Oh Crap with Jamie

Love the show? You can support me and the production directly here: https://venmo.com/u/Jamie-Glowacki-1We all need to vent sometimes. Especially as moms. But there's a big difference between blowing off steam with a girlfriend and unloading your deepest trauma onto strangers on the internet.And social media? Probably not the best place for either.In this episode, Jamie dives into the difference between trauma dumping and venting, why our obsession with sharing everything online might actually be keeping us stuck, and why real-life connection matters more than ever.She also gets into her growing frustration with short-form content, where nuance goes to die and everyone seems ready to react to a single word without listening to the actual conversation.Jamie explores why being seen and heard online isn't the same as being truly witnessed by another person. A heart emoji or a supportive comment might feel good for a moment, but it can't replace the kind of connection that happens when someone sits beside you, listens, and holds space for what you're going through.And while venting is a necessary part of motherhood, Jamie makes the case for being intentional about where, how, and with whom we share our frustrations. Especially when those frustrations involve our children.Because constantly talking about how difficult our kids are can change the way we see them. And our digital footprints? Those don't just disappear.In this episode, Jamie discusses:The difference between trauma dumping and healthy ventingWhy social media isn't the place to process your deepest woundsHow online validation can keep us focused on negative experiencesThe importance of being truly witnessed and supported in real lifeWhy moms need girlfriends and a real-life villageThe dangers of constantly sharing our children's struggles onlineHow childhood trauma can influence the way we parentWhy parenting from a place of fear can leave us paralyzedThe pressure to break generational cycles perfectlyWhy making mistakes, taking accountability, and repairing are essential parts of parentingHow short-form content is making meaningful conversations increasingly difficultJamie also reminds us that breaking generational cycles doesn't mean becoming a perfect parent.You're going to lose your patience. You're going to make mistakes. Some days you'll feel like you've got this motherhood thing figured out, and other days you'll be completely wobbly.That's parenting.The important thing isn't getting everything right. It's showing up, taking accountability when you get it wrong, and learning how to move forward.So grab a beverage, put down the pressure to be perfect, and join Jamie for a conversation about healing, connection, motherhood, and why sometimes the best thing you can do is get off your phone and find your people.

Love the show? You can support me and the production directly here: ⁠https://venmo.com/u/Jamie-Glowacki-1⁠Where Did the Village Go? How to Actually Build One with Mallory Le DucEveryone says, “It takes a village.”But what happens when it feels like the village is nowhere to be found?In this episode, Jamie sits down with Mallory Le Duc, the woman behind The Village Calling, for a kitchen-table conversation about what it actually takes to create community in a world that has become increasingly isolated.And here's the thing: your village probably isn't going to magically show up at your front door.You have to build it.Jamie and Mallory talk about how the rise of the nuclear family, social media, short-form content, hyper-independence, and our obsession with protecting our peace have slowly disconnected us from the messy, imperfect relationships humans have always relied on. They explore the strange contradiction of modern motherhood: we're desperate to feel seen and supported, while simultaneously shutting people out of our homes and lives. They also get into one of the biggest barriers to real-life connection: our phones. Online communities can give us just enough connection to temporarily satisfy our need for people—without actually giving us the deep relationships, witnessing, reliability, and support we're craving. But building a village doesn't have to start with hosting twenty people for dinner.It can start with a text.A walk.Remembering someone's big appointment.Bringing something when you're invited over.Inviting the mom from the playground to meet again—even if you're terrified she'll think you're needy.And sometimes, being willing to be the person who reaches out again when they didn't reach out to you. Jamie and Mallory also unpack why community isn't supposed to be perfectly reciprocal. Some seasons you'll give more. Other seasons you'll desperately need someone else to carry you. The point isn't keeping score; it's creating relationships strong enough to hold all of it. Mallory's Instagram

Love the show? You can support me and the production directly here: ⁠https://venmo.com/u/Jamie-Glowacki-1⁠We're going through the myriad of ways airway issues can impact your child. I accidentally get diagnosed on air, LOL.If you're struggling with your mom authority, join me: Lead Like A MotherSeptember is open: https://www.jamieglowacki.com/lead-like-a-motherIf you need potty training help: https://bit.ly/4cMpsojIf motherhood is making you overwhelmed, overstimulated, and burnt tf out, I can help. You may know me as the author of Oh Crap Potty Training and Oh Crap, I Have a Toddler but in the last few years, I've been obsessed with moms...and they are not okay. My work has veered off into helping moms find ease and confidence in their mothering. If you are struggling, check out my classes and live calls at jamieglowacki.com

