Sexuality After...

Episode 18: Sexuality After Disability With Andrew Gurza   In this episode, I talk with Disability Educator, Podcast host and Porn Star Andrew Gurza. It was truly a pleasure to talk to Andrew. We had a great conversation about:  - On being disabled and queer  - On making sex education sexy  - How sex workers have helped him heal from sexual trauma  - On cancel culture  - On being objectified  - His sexual superpower  - Why intimacy is so hot  - His biggest sexual regret ... and more!   You can find him on IG and Twitter at @andrewgurza_ and his fantastic podcast Disability After Dark.   You can WATCH this episode on my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D at https://youtu.be/Zuoectiza-0. You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my FB page Phoebe D Coaching or my website, www.phoebed.com. Thank you for listening! :) Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!

In this "bare-bones honest" episode, journalist and creator Rose and I explore so many topics together, about her life of s.exual experiences to date! It's one of my favourite conversations so far.  We talk about:  - S.exual experiences both in long term marriages and casual s.ex  - When you feel like your pleasure is a gift to your partner  - Empowerment vs entitlement  - The quality of s.ex over the years and how it's changed  - From performance based s.ex to pleasure based s.ex  - S.ex as an expression of life  - Men's empowerment  - What makes a good lover  - How to have more and better orgasms  - On celibacy  - Being OK with being old  - On raising teenage boys  - On having adult relationships with your kids   You can find her podcast, IG, Twitter and more under The Eloquent In The Room, and www.theeloquentintheroom.com.    You can WATCH this episode at: https://youtu.be/iZ6qUGY8D1w You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my FB page, Phoebe D. Coaching or my website, www.phoebed.com. Thank you for listening! :) Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!

In this episode of Sexuality After, I have a great conversation with Lori Reichel, host of The Puberty Prof Podcast, creator of the TALK Puberty App, the TALK B4 sex app, author of Common Questions Children Ask About Puberty, and health educator. In this podcast, you will hear things like:  - Why skills are more important than knowledge - How to be a safe place for kids/others - Listening to your inner voice - Why being naive isn't necessarily bad - How to talk to teens about sexuality and what shuts the door on that happening - How childhood sexual trauma can affect kids and the skills to teach them to they can advocate for themselves for healing sooner - The three main things to teach your kids about sex/sexuality/their bodies - The biggest message she would give to parents - On children masturbating and what to do about it .... and more!! You can contact Lori and learn more about ALL the amazing things she is doing by going to: www.LoriReichel.com You can WATCH this episode on my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D. You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my FB page, Phoebe D. Coaching or my website, www.phoebed.com. Thank you for listening! :) Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!

Episode 14: Sexuality After Cheating & Rock Bottom with Liesl Hays   Liesl Hays brings a fantastic and honest conversation to my podcast this week as she talks about always being there for everyone else except for herself, which led to her cheating on her husband and hitting rock bottom, then her climb up, up and up to where she is now- happier and more vibrant than ever! She is an entrepreneur, blogger and author of a book called "Broken, Changed and Rearranged".    We talk about:  - why it's important to put yourself first and what that looks like  - the journey back from cheating within a relationship  - how your emotional life and sexual life are one and the same  - how to listen to the voice of your 'true north' and what that looks like  - how parenthood impacts our sexuality  - sexuality after religion  - masturbation ... and so much more!   You can find her at: www.lieslhays.com and her book at:  https://www.amazon.ca/Broken-Changed-Rearranged-Unbearable-Person/dp/1631955624 You can also WATCH this episode at my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D. You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my FB page or my website, www.phoebed.com. Thank you for listening! :) Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!

In this episode we hear from the beautiful and badass Joy McShane Oyler. Joy is an Empowerment and Sex Coach for Women of a Certain Age. She specializes in "Women who used to love sex but now it's just another f&^%ing thing on their long to-do list".  In this amazing episode, we talk about:  - her "action packed, hellish adventure with menopause"  - sex after years of marriage  - some of the main challenges with sexuality after 50  - the conversation around lube  - why women should reclaim their sexuality as they age - her own journey to finding her ALIVENESS and VIBRANCE in her 50's  - what she desires for women as they age  - the importance of always exploring our pleasure and bodies (because they change)  - sexuality after menopause   You can find her and her wonderful blog and amazing coaching at: www.joymcshaneoyler.com.   I'd love to hear your feedback, and remember to subscribe so you get notified every two weeks when I have a new episode come out! You can also WATCH this episode on my YouTube channel, Tea with Phoebe D.

In this episode we hear from Edy Nathan- a certified sex therapist, hypnotherapist and EMDR pratitioner with more than 20 years of experience. She is a grief therapist and helps people to dance with grief.  We have a great conversation discussing the many ways that grief is connected to our sexuality, and how it often creates problems in our relationships.    We also talk about:  - the merits and downsides of masks  - how grief affects relationships  -how grief affects your body/sexuality  -mental health  - the value of "the cave" and how to get out of it  - on finding the gift in grief  - sexual numbness  - the value of meeting your vu1va  .... among other things!   You can find her at:  linkedin.com/in/edy-nathan  facebook.com/edynathan  IG: @edynathan  Twitter: @edynathan1  www.edynathan.com   I'd love to hear your feedback, and remember to subscribe so you get notified every two weeks when I have a new episode come out!  You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my FB page or my website, www.phoebed.com. Thank you for listening! :) Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!

Kate is a fun, approachable person who has a lot going on! She is a sex blogger, hosts 2 podcasts, and has a book coming out on ways to make your sex life more kinky. She wasn't feeling that great when I interviewed her, but she really showed up and we had such a great conversation! We talk about: - her early sex education and how it made a difference in her life - fun and crazy kinks we have heard of - curiosity, consent and acceptance - what she would like to see change regarding sexuality and much more! You can find her at: Her blog: www.girlyjuice.net Twitter: @Girly_Juice Dildorks Podcast: www.thedildorks.wordpress.com Question Box Podcast: https://www.questionboxshow.com Her book: 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do: https://linktr.ee/101kinkythings You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my FB page or my website, www.phoebed.com. Thank you for listening! :)  Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!

Jacqueline Joy from the Empowered Goddess Project joined me to talk about her journey out of low self image and low body image into LOVING and ACCEPTING and CELEBRATING herself. We talk about: - what IS empowerment anyway? - taking responsibility for your happiness - knowing your value and worth instead of finding it from outside sources - we are all just humans IN PROCESS. She is bright and bubbly and will lighten your day by listening to this podcast with her! You can find her at: Website: https://www.jacquelinejoy.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jacqueline.curl.9 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jacquelinejoycoach/ You can connect with me (Phoebe D.) through this YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my podcast, Sexuality After, my FB page Phoebe D. Coaching or my website, www.phoebed.com.  Thank you for listening! :)  Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!

Episode 9: Sexuality After Religion... and Into Kink with Gwen  I find Gwen totally fascinating and I think you will too!   In this podcast we talk about what most people would consider some fairly extreme kinks, so if that's not your thing, then this may not be the podcast for you :) You've been warned! lol.   I LOVE it though because Gwen is really open to what turns her on and because of that helps us to understand our own kinks or other people's.    We talk about:  - her journey out of religion and where she is now with her spirituality  - her journey into and out of veganism  - her journey with disgust  - her sex life and her kinks   You can find her at: The Off The Cuffs Podcast (A kink and BDSM podcast),   Instagram: bidaily666  Twitter: bidaily666  Onlyfans: bidaily666   You can connect with me through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my FB page or my website, www.phoebed.com.   Thank you for listening! :) Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!

In this episode, I bring on my husband as a co-host and we have a couple-to-couple chat about life after marriage and parenthood with the hosts of the podcast Sex, Lies and Parenthood, Rachel and Mark. We have a ton of fun and laughs in this episode as we talk about: -finding new "firsts",  -the most challenging things about sex when you're also parents,  -on jealousy -our messy stories of how we got together,  -and more! You can find them at the fun and real-life podcast Sex, Lies and Parenthood- "What happens when a self-confessed sex addict marries a know-it-all bitch with 24 years of experience in entertainment and they start a podcast?" These two happen! They are open and honest and you see life as it is without the filters. It's fantastic. www.sexliesandparenthood.com You can WATCH this episode at: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=frtxWnaahcM You can connect with me (Phoebe D.) through my YouTube Channel, Tea with Phoebe D, my podcast, Sexuality After, my FB page Phoebe D. Coaching or my website, www.phoebed.com.  Thank you for listening! :)  Stay tuned for another conversation every 2 weeks!