#87 - Why Women Self-Sabotage Relationships & The Hidden WISDOM Behind It

Modern dating is in crisis, leaving both men and women frustrated, confused, and disconnected. In this episode of The New Age Sage, we dive into the missing link that’s causing relationships to feel either passionless or purely sexual: the imbalance of masculine and feminine energy. I break down why men are afraid to lead, why women feel forced to take control, and how this reversal is killing attraction.If you’re tired of the endless cycle of dead-end dates and lackluster relationships, this episode will show you how to restore polarity and create instant attraction WITHOUT playing games.———————00:00 - Intro00:19 - The two types of men women encounter00:54 - The modern dating catastrophe01:32 - Theories on why dating is failing02:36 - The masculine and feminine energy divide03:07 - Red pill movement and gender roles04:09 - Honoring masculine and feminine energy in courtship05:07 - Friendship vs passion in relationships06:07 - The first move: female invitation to pursue08:58 - Why men are clueless about attraction09:46 - Misreading signals and missed opportunities12:10 - The weight of rejection and self-worth14:28 - Creating a safe space for pursuit16:55 - The moment a man has to step up21:01 - My shortcoming as a man23:53 - A funny tangent on gym encounters30:35 - If he can’t step up, step away46:12 - Why men need to take the lead in relationships48:24 - The formula for a healthy romantic dynamic54:00 - Final thoughts———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

The partner you choose is the most important decision you'll ever make—yet so many of us keep falling into relationships that drain our energy, steal our joy, and dim our light. In this eye-opening solo episode, I unpack why toxic relationships are so common, how subconscious wounds make us vulnerable to emotional manipulation, and the spiritual battle between light and darkness in love.If you're ready to reclaim your power in love and never settle for less again, this episode is for you.———————00:00 - Intro02:45 - Jumping in the fire: why we keep choosing toxic relationships12:57 - The divine feminine matrix and its power16:48 - Good vs. evil: the battle for energy26:13 - Feminism as a psyop: masculinizing women29:08 - Energy siphoning: how women lose their power37:10 - Sexual exchange and spiritual attachments45:50 - Conquering loneliness and attracting a good person49:01 - Submission and the dangers of giving away power52:26 - Love bombing and self-worth issues58:18 - Entertaining dark men: the cost of compassion without discernment1:01:54 - Emotional intensity and the addiction to toxic love1:05:50 - Overcoming unworthiness and choosing light1:09:47 - Final thoughts ———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

Modern dating can feel like a nightmare, especially when you're trapped in the cycle of situationships and ghosting. In this episode of The New Age Sage, I break down why these painful experiences keep happening, how our own wounds and fears attract them, and the steps to reclaiming our power in relationships.From understanding the psychology behind ghosting to asking the right questions, this conversation is a wake-up call to stop settling for uncertainty and start demanding the love and respect you deserve.———————00:00 - Intro01:20 - The two nightmares of modern dating03:45 - Why we attract the same painful experiences06:32 - Situationships and the fear of asking for more09:18 - Ghosting and why it feels like a horror movie12:09 - The weight of rejection and self-worth14:28 - Am I lovable? Facing the fear of being unloved16:55 - The freedom that comes with clarity21:01 - A raw and vulnerable share23:53 - The story that exposed my deepest wound30:35 - If he can’t step up, step away46:12 - The reality of ghosting and its hidden lessons48:24 - Ghosting as an act of spiritual darkness57:08 - My mother’s love protects me from above1:01:02 - Final thoughts———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

Forget about swiping left or settling for someone who just checks the boxes. This episode is about rewriting your entire reality when it comes to love. Today, we’re diving into Coniunctio—Carl Jung’s ultimate blueprint for breaking free from toxic dating patterns and attracting partners who actually align with your higher self.I’m unpacking how your ego keeps you stuck in cycles of pain, chasing people who aren’t good for you, and why the real shift happens when you let go of those superficial desires. We’re talking about stepping into your highest timeline, where only deep, authentic connections exist.If you’re tired of dealing with narcissists, flaky partners, or just repeating the same old story, this is the wake-up call you need. I’ll share my own vulnerable moments of being trapped in ego-driven chaos and how embracing Coniunctio has completely transformed my approach to love.———————00:00 - Intro02:10 - The Ego’s role in toxic relationships06:45 - Breaking free from painful dating cycles11:30 - Coniunctio: Jung’s blueprint for Love16:15 - The power of surrender in relationships21:40 - Ego vs. Higher Self: choosing the right path27:05 - Why you keep attracting the wrong partners32:30 - My personal journey of love & transformation38:20 How to align with your highest timeline44:10 - Final thoughts———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

Not every deep connection is meant to last. Some are just here to wake you up.In this episode, I sit down with RayanRaelsbek to break down the truth about twin flames, divine counterparts, and the relationships that shape us. We go beyond the obsession, the longing, and the fantasy to expose what these connections are really here to teach us.We explore the patterns that keep people chasing the wrong kind of love, the difference between a soul contract and a real energetic match, and what it actually takes to experience a relationship that expands you instead of breaking you.If you’ve ever felt like you met someone for a reason but all they brought was chaos, this episode will show you what it really meant—and why the deepest love starts with what you choose next.———————00:00 - Intro01:16 - The paradox of wanting vs. receiving in manifestation07:03 - Why relationships reflect your inner union12:27 - What is a twin flame, really?18:08 - The twin flame trap: why they always burn out24:56 - The difference between a twin flame and a counterpart30:22 - Why twin flames feel intoxicating—but aren’t the real thing35:38 - How to know if you're stuck in a karmic relationship41:12 - What happens when you meet your divine counterpart46:57 - The truth about sacred union and polarity52:40 - The role of healing trauma in divine relationships58:14 - Can a twin flame turn into a divine counterpart?1:03:26 - The deeper spiritual war happening behind the scenes1:09:41 - The real reason psychic attacks happen1:15:53 - How to protect yourself from energetic interference1:21:06 - The fastest way to shift into divine consciousness1:27:34 - Final thoughts———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

What if everything you’ve been told about female sexual energy is wrong? In this solo episode, I’m breaking down a powerful truth that could change the way you see female sexuality forever. We’re going beyond the surface—past the Instagram thirst traps to uncover what true feminine sexual energy really is. I dive deep into mythology, psychology, and even the hidden symbolism in movies like Pleasantville to show you why real female sexual energy isn’t about validation, but about creation, expression, and pure self-love. ——————— 00:00 - Intro02:06 - What is female sexual energy really?04:21 - How Pleasantville reveals the power of feminine expression06:43 - The difference between divine feminine and shadow feminine09:48 - How true feminine energy creates, not seeks validation13:16 - Why real feminine power disrupts control systems16:59 - The trap of fighting patriarchy by copying men19:51 - Seeking male validation vs. owning your energy25:12 - True sexual energy has nothing to do with looks30:22 - The real exchange between masculine and feminine35:35 - Final thoughts ——————— Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below! Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

Let’s be real—your ex wasn’t just a mistake. They were a mirror. In this solo episode, I’m taking you into the raw truth about why you keep attracting toxic relationships and how to finally break the cycle.We’re not sugarcoating anything here. I’ll show you why playing the blame game with your ex is the biggest block to real love and how taking radical accountability can transform your dating life. Using my own hard-earned lessons, I’ll walk you through how to identify the patterns, heal the wounds, and step into the kind of love you actually deserve.This episode isn’t just a wake-up call—it’s a roadmap to reclaiming your power and rewriting your love story.If you’re ready to stop repeating the same mistakes and start attracting something real, this episode will change everything.———————00:00 - Intro04:12 - The truth about letting go of blame08:27 - The turning point: Taking full ownership of your patterns13:15 - Why no one else can fix what feels broken17:08 - The subtle traps of seeking external validation21:34 - How to start giving yourself what you’ve been searching for26:10 - The shift from living in the past to owning it30:25 - Releasing old stories and rewriting your narrative35:49 - The power of making new choices every day40:12 - Signs you’re stepping into true empowerment44:47 - Transforming pain into purpose: What’s next?50:31 - Final reflections: Healing is about responsibility, not perfection———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com 

