Ep127: My Successful Partner Finds Other Women Attractive

Join Michaela as she answers a viewer question about the struggles to find a man in one’s 30s and 40s, how to find and align your values, and whether or not the desire for a relationship betrays feminist ideals. 00:00 - Struggling to find a partner in my 30s and 40s 02:05 - Isabel Angélica Allende and intimacy in later life 03:22 - Pros and cons of dating in your 30s and 40s 04:18 - Am I bad feminist for wanting a relationship? 07:28 - Who do you want to attract? 07:56 - Yearning vs neediness? 15:34 - Vulnerability and the risk of relationship 20:39 - Aligning values 22:12 - Defining your core values and not selling out 7:22 - Self-assessment and becoming more dateable 28:10 - Relationship toolkit Buy Michaela’s Flavors of the Feminine Deck: https://www.templeofthebodyintheworld.com/ For workshops, teacher training and courses: https://www.michaelaboehm.com To order Michaela's book "The Wild Woman's Way" : https://amzn.to/2BQ5WpY Music ‘Deva Dasi’ by Steve James at https://www.guruviking.com

Join Michaela as she shares the surprising power of an evening routine, reveals her own evening routine, and offers tips about how to construct your own. 00:00 - On routine 01:16 - Why have an evening routine? 01:41 - Your evening starts in the morning 03:08 - The miracle of the human design 03:35 - Evening sunlight and avoiding bluelight 04:58 - Ancient energy 06:15 - Mental health considerations 06:37 - What makes a good evening routine? 07:01 - Optimising body temperature 08:03 - Hot bath or cold dip? 08:49 - Michaela’s evening routine 11:44 - Michaela’s evening practices and rituals Buy Michaela’s Flavors of the Feminine Deck: https://www.templeofthebodyintheworld.com/ For workshops, teacher training and courses: https://www.michaelaboehm.com To order Michaela's book "The Wild Woman's Way" : https://amzn.to/2BQ5WpY Music ‘Deva Dasi’ by Steve James at https://www.guruviking.com

Join Michaela for an exploration of attachment theory including secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganised styles. Michaela explains each style and answers a viewer question about how to work with avoidant tendencies in otherwise positive long-term relationship. 00:00 - Trends in psychology 02:30 - What is attachment theory? 03:59 - 4 attachment styles 04:31 - Anxious attachment 06:18 - Avoidant attachment 08:22 - Disorganised attachment 09:38 - Secure attachment 13:00 - Truly avoidant? 14:18 - Anxious and avoidant in relationship 15:12 - A lens not a disorder 18:15 - How to work with your attachment style? 26:13 - Fight or flight and regulating the nervous system 32:27 - Lens capture 34:00 - Using NonLinear Movement Method® Buy Michaela’s Flavors of the Feminine Deck: https://www.templeofthebodyintheworld.com/ For workshops, teacher training and courses: https://www.michaelaboehm.com To order Michaela's book "The Wild Woman's Way" : https://amzn.to/2BQ5WpY Music ‘Deva Dasi’ by Steve James at https://www.guruviking.com

Join Michaela and Steve for a Summer catchup as Michaela discusses her own morning routine and Summer practice regime, how to design a personal practice, how to use journalling and other techniques, upcoming creative and teaching projects, and productivity tips. 00:00 - Summer catch-up 02:13 - Michaela’s Summer personal practice 03:30 - What makes a good daily practice? 04:58 - Michaela’s morning routine 08:57 - Extended Summer sequence 10:00 - Morning pages vs journalling 13:31 - How to choose a deity or archetype 16:01 - Creating a masculine flavour deck 19:49 - Unique retreat in Portugal, October 2024 24:34 - Michaela’s muscle building routine 27:52 - How to optimise your schedule 30:28 - Time blocking 31:51 - Freedom App and social media Buy Michaela’s Flavors of the Feminine Deck: https://www.templeofthebodyintheworld.com/ For workshops, teacher training and courses: https://www.michaelaboehm.com To order Michaela's book "The Wild Woman's Way" : https://amzn.to/2BQ5WpY Music ‘Deva Dasi’ by Steve James at https://www.guruviking.com

