LTASEX (Let's Talk About Sex) with Jerome Stuart Nichols

Is foreplay really just preparation for sex, or is it an important part of sex itself?Read the blogWant tools to explore more foreplay? Shop Cake Icing Booty n Body Sheen Oil, Body Work and Massage Oil and Butt Stuff Peach Flavored Lube. Follow each product’s directions for its intended use.In this episode of LTASex, we explore the science and perspective behind foreplay, sexual arousal, intimacy, and why sex doesn't have to follow a fixed sequence.Research discussed in this video examines the differences between how long people spend on foreplay and intercourse, as well as how long they would ideally like these activities to last.In this video, we discuss:• What foreplay really means• How kissing, touching, massage, and other intimate activities fit into sexual experiences• Why sex can become predictable when it follows a rigid routine• The difference between physical readiness and sexual arousal• Why communication, comfort, and sustained stimulation matter• How taking breaks can help partners relax and reconnect• Why intimacy doesn't have to revolve entirely around penetration• What the Kama Sutra contributes to the broader discussion of intimacyThe key takeaway? Intimacy doesn't have to be a checklist. Partners can communicate, explore what feels comfortable, and appreciate the different parts of their shared experience without feeling pressured to follow a particular order.Research discussed:Miller, S. A., & Byers, E. S. — Actual and Desired Duration of Foreplay and Intercourse: Discordance and Misperceptions Within Heterosexual Couples.This video is intended for adult sexual education and general informational purposes. Individual experiences and preferences vary. Consent, communication, comfort, and sexual health are important parts of every intimate relationship.Subscribe to LTA Sex for more discussions about sexual health, intimacy, relationships, and evidence-informed sex education.#Foreplay #SexEducation #SexualHealth

Vaginal dryness is a common issue that many women experience at different stages of life, especially during perimenopause and menopause.In this educational video, we discuss the common causes of vaginal dryness, what the symptoms can feel like, how hormonal changes and certain medications may contribute to it, and some options that may help.We also discuss:• Common symptoms of vaginal dryness• Hormonal changes and menopause• How arousal and stress can affect lubrication• The role of vaginal moisturizers and lubricants• When irritation may be contributing to the problem• When it may be time to speak with a doctor• Medical treatment options that a healthcare professional may discussIf you are experiencing persistent pain, itching, burning, bleeding, or recurring urinary tract infections, consider speaking with a qualified healthcare professional.This video is intended for general educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment.Always consult a qualified healthcare professional regarding your individual health concerns.#VaginalDryness #WomensHealth #Menopause #Perimenopause #SexualHealth

Every man has experienced that moment… when things just don’t work the way they should. In this video, we go beyond the usual surface-level advice and dive deep into the real reasons behind erectile dysfunction, both mental and physical. From stress, lack of desire, and overthinking to sleep, energy levels, and real-life habits, we break down what’s actually happening inside your body and mind. You’ll also learn:• What actually counts as erectile dysfunction• Why it’s often NOT a physical problem• How stress and daily life affect performance• Simple lifestyle fixes that actually work• Practical tools that can help immediatelyThis is not just another generic video, this is real talk, real understanding, and real solutions.👉 Watch till the end if you want to truly understand your body and fix the problem the right way.Brought to you by Getthebutters.com

When it comes to oral sex and making it better for both parties, one of the things that is often forgotten is the flavor of the genitals themselves. Yes, believe it or not, genitals have unique flavors. This is based on your chemicals, your hygiene, and your diet, so let’s run through some quick changes that you can make to improve the overall taste and flavor palette of your genitals for oral sex.https://getthebutters.com/blogs/ltasex/how-to-make-your-penis-or-vagina-taste-better-for-oral-sex

Have you ever wondered what roleplay really is and why so many people find it engaging? In this video, we explore the psychology behind roleplay, how it encourages creativity and self-expression, and why it can add variety and excitement to relationships.We'll discuss:• What roleplay means• The psychology behind playing different roles• Common misconceptions• Benefits of imagination and creativity• Beginner-friendly roleplay ideas• Tips for getting started comfortablyWhether you're curious about the concept or simply interested in understanding why roleplay has become so popular, this video provides an educational and easy-to-understand overview.If you enjoyed this video, don't forget to Like, Comment, and Subscribe for more relationship psychology and self-development content.#Roleplay #Psychology #Relationships #SelfExpression #CommunicationSkills

This video provides educational information about outdoor intimacy, personal safety, privacy, consent, and legal awareness.In this video, we discuss:• Legal considerations• Privacy and discretion• Choosing appropriate locations• Respecting public spaces• Personal safety• Consent and responsible decision-makingThis content is intended for educational and informational purposes only. It does not encourage or promote illegal activity. Always follow the laws and regulations in your local area.If you found this video helpful, don't forget to Like, Comment, and Subscribe for more educational discussions on relationships, intimacy, and sexual wellness.#Education #SexEducation #RelationshipAdvice #LegalAwareness #SafetyBrought to you by Getthebutters.com

The quickest way to get the sex you want is to ask for. Today we discuss:1:00 Why people don't ask3:29 Origins of rejection fears6:40 Fighting the fear9:10 Practical tips for opening your mouth

Dick riding is one of the most popular topics I cover. This is how you become a sex god, sex goddess, or whatever divine creature drains balls efficiently and with intent. We’re going to start with learn about the syles and positions, move to exercises to train with, then ergonomics and positioning, deal with pain and discomfort, finally round it out with riding styles, pacing, and pro-level technique so you’re not just lasting; you’re effective.

Most erotic films won’t make you better at sex.They’ll just show you bodies, lighting, and skin.This video is about something different.These are erotic films that actually teach you how desire works; how dirty talk functions, why intimacy fails, how power and shame shape arousal, and why communication matters more than technique.In this first entry of an ongoing series, I break down five erotic films that treat sex as a skill, not a spectacle. These movies aren’t here to gently arouse you. They expose how people want, hesitate, miscommunicate, repair, and connect. Conversation is the primary erotic act.If you want better dirty talk, deeper intimacy, and a clearer understanding of desire, this is where to start.READ THE BLOG: https://getthebutters.com/blogs/ltasex/20-erotic-films-that-will-make-you-better-at-desire-dirty-talk-and-intimacyFilms discussed:20 Centimeters (2005)Secretary (2002)Shame (2011)Shortbus (2006)Closer (2004)This is Volume One: Conversation.The next volume goes somewhere else entirely.CHAPTERS00:00 – Erotic films vs erotic intelligence01:26 – 20 Centimeters (identity & dirty talk)03:49 – Secretary (structure, consent, power)07:39 – Shame (sex without intimacy)12:15 – Shortbus (vulnerability & community)17:15 – Closer (language as erotic violence)20:23 – WRAP UPWHY THIS SERIESPorn teaches mechanics.Erotic cinema, when done well, teaches meaning.This channel is about sex skills, intimacy, psychology, and honesty; without shame, without moral panic, and without pretending desire is simple.If this helped you think differently about sex, dirty talk, or intimacy, consider subscribing.

Read the blog here: https://getthebutters.com/blogs/ltasex/how-to-talk-dirty-a-beginner-s-guide-to-talking-dirty-in-bed-examples-templates-tipsDirty talk doesn’t come naturally to most people—and that’s not a flaw.It’s a skill. One that mixes confidence, communication, vulnerability, and play.In this video, we break down how to talk dirty in bed without feeling awkward, cringe, or fake. This is not porn scripting and it’s not about saying the most shocking thing you can think of. It’s about learning how to use language to build desire, connection, and erotic momentum.We cover:What dirty talk actually is (and what it isn’t)Why dirty talk works psychologicallyWhy it feels so hard for so many peopleGround rules for confident, consensual dirty talkDifferent styles of dirty talk (affirming, playful, primal, narrative)Simple Bedlibs-style prompts you can actually useHow to stop freezing and start responding in the momentHow to make dirty talk feel natural instead of forcedThis is a beginner-friendly guide, but there’s plenty here for long-term couples, shy people, and anyone who wants sex to feel more alive and connected.If you’ve ever thought:“I don’t know what to say,”“I’m afraid I’ll sound stupid,”or “Why does this feel so hard?”This video is for you.🧠 Sex is communication. Desire is learned. Dirty talk is a skill.