Pleasure And Pain: the Femdom Guide To Rough Kink

They say they’re FILTHY and MILFY and this is a new podcast you will thoroughly enjoy! Ellen Ancui and Sophie Levine are the FILTHY MILFS. Sophie says, “We’re just a couple of randy, curious, highly intelligent horn dogs.”  What a fun conversation!Topics include:The power of female sexualityEmbracing the SLUT labelSocial standards for the sexual behavior of womenSelf empowerment that comes with BDSM, kink, Femdom, and sex work.Sexual pleasure and agingExploring the popularity of MILFSSexually experienced women and confidence.What did family and friends think of the name of the podcast?Join us for this uncensored and intimate conversation with the FILTHY MILFS.Look for the FILTHY MILFS podcast on all the podcast platforms and Youtube!Here’s the FILTHY MILFS on SpotifyMistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced [email protected] Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone [email protected]: LDWOlivia and LDWErika

What is rough kink or BDSM pain play? What makes that different from other kinds of rough sex?  Why does a Femdom enjoy delivering pain? This episode explores pleasure and pain to answer listener questions about BDSM.Topics include:What is rough kink in the framework of BDSM pain play?How rough does it need to be to be considered BDSM?Who gets to define it?What are some of the items used in rough kink?Does someone need a spanking or CBT to be considered pain play?How do you know you’re ready to explore rough kink?How do you communicate with your partner?The role of BDSM negotiation in safe scenes.What is a safe word and how does it apply in BDSM?How does a Mistress gauge when to push your boundaries?What sorts of questions should a Dominatrix ask you before pain play?BDSM terms:SSC: safe, sane and consensualRACK: risk-aware consensual kinkPRICK:  personal responsibility, informed, consensual kink or personally responsible in consensual kink.AndThe 4 C’s:  caring, communication consent and caution.The importance of aftercare for the submissive and the Mistress.Personal stories, behind the scenes of Distance Domination, and more. You never know what you’ll hear and we appreciate you enjoying the podcast!Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyDISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Popular adult entertainer with multiple accolades from AVN, XBIZ and Transgender Erotica Awards (just to name a few) returns to the podcast to talk about the porn industry, changes in the adult industry and being in control of her career.Topics include:Why being a porn star used to be more glamorous.The role of Only Fans in changing the porn industry.How Only Fans allows adult entertainers to connect directly with fans.Creating custom adult content on demand.Being a trans woman in the adult industry:Exploring sex, sexuality and a variety of partnersDating while being in the adult industryObjectification as a trans womanObjectification as a sex workerComing out to her conservative familyBeing a business woman:Ways in which the adult industry allows for financial freedom Why working for a porn studio is often not worth itBeing part of the all trans cast of the Lily Wachowski’s sci fi film D.O.L.L.SThis conversation is a thoughtful peek behind the scenes of porn, the adult industry, stigma and sex work. Listener questions inspired many of the topics in this interview.Here’s to all of us living life without regrets!Eva Maxim’s Only Fans pageTwitter X: @Eva_Maxim      AdultTime (where to watch D.O.L.L.S)Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyDISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Get to know one of the hottest porn stars in the adult industry, Eva Maxim. This trans woman is the winner of a lot of awards. You know her from her hot sex scenes but today you’ll get a peek behind the scenes.Today’s episode talks about:Adult industry awardsThe business side of pleasureWhy and how Only Fans has changed the adult industry.Why she prefers producing content for Only Fans rather than filming a scene for a traditional porn studio.Eva graciously answers listener questions about:When she fully realized she is a STARPrepping for a porn shootConnection to the sissy communitySpeaking of sissies, since Eva is a Top, it’s natural to ask her about trying some Femdom scenes with a sissy or two.  Ms Olivia and Ms Erika offer to team up with some Domme content.This is the first of a 2 part interview and Eva will be back again!Eva Maxim Only FansTwitter X:  @Eva_MaximMistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced [email protected] Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone [email protected]: LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Are you curious about threesomes, foursomes and moresomes? This episode has tips on group sex, personal stories and lots of advice.Adult entertainment publicist and author Lainie Speiser joins us to talk about her book: Threesomes: For couples who want to know more.The Weekly Hot Spot podcast listeners sent in lots of questions. How often does a threesome “just happen”?How can you spot someone asking you to be in a threesome?Do you think you’ve ever missed an opportunity for group sex?Should you have a safe word, like in BDSM, for swingers encounters?What happens if you find yourself in a situation where you just aren’t into it and you want to lease?How to negotiate consent with group sex?Who gets to do what?Do men ever get performance anxiety when with two women?What about a couple who want to add another man or, even, a sissy?How to find a threesome if you want to be the third to a couple?How to talk to your partner about exploring non-traditional sex?Hear personal stories, solid advice and so much more.Link to books by Lainie Speiser (get all of them!)Twitter X and Insta:  @MissLainie    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced [email protected] Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone [email protected]:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Questions about blow jobs? We’ve got answers in this episode with adult entertainment publicist Lainie Speiser.  How do women feel about giving blow jobs?What do these three sexy women like most about giving a blow job?Do porn stars actually enjoy giving blow jobs or do they fake it for the camera?How do porn stars give great blow jobs?Using your hand along with your mouth for blow jobs.Tips for learning to deep throat a big cockHow to control your gag reflex.How to make sure your teeth don’t ruin the blow job.Find out who came up with the term deep throat.What is a fellatio fiesta?Learn about Michael and his blow bros.Find out how many loads of cum Michael the cum junkie has slurped up this year.Freezing cum loadsBDSM, kink and being submissiveDoes a Femdom give a blow job?Can a blow job be part of an elaborate mindfuck?Do porn shoots still use fluffers and how does someone get that job?Listener questions inspire this episode. You’ll learn some sex education, hear intimate behind the scenes stories and so much more!Link to books by Lainie Speiser (get all of them!)Twitter X and Insta:  @MissLainie    Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced [email protected] Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone [email protected]:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

