Let’s Be Real with Motty Kenigsberg

In this episode I am honored to host JJ and Frumie Duchman, a power couple committed to growth, healing and truth. Last time, JJ sat with me and got real about understanding sex and porn addiction. This time, his wife Frumie joins us with clarity and direction.Previous episode with JJ: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5iNjHUtG7R0kkWDwOI41Eb?si=aab1313722f5498cThis is a story about what happens after. The hard work. The courage it takes to stay, to repair, and to find real intimacy and beauty on the other side of the pain.If you or your partner are in any process of wanting to better, deepen and repair, and wondering if it's possible to come out the other side stronger, this one's for you.Learn more about JJ: www.jjduchman.com Learn more about Frumie: www.labriutwithfrumie.comLearn about my world: www.mottykenigsberg.com

Today we’re talking about sex and porn addiction, diving deep into the complexity, pain, and hope surrounding addiction. In this open conversation, JJ Duchman shares insights drawn from his professional and personal journey, exploring the emotional intricacies often hidden beneath the surface of sex and porn addiction.JJ introduces powerful insights that offer practical tools for individuals struggling with sex/porn addiction which also can provide guidance and inspiration for anyone aspiring to live a healthier, more mindful, and spiritually aligned life. I am excited and honored to share this episode with you! Learn more about JJ or to connect with JJ directly visit: www.jjduchman.comLearn more about our upcoming mens retreat: be-retreat.comLearn about my world: www.mottykenigsberg.com

Today, I have a deeply touching conversation with Ami Adler, a nature photographer who spent decades using his craft as both a passion and an escape from daily stress. After more than 20 years, he has transformed this love into a powerful source of support, inspiration, and perspective for others.Ami shares how, rather than trying to control the perfect shot, we can learn to see the metaphors and messages in nature and in everything around us. He reveals how this shift in perspective can help us find the true “picture-perfect” moments of connection, love, and strength to navigate life’s complexities.Explore Ami’s Art:Shop: www.AmiAdler.com (Use code BEREAL for 20% off sitewide!)Email: [email protected] Ami’s Work:WhatsApp Group – Weekly photo, backstory, and empowering message: Join hereYouTube Channel: Scenes for the SoulBlog Subscription: Subscribe hereLearn more about my world: Mottykenigsberg.com 

Episode 21: Today, I have the privilege of speaking with Mrs. Zipporah Osrin, an expert in her field who has personally helped my family for the past two years—with truly remarkable results.Mrs. Osrin teaches parents and educators how to understand, support, and guide the Very-Very child. Her work goes beyond evaluations; she helps caregivers implement real, practical systems that actually work. With a holistic approach tailored to the unique needs of both the child and the family, she offers creative tools and strategies that work.I’m also thrilled to share that Mrs Osrin will be leading a 12-week course for Mothers starting May 6, 2025. Each session will include both a teaching component and hands-on coaching, providing personalized guidance for participants.🔗 Learn more & register: MottyKenigsberg.com/parents🎟 Use code “BEREAL” for 10% off course tuition📩 Connect with Mrs. Osrin directly: [email protected]🌐 Learn more about her work: GiftedSpace.com—-Visit my world: mottykenigsberg.com Visit my retreat world: be-retreat.com Follow my writing journey on Substack: https://substack.com/@mottykenigsberg 

Today I am honored to strike a conversation with Rabbi Aaron about God, religion, child education, an understanding of where Halacha takes place and really relearning some basic Jewish principles. Rabbi David Aaron is the author of The Secret Life of God and a variety of mind provoking books which teach and core Yidishkeit. He is a leader in learning a Yidishkeit filled with love and understanding how the Jewish principles can be a practice of living in wellness. To reach out to Rabbi David Aaron directly you can email his at: [email protected]—— Those wanting to purchase Rabbi Aaron's books can do so here: www.rabbidavidaaron.com/books Audio and video content can go to the site: www.rabbidavidaaron.comAdditionally, to stay up to date people can follow Rabbi Aaron at his Instagram channel: www.instagram.com/davidaaron613 and subscribe to his YouTube channel:  www.youtube.com/@RabbiDavidAaronIf you are a rabbi, educator or therapist and would like to gain free access to Rabbi David Aaron 98 part video course, please email: [email protected]—-Learn more about my world: www.mottykenigsberg.comFor small doses of insightful content, follow me on Substack: www.substack.com/@mottykenigsberg

