Why Most People Fail (And How You Can Win)

What if the thing you're complaining about today… is the very thing someone else is praying for? This week, I’m sharing something personal—something I needed myself. This is about perspective. About understanding that your existence isn't some random accident. It’s the result of over 4,000 people—your ancestors—who endured hardships, made sacrifices, and showed courage… just so you could be here. That means something. And you owe it to them—and to yourself—to not waste this moment. I talk about what it means to honor your past and your future, even when you're in pain. Because pain is part of the path. It's not the end of your story—it's the middle. There’s a difference between pain and suffering. Pain is inevitable. Suffering? That’s a choice. My dad taught me that while he was fighting cancer. He chose to see one more dinner, one more golf game with his grandson—not suffering. That changed me. Time is the greatest blessing we’re given. I don’t care how old you are—right now is probably the youngest, healthiest you’ll ever be again. What are you doing with that? What are you building? Who are you loving? Are you going to get to the end of your life full of regret because you didn’t let yourself be happy? Or are you going to live a life true to YOU—not somebody else's script? You’re one decision away from a whole new life. One shift in mindset. One commitment to gratitude. One day where you tie a knot, hold on, and refuse to let go. Don’t let the enemy within stop you from realizing how far you’ve already come—and how much more is still waiting for you. Key Takeaways: You are the result of 4,094 ancestors—honor their legacy with your life. Time and health are your greatest blessings—don't take them for granted. Pain is real, but suffering is a choice—you’re stronger than you think. Regret often comes from not living your truth, not from failure. Everything you need to win is already inside you. This is your moment. Open the gift. Live like your life matters—because it absolutely does.   👉 SUBSCRIBE TO ED'S YOUTUBE CHANNEL NOW 👈   → → → CONNECT WITH ED MYLETT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: ← ← ←  ➡️ INSTAGRAM   ➡️FACEBOOK   ➡️ LINKEDIN   ➡️ X ➡️ WEBSITE    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

If you're always trying to win every argument, you're losing something even more valuable. That’s the core of what Jefferson Fisher and I get into on this thought provoking episode. I sought Jefferson out because he doesn’t teach communication like anybody else. He’s not just sharing fluffy ideas—he’s equipping you with real, specific language that will change how you lead, how you listen, and how you handle conflict. We talk about what happens when you're in a conversation with someone who constantly needs control, someone who dominates, picks on you, or flat out disrespects your boundaries. Jefferson explains how to take the remote control out of their hands and hand them the manual for how to engage with you instead. That’s when you start reclaiming your peace and your power. We unpack how silence is the ultimate signal of confidence. Not yelling. Not overpowering. Silence. The best communicators and the best leaders don’t rush—because confidence isn’t loud, it’s steady. If you’ve ever struggled with pacing your words, managing emotions in heated moments, or just knowing when and how to end a conversation, this is your masterclass. And if you've been allowing certain communication patterns in your life for years—letting people talk to you in ways you know you shouldn’t tolerate—Jefferson gives you the language to change that dynamic today. Not tomorrow. Not after another fight. Right now. Key Takeaways: • Why trying to “win” every argument costs you connection, influence, and respect • How to reset boundaries—even after years of tolerating unhealthy communication • What to say when someone gets passive-aggressive, disrespectful, or flat-out rude • The secret to controlling the pace of a conversation—especially when emotions run high • How silence, tone, and timing can make you a more effective communicator and leader This is one of those episodes you’ll want to replay with a notepad. Jefferson’s wisdom will help you be more respected at work, more present in your relationships, and more in control of how you show up in every conversation. Max out. 👉 SUBSCRIBE TO ED'S YOUTUBE CHANNEL NOW 👈   → → → CONNECT WITH ED MYLETT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: ← ← ←  ➡️ INSTAGRAM   ➡️FACEBOOK   ➡️ LINKEDIN   ➡️ X / TWITTER   ➡️ WEBSITE    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

👇 SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL - so this show can reach more people 👇 https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIprGZAdzn3ZqgLmDuibYcw?sub_confirmation=1 Click Link Below to Subscribe to my email list to MAXOUT your life (all value, no fluff) https://konect.to/edmylett Are you stuck in a mental loop that keeps holding you back? In this Mashup episode, I brought together some of the most brilliant minds in neuroscience and psychology to give you the practical tools and strategies to finally take back control of your thoughts—and your life. You’ll hear from Dr. Caroline Leaf, Dr. Amishi Jha, Dr. Daniel Amen, and Dr. Andrew Huberman as we unpack the science of rewiring your brain, building awareness, and developing the mental strength to break free from anxiety, stress, and distraction. I walk through the exact five-step process of Dr. Leaf’s Neurocycle—a mental workout that rewires your thinking in just 63 days. I’ve been using parts of this myself and it’s a game-changer. And this isn’t just for trauma healing. Whether you’re battling depression or trying to reach a new level in your life, these five steps—gathering awareness, reflecting, writing, rechecking, and