Kinky, Nerdy, and Poly

Episode 59 Notes Note: Spoilers throughout for the Sex Wizards series by Alethea Faust M and guest co-host X dive into the Sex Wizards series by Alethea Faust, an alternate-universe fantasy where magic is cast through kink. Together they cover the series, which follows Dom, who discovers later in life that he has magic and joins a community of wizards at the Crux. The plot is real, but, as they put it, it’s mostly porn. They explain how the magic system works, what they love about the world, and where the power dynamics get a little dicey. They also talk about what the series models well, including consent, non-monogamy, and queer and ace representation (p.s. "that ace character" we refer to is named Alix). Along the way, they share how listening to the audiobooks together has become a connective ritual: listening, debriefing on walks, and picking up a new vocabulary for talking about kink. ---- The music in this episode is the Secret of Tiki Island by Kevin MacLeod and is licensed under Creative Commons 3.0. You can find more of Kevin MacLeod’s music at his website. Support Kinky, Nerdy, and Poly by contributing to their tip jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/knppodcast

Episode Notes G & M talk about how queer joy is a form of resistance, especially in these difficult times. Support Kinky, Nerdy, and Poly by contributing to their tip jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/knppodcast

Episode 57 show notes Content Warning: This episode discusses the horrors of war, systemic racism, and trauma. Please use discretion while listening. In this episode of the Kinky Nerdy Poly Podcast, M and G dive deep into 86, a mecha anime that explores war, systemic racism, and the human spirit in a dystopian society. G shares why this anime ranks as one of their recent favorites (and why it is their "sad mecha anime"), and M reflects on what makes 86 so compelling with respect to its heavy themes. G and M tackle philosophical questions: What does it mean to challenge systemic injustices? How does trauma shape communities under duress? And what lessons can we draw from science fiction to confront our present-day challenges? Key topics include: What is 86?: A breakdown of the anime's premise, including the Republic of San Magnolia, the marginalized "86," and the robotic enemy Legion. The Role of War and Racism: How 86 uses science fiction to critique systemic racism, societal complicity, and the trauma of war. Character Analysis: Discussions about Major Vladilena "Lena" Milizé's savior complex and growth, and Shin "Undertaker" Nouzen's immense burden as the leader of Spearhead Squadron. Ethics of Autonomous Weapons: Timely reflections on the implications of AI and remotely controlled weapons in real-world warfare. Sources and Mentions from the Episode: 86 (anime adaptation) produced by A-1 Pictures, based on the light novel series by Asato Asato. YouTube review: Mother’s Basement’s Review of 86 (https://youtu.be/O8P0P8mY0CI?si=On2T7qy267P2lJh-) We have a Discord! Want to join? Apply here: https://forms.gle/CrzvqsjJxDSSKvui9 Email: [email protected] Tumblr: http://www.knppodcast.tumblr.com The music in this episode is the Secret of Tiki Island by Kevin MacLeod and is licensed under Creative Commons 3.0. You can find more of Kevin MacLeod’s music at his website. Support Kinky, Nerdy, and Poly by contributing to their tip jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/knppodcast

Episode 56 Show Notes Content warning: This episode contains hypnotic language and references. Please use caution in listening. In this episode of the Kinky Nerdy Poly (KNP) podcast, M and G discuss the intricacies and wonders of hypnosis play and its applications within the kink community. With emphasis on hypnotic techniques and its magical elements, the hosts explore definitions, precautions, and ethical considerations surrounding hypnosis. They delve into how hypnosis alters brain activity, enhancing suggestibility and creating altered perceptions. The episode covers the flow of a hypnotic scene, popular media depictions like 'The Jungle Book' and 'Dollhouse,' and the broad possibilities of hypnosis, from sexual therapy to complex role-playing fantasies. Sources from the episode: Sexual therapy hypnosis article - https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/sexual-hypnosis Journal article on neuroscience of hypnosis - https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3528837/ We have a Discord! Want to join? Apply here: https://forms.gle/CrzvqsjJxDSSKvui9 Email: [email protected] Tumblr: http://www.knppodcast.tumblr.com The music in this episode is the Secret of Tiki Island by Kevin MacLeod and is licensed under Creative Commons 3.0. You can find more of Kevin MacLeod’s music at his website. This episode was titled by beta listener 'K'. Thanks, K! Support Kinky, Nerdy, and Poly by contributing to their tip jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/knppodcast

Episode 55: Polyamorous Comets Show Notes In this episode of the Kinky Nerdy Poly (KNP) podcast, G and M explore the fascinating dynamics of comet relationships in polyamory. They offer a broad definition of what a comet partner is while recognizing that if you ask five polyamorous people what a comet is, you'll get ten different answers. Through personal experiences and insights, the KNP co-hosts discuss how these sporadic yet intense connections work. Highlights include an amusing description of having "a lot of comets in the sky" and the metaphor of planets watching comets pass by. Listeners will enjoy the blend of humor and heartfelt discussion as G and M navigate the complexities and joys of comet relationships. Quote from the episode and source: “A person that passes through your life repeatedly who is intense and awesome, and when gone you are still in contact with that person in some way, but they are not a continuous partner.” - Love Uncommon (https://loveuncommon.com/2019/06/13/comet/) Email: [email protected] Tumblr: http://www.knppodcast.tumblr.com The music in this episode is the Secret of Tiki Island by Kevin MacLeod and is licensed under Creative Commons 3.0. You can find more of Kevin MacLeod’s music at his website. Support Kinky, Nerdy, and Poly by contributing to their tip jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/knppodcast

Episode 54: My Hero Academia show notes On this episode of the Kinky Nerdy Poly Podcast, G & M delve into My Hero Academia, exploring its plot, characters, and societal themes. They discuss the protagonist Midoriya's journey, the significance of quirks, and the complex dynamics between heroes and villains. G & M also share their favorite characters and reflect on the show's deeper messages about power and society. Tune in for an engaging conversation on one of anime's most beloved series. Website: knppodcast.com Email: [email protected] Tumblr: http://www.knppodcast.tumblr.com This episode was edited by Vic. The music in this episode is the Secret of Tiki Island by Kevin MacLeod and is licensed under Creative Commons 3.0. You can find more of Kevin MacLeod’s music at his website. Support Kinky, Nerdy, and Poly by contributing to their tip jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/knppodcast

Episode 53: Kink & Disability Notes Today on the KNP podcast, we are going to be talking about how to navigate kink with various disabilities and elaborate on concepts such as RACK, applied to disability, and Crip Time. However, we have to give a super warning and disclaimer: neither G nor M are medical professionals and anything in this episode should be approached individually and if engaging in risky activities that may impact your personal health and safety, we recommend consulting a medical professional. Resources from the episode: Bondage safety tips:https://adulttoymegastore.com/heat/sex-tips/2022/04/01/bondage-safety-tips-for-disabled-people/ Guide to bondage for disabled people: https://getmegiddy.com/disability-and-sex/week-3 Crip time: https://www.accessibility.com/blog/what-is-crip-time Disability, kink and feeling empowered: https://www.abc.net.au/everyday/as-disabled-person-kink-feels-empowering-subversive-theraputic/102367100 Using kink to contextualize chronic pain: https://dsq-sds.org/index.php/dsq/article/view/6353/5250 Email: [email protected] Tumblr: http://www.knppodcast.tumblr.com The music in this episode is the Secret of Tiki Island by Kevin MacLeod and is licensed under Creative Commons 3.0. You can find more of Kevin MacLeod’s music at his website. Support Kinky, Nerdy, and Poly by contributing to their tip jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/knppodcast

Episode 52: Loki CONTENT NOTE: This episode has a brief mention of domestic violence around 20:00. Domestic Violence resources: https://www.thehotline.org/ - U.S. national domestic violence hotline and chat https://www.domesticshelters.org/resources/national-global-organizations/international-organizations - international domestic violence resources Summary of the episode: Spoilers for Season 1 and 2 of Loki Your hosts of KNP, G & M, talk about the series Loki, a Marvel TV show that is on Disney+. They discuss their opinions of the show and analyze the show's queer potential. Email: [email protected] Tumblr: http://www.knppodcast.tumblr.com The music in this episode is the Secret of Tiki Island by Kevin MacLeod and is licensed under Creative Commons 3.0. You can find more of Kevin MacLeod’s music at his website. Support Kinky, Nerdy, and Poly by contributing to their tip jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/knppodcast

Episode Notes M & G host special guest Stefani Goerlich to talk about her book With Sprinkles on Top, a book geared towards vanilla folks who have kinky partners and how to make those relationships work. It also offers insight for anyone, vanilla or kinky, on how to explore their secret desires. This wonderfully written book covers both informational and relational aspects of kink which are bound to teach even the seasoned kinkster something new. Stefani Goerlich, PhD, LMSW-Clinical, LISW, LCSW, CST, is a certified sex therapist and master social worker who specializes in working with gender, sexuality, and relationships. She is a sought-after clinical supervisor, media consultant, and conference presenter who has appeared in media ranging from CNN and the Washington Post to Cosmopolitan and Teen Vogue. She is the award-winning author of the professional books The Leather Couch and Kink-Affirming Practice. Links to buy the book: ST: https://www.soundstrue.com/products/with-sprinkles-on-top Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Sprinkles-Top-Everything-Partners-Communicate/dp/1649630344 Links to the free worksheets discussed in the book: https://www.stefanigoerlich.com/with-sprinkles-on-top-worksheets.html#/ Twitter: @knppodcast Email: [email protected] Tumblr: http://www.knppodcast.tumblr.com The music in this episode is the Secret of Tiki Island by Kevin MacLeod and is licensed under Creative Commons 3.0. You can find more of Kevin MacLeod’s music at his website. Support Kinky, Nerdy, and Poly by contributing to their tip jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/knppodcast

Episode 50 show notes In this episode, M & G talk about how our distant relationships in our polyamorous "web" can affect us in constructive and destructive ways. They start by focusing on the beauty to be found in having metamours and metamours of metamours and then transition to discussing some of the difficulties that can arise even when you are far removed from tricky situations. Twitter: @knppodcast Email: [email protected] Tumblr: http://www.knppodcast.tumblr.com The music in this episode is the Secret of Tiki Island by Kevin MacLeod and is licensed under Creative Commons 3.0. You can find more of Kevin MacLeod’s music at his website. Support Kinky, Nerdy, and Poly by contributing to their tip jar: https://tips.pinecast.com/jar/knppodcast