Michaela Boehm answers questions in a recent live workshop about the pros and cons of dating successful men who find other women attractive. 00:00 - Why does my man still find other women attractive? 02:19 - Pros and cons of dating successful men 06:11 - Using the Coolidge effect to keep the spark alive Buy Michaela’s Flavors of the Feminine Deck: https://www.templeofthebodyintheworld.com/ For workshops, teacher training and courses: https://www.michaelaboehm.com To order Michaela's book "The Wild Woman's Way" : https://amzn.to/2BQ5WpY Music ‘Deva Dasi’ by Steve James at https://www.guruviking.com

Michaela Boehm answers questions in a recent live workshop about dating strategies to find a partner, dating multiple men, and how to regulate fight or flight in relationship. 00:00 - Is it too late for me to find love? 00:44 - Dating strategies to find a partner 03:19 - Dating divorced men 05:06 - Streamlining your dating mission statement 05:44 - Dating multiple men 06:29 - Regulating fight or flight in relationship Buy Michaela’s Flavors of the Feminine Deck: https://www.templeofthebodyintheworld.com/ For workshops, teacher training and courses: https://www.michaelaboehm.com To order Michaela's book "The Wild Woman's Way" : https://amzn.to/2BQ5WpY Music ‘Deva Dasi’ by Steve James at https://www.guruviking.com

Michaela Boehm answers questions in a recent live workshop about female sovereignty throughout history, nature merging, and tells a story of her grandmother’s life struggles. 00:00 - Merging with nature 02:40 - Early morning sun exposure 06:16 - Female sovereignty throughout history 07:54 - Stories about Michaela’s grandmother Buy Michaela’s Flavors of the Feminine Deck: https://www.templeofthebodyintheworld.com/ For workshops, teacher training and courses: https://www.michaelaboehm.com To order Michaela's book "The Wild Woman's Way" : https://amzn.to/2BQ5WpY Music ‘Deva Dasi’ by Steve James at https://www.guruviking.com

Michaela Boehm answers questions in a recent live workshop about sourcing vitality, working with deep patterns, when to use structure and when to loosen up, and why a regulated nervous system is not just being Zen’d out. 00:00 - Working with patterns and sourcing vitality 02:56 - Linear vs Non-Linear Movement 03:43 - Introspective awareness 05:20 - Michaela’s wisdom tooth extraction story 07:09 - Scaffolding vs loosening up 09:13 - Regulated nervous system vs being Zen’ed out 09:40 - PTSD cat Buy Michaela’s Flavors of the Feminine Deck: https://www.templeofthebodyintheworld.com/ For workshops, teacher training and courses: https://www.michaelaboehm.com To order Michaela's book "The Wild Woman's Way" : https://amzn.to/2BQ5WpY Music ‘Deva Dasi’ by Steve James at https://www.guruviking.com

Michaela Boehm answers questions in a recent live workshop about trauma, how to heal maladaptive coping, curating relaxation, and establishing boundaries. 00:00 - What is trauma? 04:00 - The pain of maladaptive coping 06:04 - How to heal what’s underneath 08:00 - Curating relaxation 10:32 - Establishing boundaries in relationships Buy Michaela’s Flavors of the Feminine Deck: https://www.templeofthebodyintheworld.com/ For workshops, teacher training and courses: https://www.michaelaboehm.com To order Michaela's book "The Wild Woman's Way" : https://amzn.to/2BQ5WpY Music ‘Deva Dasi’ by Steve James at https://www.guruviking.com

Michaela Boehm tells a story of how she trained herself to face danger after suffering a home invasion in LA and answers questions in a recent live workshop about how to recovery from traumatic violation, dialogues with a woman who’s massage therapist assaulted her, and describes how to train oneself to be a fighter rather than a freezer. 00:00 - Coping tendencies of victims of violation 01:45 - Becoming a fighter not a freezer 02:54 - Surviving dangerous situations and the genius of freeze 06:40 - Michaela’s story of home invasion 10:03 - How Michaela trained herself to face danger Buy Michaela’s Flavors of the Feminine Deck: https://www.templeofthebodyintheworld.com/ For workshops, teacher training and courses: https://www.michaelaboehm.com To order Michaela's book "The Wild Woman's Way" : https://amzn.to/2BQ5WpY Music ‘Deva Dasi’ by Steve James at https://www.guruviking.com