S6 Ep6 - What I wish I knew about abusers and perps

Jess and Jaimi have a glass of wine and catch up about all their favourite lesbian TV, films, music, gigs and influencers they love. A funny, light-hearted discussion of lesbian culture, lesbian love and eating that girl for lunch.

Part 2 of Jaimi interviews Jess about Underclass, and they really get into the depths of wild experiences in the book. Jess talks about stealing a celebrity’s onion rings at 1am, committing cheque fraud as a child, working sleazy jobs to make ends meet and trying to survive in a dangerous city. NSFW. 18+ discussions. Order Underclass now from Amazon, or from VictimFocus-Resources.com

Jaimi interviews Jess about her new book, ‘Underclass’. Jess talks about the local flasher, using dark humour to cope with life (and write the book), getting involved in the illegal racing scene in the early 00s, and trying to navigate the role of religion in a place where no one cared about it. Order ‘Underclass’ now on Amazon and VictimFocus. NSFW. 18+ discussions.

Jess and Jaimi are back for Season 7, and kick off by answering a set of ten questions about feminism written by an MRA online. Neither of them have seen the questions before the podcast, can they answer them? Will they answer them? Let’s go!

Jess and Jaimi both saw the same viral video, and the thousands of hateful comments underneath, and decided to bring it to the podcast to discuss it over a few vodkas. What has a 22 year old pilot got in common with Millie Bobby Brown, Billie Eilish, and Pamela Anderson? Tune in to find out!

Jaimi and Jess have a couple of vodkas and discuss the increasing sexualisation and fetishisation of serial killers and rapists - what the hell is happening out there? Who is driving this narrative and why? Why do women find such violent criminals sexually attractive? Content Warning - This episode is heavy, and discusses violent sex, rape, abuse, homicide and domestic violence.

Jess and Jaimi settle down with some wine and some blankets, and discuss all the myths and stereotypes about abusers and perpetrators of violence and abuse. Do they really target vulnerable women? Does safety advice even work? Does porn play a part? Are abusers mentally ill? Content warning for some heavy discussion of offending behaviours.

Jess and Jaimi have a long, meandering and hilarious conversation about the way feminism changed their perspectives of their favourite childhood films. Then they get distracted and talk about their mythical pool. And the dogs having their own bedroom. And what to do if your puppy sh*ts in her own food bowl.

Jess and Jaimi double over laughing throughout this wild rollercoaster episode, where they revisit Bad Sex Tips from 2021, and discuss a whole new collection of horrid, disgusting, stupid and hilarious sex tips from women’s magazines and articles. The takeaway lesson? Don’t put dirty pennies in your vag, and now you know why all the fruit at the supermarket is bruised. Content warning: Extremely explicit sexual content

Jess and Jaimi sit down to talk all about their new book, the ITIM - when a huge storm hits the hotel. They discuss trauma, coping mechanisms, revolution and changing the world together.