sq1MwbAZs8Um6jLinlreZ5J2EN7w8-Y_5AFy_SetYCT-_-l9NhbXwT6iM_lE8vTgyNH8M.Czy1I3jiMj6Ur8q4ETkw3l619-F8XFmyk1rOfa6pcBY&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=danny+steele&amp;qid=1758492104&amp;s=books&amp;sprefix=danny+steele%2Cstripbooks%2C176&amp;sr=1-2&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=aspirewebsite-20&amp;linkId=9beb445f47a9b62aac2afe0e90bf9727&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tlhttps://www.amazon.com/Quotes-School-Leaders-Danny-Steele/dp/1032076283?crid=2FWWWWM9UB1O9&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.sOjdRz9lNnOCWG-nxcQH2PoaS6NheJtmPV80ihVNlw1481WUzQIIwW4mbS0Y9bHXY8VXD7pcu_3vBs2bA25x4cnI3QIGU20KJwo6KbIAzq8kwjD_TLypctu8zk_xxYVDB2On50FASbLGAjvMpwn3motSlJ3e-eSBvCCqy-sq1MwbAZs8Um6jLinlreZ5J2EN7w8-Y_5AFy_SetYCT-_-l9NhbXwT6iM_lE8vTgyNH8M.Czy1I3jiMj6Ur8q4ETkw3l619-F8XFmyk1rOfa6pcBY&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=danny+steele&amp;qid=1758492142&amp;s=books&amp;sprefix=danny+steele%2Cstripbooks%2C176&amp;sr=1-4&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=aspirewebsite-20&amp;linkId=aaf0bc19ed70a4a2c87fc096635a2922&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl—#1 New Release, "The Language of Behavior" is NOW Available!&nbsp;https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DVT32KQ1?&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=aspirewebsite-20&amp;linkId=d18e5a44a6582a22d15ee23193af7bb8&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tlThe Language of Behavior is an essential guide for school leaders committed to transforming their school culture and addressing student behavior through a more compassionate, effective approach. Drawing on their extensive experience in education, Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper challenge outdated disciplinary...

In this Bonus Episode, Joshua Stamper, co-author of The Language of Behavior, presents at the Thrive Virtual Conference and unpacks three powerful tenets that reshape how we respond to student behavior. In this Thrive session, Josh shares practical strategies educators can implement immediately, including: ✔️ The Push-In Model for real-time student support ✔️ A framework for teaching after mistakes, helping students learn from poor decisions ✔️ The connection between parenting techniques and school procedures, creating consistency that fosters growth and trust This conversation is filled with actionable insights designed to help educators move from reactive discipline to proactive, relationship-centered practices. Walk away with tools you can use tomorrow to transform behavior challenges into opportunities for learning. 👉 Learn more about Joshua Stamper and The Language of Behavior: www.joshstamper.com — Grab your copy of the #1 New Release, "The Language of Behavior"!  https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DVT32KQ1?&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=aspirewebsite-20&amp;linkId=d18e5a44a6582a22d15ee23193af7bb8&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl  The Language of Behavior is an essential guide for school leaders committed to transforming their school culture and addressing student behavior through a more compassionate, effective approach. Drawing on their extensive experience in education, Charle Peck and Joshua Stamper challenge outdated disciplinary practices and offer a clear, trauma-informed framework that empowers educators to interpret student behavior as a form of communication. Through three core tenets—Consider the Environment, Explore the Root Causes of Behavior, and Respond with Intentionality—this book equips leaders with actionable strategies to foster positive behavior, build stronger relationships, and cultivate a more supportive school climate. Packed with real-world case studies, evidence-based practices, and insights into the lasting effects of childhood trauma, The Language of Behavior provides school leaders with the tools to create lasting, meaningful change. It offers a roadmap to reduce behavior issues, re-engage students and staff, and establish a culture of accountability and empathy. This book is not just a reference—it's a call to lead with vision and transform how we approach discipline, ensuring every student has the opportunity to thrive. Bulk Orders: https://www.connectedd.org/bulk-orders  — Need a Presenter for a conference or school PD? Contact Brad Waid to book Joshua Stamper for your next event on Improving Student Behavior, Impacting School Mental Health, or Creating healthy habits. &nbsp; Follow the Host, Joshua Stamper: Contact: https://joshstamper.com/contact/ Twitter: www.twitter.com/Joshua__Stamper Instagram:<a...

What if drug prevention could be exciting, empowering, and led by students themselves? In this episode, Jake White, co-founder of Vive 18, shares his innovative approach to youth drug prevention and mental health awareness. From hosting unforgettable drug-free events to helping students launch their own prevention clubs, Jake has reached thousands of young people with a message of hope and empowerment. Together we explore the importance of engaging youth in substance use prevention, the role of schools in fostering healthier choices, and how his upcoming Prevention Conference &amp; Cruise is building a nationwide movement. This conversation offers practical insights for educators, leaders, and communities committed to shaping a generation that thrives without substances. About Jake White: Jake White started his first company as a college student doing something that many people said was impossible… throwing giant parties… without any drugs or alcohol.  After just a few months he had hundreds of students attending his signature “sober parties”, nationally known sponsors, and media coverage across the U.S…  Today, Jake speaks to middle school, high school and college students all over the country to help them make great decisions.They even have the chance to throw their own sober parties, creating a positive peer-to-peer youth movement in their community.  When Jake isn’t speaking or throwing parties, he likes to play games and sports with his friends, go on adventures with his wife Emily, or cross off items on his bucket list like going on the Price Is Right!  You can learn more about Jake and his prevention platform at vive18.com Free Resources: 5 Ways to Keep Kids Off Drugs, Student Guide to Thrive Without Drugs Follow Jake White:  Website: www.vive18.com  Twitter (X):  Instagram: https://instagram.com/vive18_  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thevive18  Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jakewhitespeaks/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@vive18  <span