Ep | 90: "Why You Chase or Pull Away—And How to Stop" with Psychotherapist Jessica Baum LMHC

Send us a textLet’s Talk Attachment, Baby 💘 In this juicy episode, Andrea cozies up with therapist and author Jessica Baum to unpack the love languages we don’t always talk about—attachment styles. From anxious to avoidant (and everything in between), they dish on how our childhoods sneak into our DMs, the brain science behind connection, and why fairy tale romances might be messing with our real-life happily-ever-afters. Jessica gets personal, gets honest, and gives us major insight into healing, vulnerability, and why selffulness (yes, that’s a thing!) is the sexy secret sauce to thriving in relationships.Are your childhood experiences secretly shaping your love life—and is it possible to rewrite that story?Why do anxious and avoidant partners attract each other, and how can they stop the painful dance?What is selffulness, and how can it help you balance giving, receiving, and finally feeling secure in love?and so much more...Where to find Jessica Baum:Instagram: @jessicabaumlmhcTik Tok: @jessicabaumlmhcAttachment Style Quiz:    https://www.beselffull.com/attachment-style-quizJessica's Book: https://www.beselffull.com/anxiouslyattachedSupport the showInstagram: @from.mrs.2.msTikTok:@from.mrs.2.msWebsite: www.frommrs2ms.comEmail: [email protected]: @FromMrs2Ms

Send us a textReady for more behind-the-scenes secrets of the modern dating world?In Part 2 of my conversation with Steve Ward, CEO of Master Matchmakers, we dive even deeper into the realities of finding love today. Steve shares more candid insights about what it really takes to create lasting matches, why so many singles struggle with unrealistic expectations, and how authenticity is reshaping the dating landscape.We also get into the trickier side of matchmaking—navigating ego, handling difficult clients, and the surprising red flags even the pros watch for. If you’ve ever wondered what separates a short-term spark from real, lasting chemistry, this episode is for you.Get ready for more straight talk, expert advice, and plenty of "aha" moments. Let’s peel back the curtain a little further. 🎙️What really happens behind the scenes in elite matchmaking—and is it worth the investment?Why are dating apps leaving so many women frustrated, and how does matchmaking change the game?How do matchmakers handle clients with sky-high standards, big egos, or… unconventional requests?and so much more.....Where can you find Steve Ward?Instagram: @stevenbwardX: x.com/stevenbwardWebsite: Mastermatchmakers.com/stevenbwardSupport the showInstagram: @from.mrs.2.msTikTok:@from.mrs.2.msWebsite: www.frommrs2ms.comEmail: [email protected]: @FromMrs2Ms

Send us a textNew city, spontaneous passport stamps... and a few spicy dating revelations. 😏In this episode, Andrea is back with a sultry solo update—sharing her recent whirlwind move, an unplanned trip to London (hello, accents 👀), and what it’s taught her about following desire. She’s diving into the juiciest dating trends for 2025, the astrology that’s creeping into your DMs, and why exclusivity might be the new “situationship.”Plus, Andrea gets real about what Love on the Spectrum and Dying for Sex taught her about vulnerability, pleasure, and what we really crave in connection.Ready for an unapologetic look at modern love, bold choices, and a little cosmic chaos? Tap play—you know you’re curious. 🔥What does your star sign say about the dating app you should be on—and is it actually helping you find real connection? 🌙📱Are you being breadcrumbed… cushioned… or just confused? Let’s decode the 2025 dating dictionary. 💬💔When is it really time to delete the app—and how do you even bring up exclusivity without scaring them off? 🔥👀and so much more...Support the showInstagram: @from.mrs.2.msTikTok:@from.mrs.2.msWebsite: www.frommrs2ms.comEmail: [email protected]: @FromMrs2Ms

Send us a textThink matchmaking is old-school? Think again. 🔥In Part One of this spicy and insightful conversation, Andrea sits down with the charismatic Steve Ward, CEO of Master Matchmakers, to pull back the velvet curtain on what really goes on in the world of high-end dating.From outrageous client requests to the art of vetting singles with sky-high standards, Steve dishes on the evolution of matchmaking in a swipe-right world. They talk all things chemistry, coaching, and compatibility—plus the juicy truth about why dating apps might be doing more harm than good (especially for women looking for the real deal).Andrea and Steve break down how matchmaking actually works, the blind date advantage, and why honest feedback can be your sexiest asset in the search for love. And yes—they even play a revealing round of Would You Rather that gives us a peek into their dating personalities.Whether you're curious about blind dating, navigating the modern romance maze, or just love a good behind-the-scenes scoop, this episode is full of wit, wisdom, and a little wink to anyone tired of dating disappointments.What really happens behind the scenes in elite matchmaking—and is it worth the investment?Why are dating apps leaving so many women frustrated, and how does matchmaking change the game?How do matchmakers handle clients with sky-high standards, big egos, or… unconventional requests?and so much more.....Where can you find Steve Ward?Instagram: @stevenbwardX: x.com/stevenbwardWebsite: Mastermatchmakers.com/stevenbwardSupport the showInstagram: @from.mrs.2.msTikTok:@from.mrs.2.msWebsite: www.frommrs2ms.comEmail: [email protected]: @FromMrs2Ms

Send us a textWhat if understanding your attachment style could completely change your love life? 💋In this juicy and deeply insightful conversation, Andrea Knoche sits down with the fabulous Dr. Morgan Anderson to unpack the raw truths behind relationships, intimacy, and the patterns that keep us stuck. From ghosting to breadcrumbing to that maddening lack of follow-through—we’re covering it all.Dr. Morgan opens up about her own journey from toxic love to becoming an expert in attachment theory, sharing the four main styles and how to shift toward secure, satisfying connections. They get into the sexy stuff too—emotional intimacy, owning your standards, and how to stop settling for “almost” relationships.Whether you’re tired of dating the same guy in a different body or just craving more depth and desire in your love life, this episode is your invitation to level up. 💘It’s flirty, it’s fiery, it’s full of truth bombs you’ll want to replay. Don’t miss it.Where to find Dr Morgan AndersonIG: @drmorgancoachingYT: @dr.morgantv5909www.drmorgancoaching.comSupport the showInstagram: @from.mrs.2.msTikTok:@from.mrs.2.msWebsite: www.frommrs2ms.comEmail: [email protected]: @FromMrs2Ms

Send us a textWho should really pay on a date—and what does your answer say about you?In this solo episode, Andrea dives into the dating debates that have everyone talking. From the latest trends and buzzy new terms to what’s coming in 2025, she’s unpacking the unfiltered truth about modern relationships. Andrea also shares her take on the “who pays?” dilemma, the importance of communication, and how to set boundaries without losing yourself. Plus—she’s opening up the mic to you! Got a messy, funny, or complicated dating situation? Andrea’s taking listener scenarios for future episodes, so send yours in to [email protected]. Tune in, reflect, and join the conversation!Support the showInstagram: @from.mrs.2.msTikTok:@from.mrs.2.msWebsite: www.frommrs2ms.comEmail: [email protected]: @FromMrs2Ms

Send us a textWhat really gets in the way of good communication in relationships? (Hint: It’s not just forgetting to text back.)In this fun, flirty, and deeply informative episode, Andrea Knoche sits down with relationship coach Aly Bullock for a juicy conversation about what makes love last—and what secretly chips away at it. From decoding defensiveness and learning how to actually say “I’m sorry” (and mean it!) to the magic of love languages and staying connected in the bedroom, nothing is off-limits.They dish on why we get triggered, how mindfulness plays a role in our connections, and why rediscovering shared passions might be the spark your relationship needs. You’ll also hear how the Paired app is helping couples everywhere communicate better, faster, and with a lot more clarity.Whether you're in a relationship, navigating the single life, or somewhere in between, this episode is packed with laughs, “aha” moments, and actionable tips to help you deepen your connection—with yourself and your partner.Tune in now to flirt smarter, fight better, and fall deeper in love. 💋In this episode: 1️⃣ Why We Get Defensive Understanding your triggers + how to shift from reaction to connection.2️⃣ Love Languages 101 Crack the code on how you and your partner actually feel loved.3️⃣ Mindfulness in Relationships Be present, not perfect—how awareness transforms communication.4️⃣ The Art of Apologizing How to say "I'm sorry" like you mean it—and why humility matters.5️⃣ Let’s Talk About Sex Desire differences, intimacy blocks & how to really talk about it.Where you can find Aly Bullock:Instagram: @relationshipswithalyTiktok: @relationshipswithalyFOR THE LISTENERS: SAVE 25% off of a one year membership to Paired with this link: http://www.paired.com/aly25Support the showInstagram: @from.mrs.2.msTikTok:@from.mrs.2.msWebsite: www.frommrs2ms.comEmail: [email protected]: @FromMrs2Ms