Love the show? You can support me and the production directly here: ⁠https://venmo.com/u/Jamie-Glowacki-1⁠What if the biggest thing making motherhood harder… isn't your child?What if it's the endless stream of parenting advice telling you exactly what to do, what to say, and what you're getting wrong?In this episode, Jamie shares why she's "pulling out of the parenting industrial complex" and making a major shift in her work. After more than 25 years of working with families, she's seeing a troubling pattern: moms have more parenting information than ever before, yet they feel less confident than ever.Instead of helping, the explosion of parenting content has left many mothers second-guessing every instinct, outsourcing their authority to experts, and feeling like they need another script, strategy, or tip before they can make a decision.Jamie unpacks how we got here—from the rise of the nuclear family and parenting "experts" to the explosion of social media, TikTok psychology, and the misunderstanding of gentle parenting. She argues that the real issue isn't a lack of information. It's a loss of confidence.In this episode, Jamie discusses:Why modern parenting advice may be making motherhood harderThe rise of the "fix my kid" mentalityHow social media has replaced nuance with sound bitesWhy parenting advice without context often falls flatThe difference between information and authorityThe evolution of motherhood from the 1950s through todayHow the village disappeared—and experts filled the gapThe unintended consequences of the gentle parenting movementWhy so many moms are parenting from fear instead of confidenceWhat it really means to "lead like a mother"Most importantly, Jamie makes the case that you don't need another parenting script.You need to trust yourself again.Because no expert, book, or Instagram reel knows your child better than you do.This episode is an invitation to step off the parenting advice treadmill, reclaim your authority, and lead your family with confidence instead of constant self-doubt.

Love the show? You can support me and the production directly here: ⁠https://venmo.com/u/Jamie-Glowacki-1⁠True child-led play is the child's choice, they make the rules, and they can leave when they want. It is NOT adult-led, adult-supervised sports or activities. It's vital for vestibular and proprioceptive inputs and it's an agent for regulation of the nervous system. For MOMS TOO. Move your body, lift heavy things, and move the energy.The categories of movement: Crawling & Cross-BodyWeight Bearing Through Hands & Shoulders, Jumping & LandingBalance & Core, Climbing, Hanging & Pulling, Throwing & CatchingSpinning & Vestibular, Heavy Workhappy mom potty training chat If motherhood is making you overwhelmed, overstimulated, and burnt tf out, I can help. You may know me as the author of Oh Crap Potty Training and Oh Crap, I Have a Toddler but in the last few years, I've been obsessed with moms...and they are not okay. My work has veered off into helping moms find ease and confidence in their mothering. If you are struggling, check out my classes and live calls at jamieglowacki.com

Love the show? You can support me and the production directly here: ⁠https://venmo.com/u/Jamie-Glowacki-1⁠It's so easy to think our kids need fixing....but it's almost always an US problem or an environment problem. Most parenting "scripts" don't work because they're attempting to fix the child. Behavior is always communication and it's our job to translate that. ⁠If motherhood is making you overwhelmed, overstimulated, and burnt tf out, I can help. You may know me as the author of Oh Crap Potty Training and Oh Crap, I Have a Toddler but in the last few years, I've been obsessed with moms...and they are not okay. My work has veered off into helping moms find ease and confidence in their mothering. If you are struggling, check out Happy Mom, my online community supporting moms into a more fun motherhood. Happy Mom: https://bit.ly/4v9Fz5NFor potty training help, get started with our Oh Crap Chat: https://bit.ly/4cMpso

Love the show? You can support me and the production directly here: ⁠https://venmo.com/u/Jamie-Glowacki-1⁠After taking a pause from the podcast, Jamie is back — not because of the algorithm, consistency pressure, or content treadmill… but because she finally had something she genuinely needed to say. This episode starts with a reflection on stepping away from content creation and the overwhelming response from listeners whose lives were impacted by the podcast. But it quickly evolves into something much deeper:A conversation about trauma, therapy, motherhood, somatic healing, lineage, and what happens when women stop shrinking themselves.Jamie explores:Why talk therapy can sometimes keep us stuck in the story of our trauma instead of helping us move through it The difference between pathology and mythologySomatic healing, movement, and releasing emotions through the bodyWhy parenting often activates unresolved childhood woundsThe challenge of healing while actively raising childrenHow women are conditioned to suppress powerful emotions and “stay calm” at all costsCommunity, maternal energy, and the need for real connectionWhat it means to reclaim space, power, and feminine energyJamie also shares a deeply personal experience involving movement, dance, grief release, ancestral reflection, and a moment that shifted something profound inside of her. This isn’t an episode about parenting tactics.It’s about:The stories we inheritThe stories we tell ourselvesAnd the possibility of rewriting themIf you’ve been feeling emotionally stuck, disconnected from yourself, overwhelmed by motherhood, or exhausted from overanalyzing your healing journey… this conversation may resonate deeply.