Meet Davina: a straight male who likes to crossdress. What is the reaction of the wife? How does the feminine side coexist with the masculine side? Mistress Olivia reads parts of an email from a listener who describes herself as Davina, “I don't mean just someone who dabbles in panties or lingerie behind closed doors, I’ve developed a full feminine persona named Davina — she’s elegant, expressive, grounded, and very real to me.”Mistress Erika and Ms Olivia talk about feminization, crossdressing, gender presentation and gender identity including:Terms and labels used in gender exploration.What is the difference between a crossdresser and a trans woman?Why does wearing women’s lingerie unlock feminine emotions for many men?What is the reaction of the wife of a crossdresser?Does the wife assume crossdressing means her husband is gay or bisexual?Can a wife be jealous of her feminized husband?Who gets to decide gender norms?Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress   [email protected] Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy   [email protected]:  LDWOlivia and LDWErika

A sissy asks if it’s normal for crossdressing urges to disappear after an orgasm. Short answer yes, but there are nuances, reasons and ideas around feminization urges and the cycles of desire to dress.Is crossdressing more of a fetish or kink thing?Why does someone who identifies as male wear women’s lingerie?How important is submission to a Dominant Woman?Is dressing en femme always about sex?Is feminization drop similar to subdrop for a submissive?Does the type of orgasm matter?Will learning to have a sissygasm instead of a traditional stroking orgasm mean that the feminization urges remain?What role does guilt and shame play in crossdressing cycles?How does the woman in charge or Mistress extend your sissy urges?Role of chastity in sissy training Orgasm denial as part of submission via feminization.Do crossdressing urges go away as people age?While the question about feminization, crossdressing and sissy urges inspired this podcast episode, many of the points also apply to other kinks and fetish play. DISCORD:  LDWOlivia and LDWErikaMistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog:  Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Do you like chastity? We have some new ideas for you. Not sure if you want to explore chastity with a Femdom Mistress? Listen and find out why we love chastity.A listener inspired this episode with the following questions:What do women really think of male chastity and being a Keyholder?Are some men meant to be in chastity?What are your favorite chastity devices?Mistress Erika points out that there are different kinds of cages for different kinds of play:A tube style chastity cage that allows for partial erection.Smaller cages can be used for different levels of control.Using the nub for sissy training.Chastity cage with spikes and/or urethral sound so getting an erection is immediately painful.Why would someone want to be in chastity?Submission to the woman that is your keyholder.Freedom from the constant focus on erections and/or jerking off.Refocusing attention on what’s important.Using chastity for sissy training:Silicone cages come in colors including sissy pink!Smaller cages can cause shrinking which reinforces sissy focus.Orgasm denial keeps feminization and submission to Mistress as the sissy life.2 previous episodes mentioned in this podcast:Chastity Interview with William of Mature MetalAndHow do I get my vanilla wife to put me in chastity? Meet Mrs. Mature MetalJOIN the conversation!Our adult social networking site: Enchantrix EmpireDISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErikaMistress Olivia’s blog:  Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy

Sissy Pageant recap: Questions we love include: What are your greatest challenges of feminization? Role of your Femdom Mistress? Sissy play and your life. Many people answered that self-acceptance can be a challenge and that having a Mistress and a supportive community has made all the difference in the world.Other comments touch on:Motivation for consistent sissy training or being femmeFeminine style and who gets to decide how someone should lookBody hair while crossdressing or dressing en femmeMasculine and feminine sides co-existingHumiliation as part of sissy playSubmission to Mistress or Goddess as part of feminization training.Of course, you’ll hear personal stories, our comments on your quotes and even a couple festive trips on safari including:Ms Erika’s favorite body partMs Olivia’s offer of 5 free minutes on your Discord session if you do a specific something.Our free adult social networking site: Enchantrix EmpireMistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy