Conversations with a Dom

Chief and Moineau revisit their Sex Menus from March 2020, and chat through what's changed and what hasn't. This episode highlights why a Sex Menu is such a fantastic tool for open communication in relationships. They showcase how such candid discussions can significantly enhance intimacy and satisfaction, foster a deeper understanding between partners, encourage exploration, and ultimately improve your sex life. Whether you're deeply embedded in the BDSM community or just curious about enhancing communication and desire in your relationship, this episode provides a real-world example of how embracing change and being open about your sexual wants can lead to more fulfilling experiences.Support the Show.--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content available here.

Chief and Moineau spill the beans on finding BDSM events and making kinky friends. It’s a no-holds-barred chat filled with personal anecdotes, laughter, and a heap of useful tips for anyone curious about or already exploring the world of BDSM.They tackle everything from the ins and outs of FetLife to the unique charm of munches, all while keeping it real about the ups and downs of connecting in the community.Whether you're navigating the scene in a buzzing city or a quiet town, this episode packs everything you need to broaden your kinky social circle and step up your BDSM game, served with a side of cheeky humour and warmth.[00:01:16] Finding BDSM Events: The hosts discuss starting with FetLife and the significance of attending munches to meet the community.[00:03:03] Challenges for Women on FetLife: Moineau shares her experiences with the platform, highlighting the importance of safety and privacy.[00:04:11] Utilizing FetLife for Events, Not Dating: Chief elaborates on how FetLife serves best for finding events rather than forming personal connections.[00:09:30] Word of Mouth: Emphasizing the value of personal recommendations in discovering events and making kinky friends.[00:10:06] Collaborative Events: The hosts discuss how event newsletters from groups like Fox Den can introduce attendees to broader networks.[00:14:00] Finding BDSM-friendly Events on Vanilla Platforms: Suggestions for locating events with a BDSM twist on sites like Eventbrite.[00:16:48] Gender Dynamics at Munches: An observation on the male-dominated attendance and strategies for women to find more inclusive spaces.[00:18:00] Alternative Social Gatherings: Exploring book clubs and erotic poetry readings as unconventional avenues to meet kinky individuals.[00:22:31] Sex-positive Charities as Networking Hubs: Highlighting the role of charities in connecting people with the BDSM community.[00:24:11] Different Types of BDSM Events: Distinguishing between social, educational, and play-focused events to align with personal interests.[00:26:53] The Challenge of Finding the Right Events: Acknowledging the effort required to find fitting BDSM events and the rewarding nature of successful connections.[00:27:43] Imagining Future Gatherings: A light-hearted fantasy about forming an ideal kinky circle and dinner club.Support the Show.--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content available here.

Chief and Moineau sit down with Liz who recently introduced D/s into an existing long-term relationship. With humour and candidness, Liz shares their initial steps, challenges, and the profound impact of BDSM on their connection and communication. From confronting fears and preconceptions to utilising practical tools like the sex menu for negotiating desires, this episode is a testament to the transformative power of open dialogue and trust in rekindling intimacy.Join us for an enlightening discussion that demystifies the transition into a D/s lifestyle, offering insights and encouragement for those curious about the path of sexual exploration and deepened partnership.Key Points & Timestamps:[00:00:26] Liz discusses beginning their D/s journey and overcoming challenges related to depression and medication.[00:03:21] Chief and Liz reflect on how D/s dynamics can revive intimacy in long-term relationships.[00:04:30] Introduction of the sex menu as a transformative tool for couples.[00:06:02] Liz shares the initial conversation with Tom about exploring a D/s relationship, highlighting the importance of communication.[00:07:59] Transitioning from minimal communication about sex to frequent, open dialogues.[00:12:34] Liz describes the liberating aspect of submission in her otherwise dominant life roles.[00:14:17] Discussion on the gradual introduction and evolution of D/s dynamics in a relationship.[00:15:22] Homework assignments as a method for exploring and expressing desires within the D/s context.[00:18:40] Overcoming a hiccup in a scene and the importance of safe words and aftercare.[00:23:20] Liz shares the positive changes and deeper connection in her relationship since embracing D/s, encouraging open discussions about sex and desires.[00:29:14] Surprises and adjustments made after filling out the sex menu.[00:32:39] Liz emphasizes the importance of overcoming fear and engaging in open communication with partners.[00:38:14] Looking forward to the future of their D/s dynamic and exploring new activities together.[00:41:48] Final thoughts: The significance of communication and not being afraid to discuss desires and boundaries with partners.Support the Show.--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content available here.

In this episode Chief clears up misconceptions about the BDSM and Dom/sub lifestyle. With a wealth of experience and knowledge, Chief discusses and debunks eight prevalent myths. Whether you're new to the scene or looking for clarity on certain aspects of BDSM, this episode is packed with insights, advice, and a call for open-mindedness and consent above all.Join us as we explore the true nature of power play and empower you with the knowledge to engage in healthy, consensual BDSM dynamics.Support the Show.--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content available here.

What’s it REALLY like to visit a professional Dominatrix? In this episode of Conversations wtih a Dom Chief, Moineau, and their guest Tom, discuss his experiences of visiting a professional Domme. It's an honest and educational look at personal growth and exploration in BDSM, tailored for those curious about or involved in the lifestyle. You’ll hear:Tom's journey: How personal circumstances led him to explore BDSM and seek professional Dominatrices.How to find the right Dominatrix for you: Where to find them, the process of choosing a Dominatrix, and tips for initiating contact.What really happens in a session: Examples of what Dominatrices do and don’t do, and how you should communicate with them.Why fantasy and reality aren’t the same: Insights into the expectations versus the realities of BDSM play, emphasising consent, communication, and safety.How Tom’s experiences have impacted him personally: Tom's reflections on how these experiences have facilitated personal discovery and emotional growth.Tune in for an authentic conversation that demystifies the world of professional domination.Support the Show.--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content available here.

In this episode, we dive deep into the world of pup play, and neurodivergence. Joining us as our guest is Puppy Ripley (aka Sir Kris), to talk about their personal experiences with autism, pup play, and their kink journey. They share their story about how they got into Pup play, their transition from Alpha pup to Dom, and their involvement in Puppy Ireland and charity work. Plus, we explore how pup play has been a supportive tool for them in relation to their autism and discuss ways the BDSM community can become more inclusive for individuals with autism and neurodivergence. Many thanks to Puppy Ripley, and we hope you love the episode.Useful linksInstagram: @puppyripley, @pupsofirelandSwitchboardKinky EventsSupport the Show.--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content available here.

Do you overthink your BDSM scenes or D/s dynamic? In this episode, Chief shares his thoughts on why overthinking the details can kill the mood in the bedroom and make your D/s dynamic trickier. He also discusses areas you SHOULD be thinking about instead, and ways to ensure your Dom/sub relationship is on the right track.Support the Show.--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content available here.

Chief and Moineau chat with Miss Mae Ling, a professional Dominatrix living in Los Angeles. How did she come to be a pro Domme? What excites her most about her job? What tips does she have to help women feel more dominant? And what advice can she offer to couples who want to introduce dominance and submission into their relationship? Find out in this episode of Conversations with a Dom.Warning: This episode contains a brief discussion of sexual assault at 3:53. Find out more about Miss Mae Ling: https://missmaeling.com/.Support the Show.--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content available here.

In this BDSM podcast episode, Chief and Moineau discuss a Reddit thread titled 'Wives of Reddit, what is a sexual fantasy you could never tell to your husband?'. The episode includes tips on taking about kinks with your partner, how Chief and Moineau's limits have changed over time, forced orgams, and getting kicked out of a club for having sex in the toilets!Support the Show.--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content available here.

Get ready for a sizzling rollercoaster of emotions in this electrifying episode! Join us as we delve into the uncharted territory of our first-ever BDSM performance at Mistress Jane's Divine Darkness event. Feel the adrenaline rush as we spill the beans on our pre-event jitters, the nerve-wracking process of figuring out the perfect moves, and the heart-pounding aftermath as we dissect how it all went down.We delver into the world of Sensual Dominance, opening the door to BDSM for every couple daring enough to explore. We also share a cascade of top-notch ideas you can try out that will transform your bedroom into a playground of passion. So join us for an adventure into the wild side of sensual intimacy that you won't want to miss!Support the Show.--------------For Doms: Sensational Scenes: How to Heighten Arousal, Induce Subspace, and Have Mind-Blowing Sexual Experiences in Dom sub Relationships. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book). For subs: Learn The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos). For all: Rope bondage. Learn rope bondage for D/s couples with our online video course Sinful Shibari (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari). Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content available here.