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Ever wonder how some women can have long, magical orgasms? I do. Tbh, I even get jealous when I can’t make my body do what I see other women experience with ease. In this vulnerable episode, I troubleshoot my own orgasms (or lack there of) with a pleasure coach, and we share from both queer and heterosexual perspectives about sex and conscious communication. Whitney Tougas (she/her) is an international expression, intimacy, and pleasure coach; kink integration educator, and creator of the Ecstatic Pleasure Method; a step by step program teaching vulva owners how to experience the limitless orgasmic potential that is their birthright. She believes that sex and relationships offer deep healing, expansion, and self-actualization opportunities and that most humans never scratch the surface of their pleasure potential. Whitney is passionate about guiding clients in building thriving intimate relationships, experiencing life-changing, transcendent pleasure, and living and loving performance-free… Claim my FREE GIFTS to you: MANIFESTATION HACKS EBOOK and SKINCARE RECOMMENDATIONS IN ORDER OF APPLICATION FOR BOTH DAY AND NIGHTTIME when you join my email list for FREE  This episode covers topics like: 🌊Experiencing & giving limitless pleasure and life-changing, healing orgasms 🆘Troubleshoot my orgasm experience with me (I can’t be alone in this…and *update as this episode was recorded back in May* problem SOLVED) 💦How to have prolific squirting orgasms 🛟The benefits of focusing on safety before pleasure  🌮New goal: having a strong, not tight taco 🥚Using jade eggs and wands  ✨Understanding the anatomy of our female bodies 🤰Are our vulvas and vages not as “tight” post-birth? Is that just a myth? 🫰The differences between external vs internal stimulation 💋Realizing how casual relationships sexual experiences can heal us just like committed ones Recommended Resources: Coaching with Sophia My live, virtual CURIOUS & COMING OUT Workshop where I teach how to have lesbian sex & deconstruct heteronormativity with my hot ex gf, "miss.california01" My live, virtual Releasing RELEASING RELIGIOUS INDOCTRINATION Workshop all about healing through sharing, dismantling purity culture, and releasing your next layer of religious trauma pain with my co-host and quantum healing friend, Daniel Learn more about Whitney Tougas: Follow her on IG: https://www.instagram.com/embodied_mama/ Www.Instagram.com/HavenSpeech  It's time to set yourself FREE, Lovely One!  I hope you benefit from ENLIGHTENED. If you feel comfortable to share how the show is touching your heart, please leave a rating and review on iTunes or the Apple Podcast App. It will only take a minute, but genuine reviews are vital to the success of my show, so please review by tapping here. Thank you for supporting my labor of love by sharing screenshots of the podcast, subscribing, and by pledging to contribute. Because creating inspiring content demands my time, creativity, resources, and talent, I depend on generous listeners like you to support the production of my show. Kindly support Enlightened for as little as $0.99/mo by tapping here. *you may cancel at anytime. With infinite love and gratitude. xo Sophia  Stream MY HEALING: a forgiveness anthem that I wrote and recorded: https://sophiaspallino.trac.co/sophiaspallinomyhealing Learn more about me and what I do: https://www.SophiaSpallino.com Follow me on Instagram for inspiring real-life stories everyday: https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino/ Pledge to support my show: http://bit.ly/SupportEnlightened Shop my merch: https://www.SophiaSpallino.com/shop Shop my favorite books and card decks here: http://bit.ly/SoulBooks If you are seeking wisdom & guidance, branding/social media tips, dating advice, a breakup breakthrough session, or a card reading, I'd be honored to coach you: https://sophiaspallino.com/mentorship

Curious about your own sexuality or want to learn as we answer live questions from women around the world about sexuality and communication? Are we actually dating again? Let's jump into bed with my lady, Miss California. Welcome…whether you’re tip-toeing out “of the closet” 🚪and we happen to be in the first room or inside the closet with you whispering... what an honor to be here for you at the beginning of your evolving sexuality journey. OR maybe you’re openly queer🏳️‍🌈 (and here to learn more sexy tips to spice up your sex life and possibly meet some ladies in our workshop)... OR maybe you're an LGBTQIA ally and simply curious about women who love women relationships...WELCOME home. It's a safe and sexy place here. May you see yourself in our personal conversation. We are only mirrors to each other, to you. Whatever comes up for you…get CURIOUS about it! This episode covers topics like: 💦Live sex & communication Q&A 🙂Dating to conscious friendship to dating again ❤️Behind the scenes of coming back together after 5 months apart 🤦‍♀️Navigating hate comments & hateful reactions in real life 🍆How men respond to women being together & how we honestly feel about it 🌮Advice for women desiring to leave their seemingly heterosexual lives because they are too gay to stay! 