taking action—can help you create lasting change. We even break down how to use this cycle to achieve your goals by creating the right emotional triggers and visual cues. Dr. Huberman and Dr. Amen dive into how your brain actually works—when it develops, how dopamine drives performance, and why your habits and physical activity shape your mental clarity. We talk about why movement isn’t just good for your body—it’s crucial for mental health. Dr. Jha then takes us into the power of attention training, helping us understand why mindfulness isn’t about controlling your thoughts, but becoming aware of where your attention really is. That’s where your power lives. We also take on parenting, screen time, trauma, and even sleep—and how all of it ties back to mind management. And I get personal, sharing the visualization technique I teach my athletes—starting with real, emotional memories to make future goals feel real in your brain. Key Takeaways: - The 5-step Neurocycle to break negative thought patterns - How to train your brain for attention and focus in just 12 minutes a day - The connection between movement and mental clarity - The science of dopamine and why the pursuit matters more than the achievement - A practical prayer-based approach to help your children sleep and open up emotionally - Why your brain doesn’t finish developing until 25—and what that means for parents - How social media impacts emotional regulation and what to do about it There’s no perfect mind, but there is a better way to manage it. This episode is packed with tools you can use right now to shift how you think, feel, and show up. Whether you're healing from pain or hungry to create something new, you’ll walk away equipped to change your brain and your life. Thank you for watching this video—Please Share it and get the word out! 👇 SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL👇 https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIprGZAdzn3ZqgLmDuibYcw?sub_confirmation=1 ▶︎ Visit My WEBSITE | https://www.EdMylett.com #EdMylett #Motivation Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

“Stop Negotiating With Yourself” What if the biggest thing holding you back isn’t the world—but the deal you keep cutting with yourself? In this episode, I get real about the mindset gap between average and extraordinary. It’s not about tactics or hacks—it’s energy. The truth is, the most successful people I know are fueled by something different. They’re in a bigger hurry. They bring a different intensity. They don’t just react to life—they use it. Pain, doubt, rejection—it’s all fuel. And if you’re ready to go to the next level, it’s time to stop letting life happen to you and start making it happen because of you. This is a wake-up call. Your energy is either lifting people or leaving them cold. Your pace is either moving the needle or stalling your dreams. The world doesn’t reward the most prepared—it rewards the ones who show up with presence, urgency, and an unshakable belief in who they can become. You’re not here to conform. You’re here to compete—to fight for your future and prove yourself right. I’m challenging you today. Raise your standard. Compete harder. Delay gratification. Move faster. And for the love of God, stop negotiating with the greatest version of you. Because that version? They’re waiting for you to finally act like the person you were born to be. Key Takeaways: Why energy—not strategy—is the real game changer How to use adversity as fuel, not an excuse The dangers of negotiating with yourself Why urgency and delayed gratification go hand in hand What it really means to be “unreasonable” in pursuit of greatness The one mindset shift that separates the average from the elite You weren’t born to live a clearance-rack life. You were born to max out. 👉 SUBSCRIBE TO ED'S YOUTUBE CHANNEL NOW 👈   → → → CONNECT WITH ED MYLETT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: ← ← ←  ➡️ INSTAGRAM   ➡️FACEBOOK   ➡️ LINKEDIN   ➡️ X / TWITTER   ➡️ WEBSITE    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Are You Making This Huge Money Mistake? Most people think they need to make more money to get rich. But what if I told you that’s exactly why they’re broke? Today, I’m sitting down with Morgan Housel, the author of The Psychology of Money, to completely rewire the way you think about wealth, security, and financial freedom. If you’ve ever wondered why some people who earn millions still end up broke while others with modest salaries quietly build real wealth, this episode is for you. We break down the difference between being rich and being wealthy, why chasing status is a financial trap, and how most people dramatically underestimate how much money they’ll need to stop working one day. Morgan shares why simple beats complex when it comes to investing, the real cost of debt-driven wealth, and how saving money isn’t just about you—it’s about being ready for life’s inevitable curveballs. I also open up about my own financial mindset—how fear of being broke has been a bigger driver for me than the excitement of getting rich, and why even after years of making an eight-figure income, I’ve stuck to a strategy of endurance, not shortcuts. Whether you’re just starting your financial journey or trying to level up, this conversation will challenge what you thought you knew about money. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why most people who want to be millionaires actually spend like they already are—and that’s why they stay broke The #1 habit of the wealthy (hint: it has nothing to do with income) How compounding works in real life and why it’s the most powerful tool you’re probably ignoring The psychological traps that keep you from saving and investing Why financial independence is really about having options, not just money The hidden cost of chasing status and external approval How to prepare for life’s financial curveballs—because they WILL happen At the end of the day, it’s not just about how much you make—it’s about how long you can keep it. Don’t miss this one. Listen now and take control of your financial future! 👉 SUBSCRIBE TO ED'S YOUTUBE CHANNEL NOW 👈   → → → CONNECT WITH ED MYLETT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: ← ← ←  ➡️ INSTAGRAM   ➡️FACEBOOK   ➡️ LINKEDIN   ➡️ X / TWITTER   ➡️ WEBSITE  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

👇 SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL - so this show can reach more people 👇 https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIprGZAdzn3ZqgLmDuibYcw?sub_confirmation=1 Click Link Below to Subscribe to my email list to MAXOUT your life (all value, no fluff) https://konect.to/edmylett Are You in a Toxic Relationship? How to Navigate Narcissism and Addiction What if the person you love—or even yourself—has been unknowingly caught in patterns of narcissism or addiction? How do you recognize it, and more importantly, how do you take back control? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Drew Pinsky, Rebecca Zung, Najwa Zebian, and Jo Frost to break down some of the most misunderstood dynamics in relationships, parenting, and personal growth. We uncover the real definition of narcissism—why it’s not just about ego but deep emotional wounds—and how it often connects with addiction. Dr. Drew reveals how childhood trauma fuels these behaviors and why so many people fall into destructive patterns without even realizing it. Rebecca Zung shares strategies to negotiate with narcissists, ethically turning their manipulation against them. Najwa Zebian dives into the toxic attraction between narcissists and empaths, and Jo Frost brings it home with parenting wisdom on raising emotionally resilient children in a world full of distractions. The truth is, whether it’s a personal relationship, a business partner, or even yourself, these behaviors are more common than you think. But you’re not powerless. You CAN break free, reclaim your confidence, and set boundaries that protect your peace. Key Takeaways: ✅ What narcissism really is—and why it's more about insecurity than arrogance ✅ The dangerous cycle between narcissists and empaths (and how to break it) ✅ How childhood trauma creates patterns of addiction and self-sabotage ✅ The difference between addiction and dependency—and why it matters ✅ How to negotiate with a narcissist and stop feeding their control ✅ The parenting mistakes that lead to entitlement and emotional weakness ✅ Practical ways to rebuild confidence and create a stronger mindset At the end of the day, it all comes down to self-awareness, boundaries, and action. The people in your life should add to your energy, not drain it. If you're ready to stop playing small and start living on YOUR terms, this episode is for you. Thank you for watching this video—Please Share it and get the word out! 👉 PLEASE SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL - so this show can reach more people  👈   → → SUBSCRIBE TO MY EMAIL LIST TO MAXOUT YOUR LIFE (ALL VALUE, NO FLUFF) ← ←   ➡️WEBSITE   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Can You Play Hurt? The Secret to Winning When Life Knocks You Down Can you still show up and perform when everything in you wants to quit? Because THAT is what separates the greats from everyone else. In this episode, I’m asking you to take a hard look at yourself—how do you perform on the tough days? When you’re sick, tired, heartbroken, or facing a setback, do you shut down… or do you step up? I share the incredible story of Cade Belyeu, a college baseball player who hit his first home run of the season just hours after losing his mother. I break down why our most defining moments often come when we’re at our lowest and why playing hurt is the key to separating yourself from the pack. Whether it’s in business, sports, or life, the ability to push through pain and keep moving forward is what creates legends. It’s time to stop sitting in your pain and start using it. There’s a gift waiting for you on the other side—if you’re willing to fight for it. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why your breaking point is actually your building point The truth about playing hurt—and why it’s the ultimate separator How Michael Jordan, Tiger Woods, and Kobe Bryant became legends by pushing through pain The power of taking action while you’re still healing Why some of your biggest wins will come on your hardest days This might not be what you want to hear—but it’s exactly what you need to hear. So step up. Get back in the fight. And let’s go max out your life.     👉 SUBSCRIBE TO ED'S YOUTUBE CHANNEL NOW 👈   → → → CONNECT WITH ED MYLETT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: ← ← ←  ➡️ INSTAGRAM   ➡️FACEBOOK   ➡️ LINKEDIN   ➡️ X / TWITTER   ➡️ WEBSITE    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The Secret to Sustained Success The rarest thing in life isn’t success—it’s sustained success. How do the greatest performers, leaders, and athletes not only reach the top but stay there? That’s what we’re unpacking today with the incredible Molly Fletcher. Molly was a trailblazing sports agent—dubbed the “female Jerry Maguire”—who negotiated over $500 million in contracts for some of the biggest names in sports. She’s now one of the most in-demand speakers in the world and the author of Dynamic Drive, which breaks down the keys to long-term success. In this conversation, she shares the mindset shifts, daily habits, and high-performance strategies that separate those who stay great from those who fade away. We talk about why the best don’t focus on outcomes, but instead on the process—a lesson from the greatest champions in the world. Molly explains why protecting your energy is critical, how to prevent achievement from leading to complacency, and how to find alignment in life so success doesn’t come at the cost of fulfillment. And for anyone thinking about making a big life transition, her personal story of reinvention will show you how to take that leap with confidence. If you’re chasing more—more success, more fulfillment, more impact—this conversation is for you. Key Takeaways: Why the top 1% aren’t addicted to winning—but to getting better every day The hidden killer of success that no one talks about How to align your life so success and fulfillment go hand in hand The power of reinvention and how to know when it’s time to pivot A simple exercise to protect your energy and avoid burnout This one is packed with real, actionable insights from someone who’s lived it. Let’s go! 