Love the show? You can support me and the production directly here: ⁠https://venmo.com/u/Jamie-Glowacki-1⁠This episode is a little different.It’s a personal update — and an honest look at where I am in my work right now.Over the past few months, I’ve been feeling something I can’t ignore anymore:This one-way conversation isn’t working for me.In this episode, I share:Why I’ve been skipping podcast episodesMy recent hearing loss and tinnitus diagnosisWhy content creation has started to feel drainingThe emotional toll of online criticism and “feedback” Why social media isn’t built for real conversationThe problem with parasocial relationshipsWhy I don’t want to monetize with adsAnd why I’m choosing to pause the podcast (for now)But this isn’t just about what I’m stepping away from.It’s about what I’m moving toward.After hosting live classes and group calls recently, something became really clear:I don’t want to talk at you anymore. I want to talk with you.So I’m shifting my work toward:More real-time conversationsLive Zoom calls and community discussionsA new membership space: Managing Modern MotherhoodMore intentional, sustainable content (including YouTube)This is a pivot.Not an ending — but a recalibration.If you’ve been here for a while, I appreciate you deeply.And if you’re coming along for what’s next… I’m really excited about where this is going.As always — put your phone down, and rock on.👉 ⁠Sign up for my newsletter⁠⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Paleovalley Protein Sticks⁠⁠Therapee⁠Brick for Phones⁠(Save 10%)

Love the show? You can support me and the production directly here: ⁠https://venmo.com/u/Jamie-Glowacki-1⁠We’re in the middle of what many are calling a capability crisis.Kids are struggling to do basic things — not because they can’t… but because they haven’t been taught how.In this episode, Jamie introduces the concept of scaffolding — the process of gradually building skills over time, starting much earlier than most parents think.Because here’s the truth:Kids don’t magically wake up at age 9 knowing how to clean, cook, or take responsibility.Those skills are built slowly — beginning as early as 18–24 months. But many parents unintentionally delay this process by:Doing everything for their kidsRushing through tasks instead of letting them helpAvoiding mess, frustration, or inconvenienceUnderestimating what their kids are capable ofAnd over time, that creates dependency instead of independence.In this episode, Jamie breaks down:What scaffolding actually looks like in real lifeWhy toddlers saying “I help!” is a critical momentHow helping too much sends the wrong messageWhy struggle is necessary for self-esteemHow to introduce responsibility in age-appropriate waysWhy it’s never about perfection — it’s about participationIf you want your kids to grow into capable, confident humans…this episode will shift how you think about parenting.👉 ⁠Sign up for my newsletter⁠⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Paleovalley Protein Sticks⁠⁠Therapee⁠Brick for Phones⁠(Save 10%)

Love the show? You can support me and the production directly here: ⁠https://venmo.com/u/Jamie-Glowacki-1⁠Youth sports used to be simple.Kids played with neighborhood friends, parents volunteered as coaches, and the goal was just to have fun.But today?Youth sports have become a multi-billion-dollar industry, and parents are under enormous pressure to keep up.Private coaching. Travel teams. Year-round specialization. Endless tournaments.In this episode, Jamie sits down with Jonathan Carone from Healthy Sports Parents to talk about how youth sports got so intense — and what parents can do to bring some sanity back into the experience.Jonathan shares how a viral video about toxic sports parenting launched his platform and why he believes most parents truly want to do better… they’ve just never been shown how.Together they discuss:How youth sports evolved into a billion-dollar industryThe pressure parents feel to keep up with travel teams and private lessonsWhy kids today feel more pressure than previous generationsThe myth of the college scholarship dreamHow parents accidentally turn sports into a high-stress experienceWhy kids are quitting sports earlier than everThe importance of letting kids fail and develop intrinsic motivationWhy travel sports can either strengthen families… or break them apartA healthier way to approach youth sports and athletic developmentThis episode is a must-listen for any parent navigating the increasingly intense world of youth athletics.👉 ⁠Sign up for my newsletter⁠⁠Jamie's Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Cafe Parenting Community⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! Potty Training⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Oh Crap! I Have a Toddler⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Paleovalley Protein Sticks⁠⁠Therapee⁠Brick for Phones⁠(Save 10%)