😔Recognizing the root of internalized homophobia in our childhood memories Get your ticket for our virtual straight to questioning or queer workshop + mingle for women Seats for this sexy time together are as tight as your p*ssy, so claim your seat! 😏 ❓What to expect in the CURIOUS AND CUMMING OUT OF THE CLOSET WORKSHOP? 😈 Feeling more confident in your sexual exploration journey 💦 Live group teaching on compulsory heterosexuality, and sexual fluidity 🥵 Hot seat coaching (like SUPER HOT) 💋 Mix and mingle (if you’re single or want to make queer friends) 🍊 Tongue and fingering technique demonstrations…with fruit 👅 Sharing first time with a woman details   🗓 When:  the evening of  July 13th, 2022 5pm PST / 6pm MST / 7pm CST / 8pm EST  (if you miss this one, hopefully there will be another in a few months with open enrollment, so check the link...but we can't guarantee we will have another workshop) 📍 Where: A private, LIVE Zoom call gathering, and you can connect with us from wherever you are in the world! 📵 Our workshop will not be recorded because this is a safe space for you to ask the sexy, weird, and wild things. So claim your seat and attend LIVE! JOIN NOW: https://coaching.sophiaspallino.com/CuriousAndCumming Recommended Resources: Coaching with Sophia Join the Curious & Cumming Out - Live, Virtual Sex & Sexuality Workshop  Affordable strap on: https://thepleasurechest.com/midnight-lace-strap-on-harness Fancy strap on: https://thepleasurechest.com/spareparts-bella-harness Get IobaToys.com for 30% OFF with code "Sophia," (my favorite is the OhMyG) Learn more about Miss California: Follow her on IG: https://www.instagram.com/miss.california01/ Listen to our first episode together covering WHY I LEFT A MAN BECAUSE OF HER (our meeting, dating, and friendship), then listen to our next episode together "Sleeping with Women VS. Men" Follow her on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@miss.california01 It's time to set yourself FREE, Lovely One!  Stream MY QUANTUM HEALING ANTHEMS with HARP MUSIC: https://spoti.fi/3jqALGb Explore  my latest live, virtual workshops: https://linktr.ee/sophiaspallino Learn more about me and what I do: https://www.SophiaSpallino.com Follow me on Instagram for inspiring real-life stories everyday: https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino/ Pledge to support my show: http://bit.ly/SupportEnlightened Shop my queer & spiritual merch: https://www.SophiaSpallino.com/shop If you are seeking wisdom & guidance, branding/social media tips, dating advice, a breakup breakthrough session, or a card reading, I'd be honored to coach you: https://sophiaspallino.com/mentorship

Colby Martin bravely answers hard questions that the Christian church avoids like the mosaic plague or worse, aggressively responds to with clobber verses meant to undermine the identities of the LGBTQIA+ community: Can one be a true Christian and actually believe that being queer is NOT a sin?  Having experienced his fair share of pain and rejection from mainstream Christianity, Colby is awake to the flaws, tragic missteps, and misplaced earnestness that too often define the direction of the church. Yet God’s vision for creation as revealed in Jesus still compels him to remain in progressive Christianity. Colby is the author of two books (UnClobber: Rethinking our Misuse of the Bible on Homosexuality; and The Shift: Surviving and Thriving after Moving from Conservative to Progressive Christianity); he hosts a podcast with his wife, “The Kate & Colby Show,” and he and his wife founded and lead a progressive, LGBTQIA+ affirming Christian church in San Diego called Sojourn Grace Collective. This episode covers topics like: 🔥Being fired by a church for supporting the LGBTQIA+ community  🏳️‍🌈Adopting with inclusion theology and disproving clobber verses 💋 Can you can be POLYAMOROUS and be a Christian? ⚓️Advice to parents of queer children  ⛪️Can you *actually* be a “true Christian” and believe that being gay isn’t a sin and stay in church? 