👉 SUBSCRIBE TO ED'S YOUTUBE CHANNEL NOW 👈   → → → CONNECT WITH ED MYLETT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: ← ← ←  ➡️ INSTAGRAM   ➡️FACEBOOK   ➡️ LINKEDIN   ➡️ X / TWITTER   ➡️ WEBSITE  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What if the only thing standing between you and greatness was the story you’ve been telling yourself? In this electrifying mashup, I’m bringing together some of the most inspiring voices on the planet to help you rewrite the narrative of your life and unlock the greatness that already exists within you. You’ll hear life-changing insights from Les Brown, Jay "Jeezy" Jenkins, Dean Graziosi, Heidi Powell, Trent Shelton, Chris Powell, and Damon West—each of them sharing hard-earned wisdom that can transform your mindset, your habits, and your future. Les Brown reminds us that “when you have a big dream, it will introduce you to a part of yourself that you don’t know yet.” If you’ve ever doubted your ability to rise above your circumstances, his words will light a fire in you. Dean Graziosi pulls back the curtain on how facing the storm in your life—whether it's relationships, business, or self-doubt—is the only way to reach the next level. And Heidi and Chris Powell break down the power of keeping promises to yourself, because every transformation starts with the smallest commitments. Trent Shelton takes us through the emotional rollercoaster of going from an NFL hopeful to finding a bigger purpose beyond the game. "Something bigger than you will keep you from quitting," he says. And Damon West, a man who went from a life sentence in prison to becoming one of the most impactful motivational speakers, proves that no matter how dark your past, you can rewrite your future. His story will shake you to your core. This episode is a wake-up call. The only limits in your life are the ones you accept. You are not defined by your past. You are not disqualified by your failures. The pen is in your hands, and it’s time to start writing a new chapter. Key Takeaways: - How to turn your biggest failures into your greatest strengths - Why facing the storm is the only way to reach the next level - The secret to lasting transformation—integrity momentum - Why your confidence isn’t lost, it’s just buried under broken promises - How to use adversity as fuel instead of letting it break you - The mindset shift that will separate you from the pack Your story isn’t over—it’s just getting started. The question is, are you ready to own it? Thank you for watching this video—Please Share it and get the word out! What part of this video resonated with you the most? Comment below! 👉 PLEASE SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL - so this show can reach more people  👈 → → SUBSCRIBE TO MY EMAIL LIST TO MAXOUT YOUR LIFE (ALL VALUE, NO FLUFF) ← ← ➡️WEBSITE Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

The Future of Leadership: Are You Ready for What’s Coming? Most people think leadership is about telling others what to do—but what if that’s completely wrong? In this episode, I sit down with my great friend Brendon Burchard to challenge everything you thought you knew about leadership. The world is changing faster than ever, and the old way of leading just won’t cut it anymore. If you’re still leading the way you did five years ago, you’re already falling behind. Brendon and I break down what it really takes to lead in today’s world, from how to get people to buy into your vision to why energy is your most valuable leadership asset. We’re talking about what separates great leaders from those who struggle to keep their teams engaged—and trust me, it’s not what you think. Brendon shares his game-changing insight: “People support what they create.” If your people don’t feel like they have a stake in the vision, they’ll never be all in. We also get into the biggest leadership mistake holding most people back—clinging to old ideas instead of adapting. Even legendary leadership expert John Maxwell told me that he used to believe consistency was the key… until he realized that in today’s world, great leaders must be willing to change their minds when new information comes in. The companies and leaders who refuse to evolve? They won’t survive the next five years. This conversation is packed with real, actionable leadership strategies you can start using today—whether you’re leading a team of two or two thousand. And if you’re not thinking about energy, emotional connection, and adaptability as core leadership skills, this episode will shift your mindset forever. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✅ The #1 mistake leaders make that kills engagement ✅ How to create buy-in so your team is all in on the vision ✅ Why AI is forcing leaders to change how they lead—NOW ✅ The real reason people quit (it’s not what you think!) ✅ How energy and emotional connection separate great leaders from average ones This is the leadership conversation you didn’t know you needed to hear. Let’s get after it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices