It's Not Me, It's You

In this episode, I talk about how we often compartmentalize our interests instead of intertwining them, how to overlap these interests, how we’re taught to separate our passions from our “real” work, understanding what makes us unique, building our own unique lane and life and more.CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ Text Me — 480-530-7352→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Workshops — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:The People Who You Are Your Most Authentic Self With… Those Are Your PeopleApple: https://apple.co/4lZXlEVSpotify: https://spoti.fi/4d4Jo4l

In this episode, I talk about healing our pasts, preparing for our future, how healing isn’t just for relief but for readiness, how self-work is often quite and unglamorous, creating boundaries and strengthening your decision making, building who you need to become and more.CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ Text Me — 480-530-7352→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Workshops — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:The People Who You Are Your Most Authentic Self With… Those Are Your PeopleApple: https://apple.co/4lZXlEVSpotify: https://spoti.fi/4d4Jo4l

In this episode, I talk about why honesty is the single most important thing that connects us, how honesty allows us to feel safe with others, creating honest conversations starts with modeling it, creating the most magnetic relationships, learning to have honest conversations and more.CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ Text Me — 480-530-7352→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Workshops — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:The People Who You Are Your Most Authentic Self With… Those Are Your PeopleApple: https://apple.co/4lZXlEVSpotify: https://spoti.fi/4d4Jo4l

In this episode, I talk about learning from others to avoid common mistakes, connecting multiple ideas across disciplines, how you don’t have to struggle to be worthy, borrowing others’ wisdom but building your own frameworks, how the most successful take things that already exist and make them better and more.CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ Text Me — 480-530-7352→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Workshops — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:What Your Obsessed With Isn’t RandomApple: https://apple.co/42N4xeASpotify: https://spoti.fi/3EElIHi

In this episode, I talk about being around people who see us for who we really are, embracing the evolution of ourselves and others, how to make relationships thrive, staying authentic versus having to alter who you are to make someone comfortable, not judging and more.CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ Text Me — 480-530-7352→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Workshops — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:What Your Obsessed With Isn’t RandomApple: https://apple.co/42N4xeASpotify: https://spoti.fi/3EElIHi

In this episode, I talk about how to make more opportunities and creativity happen with your work, how your pursuit of perfection is hindering your output and outcomes, why iterating your work in public grows you faster, the identify shifts as you evolve in your craft, finding more clarity and more.CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ Text Me — 480-530-7352→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Workshops — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:What Your Obsessed With Isn’t RandomApple: https://apple.co/42N4xeASpotify: https://spoti.fi/3EElIHi

In this episode, I talk about the space between where we are and where we’re heading, why time is always preparation and not punishment, how your character has to match your calling, building your story and character, how you’re not behind but in process and more.CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ Text Me — 480-530-7352→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Workshops — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:What Your Obsessed With Isn’t RandomApple: https://apple.co/42N4xeASpotify: https://spoti.fi/3EElIHi

In this episode, I talk about honesty as the highest form of intimacy, why emotional safety is the foundation of real connection, being able to argue without fear is a sign of a healthy relationship, how you’re not dating a projection of your ideal, stubbornness is part of two autonomous people loving each other, the difference between love and lust and more.CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ Text Me — 480-530-7352→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Workshops — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:What Your Obsessed With Isn’t RandomApple: https://apple.co/42N4xeASpotify: https://spoti.fi/3EElIHi

In this episode, I talk about why comfort will always compete with your calling, how your real assignments will stretch you, how your assignment requires parts of you that you haven’t met yet, choosing your calling over comfort daily, what to do during stretch seasons and more.CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ Text Me — 480-530-7352→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Workshops — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:What Your Obsessed With Isn’t RandomApple: https://apple.co/42N4xeASpotify: https://spoti.fi/3EElIHi

In this episode, I talk about knowing what to commit to, knowing when a season is over and a new one is beginning, evolving a concept or escaping it, how growth can feel invisible before it becomes undeniable, how speed is seductive, being rooted before being recognized and more.CONNECT WITH ME…→ Instagram — @mattgottesman→ Text Me — 480-530-7352→ My Substack — mattgottesman.substack.com → Apparel — thenicheisyou.comRESOURCES…→ Recommended Book List — CLICK HERE→ Workshops — CLICK HERE→ Masterclass — CLICK HEREWORKSHOPS + MASTERCLASS:→ Need MORE clarity? - Here’s the FREE… 6 Days to Clarity Workshop - clarity for your time, energy, money, creativity, work & play→ Write, Design, Build: Content Creator Studio & OS - Growing the niche of you, your audience, reach, voice, passion & incomeOTHER RELATED EPISODES:Devotion To Your Craft Matters More Than the Field You’re InApple: https://apple.co/42ltfnoSpotify: https://spoti.fi/42AGTBT