311:Be Patient

I'm going blue for this episode because I discuss the reasons why people on the autism spectrum are afraid of police enforcement personnel. Additionally, I also talk about how a caretaker can help and improve the circumstances. I also advise parents on how to help their autistic children engage with police enforcement in a courteous and peaceful manner. I also provide law enforcement personnel with supplies like sensory bags, which makes things better. Lastly, I explain what people with autism can do and how law enforcement personnel can work together. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7X1v0RKKH2k https://autismriskmanagement.com/ https://www.bluebridgetraining.com/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w_MTHTO0Ptw    

Today, I am joined by Katie Deckard from Experience VU, who I hold in the highest regard. Since 2022, Katie has been the director of Experience VU at Vincennes University. Katie holds her doctorate in education from the University of Southern Indiana and an undergraduate degree from Indiana University in secondary special education and light interventions. Having spent seven years as a high school teacher, Katie is a passionate supporter of a universal framework for learning. She is currently a mentor for college students with disabillities. Katie loves to spend her free time on the farm with her dog Mabel and her recently married husband Colby. Let's welcome the incredibly sweet Katie Deckard to the podcast. https://www.vinu.edu/experience-vu.html

Join me as I speak about patience. I also discuss the patience level folks on the autism spectrum have. I also give examples of situations in which people with autism could become impatient. Additionally, I describe how parents and children with autism may pass on patience to one another. I even explain why patience is a virtue that should be shared by all people. It doesn't end there since I also provide advice to children and their parents on what to do if they start to lose patience.  https://www.youtube.com/shorts/JPTWpDiykZQ https://medium.com/@miamiautismdad/how-my-autistic-daughter-taught-me-patience-1b1b2740296b

In this episode, I speak about catastrophizing and what this concept is about. I also tell the parents the statements they should and should not say when those on the autism spectrum catastrophize. I even tell the parents some triggers that make those on the spectrum catastrophize. I as well tell the parents what it is like in our brain when we catastrophize. Finally, I do give some help because I give the parents ideas on how to manage the catastrophic thinking.  https://www.youtube.com/shorts/yFmqbYqJzvY

Endre Hoffmann, the Doctor of Self-Worth, who is also my sponsor and friend, will approach this episode differently. Endre helps business owners reach their greatest potential and bring about dramatic shifts. He offers support to entrepreneurs who are overworked, exhausted, insecure, and self-conscious. He assists them let go of the conflict so they can achieve confidence and inner serenity. He assists individuals in rediscovering their innate sense of value and authentic leadership. As reported by someone who worked with him: I knew he needed to come on after my session. Please give the proper respect to this man and give Endre a warm welcome to Autism Rocks And Rolls.  https://doctorofselfworth.com/

My fellow professional wrestling friends are in for a treat today as I am accompanied by WWE Hall of Famer Jake The Snake Roberts. Considered by many to be one of the most well-known figures in professional wrestling, Mr. Roberts was well-known for his dark appeal, clever and powerful promos, frequent use of trickery in his matches, and inventive usage of the DDT finisher. His two grandkids have cerebral palsy and autism, which is why he appears on my show. Jake, on the other hand, has a unique story to tell; despite having COPD (Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease) and having experienced drug and child abuse , he continues to live his life. Let's welcome resident snake, Jake The Snake Roberts to Autism Rocks and Rolls.

In this episode, I talk about the nature of humor in people on the autistic spectrum, including the kinds of humor that they find funny and how it might manifest itself in different ways. I also explore the myth that individuals on the spectrum don't find comedy humorous, dispelling it by outlining the motivations for their appreciation of humor. I also discuss the issue of whether it's acceptable to make light of someone who has a disability. I also discuss the problem of people with autism spectrum disorders being thought of as "overly humorous," or "overjoking." I also go into why people on the spectrum can be funny, why they frequently don't think of themselves as funny, and why they prefer to show humor with their body language rather than their words. I wrapped off by talking about how some people find it difficult to grasp humor and provided some recommendations for how people on the spectrum might improve their ability to understand and enjoy jokes and humor. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yw91uUfVP6I https://www.amazon.com/Pranklopedia-Funniest-Grossest-Craziest-Not-Mean/dp/0761189963 https://www.amazon.com/Jokelopedia-Biggest-Best-Silliest-Dumbest/dp/0761142088 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5lX gU9 Wok    

In this episode, I discuss budgeting and money management for people on the autism spectrum. I'll discuss why I find the currency system perplexing and what, in my opinion, the currency system needs to be. I also go into the reasons why a person with autism would, consciously or unconsciously, refuse to even accept payment as an option. I even chat to the parents about this subject since I discuss the need of early intervention. Lastly, even though I explain why it is difficult for people who are on the autism spectrum, I also offer advice on how they might become financially independent.  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H2szL2h10yA https://autismakron.org/index.php/documents/resources/apps/300-financial-stability-apps/file https://life-skills.middletownautism.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/7/2017/10/Managing-Money-Workbook.pdf

This is something special for each of my listeners because autism advocate Kadin McElwain is here! Kadin is a writer and a college student who wants to raise awareness and acceptance of autism. People underestimated his abilities because of his autism, but he proved everyone wrong with his hard work and supportive parents. Please assist me in extending a warm welcome to Kadin McElwain.

The issue of small talk and the way people on the spectrum view it will be covered in this episode. I also talk about the times I tried to strike up a conversation but failed. I additionally address when and how to engage in small talk. I even speak about the dangers that people on the spectrum face when doing small talk. I do provide advice to the audience on how to become more proficient at small conversation, but I only offer one significant remedy. To find out what that concept is, you will have to listen. https://www.thearticulateautistic.com/how-the-purpose-of-non-autistic-small-talk-can-backfire-terribly-for-people-on-the-spectrum/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LYCJ9pvQJhA https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hOfbEuaxnok https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hheZ7JfB_vk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SppP05cpw1g https://www.makingsmalltalk.com/