We’ve been sold a lie about health—and it’s killing us. In this episode, I sit down with Alex Conley, founder of Kono Nutrition, to expose the hidden truths behind mainstream health, from the lies of processed food to the dangerous myths of fitness culture. We dive into why most of what you’ve been taught about nutrition is backward, how your gut health controls your mood, and the foods that are quietly destroying your energy and vitality. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything “right” but still don’t feel your best, this episode will blow your mind. ——————— 00:00 - Intro 02:18 - Alex Conley’s story: From leukemia to holistic health 07:09 - How fitness culture can destroy your health 12:35 - Why gut health is the foundation of your mood and energy 16:43 - The hidden dangers of processed foods and pesticides 23:01 - How Western medicine lost its way 29:27 - The calorie myth: Why it’s not just about weight loss 35:12 - How food impacts your mental clarity and focus 41:04 - Artificial sweeteners and their impact on your body 47:33 - The role of addiction in gut health and brain function 52:56 - Understanding the difference between real and fake food 58:21 - How seed oils are silently ruining your health 1:03:45 - The truth about cholesterol and heart health 1:09:28 - The food industry’s manipulation of science 1:16:11 - Why “eating clean” transforms your life 1:22:48 - Building resilience through mindful eating 1:29:37 - Small changes for big health improvements 1:35:19 - Closing thoughts ——————— Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below! Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

What makes a man commit? In this solo episode, I’m breaking down the uncomfortable truths about modern dating dynamics and why men are often hesitant to take the leap. Spoiler: it’s not just about them—it’s about you too.I dive deep into what high-quality men look for in a partner, why leadership doesn’t mean control, and how vulnerability is the ultimate feminine power. From understanding the importance of communication to embodying confidence without sacrificing connection, this episode is packed with insights to help you attract and keep the partner you desire.If you’ve ever felt stuck in your dating life and wondered how to create the kind of relationship you truly want, this episode will give you the clarity and tools to move forward.———————00:00 - Intro02:15 - The male obsession with freedom and status06:42 - What good men actually look for in a woman11:04 - How vulnerability is the ultimate feminine power15:36 - Why communication matters more than you think20:12 - The difference between leadership and control in relationships26:08 - How modern dating dynamics undermine connection31:22 - The role of health and discipline in attracting commitment36:17 - Confidence, boundaries, and their impact on relationships41:04 - Feminine energy and its role in the family unit46:33 - How ambition affects modern relationships52:49 - Why self-awareness is the key to lasting love1:00:18 - Closing thoughts———————Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com

In this powerful episode of The New Age Sage, I welcome back my soul brother Alex Wolfe, one of our most popular guests and a true master of plant medicine and personal transformation. Alex dives deep into modern men's challenges in love and relationships, revealing why so many are disconnected from their true essence and stuck in cycles of ego-driven behavior. Alex shares his journey of awakening, from chasing superficial success and seduction to discovering the transformative power of mushrooms and right-brain creativity. We unpack how society’s conditioning traps men in left-brain thinking, the danger of outsourcing love, and the importance of becoming the “One” for yourself before attracting a partner who matches your energy. ——————— 00:00 - Intro: Reflecting the divine in relationships 01:18 - Alex Wolfe returns: From plant medicine to the divine masculine 03:48 - Artificial intelligence vs. organic intelligence 05:30 - Breaking free from left-brain limitations 08:06 - The masculine urge to outsource emotions 10:35 - From chasing love to becoming the source of love 12:14 - The lesson of dating a celebrity dream crush 17:03 - How to differentiate divine gifts from ego-driven temptations 20:29 - Facing pain: The key to unlocking growth 24:44 - Why heartbreak is the ultimate teacher 29:33 - Healing self-limiting beliefs in love and life 34:07 - The complexity of human relationships 38:07 - Overcoming the need for immediate gratification 42:52 - What women should know about “the game” 47:19 - The shift from manipulation to spiritual alignment 51:08 - Building an internal kingdom of integrity 56:29 - Staying humble amidst success ——————— Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com