Send us a textAre you dating with intention, or just going through the motions? How do past traumas and emotional wounds shape your relationships?In this eye-opening conversation, Andrea Knoche sits down with conscious love and dating coach Shane Kohler to explore the transformative power of self-love, healing, and intentional dating. They dive into how relationships have evolved from survival-based connections to thriving, deeply fulfilling partnerships—and what it really takes to attract the right person.Shane shares powerful insights on breaking unhealthy relationship cycles, trusting your intuition, and how modern dating (especially dating apps) has changed the way we connect. He also explains why stepping away from the apps and focusing on personal growth can be the key to finding true love when you least expect it.If you’re ready to shift your dating mindset, cultivate deeper self-awareness, and create healthier, lasting relationships, this episode is for you. Tune in now! 🎧✨In this episode:Healing Emotional Wounds & Self-Love – How past traumas impact relationships and why self-love is essential for attracting the right partner.Intentional & Conscious Dating – Shifting from survival-based relationships to thriving, fulfilling partnerships through awareness and intention.Breaking Unhealthy Relationship Cycles – Recognizing patterns, trusting intuition, and making healthier choices in dating.The Impact of Modern Dating & Apps – How dating apps have changed relationship dynamics and why taking breaks from them can be beneficial.Personal Growth & Attraction – Focusing on joy, self-improvement, and emotional integration to naturally attract the right partner.Where to find Shane Kohler and The Living Relationship:Instagram: @the_living_relationshipPodcast: The Conscious Love ShowYoutube: @thelivingrelationship6878TikTok: ShaneKohlerSupport the showInstagram: @from.mrs.2.msTikTok:@from.mrs.2.msWebsite: www.frommrs2ms.comEmail: [email protected]: @FromMrs2Ms

Send us a textHow often should you text when you first start dating? Should they message you first after the first date? And when is it too soon to get off the apps?Communication in dating can feel like a minefield—too much, and you seem clingy; too little, and they might lose interest. In this episode, Andrea Knoche breaks down the unspoken rules of early dating communication, from who should reach out first to how often you should be texting.But that’s not all—Andrea also shares her journey of self-discovery and personal growth while dating, why regular date nights are essential in relationships, and a hilarious dating scenario that will have you nodding along. Whether you're newly single, figuring out a new relationship, or just trying to navigate modern dating with confidence, this episode has everything you need to date smarter.Tune in for laughs, insights, and the dating advice you wish you had sooner! 🎧✨Email me your thoughts and comments at [email protected] the showInstagram: @from.mrs.2.msTikTok:@from.mrs.2.msWebsite: www.frommrs2ms.comEmail: [email protected]: @FromMrs2Ms

Send us a textReady to Master Online Dating? Here’s How to Get Started!Jumping into the world of online dating can feel overwhelming, but in this episode of From Mrs. to Ms., I sit down with top dating coach Erica Etten to break it all down. We dive deep into what makes a great dating profile, how to boost your response rates, and the key to meaningful conversations that actually lead somewhere. From spotting red flags to managing dating app burnout, Erica shares game-changing insights and unconventional strategies to help you navigate the modern dating scene with confidence. Whether you're new to dating apps or looking to level up your approach, this episode is packed with practical tips, relatable stories, and expert advice you won’t want to miss! 🎧💖Crafting the perfect dating profileCommon Mistakes in online dating profilesUnderstanding attraction and curiosityThe dynamics of dating multiple peopleManaging anxiety in datingManaging burnout from dating apps....and so much more!! Where to find Erika Ettin:Instagram: @alittlenudgeTikTok: @alittlenudgeFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ALittleNudge/Support the showInstagram: @from.mrs.2.msTikTok:@from.mrs.2.msWebsite: www.frommrs2ms.comEmail: [email protected]: @FromMrs2Ms