Married to Addiction

Comfort food. Late-night scrolling. Online shopping. Maybe a glass of wine you didn't used to need. If you've been getting through this with habits you're not proud of, this one is for you.Today I'm sharing my own story of how I coped, what it was really doing to me, and what's actually behind it.You'll learn:💛 Why the habits you're ashamed of don't mean you don't care about yourself💛 The cycle that keeps you reaching for relief, and why it isn't a character flaw💛 What it takes for those patterns to finally start to loosenFriend, you are not weak for what's been getting you through. But it is costing you. And you don't have to keep paying that cost alone.If this episode resonates with you, hit follow so you never miss one. 🫶🏼----------------------------------------------------PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned may be currently available. For a current list of everything Married to Addiction has to offer, ⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠ to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'----------------------------------------------------Married to Addiction Resources:✨ Free Turning Point Toolkit — ⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠ to learn more, or head to turningpointtoolkit.com✨ The MTA Blog — ⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠✨ Free Losing Yourself Guide — ⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠ to learn more, or sign up directly on any of the blog posts at ⁠⁠⁠marriedtoaddictionblog.com⁠⁠⁠💗 Smaller Steps — ⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠The Triggered ToolThe Right Response ResetIs It You, or Is It Him?When You're Running on EmptyWhat Am I Actually Dealing With?Together in Transition💗 The Married to Addiction 30-Day Program — ⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠💗 The Boundaries Mini Course — ⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠💗 The Secret Sisters Circle — ⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠👉 Not sure which one is right for you? Visit the ⁠⁠⁠Which Is Right For Me?⁠⁠⁠ page for help deciding. Just know there is no wrong door to walk through here. 🫶

If you've heard him promise to quit more times than you can count — this one is for you.Today we're talking about one of the most emotionally complicated parts of this experience. The promise. The hope. And what comes after.You'll learn:💛 Why you keep believing him — and why that's not the problem you think it is💛 Something about his promises that most people get wrong💛 What the cycle is quietly doing to you over timeFriend, the hope in you is not weakness. But it does come at a cost. And you don't have to keep paying it alone.If this episode resonates with you, hit follow so you never miss one. 🫶🏼----------------------------------------------------PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned may be currently available. For a current list of everything Married to Addiction has to offer, ⁠⁠click here⁠⁠ to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'----------------------------------------------------Married to Addiction Resources:✨ Free Turning Point Toolkit — ⁠⁠click here⁠⁠ to learn more, or head to turningpointtoolkit.com✨ The MTA Blog — ⁠⁠click here⁠⁠✨ Free Losing Yourself Guide — ⁠⁠click here⁠⁠ to learn more, or sign up directly on any of the blog posts at ⁠⁠marriedtoaddictionblog.com⁠⁠💗 Smaller Steps — ⁠⁠click here⁠⁠The Triggered ToolThe Right Response ResetIs It You, or Is It Him?When You're Running on EmptyWhat Am I Actually Dealing With?Together in Transition💗 The Married to Addiction 30-Day Program — ⁠⁠click here⁠⁠💗 The Boundaries Mini Course — ⁠⁠click here⁠⁠💗 The Secret Sisters Circle — ⁠⁠click here⁠⁠👉 Not sure which one is right for you? Visit the ⁠⁠Which Is Right For Me?⁠⁠ page for help deciding. Just know there is no wrong door to walk through here. 🫶

If you've ever gone looking for help and come away feeling like nothing quite fit — today's episode will explain why.Most resources for people affected by someone else's drinking weren't built for you specifically. And that gap matters more than you might realize.Today I'm naming exactly what's missing — and why being the WIFE makes your experience fundamentally different from anyone else's.You'll learn:💛 The specific ways your experience as his wife goes unaddressed by most resources💛 Why generic help often leaves wives feeling more lost, not less💛 What help that is actually built for you looks like — and where to find itFriend, you deserve help that was made for your specific journey through this. Not for families broadly. Not for 'loved ones'. For YOU.If this episode resonates with you, hit follow so you never miss one. 🫶🏼----------------------------------------------------PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned may be currently available. For a current list of everything Married to Addiction has to offer, ⁠click here⁠ to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'----------------------------------------------------Married to Addiction Resources:✨ Free Turning Point Toolkit — ⁠click here⁠ to learn more, or head to turningpointtoolkit.com✨ The MTA Blog — ⁠click here⁠✨ Free Losing Yourself Guide — ⁠click here⁠ to learn more, or sign up directly on any of the blog posts at ⁠marriedtoaddictionblog.com⁠💗 Smaller Steps — ⁠click here⁠The Triggered ToolThe Right Response ResetIs It You, or Is It Him?When You're Running on EmptyWhat Am I Actually Dealing With?Together in Transition💗 The Married to Addiction 30-Day Program — ⁠click here⁠💗 The Boundaries Mini Course — ⁠click here⁠💗 The Secret Sisters Circle — ⁠click here⁠👉 Not sure which one is right for you? Visit the ⁠Which Is Right For Me?⁠ page for help deciding. Just know there is no wrong door to walk through here. 🫶

When you’ve been hurt, disappointed, or ignored enough times, you learn to stop talking.At first, it might seem like mostly an annoyance. But what happens when all those little things you stop saying create a bigger problem that you never saw coming?In this episode, we’ll explore:💛 The progression that happens when you stop sharing things with your husband💛 What this does to you under the surface💛 The unexpected cost of silence in a marriage affected by addictionFriend, you may have just stopped talking because it felt like he stopped listening. But that doesn’t mean it hasn’t cost you something, too.If this episode resonates with you, hit follow so you never miss one. 🫶🏼----------------------------------------------------PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned may be currently available. For a current list of everything Married to Addiction has to offer, click here to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'----------------------------------------------------Married to Addiction Resources:✨ Free Turning Point Toolkit — click here to learn more, or head to turningpointtoolkit.com✨ The MTA Blog — click here✨ Free Losing Yourself Guide — click here to learn more, or sign up directly on any of the blog posts at marriedtoaddictionblog.com💗 Smaller Steps — click hereThe Triggered ToolThe Right Response ResetIs It You, or Is It Him?When You're Running on EmptyWhat Am I Actually Dealing With?Together in Transition💗 The Married to Addiction 30-Day Program — click here💗 The Boundaries Mini Course — click here💗 The Secret Sisters Circle — click here👉 Not sure which one is right for you? Visit the Which Is Right For Me? page for help deciding. Just know there is no wrong door to walk through here. 🫶

What happens when the one thing holding you together starts to feel like it's slipping?This episode is for the woman whose faith has carried her through everything.....until even that started slipping.You'll learn:💛 Why what you're feeling doesn't mean what you think it means💛 Why the questions you've been afraid to ask are older than you think💛 Why barely holding on might be the most courageous thing you've ever doneFriend, you are not failing God. And you are not alone in this.If this episode resonates with you, hit follow so you never miss one. 🫶🏼----------------------------------------------------PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned may be currently available. For a current list of everything Married to Addiction has to offer, ⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠ to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'----------------------------------------------------Married to Addiction Resources:✨ Free Turning Point Toolkit — ⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠ to learn more, or head to turningpointtoolkit.com✨ The MTA Blog — ⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠✨Free Losing Yourself Guide — ⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠ to learn more, or sign up directly on any of the blog post at ⁠⁠⁠marriedtoaddictionblog.com⁠⁠⁠💗 Smaller Steps — ⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠- The Triggered Tool- The Right Response Reset - Is It You, or Is It Him? - When You're Running on Empty - What Am I Actually Dealing With? - Together in Transition 💗 The Married to Addiction 30-Day Program — ⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠ 💗 The Boundaries Mini Course — ⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠💗 The Secret Sisters Circle — ⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠ 👉 Not sure which one is right for you? Visit the ⁠⁠⁠Which Is Right For Me?⁠⁠⁠ page for help deciding. Just know there is no wrong door to walk through here. 🫶

There's an emotion almost every wife of an alcoholic has felt, but a lot don't want to admit to.Today we're naming it. And we're focusing on what to do with it.We'll talk about:💛 Why this emotion makes complete sense, even though you might feel like a bad person for feeling it💛 The question you've been afraid to ask God💛 Why it's not a neutral emotion — and what it's quietly doing to youYou are not alone in this. Let's talk about it....----------------------------------------------------PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned may be currently available. For a current list of everything Married to Addiction has to offer, ⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠ to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'----------------------------------------------------Married to Addiction Resources:✨ Free Turning Point Toolkit — ⁠⁠click here⁠⁠ to learn more, or head to turningpointtoolkit.com✨ The MTA Blog — ⁠⁠click here⁠⁠✨Free Losing Yourself Guide — ⁠⁠click here⁠⁠ to learn more, or sign up directly on any of the blog post at ⁠⁠marriedtoaddictionblog.com⁠⁠💗 Smaller Steps — ⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠- The Triggered Tool- The Right Response Reset - Is It You, or Is It Him? - When You're Running on Empty - What Am I Actually Dealing With? - Together in Transition 💗 The Married to Addiction 30-Day Program — ⁠⁠click here⁠⁠ 💗 The Boundaries Mini Course — ⁠⁠click here⁠💗 The Secret Sisters Circle — ⁠⁠click here⁠⁠ 👉 Not sure which one is right for you? Visit the ⁠⁠Which Is Right For Me?⁠⁠ page for help deciding. Just know there is no wrong door to walk through here. 🫶

There's a kind of grief that doesn't have a name.It's not the grief of losing someone. It's not the grief of a marriage that ended. It's the grief of mourning a version of your relationship that's gone — while you're still living inside it.Today's episode is for the woman who has been carrying that quietly, heavily, with nowhere to put it.You'll learn:💛 Why grieving your marriage doesn't mean you've decided to leave💛 The specific cruelty of a grief nobody else can see💛 Why this loss is real — even when nothing has officially ended💛 What to do with the weight of itFriend, you are not being dramatic. You are not giving up. You are grieving something real.----------------------------------------------------PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned may be currently available. For a current list of everything Married to Addiction has to offer, ⁠⁠click here⁠⁠ to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'----------------------------------------------------Married to Addiction Resources:✨ Free Turning Point Toolkit — ⁠click here⁠ to learn more, or head to turningpointtoolkit.com✨ The MTA Blog — ⁠click here⁠✨Free Losing Yourself Guide — ⁠click here⁠ to learn more, or sign up directly on any of the blog post at ⁠marriedtoaddictionblog.com⁠💗 Smaller Steps — ⁠⁠click here⁠- The Triggered Tool- The Right Response Reset - Is It You, or Is It Him? - When You're Running on Empty - What Am I Actually Dealing With? - Together in Transition 💗 The Married to Addiction 30-Day Program — ⁠click here⁠ 💗 The Boundaries Mini Course — ⁠click here💗 The Secret Sisters Circle — ⁠click here⁠ 👉 Not sure which one is right for you? Visit the ⁠Which Is Right For Me?⁠ page for help deciding. Just know there is no wrong door to walk through here. 🫶

You've probably heard me mention some of the resources I offer (both free and paid) — but I promise you don't know about everything that's available to you!Today I'm walking you through all of Married to Addiction's offerings — free and paid — so you can find your next step.👉 In this episode you'll learn...- What's available to you completely free- About the new 'Smaller Steps' resources for when you need help with just one or two specific things- Which offering fits which specific situation- How to know which one is right for you right now----------------------------------------------------PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned may be currently available. For a current list of everything Married to Addiction has to offer, ⁠click here⁠ to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'----------------------------------------------------FREE OFFERINGS💛 The Married to Addiction Podcast — you're already here!💛 The Turning Point Toolkit — click here to learn more, or head to turningpointtoolkit.com💛 The Blog — click here💛 The Losing Yourself Guide — click here to learn more, or sign up directly on any of the blog post at marriedtoaddictionblog.comPAID OFFERINGS...💗 Smaller Steps — ⁠click here- The Triggered Tool- The Right Response Reset - Is It You, or Is It Him? - When You're Running on Empty - What Am I Actually Dealing With? - Together in Transition 💗 The Married to Addiction 30-Day Program — click here (use code 'PODCAST' at checkout for 30% off for a limited time!)💗 The Boundaries Mini Course — click here (use code 'PODCAST' at checkout for 30% off for a limited time!)💗 The Secret Sisters Circle — click here (use code 'PODCAST' at checkout to get your first month for just $5 (after your 7-day free trial), OR to get 30% off if you choose the annual option!)👉 Not sure which one is right for you? Visit the Which Is Right For Me? page for help deciding. Just know there is no wrong door to walk through here. Every single thing mentioned today was built for you. 🫶

Most people assume the holidays are the hardest time of year when you're married to an alcoholic.But for many women, it's actually summer.If you've ever found yourself feeling more overwhelmed, anxious, disappointed, or exhausted once school lets out, this episode is for you. Today we're talking about why summer can feel so difficult, what makes this season uniquely challenging, and what I want you to focus on as you head into the months ahead.You'll learn:💛 Why summer often feels heavier than expected💛 The hidden pressures many wives experience during this season💛 What this time of year tends to reveal beneath the surface💛 One important shift that can help you protect your peaceFriend, you don't have to just 'survive' the summer. You deserve to enjoy parts of it, too.---------------------------------------------------------------PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned/listed will be currently available.👉🏻For a current list of everything that Married to Addiction has to offer please⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💗To get my Boundaries Course ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.💗To join my Secret Sisters Circle program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.💗To get my 30 day online on-demand program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

One of the hardest parts of being married to an alcoholic is carrying a pain that no one around you can see.In this episode, we talk about the deep loneliness of pretending everything is fine while quietly struggling behind closed doors — and why keeping this secret for so long can leave you emotionally exhausted and stuck.You’ll learn:💛 Why so many wives stay silent about addiction at home💛 The emotional toll of constantly “performing normal” in public💛 Why isolated suffering keeps healing out of reach💛 The importance of having one safe place to be honest about what you’re carryingFriend, you were never meant to hold all of this alone.Your story deserves support too. ---------------------------------------------------------------PLEASE NOTE: This podcast is pre-recorded, so not all offers mentioned/listed will be currently available.👉🏻For a current list of everything that Married to Addiction has to offer please⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to visit the MTA 'Everything Page'⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠💗To get my Boundaries Course ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.💗To join my Secret Sisters Circle program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.💗To get my 30 day online on-demand program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click right here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.