#YourFaveBaddie Talks Sensuality & Sexuality

Where are the Spiritual Men in London? What do I even mean by ' Spiritual' as nowadays everyone uses this word. Divinely masculine spiritual men... we need more of you <3

I've been thinking a lot about the differences in our dating decisions. Dating for Fun vs Dating for Love I find myself coming across a lot of people bringing up the fact that men and women think good sex is enough to bring "to the table", even in building LONG lasting relationships. And don't get me wrong, Sex IS important. But real Union is about other things. Things we can do for each other without materialistic gain, without finances, without sex. Our generation, at least in London, seems so far away from actual intimacy. From actually beautiful bonds - and it's tiring and embarrassing to witness. If you're over 25 looking to build and grow WITH someone.. please understand: Good Sex IS the bare minimum.

Seriously speaking I didn't expect to drop another episode so soon BUT seeing this clip going viral about Blac Chyna claiming she's changing and is worth more than OnlyFans has been problematic to me. I find it problematic that these so called celebrities get supported at any and every decision they make, even if it screams "I'm doing it for money and fame." If a “regular” woman does that it’s not supported as much. It is frowned upon. Everything in Hollywood is preplanned - I don’t get how people see this as authentic. Same way they jumped on the trend of surgeries, lip fillers, tattoos and piercings. - Ain’t nothing real about these people, in my opinion. All in all I DO support change, because that's the only thing in life that is constant. But I do not want our teenage girls to think that jumping on every trend for money is worth it. What are your thoughts?

What is Sensuality to me? How do I define Sensuality?  How has my Sensuality impacted me How has the trend of SelfLove influenced us as a generation over the past few years? Why SelfLove alone is dangerous?  Relationships, Friendships, Dating Avoidant Behaviour  “All about Love” by Bell Hooks  Honesty in relationships  This and more in this episode! 

Now this episode wraps up another topic of my personal life. I've been noticing that because "curves" are in trend, especially BBLs - naturally curvy women aren't allowed to even lose weight anymore. YET once we embrace our natural beauty we immediately get judged.. Have you ever noticed how much judgment naturally curvy women go through when it comes to our body? We're meant to love it but when we embrace it, it's a PROBLEM. How does that make sense? God made me this way, simply let me be. I also breakdown celebrities that go through their own journey and instantly receive judgment of the public eye. Chloe Bailey, Jada Kingdom etc. We finish off the episode even talking about women feeling the need to be or stay curvy even if its not healthy.. Stay mindful of how you talk to people about their body. At the end of the day we never know what people are going through and facing.

Black women are still so infatuated with white hairstyles and I'm struggling to understand why in 2022. Let's address this: What effects does growing up in westernised societies have on us as people? I still see a lot of self hatred that no one really addresses. I feel its watered down and not even accepted by a big part of the community. I'm not here to tell anyone what to do with their hair; but I would LOVE to inspire and encourage black women to embrace their natural hair more. I been hoping for that since I was a small girl. Representation matters, especially now that people from all around can get famous and popular through social media. Even most influencers just looks the same... Another thing: Women not feeling beautiful without lashes, hair and nails done? What does that say about us? Remember that Femininity, Beauty and your Divine Feminine has nothing to do with these things! Instead search for your beauty within and, whether you believe it or not, naturally you will love yourself more.

This time I'm starting off talking about something I've written.. I needed to talk about Men selling themselves short and the difference between Men and "Boys".  Why are certain Men (I'd rather call boys) so thrown off when a Woman approaches them and yet they decide to go back playing with "girls"?   Self Worth and Connection are the biggest points I'm making in this episode. 

In this episode we start it off with Sexual Behaviours/ Types and how they interact with each other. Selfishness in the world & the bedroom: WE DON'T LIKE LAZY FOREPLAY MEN Sexual Health & a womans PH Balance: No you're not going to smell or taste like the fruits you eat Ladies, let's stop with the lies. Men, what you eat and drink matters TOO! How do you feel about someone really wanting to build their life but don’t want to commit.. they want it as a secret? How to be a woman and let a man be a man!

In this episode it's all about Sensuality & Sexuality or is it simply Looks & Personality?   Also what is the deal with the double standards and Body count?

We're used to hearing women are the prize but has that changed?