Why we forget people exist (Emotional Object Permanence)

In this episode, Stephen Martin discusses the intersection of dyslexia and motivation, sharing seven key strategies to enhance motivation for dyslexic thinkers and those with ADHD. He emphasizes the importance of emotional object permanence, consistency in efforts, the role of narrative thinking, and the significance of creativity. Additionally, he explores the impact of dopamine-driven rewards, nutrition, and sleep on motivation, providing actionable insights for listeners.TakeawaysDyslexia and ADHD often coexist, affecting motivation.Emotional object permanence means 'out of sight, out of mind.'Visual reminders can help maintain focus on goals.Consistency is key; 80% of success comes from routine.Narrative thinking can help dyslexics navigate challenges.Creativity is not just artistic; it's problem-solving.Dopamine-driven rewards can motivate but must be managed.Nutrition and diet significantly impact motivation and focus.Sleep quality directly affects motivation levels.Implementing these strategies can lead to significant life changes.Keywordsdyslexia, motivation, ADHD, emotional object permanence, visual reminders, creativity, dopamine, nutrition, sleep, strategies, adults with dyslexia, support for adults.If you want to find out more visit:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠truthaboutdyslexia.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join our Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠facebook.com/groups/adultdyslexia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow the RightSiders Supplement Journey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠rightsiders.org/wait-list ⁠⁠

In this episode, Stephen welcomes back Philip Long to discuss his journey over the past year, focusing on his work with dyslexic students at a private school. Philip shares insights on the importance of technology in education, adapting teaching methods to individual needs, and the emotional support required for dyslexic learners. He emphasizes the need for self-advocacy, building confidence, and finding one's strengths. The conversation highlights the challenges dyslexic students face and the importance of providing them with the right tools and resources to succeed.TakeawaysDyslexia affects students in different ways, and technology can bridge learning gaps.Adapting teaching methods to individual needs is crucial for success.Emotional support is as important as academic support for dyslexic students.Building self-worth and confidence is essential for dyslexic learners.Finding one's brilliance can help dyslexic individuals excel in their strengths.Advocacy for oneself is a key skill for dyslexic students.The right tools and resources can significantly impact learning outcomes.Dyslexic individuals can achieve great success with the right support.It's important to challenge limiting beliefs associated with dyslexia.Community support and fundraising are vital for providing resources to dyslexic students.Keywordsdyslexia, education, technology, emotional support, learning disabilities, advocacy, self-worth, teaching methods, confidence, fundraisingIf you want to find out more visit:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠truthaboutdyslexia.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join our Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠facebook.com/groups/adultdyslexia⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow the RightSiders Supplement Journey⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠rightsiders.org/wait-list ⁠

In this episode, Stephen Martin discusses the concept of two-way writing as a tool for dyslexics to improve self-esteem and confidence. He emphasizes the negative impact of self-talk and introduces two-way writing as a method to reframe thoughts by writing to oneself from the perspective of a supportive figure. The episode provides practical advice on how to implement this technique in daily life, encouraging listeners to explore their emotions and thoughts through writing.TakeawaysTwo-way writing can help improve self-esteem and confidence.Negative self-talk is damaging and pervasive.Writing to oneself as a third person can change perspective.Visualization is more effective than affirmations for dyslexics.Journaling can be a powerful tool for emotional release.Writing letters from supportive figures can provide comfort.The process of writing is more important than the outcome.Letting thoughts flow freely can lead to surprising insights.Forgiveness can be expressed through writing to oneself.Regular practice of two-way writing can enhance emotional well-being.Keywordsdyslexia, self-esteem, confidence, two-way writing, negative self-talk, personal growth, emotional well-being, journaling, mental health, self-improvement, ADHD, adults with dyslexia, support for adults.If you want to find out more visit:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠truthaboutdyslexia.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join our Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠facebook.com/groups/adultdyslexia⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow the RightSiders Supplement Journey⁠⁠⁠⁠rightsiders.org/wait-list ⁠

In this episode, Stephen engages with Guy and Suzanne Pope-Mayell to discuss the complexities of dyslexia, particularly in the context of the COVID-19 pandemic. They explore how the pandemic has shifted parental involvement in children's education, the importance of self-esteem in dyslexic individuals, and the need for a more nuanced understanding of neurodiversity. The conversation highlights the significance of inner work and self-awareness in overcoming limiting beliefs, illustrated through real-life success stories. The episode emphasizes the transformative power of coaching and hypnosis in building confidence and self-acceptance among those with dyslexia. In this conversation, Guy and Suzanne Pope-Mayell explore the journey of overcoming limiting beliefs, particularly in the context of neurodiversity and dyslexia. They discuss the importance of identifying inner challenges, the power of creative thinking, and the necessity of finding the right support. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of trusting oneself in the process of personal growth and the impact of parenting on self-discovery. Ultimately, they highlight that change begins with a clear intention and the willingness to let go of past limitations.TakeawaysCOVID-19 has changed parental involvement in education.Dyslexia is often misunderstood as a problem rather than a gift.Self-esteem is the only disabling aspect of dyslexia.The journey of self-awareness is crucial for neurodiverse individuals.Transformational change often starts with changing limiting beliefs.Coaching can help replace limiting beliefs with empowering ones.Inner work is essential for personal growth and confidence.Dyslexics often develop resilience through adversity.Breath work can facilitate healing and transformation.It's never too late to change one's beliefs about themselves. It's important to recognize the benefits of limiting beliefs.Identifying what holds you back is the first step.Creative thinking can be a challenge for many.Recording thoughts can help clarify feelings.Understanding whose problem it is can empower you.Finding the right support is crucial for growth.Starting the inner work is essential for change.Neurodiversity can be a gift that leads to deeper insights.Parenting can trigger self-discovery and reflection.Everything begins with a clear intention for change.Keywordsdyslexia, neurodiversity, education, self-esteem, COVID-19, inner work, limiting beliefs, empowerment, coaching, hypnosis, limiting beliefs, inner work, neurodiversity, dyslexia, self-discovery, creative thinking, support, personal growth, emotional resilience, coaching, ADHD, adults with dyslexia, support for adults.If you want to find out more visit:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠truthaboutdyslexia.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join our Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠facebook.com/groups/adultdyslexia⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow the RightSiders Supplement Journey⁠⁠⁠⁠rightsiders.org/wait-list ⁠

In this conversation, Stephen Martin shares three essential rules for dyslexics embarking on new projects. He emphasizes the importance of not overthinking, setting realistic timeframes, and collaborating with others. Drawing from his personal experiences in entrepreneurship, he provides insights into how dyslexia and ADHD can impact project management and offers practical advice to help others succeed.TakeawaysDon't get stuck in your head; overthinking can halt progress.Set realistic deadlines to avoid procrastination.Plan for triple the time you think it will take.Collaboration is key; don't try to do it all alone.Dyslexics often underestimate the time required for tasks.Having a deadline can motivate action and completion.It's important to find support from others in your projects.Learning from repeated mistakes is part of the process.Acting too fast can lead to foolish decisions.Understanding your brain's tendencies can help in project management.Keywordsdyslexia, project management, ADHD, entrepreneurship, time management, collaboration, mental health, self-improvement, productivity, neurodiversity,  adults with dyslexia, support for adults.If you want to find out more visit:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠truthaboutdyslexia.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join our Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠facebook.com/groups/adultdyslexia⁠⁠⁠Follow the RightSiders Supplement Journey⁠⁠⁠rightsiders.org/wait-list ⁠

In this episode, Stephen discusses the critical role of sleep for individuals with dyslexia and ADHD, sharing personal experiences and insights on how sleep affects various aspects of life. He explores the challenges of sleep, including cortisol spikes and the effects of melatonin, while offering practical strategies for improving sleep quality. Stephen emphasizes the importance of tailored support for neurodiverse individuals in achieving better sleep and overall well-being.TakeawaysSleep is essential for neurodiverse individuals' well-being.Poor sleep can lead to a negative cycle affecting daily life.Cortisol spikes can disrupt sleep patterns, especially in ADHD.Melatonin may not be effective for everyone and can have side effects.Visual loops in the mind can hinder the ability to sleep.Reducing screen time before bed is crucial for better sleep.Listening to calming audio can help transition to sleep.Natural supplements may be more beneficial than synthetic ones.Creating a sleep-friendly environment is key to improving sleep.Support and understanding of neurodiversity can enhance sleep quality.Keywordsdyslexia, ADHD, neurodiversity, sleep, melatonin, cortisol, supplements, sleep strategies, mental health, wellness, adults with dyslexia, support for adults.If you want to find out more visit:⁠⁠⁠⁠truthaboutdyslexia.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Join our Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠⁠facebook.com/groups/adultdyslexia⁠⁠Follow the RightSiders Supplement Journey⁠⁠rightsiders.org/wait-list ⁠

In this episode, Stephen Martin discusses the concept of dyslexic burnout, particularly as it affects entrepreneurs and parents during stressful times. He breaks down the nature of burnout, its symptoms, and how it differs from depression. Stephen emphasizes the importance of recognizing the type of burnout one is experiencing and offers practical strategies for coping, including seeking support and finding effective stress relief methods.TakeawaysDyslexic burnout can manifest as overwhelming fatigue and stress.It's important to differentiate between short-term and long-term burnout.Recognizing the signs of burnout is crucial for managing it effectively.Talking about your feelings can alleviate stress and provide clarity.Stimulation can be a coping mechanism for burnout, but it can also exacerbate it.Self-awareness is key in understanding your burnout triggers.It's okay to take time off without feeling guilty.Support from friends or professionals can help navigate burnout.Finding effective stress relief methods is essential for recovery.Burnout is a common experience for those with dyslexia and ADHD.Keywordsdyslexia, ADHD, burnout, mental health, stress relief, self-care, awareness, coping strategies, emotional well-being, dyslexic challenges, adults with dyslexia, support for adults.If you want to find out more visit:⁠⁠⁠truthaboutdyslexia.com⁠⁠⁠⁠Join our Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠facebook.com/groups/adultdyslexia⁠Follow the RightSiders Supplement Journey⁠rightsiders.org/wait-list

In this conversation, Stephen discusses the transition to remote work and its implications, particularly for individuals with dyslexia. He highlights the challenges of information overload, the importance of effective communication, and the tools that can aid productivity. Stephen emphasizes the need for work boundaries and self-compassion in navigating a work environment that often overlooks neurodiversity.TakeawaysThe shift to remote work has changed how we communicate.Dyslexia affects information processing, not just spelling.Emails can be a significant distraction in modern work.Using tools like Notebook LM can enhance understanding.Organizing digital spaces can reduce stress and improve efficiency.Screen capture tools like Loom can clarify communication.Establishing work boundaries is crucial for mental health.Self-kindness is important when mistakes happen.The work environment often isn't designed for neurodiverse brains.It's essential to adapt strategies that work for individual needs.Keywordsremote work, dyslexia, productivity tools, information overload, work boundaries, neurodiversity, accessibility, mental health, communication, organization, ADHD, adults with dyslexia, support for adults.If you want to find out more visit:⁠⁠⁠truthaboutdyslexia.com⁠⁠⁠⁠Join our Facebook Group⁠⁠⁠facebook.com/groups/adultdyslexia⁠Follow the RightSiders Supplement Journey⁠rightsiders.org/wait-list 

In this conversation, Stephen Martin discusses the emotional challenges faced by individuals diagnosed with dyslexia later in life, emphasizing the feelings of grief and loss associated with this experience. He challenges the common perception of creativity, arguing that it can manifest in various forms, including problem-solving and emotional support. Martin encourages listeners to redefine their understanding of creativity and to seek validation from others. He also shares his personal journey of launching a supplement brand aimed at addressing sleep issues commonly faced by dyslexics, inviting listeners to join him on this new venture.TakeawaysWhen diagnosed later in life, it can feel like your whole life story just got rewritten.Creativity doesn't always look loud; it can be quiet problem solving.Dyslexics may have their creativity buried under years of negative feedback.Innovation is about pulling multiple ideas together in new ways.Everyone has different levels of creativity and unique expressions.Confidence can be impacted by past experiences and feedback from others.Dyslexia is just part of our operating system, not a defining trait.Seeking external validation can help rediscover lost creativity.Creativity can come in many formats, not just traditional art forms.Launching a supplement brand to address common dyslexic challenges is an exciting new journey.Keywordsdyslexia, creativity, late diagnosis, emotional impact, problem solving, unique expressions, innovation, personal journey, supplement brand, mental health, ADHD, adults with dyslexia, support for adults.If you want to find out more visit:⁠⁠truthaboutdyslexia.com⁠⁠⁠Join our Facebook Group⁠⁠facebook.com/groups/adultdyslexiaFollow the RightSiders Supplement Journeyrightsiders.org/wait-list

In this episode of the Truth About Dyslexia, Stephen Martin delves into the multifaceted nature of dyslexia, emphasizing that it extends beyond just reading, writing, and spelling. He shares his personal journey with dyslexia, highlighting the importance of understanding one's unique cognitive processes, particularly the visual thinking that many dyslexics experience. Stephen also discusses the mission of his podcast, aiming to raise awareness and provide support for individuals with dyslexia, ultimately fostering self-awareness and empowerment.TakeawaysDyslexia is often misunderstood as just a spelling issue.Personal experiences shape our understanding of dyslexia.Visual thinking is a key trait of dyslexics.Hands-on learning is crucial for dyslexics.Self-awareness is essential for personal growth.Perfectionism can be a challenge for visual thinkers.Dyslexics have unique cognitive strengths.The podcast aims to educate and empower dyslexics.Understanding dyslexia can change life outcomes.Community support is vital for those with dyslexia.Keywordsdyslexia, learning differences, visual thinking, self-awareness, education, adult dyslexia, personal journey, podcast, understanding dyslexia, dyslexic traits, ADHDadults with dyslexia, support for adults.If you want to find out more visit:⁠⁠truthaboutdyslexia.com⁠⁠⁠Join our Facebook Group⁠⁠facebook.com/groups/adultdyslexia