Today I have a conversation with my ex wife Lea. We raised our son together, we navigated 15 years of divorced co parenting. I learn about what it was like “on the other side”. I gain clarity on what it takes of “both” in a dynamic like ours to divorce and raise a child. It is a powerful and impactful conversation. I hope you enjoy it. Please subscribe to my channel. Be first to know what I am up to and small dowses of inspo: https://www.mottykenigsberg.com/newsletter

Today I talk to Pearl Flax. Pearl is a Trauma informed couples’ counselor and Healer. With a mission is to help couples create a harmonious connected loving relationship and home. We dive in to a conversation about hope when a couple find themselves bickering at each other, feeling hopeless and triggered with each other. We also talk about young and/or arranged marriages, how to kindle a bond of choice. What are the steps to build a relationship that has excitement and hope. And finally her take on physical preferences and how that works with attraction in a “system” chosen marriage. To connect with Pearl and to see her offerings including her revolutionary intensive coupes private or group workshops visit: www.pearlflax.com To see what I am up to visit: www.mottykenigsberg.com

Today, I invite Jason to share his story with a small group of men. Besides his professional accomplishments, Jason is a storyteller, a human with a huge heart, and a source of strength and support to many struggling with recovery. I met Jason at a five-year sobriety celebration party at a small gathering in Cozumel, Mexico. I was blown away by the tale of what seemed like random and painful events. Jason had the wisdom to connect the dots, showing how it was not a coincidence and how these experiences helped many decades later. Enjoy this episode and please share it with a friend who might be inspired to start their journey to recovery and sobriety. Jason is available as a support and coach to those who are ready and willing to take responsibility and live sober. He knows what it takes, and you don’t need to do it alone. To connect with Jason directly, email him at: [email protected] For Jason's professional profile: Linkedin See my events and follow what I am up to: www.mottykenigsberg.com

Today I talk to a friend, a gentle and beautiful human, Mo Neiman. Many know Mo with his always smile, sense of humor, A support for half a decade in many retreat and healing spaces and through his private practice as a somatic and breathwork practitioner who is also trauma informed. I know Mo from just a few years before some may know of him, he worked for me at my company (at the time). I knew he had a journey and a story to tell and today I was privileged to hear parts of it. Besides the tools and ideas about trauma, healing, Breathwork and growth Mo shares with me his personal story of many different painful phases though different times of his life. His journey is a story of hope and possibility. Thank you Mo for sharing your story. I admire you and I am inspired my you. May you keep shining light as you are and closings, love and much success will follow. To work with Mo privately or to see his offerings visit: www.projectlivingawarenes.com To see what I am up to visit: www.mottykenigsberg.com

Today I talk with Peggy Greenfeld. I reached out to Peggy after coming across her IG page. I was particularly impressed and touched seeing her Instagram page where in a space where many come to escape their life and marriage Peggy, through anonymous questions, shares valuable ideas about how a healthy sex life can bring you closer to your partner. We discuss the beautiful opportunity in building trust and healthy communication where both partners can feel close, safe and satisfied with their spouses in ways they “used to” only fantasize. With good intimacy, and the communication it takes to achieve that, couples can go from a hopeless and joyless relationship to spicing up what they thought they can never have. Peggy is a certified relationship and intimacy coach. Trained in Somatica Therapy Coaching and she has a unique Instagram page where she posts about sex, intimacy, & relationships via anonymous Q&A. Peggy is well familiar with the standards of the ultra orthodox community and with creativity she helps couples and individuals shed the shame they might carry around sex and intimacy and reach a deeper and more trusting and intimate relationship with their partner. To follow, connect and work with Peggy visit: www.instagram.com/pegreenfeld To see more of what I am up to visit: www.mottykenigsberg.com