Brianna Approved

In this episode, we’re talking about why making a decision is so damn hard…even after overthinking every possible outcome! You’re not necessarily afraid of making the wrong decision. You’re afraid of the emotional consequences that come with it: the guilt, the regret, and the “what ifs.” We’re unpacking how to work through those feelings so you can move forward without waiting to feel 100% certain. In Episode 93, we discuss:• Why keeping your options open feels so comforting.• Why “this hurts” doesn’t automatically mean “I chose wrong.”• The emotional cost of staying, leaving, and putting it off.• Questions to help you make a choice without needing 100% certainty.• How fear of disappointing someone else can keep you stuck.• The difference between needing more information and wanting a guarantee.___Ready to make real changes, not just think about them?If you want support turning insight into action and breaking patterns that keep repeating, you can explore working together ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! Coaching is designed to help you build systems, track evidence, and rewire patterns in a way that actually sticks.___Be sure to follow my Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@briannadiorio⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for all the Brianna Approved educational content! Check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Storefront ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠for all of my favorite Brianna Approved things!You can visit my website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.briannadiorio.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to learn more.

In episode 92 of the podcast, I sit down with author and educator Dr. Najwa Zebian to talk about emotional depth, letting go, and her newest book, The One Who Broke You Can’t Heal You. We get into being a “hopium addict,” confusing someone’s potential with who they actually are, and what happens when being understanding turns into endlessly accommodating.If you’ve ever thought, “I understand why you’re like this, but why am I the one paying for it?”....this conversation is for you.In this episode:Recognizing someone’s emotional capacity before you’re attached.What to look for in a partner when you love deeply.Why their potential can be harder to release than the actual person.The different bonds that keep you stuck in a relationship.Moving forward without their apology, explanation, or closure.Get Najwa’s book: The One Who Broke You Can’t Heal YouListen to her podcast: ⁠Beyond Words with Najwa Zebian⁠Follow her on IG___Ready to make real changes, not just think about them?If you want support turning insight into action and breaking patterns that keep repeating, you can explore working together ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! Coaching is designed to help you build systems, track evidence, and rewire patterns in a way that actually sticks.___Be sure to follow my Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠@briannadiorio⁠⁠⁠⁠ for all the Brianna Approved educational content! Check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Storefront ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠for all of my favorite Brianna Approved things!You can visit my website ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.briannadiorio.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ to learn more.Production Manager and Graphics ⁠⁠⁠⁠@kylediorio⁠

In Episode 91, we're diving into Why Maximizers Stay Stuck, Satisficers Move Forward, and the Freedom of Choosing.In this episode, we cover:The psychology of maximizers vs. satisficers and why some people stay stuck while others move forward.Why more options don't always lead to better outcomes...and can actually increase anxiety.The difference between settling and making intentional trade-offs.How the Four Burners Theory can help you prioritize what truly matters.Why certainty is a myth and confidence comes from commitment, not perfect information.Practical tools and journal prompts to help you make decisions with greater clarity and less regret.___Ready to make real changes, not just think about them?If you want support turning insight into action and breaking patterns that keep repeating, you can explore working together ⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠! Coaching is designed to help you build systems, track evidence, and rewire patterns in a way that actually sticks.___Be sure to follow my Instagram ⁠⁠⁠@briannadiorio⁠⁠⁠ for all the Brianna Approved educational content! Check out my ⁠⁠⁠⁠Amazon Storefront ⁠⁠⁠⁠for all of my favorite Brianna Approved things!You can visit my website ⁠⁠⁠⁠www.briannadiorio.com⁠⁠⁠ to learn more.Production Manager and Graphics ⁠⁠⁠@kylediorio

If you’ve ever felt stuck, indecisive, or like you’re waiting for clarity before making a big life decision, this episode is for you!In this episode, we will cover:Why you feel stuck: your brain prioritizes certainty over happinessPredictive processing: your brain runs mostly on internal predictions—not realityWhy you choose what’s familiar (even when it’s wrong for you)How loss aversion + dopamine keep you looping and overthinkingNerd Alert: Predictive Brain ModePractice What You Podcast:Manually close the loop: Replace catastrophic thoughts with grounded uncertaintyUncertainty Exposure Training: Small, controlled risks to retrain your brainName the pattern: Identify where you’re choosing familiar over alignedThe 70% Rule: If it’s 70% aligned, take actionTrack evidence: Build proof that uncertainty doesn’t equal dangerFlip loss aversion: Ask “What is it costing me to stay the same?”___Ready to make real changes, not just think about them?If you want support turning insight into action and breaking patterns that keep repeating, you can explore working together ⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠! Coaching is designed to help you build systems, track evidence, and rewire patterns in a way that actually sticks.___Be sure to follow my Instagram ⁠⁠@briannadiorio⁠⁠ for all the Brianna Approved educational content! Check out my ⁠⁠⁠Amazon Storefront ⁠⁠⁠for all of my favorite Brianna Approved things!You can visit my website ⁠⁠⁠www.briannadiorio.com⁠⁠ to learn more.Production Manager and Graphics ⁠⁠@kylediorio

In episode 89 of the podcast, we discuss why grief isn’t just emotional….it’s neurological.In this episode, we discuss:Why grief can feel physically painful and what’s happening in the brain when we experience loss in any form (Nerd Alert Segment)Why grief tends to come in waves rather than a predictable timelineWhy the traditional stages of grief are often misunderstood4 types of unexpected grief that many people experienceHow grief can show up as anxiety, numbness, rumination, or emotional floodingPractice What You PodcastAt the end of the episode, during the Practice What You Podcast section, we shift into practical application and explore how the nervous system processes grief and what actually helps when it hits hardest.You’ll learn:What actually helps in the moment when grief suddenly intensifiesTools to regulate the nervous system during waves of sadness or overwhelmHow to coexist with grief (and even befriend it) instead of trying to outrun it or letting it take overHow to track progress in grief beyond simply “feeling better”Practical tools that help alongside time…not just “give it time” advice.____Ready to make real changes, not just think about them?If you want support turning insight into action and breaking patterns that keep repeating, you can explore working together ⁠⁠here⁠⁠! Coaching is designed to help you build systems, track evidence, and rewire patterns in a way that actually sticks.___Be sure to follow my Instagram ⁠@briannadiorio⁠ for all the Brianna Approved educational content! Check out my ⁠⁠Amazon Storefront ⁠⁠for all of my favorite Brianna Approved things!You can visit my website ⁠⁠www.briannadiorio.com⁠ to learn more.Production Manager and Graphics ⁠@kylediorio

In Episode 88, we’re talking about how to stop letting feelings hijack your choices, and how to start using evidence — not impulse — as your compass.In this episode, we break down:Why emotional intensity is not the same thing as truthNerd Alert: The brain systems behind emotions vs feelingsThe difference between emotions, feelings, and evidence (and why it matters)How two people can experience the same event and walk away with opposite conclusionsPractice What You Podcast: A simple, evidence-based framework to stop repeating the same patterns___Ready to make real changes, not just think about them?If you want support turning insight into action and breaking patterns that keep repeating, you can explore working together ⁠here⁠! Coaching is designed to help you build systems, track evidence, and rewire patterns in a way that actually sticks.___Be sure to follow my Instagram @briannadiorio for all the Brianna Approved educational content! Check out my ⁠Amazon Storefront ⁠for all of my favorite Brianna Approved things!You can visit my website ⁠www.briannadiorio.com to learn more.Production Manager and Graphics @kylediorio

In episode 87, we are going over all things habits! Bad habits aren’t a willpower issue — they’re a brain wiring issue. In this episode, we break down why your brain automates patterns that don’t serve you, why trying harder doesn’t work, and how to actually rewire habits using neuroscience (not motivation).In this episode, we cover:Why your brain runs so much of your day on autopilotWhere habits actually live in the brain (and why logic can’t stop them)The 4-step habit loop: cue → craving → response → reward (via James Clears Atomic Habits)Why you don’t crave the habit — you crave the state changeHow stress makes bad habits strongerHow to break habits by changing cues, friction, and rewardsWhy identity beats motivation when it comes to lasting changeIf you’re stuck in a start-stop cycle, this episode will help you stop blaming yourself and start working with your brain instead of against it.___Ready to make real changes, not just think about them?If you want support turning insight into action and breaking patterns that keep repeating, you can explore working together here! Coaching is designed to help you build systems, track evidence, and rewire patterns in a way that actually sticks.___Check out my ⁠⁠Amazon Storefront ⁠⁠for all of my favorite Brianna Approved things!You can visit my website ⁠⁠www.briannadiorio.com⁠ to learn more.Production Manager and Graphics ⁠@kylediorio⁠

In this episode, we break down the real neuroscience behind anxiety, avoidance, procrastination, and the Sunday Scaries — and give you practical tools to interrupt the patterns your brain keeps running on autopilot. You’ll finally understand what your brain is doing, why it’s doing it, and how to retrain it.By the end of this episode, you’ll walk away knowing:Why your brain predicts the worst How dopamine actually drives avoidance Why Sundays hit so hard How the threat circuit, DMN, and executive network shape procrastination Why your brain is doing this and how to use these tools to retrain it.___Work With MeIf you want to go deeper into this work — the patterns, the tools, the rewiring — and you want support and accountability tailored to your brain, you can work with me 1:1. This is where we take the science and apply it directly to your life so you can create real, lasting change.___Be sure to follow my Instagram @briannadiorio for all the Brianna Approved educational content! Check out my ⁠Amazon Storefront ⁠for all of my favorite Brianna Approved things!You can visit my website ⁠www.briannadiorio.com to learn more.Production Manager and Graphics @kylediorio___

We talk about dating breakups all the time — but almost no one talks about the heartbreak of losing a friend. In this episode, we unpacks the hidden grief of friendship endings, the roles we unconsciously play, and how to know when a friendship has simply expired.You’ll learn:• Why friendship breakups can feel more painful than romantic ones• The hidden “roles” we play — fixer, caretaker, hype-friend, etc.• How to move from legacy friendships to aligned connections• How to heal without becoming guarded or cold• Practical ways to make new, aligned friendships as an adultJoin the live workshop — “From Self-Doubt to Self-Trust” on Oct 29:Learn how to rebuild self-trust, set clean boundaries, and make aligned decisions.→ Register here! ___Be sure to follow my Instagram ⁠@briannadiorio⁠ for all the Brianna Approved educational content! You can visit my website ⁠⁠www.briannadiorio.com⁠ to learn more.Production Manager and Graphics ⁠@kylediorio⁠

Have you ever known something was bad for you—a relationship, a job, a habit—but kept going back anyway? In this episode, we unpack the hidden psychology and brain science that keep you stuck in cycles you know aren’t serving you. By the end, you’ll not only understand why you cling to what hurts—you’ll leave with practical tools to start loosening that grip.In this episode, we explore:The Psychology of Holding OnSunk Cost Fallacy — why leaving feels like failure instead of freedomCognitive Dissonance — the mind’s tricks to justify staying stuckRegion Beta Paradox — why “not bad enough” situations keep you trappedIntermittent Reinforcement — the most addictive reward schedule in the brainNerd Alert- The Neuroscience of Addiction to PainDopamine, prediction error, and why unpredictability feels so intoxicatingBrain regions like the ACC, VTA, and nucleus accumbens that wire you to chase what hurts___The Inner Work Room Intensive – Enrollment Open You don’t need more information—you need implementation. This 5-week container takes the neuroscience, psychology, and mindset tools from the podcast and puts them into practice with guided exercises and accountability.We start October 6th, and spots are limited. If you’re ready for momentum, structure, and real tools to rewire your patterns—this is for you. Join HERE - your future self will thank you for the work you're doing!___Be sure to follow my Instagram @briannadiorio for all the Brianna Approved educational content! You can visit my website ⁠www.briannadiorio.com to learn more.Production Manager and Graphics @kylediorio