Why We Stay Podcast

In this episode, we explore the profound journeys of faith and identity within the LDS community, focusing on authentic love, acceptance, and the ongoing effort to bridge cultural gaps. Our guest, Ben Schilaty, shares his personal story of navigating his sexuality while remaining committed to his faith, and offers insights on fostering empathy and understanding in a complex world.Main Topics Covered:The intersection of faith and LGBTQ+ identity in the LDS ChurchHow personal experiences reshape perceptions of community and doctrineThe importance of love, curiosity, and grace in navigating cultural differencesPractical ways to support and include LGBTQ+ members in church lifeThe role of scripture, prayer, and personal revelation in living authenticallyHow church culture can evolve to better serve all membersStories of community, acceptance, and the divine love of God

In this heartfelt interview, Richard Ostler shares his journey from being a YSA Bishop to becoming an advocate for LGBTQ+ inclusion within the LDS Church. The conversation explores how to create safe, loving communities that reflect the teachings of Jesus Christ, emphasizing understanding, vulnerability, and ongoing revelation.

I realized something recently that completely shifted how I see faith — and it’s not what I expected. 😊Drop a 🙌 if you’re still figuring this out too.After years of holding onto a rigid view of faith, I finally understood that faith isn't about certainty — it's about hope.Real faith means embracing the unknown, trusting Jesus even when we don’t have all the answers. That’s what keeps me coming back, not perfection or confirmation.I used to think certainty and faith were the same — but they’re not. Faith requires vulnerability, recognizing our doubts, and still choosing Jesus every day.It’s a journey I’m still on, and I bet many of you are too.But I do believe the heart of it all is Jesus — His love, His grace, His willingness to meet us in our mess.Maybe it’s time we stopped demanding proof and started living out that hope.What’s your take? Do you see faith differently now?

Lauren joins us to walk us through her journey as a missionary for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in Houston, TX. Within the first 3 months of her mission, Lauren and her companion experience unimaginable violence in their missionary apartment. By the power of God, they were spared and have made full recovery. Lauren, in gratitude to God, shares her story and encourages others to do the same to spread the light that comes from following Jesus Christ. Lauren is evidence that life is unpredictable, but the love and healing through Jesus Christ is real and inevitable. This is Why She Stays.

In this episode of the Why We Stay Podcast, hosts Kalyx and Hannah explore the themes of faith, vulnerability, and the complexities of church life. Hannah shares her personal journey of faith, including the impact of her family's struggles and her experiences navigating church alone. The conversation delves into the nature of God, the concept of eternal families, and the importance of love and communication in overcoming life's challenges. Listeners are invited to reflect on their own journeys and find strength in their faith amidst trials. This is Why She Stays.

In this episode of the Why We Stay podcast, Kalyx welcomes new co-host Hannah, who opens up about her personal faith journey and struggles. The discussion then shifts to Wakana’s compelling conversion story, exploring her spiritual transformation, the power of prayer, and a profound dream in which she encounters Jesus Christ. Throughout the conversation, the episode highlights the importance of community, friendship, and the shared experiences that shape faith. Wakana candidly reflects on her challenges, from seeking family acceptance to the joy of baptism and the unwavering support of friends. Her story underscores the strength found in faith, the resilience to overcome obstacles, and the joy of embracing the gospel. This heartfelt discussion encourages listeners to approach their own spiritual journeys with openness and courage. This is Why Wakana Stays.

In this episode of the Why We Stay Podcast, host Kalyx welcomes Allie Bills, a fellow podcast host and aspiring musician, who shares her journey of faith, personal struggles, and the importance of community in nurturing one's beliefs. Allie discusses her new podcast, Continued Conversion, which focuses on the experiences of believers in maintaining their faith amidst life's challenges. The conversation delves into Allie's personal battles with self-esteem and eating disorders, her transformative mission experience, and the profound impact of her grandmother's wisdom during her final days. The episode emphasizes the significance of understanding the Atonement of Jesus Christ and invites listeners to explore their own faith journeys.

In this episode of the Why We Stay Podcast, host Kalyx welcomes Allie Bills, a fellow podcast host and aspiring musician, who shares her journey of faith, personal struggles, and the importance of community in nurturing one's beliefs. Allie discusses her new podcast, Continued Conversion, which focuses on the experiences of believers in maintaining their faith amidst life's challenges. The conversation delves into Allie's personal battles with self-esteem and eating disorders, her transformative mission experience, and the profound impact of her grandmother's wisdom during her final days. The episode emphasizes the significance of understanding the Atonement of Jesus Christ and invites listeners to explore their own faith journeys.

Lexi shares her journey of addiction and recovery within the context of her faith. She discusses her early experiences in the Church, her struggles with various addictions, and the support she received from loved ones and priesthood leaders. Lexi emphasizes the importance of living a recovery lifestyle and finding healing through the Atonement. She also highlights the significance of the temple in her life and the love she feels there. Despite setbacks, Lexi remains committed to her faith and continues to fight for sobriety and spiritual growth. In this conversation, Lexi shares her journey of overcoming addiction and finding healing through the Atonement of Jesus Christ. She discusses the challenges she faced, the role of religion in her recovery, and the importance of vulnerability. Lexi also highlights the Addiction Recovery Program offered by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and the impact it has had on her healing process. The conversation emphasizes the power of prayer and developing a personal relationship with Heavenly Father. This is Why She Stays.

Lexi shares her journey of addiction and recovery within the context of her faith. She discusses her early experiences in the Church, her struggles with various addictions, and the support she received from loved ones and priesthood leaders. Lexi emphasizes the importance of living a recovery lifestyle and finding healing through the Atonement. She also highlights the significance of the temple in her life and the love she feels there. Despite setbacks, Lexi remains committed to her faith and continues to fight for sobriety and spiritual growth. In this conversation, Lexi shares her journey of overcoming addiction and finding healing through the Atonement of Jesus Christ. She discusses the challenges she faced, the role of religion in her recovery, and the importance of vulnerability. Lexi also highlights the Addiction Recovery Program offered by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and the impact it has had on her healing process. The conversation emphasizes the power of prayer and developing a personal relationship with Heavenly Father. This is Why She Stays.