💜Sharing what it’s like to have a bisexual wife as a pastor 🙋‍♀️Questioning pastors and religious authority — the two questions you need to ask directly to your leaders to find out if your church is *actually* all-loving and affirming or insidiously bait and switching  🙏🏽Reckoning with deconstruction and perhaps reconstruction ✝️Exploring the idea that “Not all Christians” are part of the problem Recommended Resources: 1:1 Coaching with Sophia SOPHIA'S LIVE, VIRTUAL WORKSHOPS: Join the live, virtual Curious & Cumming Out - Live, Virtual Sex & Sexuality Workshop  Join the live, virtual  Releasing Religious Indoctrination Workshop  ⛓🙌This workshop is for you if you’re ready to take the next step in releasing the fear of sin and shame surrounding your sexuality and evolving spirituality as you leave traditional religion. ❓What to expect:  ✨3 hours of intentional time together ✨Healing through shared experiences  ✨Quantum healing through guided mediation ✨Real world application: a closing embodiment exercise to take with you Learn more about Colby Martin: Get in touch: colbymartinonline.com UnClobber Online Course: https://courses.unclobber.com UnClobber the Book (2nd Edition): https://amzn.to/3Jk628p The Kate & Colby Show: thekateandcolbyshow.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/colbymartin/ It's time to set yourself FREE, Lovely One!  Thank you for supporting my labor of love by sharing screenshots of the podcast, subscribing, and by pledging to contribute. Because creating inspiring content demands my time, creativity, resources, and talent, I depend on generous listeners like you to support the production of my show. Kindly support Enlightened for as little as $0.99/mo by tapping here. *you may cancel at anytime. With infinite love and gratitude. xo Sophia  Stream MY QUANTUM HEALING ANTHEMS with HARP MUSIC: https://spoti.fi/3jqALGb Learn more about me and what I do: https://www.SophiaSpallino.com Follow me on Instagram for inspiring real-life stories everyday: https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino/ Pledge to support my show: http://bit.ly/SupportEnlightened Shop my queer & spiritual merch: https://www.SophiaSpallino.com/shop Shop my favorite books and card decks here: http://bit.ly/SoulBooks If you are seeking wisdom & guidance, branding/social media tips, dating advice, a breakup breakthrough session, or a card reading, I'd be honored to coach you: https://sophiaspallino.com/mentorship

Curious about your own sexuality or want to eavesdrop as we process our sexuality and sex lives? Want to learn more about woman on woman sex? Let's jump into bed with my catalyst ex-girlfriend, Miss California. Welcome…whether you’re tip-toeing out “of the closet” 🚪and we happen to be in the first room or inside the closet with you whispering... what an honor to be here for you at the beginning of your evolving sexuality journey. OR maybe you’re openly queer🏳️‍🌈 (and here to learn more sexy tips to spice up your sex life and possibly meet some ladies in our workshop)... OR maybe you're an LGBTQIA ally and simply curious about women who love women relationships...WELCOME home. It's a safe and sexy place here. It’s safe to change your mind, to be curious at any age. 🤔 There is no need to be confused… 🌈about your evolving sexuality 🥵or what to do if you ever get the chance to be with a woman in bed for the first time! This episode covers topics like: 🙂Conscious friendship post-dating ❤️Our current dating lives… 🤦‍♀️My experience with casual queer sex 💦My current bi curious “situationship” 🤦‍♂️Miss California's relationship with a man  🆚the differences between sex with men and women 🍆Buying a strap on for the first time 🌮Women on women sex and communication Get your ticket for our virtual straight to questioning or queer workshop + mingle for women Seats for this sexy time together are as tight as your p*ssy, so claim your seat! 😏 ❓What to expect in the CURIOUS AND CUMMING OUT OF THE CLOSET WORKSHOP? 💦 Live group teaching on compulsory heterosexuality and sexual fluidity   🥵 Hot seat coaching (like SUPER HOT -- we will be in lingerie) 💋 Mix and mingle (if you’re single or want to make queer friends) 🍊 Tongue and fingering technique demonstrations…with fruit 👅 Sharing first time with a woman details 😈 Feeling more confident in your sexual exploration journey   🗓 When:  May 15th, 2022  11am PST / 12pm MST  1pm CST / 2pm EST   📍 Where: A private, LIVE Zoom call gathering, and you can connect with us from wherever you are in the world! 📵 Our workshop will not be recorded because this is a safe space for you to ask the sexy, weird, and wild things. So claim your seat and attend LIVE! JOIN NOW: https://coaching.sophiaspallino.com/CuriousAndCumming Recommended Resources: Coaching with Sophia Join the Curious & Cumming Out - Live, Virtual Sex & Sexuality Workshop  Affordable strap on: https://thepleasurechest.com/midnight-lace-strap-on-harness Fancy strap on: https://thepleasurechest.com/spareparts-bella-harness Learn more about Miss California: Follow her on IG: https://www.instagram.com/miss.california01/ Listen to our first episode together covering WHY I LEFT A MAN BECAUSE OF HER (our meeting, dating, and friendship)  Follow her on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@miss.california01 It's time to set yourself FREE, Lovely One!  I hope you benefit from ENLIGHTENED. If you feel comfortable to share how the show is touching your heart, please leave a rating and review on iTunes or the Apple Podcast App. It will only take a minute, but genuine reviews are vital to the success of my show, so please review by tapping here. Thank you for supporting my labor of love by sharing screenshots of the podcast, subscribing, and by pledging to contribute. Because creating inspiring content demands my time, creativity, resources, and talent, I depend on generous listeners like you to support the production of my show. Kindly support Enlightened for as little as $0.99/mo by tapping here. *you may cancel at anytime. With infinite love and gratitude. xo Sophia  Stream MY QUANTUM HEALING ANTHEMS with HARP MUSIC: https://spoti.fi/3jqALGb Explore  my latest live, virtual workshops: https://linktr.ee/sophiaspallino Learn more about me and what I do: https://www.SophiaSpallino.com Follow me on Instagram for inspiring real-life stories everyday: https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino/ Pledge to support my show: http://bit.ly/SupportEnlightened Shop my queer & spiritual merch: https://www.SophiaSpallino.com/shop Shop my favorite books and card decks here: http://bit.ly/SoulBooks If you are seeking wisdom & guidance, branding/social media tips, dating advice, a breakup breakthrough session, or a card reading, I'd be honored to coach you: https://sophiaspallino.com/mentorship

Can you confidently communicate your desires in bed and play with dominant and submissive energy? In this episode, I talk about the taboo with a cisgender, heterosexual man...Can you believe that?!  I like to think of Jeff Damisse as evidence for you straight ladies that evolved, conscious, yet highly dominant sexual men do exist. This is a sexy conversation you will surely enjoy…whether you are queer or straight! So grab a glass of wine and an extra pair of lacy panties — the show is about to begin! Jeff Damisse is not a celebrity or coach; he is simply an authentic, evolving man out in the world that I want to give a seat at my table. He happens to be a corporate executive who was raised in Haiti by a conservative religious family. Thankfully, Jeff grew into his sexual manhood after leaving his conservative religious family unit. In an effort to expand his views on relationships, Jeff hosts the Introspect Club Podcast where he interviews guests with VERY unique lifestyles, sexual careers, and wild experiences.  Claim my FREE GIFTS to you: MANIFESTATION HACKS EBOOK and SKINCARE RECOMMENDATIONS IN ORDER OF APPLICATION FOR BOTH DAY AND NIGHTTIME when you join my email list for FREE... https://linktr.ee/sophiaspallino This episode covers topics like: 🍝Our experiences growing up in purity culture and expanding our sexual and spiritual palettes 👅Learning how to please women from his lesbian ex-girlfriend  💦How to go down on a woman for the first time 🛏Confidence and communication in bed 😏Taboo and kink…like public sex experiences 😈Submissive, dominant, and switch dynamics in both hetero and homo relationships  Recommended Resources: Untamed by Glennon Doyle Coaching with Sophia Learn more about Jeff Damisse: Follow him personally on IG: @J.Damisse Follow his show on IG: @Introspect_Club  Subscribe to his podcast: INTROSPECT CLUB Follow his show on TikTok: @Introspect_Club It's time to set yourself FREE, Lovely One!  I hope you benefit from ENLIGHTENED. If you feel comfortable to share how the show is touching your heart, please leave a rating and review on iTunes or the Apple Podcast App. It will only take a minute, but genuine reviews are vital to the success of my show, so please review by tapping here. Thank you for supporting my labor of love by sharing screenshots of the podcast, subscribing, and by pledging to contribute. Because creating inspiring content demands my time, creativity, resources, and talent, I depend on generous listeners like you to support the production of my show. Kindly support Enlightened for as little as $0.99/mo by tapping here. *you may cancel at anytime. With infinite love and gratitude. xo Sophia  Stream MY HEALING: a forgiveness anthem that I wrote and recorded: https://sophiaspallino.trac.co/sophiaspallinomyhealing Learn more about me and what I do: https://www.SophiaSpallino.com Follow me on Instagram for inspiring real-life stories everyday: https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino/ Pledge to support my show: http://bit.ly/SupportEnlightened Shop my merch: https://www.SophiaSpallino.com/shop Shop my favorite books and card decks here: http://bit.ly/SoulBooks If you are seeking wisdom & guidance, branding/social media tips, dating advice, a breakup breakthrough session, or a card reading, I'd be honored to coach you: https://sophiaspallino.com/mentorship

*recorded before I realized I was a lesbian* Want to learn how to manifest anything you dream of...even your soulmate? Today I share my interview as a guest on "This Spiritual Fix." If you want to learn more about feeling worthy, attracting your desires, and consciously navigating the dating game, you will not want to miss this episode! I am honored to share my interview on the "This Spiritual Fix" podcast. Although this episode was recorded when I was in a happy relationship with a man before realizing my true sexuality as a woman who loves women, the manifesting rules and tips still apply. I really believe the secret to manifesting what you want is to believe you are worthy to receive your heart’s desires. According to Anna and Kristina of TSF, "A modern day Pygmalion (the Greek fable of the sculptor who brings his perfect wife to life from statue-form), Sophia gifts our podcast with enthusiasm, magic, and concrete tools that she uses with her clients to enhance their sense of worthiness." We even talk about what hidden limitations may be preventing you from harnessing the power of the Law of Attraction to bring you the partner you desire. PDF Download: 1.06: Three Manifestation Exercises That Work Links to Resources/Thought Leaders we recommend: Abraham Hicks Creative Visualization: Use the Power of Your Imagination to Create What You Want in Your Life by Shakti Gaiwan Maddy Moon Marisa Peer Matt Kahn Stigmata, a movie starring Patricia Arquette The Gospel According To Mary Magdalene Learn more about THIS SPIRITUAL FIX: Follow Anna and Kristina on IG: https://www.instagram.com/this.spiritual.fix/ Listen to This Spiritual Fix Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/this-spiritual-fix/id1549590744 It's time to set yourself FREE, Lovely One!  I hope you benefit from ENLIGHTENED, the podcast with me, Sophia Spallino. If you feel comfortable to share how the show is touching your heart, please leave a rating and review on iTunes or the Apple Podcast App. It will only take a minute, but genuine reviews are vital to the success of my show: http://bit.ly/reviewenlightened With infinite love and gratitude, I pray that peace be with you. xo Sophia (@SophiaSpallino on Instagram) * STREAM MY HEALING NOW, a forgiveness anthem that I wrote and recorded: *https://sophiaspallino.trac.co/sophia... * Watch the Lyric Video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Da4M2... * Learn more about me and what I do: https://www.SophiaSpallino.com * Follow me on Instagram for inspiring real-life stories everyday: https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspall... * Pledge to support my show: http://bit.ly/SupportEnlightened * Shop my merch: https://www.SophiaSpallino.com/shop * Shop my favorite books and card decks here: http://bit.ly/SoulBooks * If you would like to download my TikTok/Reels or Podcast Start Up class, here is the link: https://sophiaspallino.com/mentorship/ * If you are seeking wisdom & guidance, branding/social media tips, dating advice, a breakup breakthrough session, or a card reading, schedule a one-on-one virtual meeting with me: https://sophiaspallino.com/mentorship

What's it like when you put an atheist and spiritual human together on a podcast? We just might have more in common than you think...starting with religious trauma. “Eve_WasFramed” is an atheist ex-vangelical, a little nickname for us humans leading the ex-evangelical church movement. This radiant, all grown up and evolved minister’s kid has made it her purpose to expose the holes in theology and share her journey from being the perfect, good devout Christian girl to a bold, good atheist. I’m sure being the child of Christian ministers made for a childhood packed with religious trauma. She even spent her teen years and early 20s as a worship leader. Eve now spends her time raising awareness for those that have suffered from religious trauma at the hands up of the evangelical church and speaks out against the harmful and toxic theologies she herself experienced.  This episode covers topics like: Purity culture Religious trauma Fear-based theology  Christian nationalism LA christian celebrity culture Evolving morality (from a spiritual and atheist perspective) Pro-life vs. Pro-choice arguments Soothing trauma triggers Join my workshop: https://coaching.sophiaspallino.com/Releasing-Religious-Trauma-Workshop I am excited to lend Eve my platform to share this perspective, even if it’s different than mine. As many of you know. I grew up in purity culture and evangelical indoctrination too...and I’ve invited all of you along with me on this journey as I venture away from Christianity and sexual purity ideals into inter-spirituality and sexual liberation. I truly believe we can only heal as deeply as we are willing to acknowledge and feel.  That’s why my dear friend, Daniel, and I are hosting a✨Religious Trauma Releasing Workshop✨ and I want YOU to be there.  This workshop is for YOU if you’re ready to take the next step in releasing the fear of sin and shame surrounding your sexuality and evolving spirituality as you leave traditional religion. 🙏🏽This will be a safe and confidential place to reveal and heal, as we share about understanding sin, hell, queerness, purity, guilt, shame, and questioning religious authority altogether…ultimately embracing our sovereignty and taking responsibility to heal together.  ❓What to expect:  ✨2 hours of intentional time together ✨Identifying the root of shame ✨Demystifying guilt  ✨Healing through shared experiences  ✨Quantum healing through guided mediation led by Daniel ✨Real world application: a closing embodiment exercise to take with you that I will lead 🗓 When is the LIVE workshop? Mach 24, 22 -- 7pm EST/ 4pm PST  This is a 2 hour workshop, but please plan space in your calendar for 3 hours just in case we go longer… Join us: https://coaching.sophiaspallino.com/Releasing-Religious-Trauma-Workshop 📍 Where is it? This is a private, LIVE Zoom call gathering, and thanks to internet and energy, you can connect with us from wherever you are in the world. Please know… 📵Our workshop will not be recorded because Daniel and I want this to be a safe place for your processing and undoing. 🧘‍♀️ 🙏🏽We offer no absolutes because you are your own authority. 🔓How much are you willing to touch and release?  🧅 What’s the next layer of healing look like for you?  ✨Whatever it is for you, heal it with us. If you are considering signing up, do it now because we are only accepting a small group of people for this very intimate healing conversation and quantum healing experience.  JOIN THE WORKSHOP HERE: https://coaching.sophiaspallino.com/Releasing-Religious-Trauma-Workshop Lastly, if you are listening to this podcast after this particular workshop has closed its sign up doors, please don’t hesitate to reach out to me and inquire when our next workshop might be or to receive one on one coaching with me. Learn more about working with me 1:1 here: https://sophiaspallino.com/mentorship/

I cannot believe I about to share this with the world, but everyone wants to know what happened to the lady I fell for, who pretty much made me realize I was just a lesbian, and gave me the courage to leave a man I genuinely cared for. I will tell you what happened, no WE will tell you what happened. Here is a raw conversation between me and my ex-girlfriend…Literally a play by play of our relationship and first time sleeping together. And I am willing to share it with the world because no matter what you do, whether you are a therapist, a doctor, a stay at home mama, a teacher, a business woman, a life coach life like me, or you simply feel you have to “have your shit together” for your world…You need to hear that love and lust is messy…That changing your mind or exploring your sexuality could disappoint people…that leaving a relationship might rock your boat…BUT IT’S ALL WORTH IT. This episode is for you. Straight, gay, in between…for YOU. To inspire you to do whatever you’re scared to do, but can’t fully be alive without. I want you to know discovering who you are, understanding your preferences, and evolving is safe to do at ANY AGE (even at my ex’s age of 51). You are allowed to shift and change your mind…and THAT is how we both got here…Here in this perfect present moment where all is well and we are GRATEFUL for the journey we had together, even if we are apart. So here we are sharing the love, the passion, the sex, and the fall…Enjoy the show!  🚩 I desired the experience over my sense of safety, and I knew it the whole time. My gut never lies to me, she’d never give me her heart, but I kept walking the path. Some could say why would you do that to yourself? How could you as a dating coach?! 😈Listen to the whole episode to understand…I KNEW what I was doing the whole time. But in a nutshell, I sovereignly chose to be emotionally annihilated so that I could experience physical bliss for the very first time.  ✨It was a choice.  ✨I’m glad I chose it. ✨I’m glad I met her. ✨I’m glad I tasted her. ✨I’m glad I tasted freedom. Ms. California was the catalyst girlfriend God knew I needed. To be honest, the experience of lust motivated me so much, to set myself free, and just be gay. The lust put a fire under my ass to make hard decisions. 🙏🏽I hope this episode proves it’s safe to have hope, to be a fool for love, to leave good for great, to follow your truth, to live authentically if you’re afraid to be queer, and to perceivably “lose” in love. The winner doesn’t take it all. When you experience heartbreak, find the “gift” in the pain, and be grateful for every experience. The contrast is your gift.  💡 IF SOMEONE YOU KNOW IS GOING THROUGH A BREAKUP OR PROCESSING THEIR SEXUALITY, please share this episode with them. There is light at the end of the tunnel.  This episode covers topics like: 📖 Our “lust” story  💦 Our first time together  😈 Our age gap…she could be my mother! 🏳️‍🌈 Processing our queerness late in life 💔 Our conscious ending  ❤️‍🩹 Our conscious healing  It's time to set yourself FREE, Lovely One!  Stream MY HEALING: a forgiveness anthem that I wrote and recorded: https://sophiaspallino.trac.co/sophiaspallinomyhealing Learn more about me and what I do: https://www.SophiaSpallino.com Follow me on Instagram for inspiring real-life stories everyday: https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino/ Shop my favorite books and card decks here: http://bit.ly/SoulBooks If you are seeking wisdom & guidance, branding/social media tips, dating advice, a breakup breakthrough session, or a card reading, I'd be honored to coach you: https://sophiaspallino.com/mentorship

It's time you realize your own power as a sovereign, sexual, wealthy human. If you enjoy talking about taboo things like sex and money, you will enjoy this raw conversation with business developer, Merel Kriegsman, as we explore sex, privilege, and the art of wealth. Merel Kriegsman Media is a global business development company dedicated to helping you become the wealthiest being in your lineage. How? By showing you how to sell out your premium offers and flagship programs. Whenever you want. And at whatever price point you desire. Through offering white-glove business mentorship (or black leather, whatever you prefer), 1000+ down-to-earth luminaries (with a hunger for social & environmental justice) have experienced the financial breakthrough of a lifetime. And last year alone, they added a combined $25,000,000 in yearly revenue. Merel has been featured in Forbes, Fast Company, ABC News, Entrepreneur, etc. Spot her in the wild, reading erotic novels. Or playing with her kids on her organic farm, wearing a 1920s lace dress and rubber boots. GET MY SKINCARE RECOMMENDATIONS IN ORDER OF APPLICATION FOR BOTH DAY AND NIGHTTIME when you join my email list for FREE  This episode covers topics like: the art of wealth  manifestation and privilege  exploring whether you crave a dominant or submissive partner(s) in bed  prioritizing time for erotic novels (or whatever turns you on) unlearning bad money mindsets  devotion to the redistribution of wealth  our personal experiences in accepting and celebrating our queerness our personal experiences exploring non-monogamous relationship dynamics  our personal experiences in age gap relationships  Recommended Resources: “Overcoming Underearning" a book by Barbara Stanny A compiled list of our favorite BIPOC thought leaders Stay in touch with Merel: Learn from Merel: https://www.merelkriegsman.com Follow on IG: https://www.instagram.com/merelkriegsman/ Join her FREE Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/317850062271216 It's time to set yourself FREE, Lovely One!  I hope you benefit from ENLIGHTENED. If you feel comfortable to share how the show is touching your heart, please leave a rating and review on iTunes or the Apple Podcast App. It will only take a minute, but genuine reviews are vital to the success of my show, so please review by tapping here. Thank you for supporting my labor of love by sharing screenshots of the podcast, subscribing, and by pledging to contribute. Because creating inspiring content demands my time, creativity, resources, and talent, I depend on generous listeners like you to support the production of my show. Kindly support Enlightened for as little as $0.99/mo by tapping here. *you may cancel at anytime. With infinite love and gratitude. xo Sophia  Stream MY HEALING: a forgiveness anthem that I wrote and recorded: https://sophiaspallino.trac.co/sophiaspallinomyhealing Learn more about me and what I do: https://www.SophiaSpallino.com Follow me on Instagram for inspiring real-life stories everyday: https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino/ Pledge to support my show: http://bit.ly/SupportEnlightened Shop my merch: https://www.SophiaSpallino.com/shop Shop my favorite books and card decks here: http://bit.ly/SoulBooks If you are seeking wisdom & guidance, branding/social media tips, dating advice, a breakup breakthrough session, or a card reading, schedule a one-on-one virtual meeting with me: https://sophiaspallino.com/mentorship

It's time to own your sexuality and take back your pleasure. Whether you've come from purity culture and need help expanding your sexual palette or are already in the "Sex Wild, Wild West," you will enjoy this raw conversation with sex educator, Luci Lampe, as we explore kinks, open relationships, consent, and sexual liberation. Luci Lampe is a mom of four, sex & relationship coach, award-winning singer and songwriter, commercial actress, lifestyle & fitness model, 3X author, and entrepreneur. Her writing has been featured on the Huffington Post, Forbes, Entrepreneur.com, CBS, and Fox. Get ready to push your edge as you listen to our raw conversation all about sex, kinks, open relationships, consent, and overcoming religious indoctrination. GET MY SKINCARE RECOMMENDATIONS IN ORDER OF APPLICATION FOR BOTH DAY AND NIGHTTIME when you join my email list for FREE  This episode covers topics like: Healing from religious sexual shame Thriving as a sex positive, open-minded family “Spare the rod, spoil the child” belt whipping trauma responses  Exploring kink and tantra after years of sexual repression  How to discover and uncover your kinks Learning about common and less common kinks How to communicate about safe sex with new partners How to instigate kink play and opening up your relationship  How to respond if a partner makes you feel “weird” or shame Daily practices to feel good and safe in your body Creating safety with consent and safe words Understanding "Compersion," "Cuckolding," and "Hot-Wifing" Navigating jealousy in non-traditional open relationships Sexual censorship on common platforms and using Only Fans Stay in touch with Luci Lampe Work with Luci: https://lucilampe.com Follow Luci on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lucilampeofficial Follow on IG: https://www.instagram.com/pssypwrd/ Listen to her music on Spotify  It's time to set yourself FREE, Lovely One!  I hope you benefit from ENLIGHTENED, the podcast by me, Sophia Spallino, an audible experience that leaves you feeling at peace, encouraged, and in touch with your soul. If you feel comfortable to share how the show is touching your heart, please leave a rating and review on iTunes or the Apple Podcast App. It will only take a minute, but genuine reviews are vital to the success of my show, so please review by tapping here. Thank you for supporting my labor of love by sharing screenshots of the podcast, subscribing, and by pledging to contribute. Because creating inspiring content demands my time, creativity, resources, and talent, I depend on generous listeners like you to support the production of my show. Kindly support Enlightened for as little as $0.99/mo by tapping here. *you may cancel at anytime. With infinite love and gratitude, I pray that peace be with you. xo Sophia  Stream MY HEALING: a forgiveness anthem that I wrote and recorded: https://sophiaspallino.trac.co/sophiaspallinomyhealing Learn more about me and what I do: https://www.SophiaSpallino.com Follow me on Instagram for inspiring real-life stories everyday: https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino/ Pledge to support my show: http://bit.ly/SupportEnlightened Shop my merch: https://www.SophiaSpallino.com/shop Shop my favorite books and card decks here: http://bit.ly/SoulBooks If you would like to download my TikTok/Reels or Podcast Start Up class, here is the link: https://sophiaspallino.com/mentorship/ If you are seeking wisdom & guidance, branding/social media tips, dating advice, a breakup breakthrough session, or a card reading, schedule a one-on-one virtual meeting with me: https://sophiaspallino.com/mentorship