EP.72 Exposing our Unhinged Dating Habits

Unlock the Secrets to a Lasting Relationship: 5 Tips from a Couple Together for 30+ Years. Looking for the key to long-lasting love? In this exclusive, I discuss my interaction with a a couple who've been together for over three decades, to uncover their secrets to relationship success. They shared their invaluable insights, packed with wisdom that can transform your love life. Don't miss out on this intimate conversation about love, commitment, and the secrets to lasting happiness. Subscribe for more relationship tips, share your thoughts in the comments below, and hit the like button if you found this video valuable! #RelationshipGoals #LoveTips #LongLastingLove #RelationshipAdvice #30YearsTogether #CoupleGoals #LoveAndHappiness #RelationshipSecrets #HealthyRelationships #LoveAndCommitment I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉 Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for what they want, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre... you CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy ?sub_confirmation=1 Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?_t=8itkTzzKyYa&_r=1 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast?igsh=ODA1NTc5OTg5Nw== THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe 🥰 #datinginyour20s #datingpodcast #relationshippodcast #datingsecrets #singlewomen #datingin2024 #ukpodcast #moderndating #modernrelationships #datingstorytime #datingstories #younglove #togetherforever #seriousrelationship #longtermrelationships #longdistancerelationship #marriagesuccess #successstories #happycouple #isawhimfirstpodcast --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/isawhimfirst/message

In this juicy storytime, I spill the tea on my disastrous Bumble rendezvous. From being 30 minutes late to tipsiness and corkiness.. this date took an unexpected turn! Get ready for laughs, cringes, and learn a lesson or two about online dating. Hit that play button now and let's get into the drama! #BumbleDate #DatingDisaster #storytime I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉 Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy ?sub_confirmation=1 Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?_t=8itkTzzKyYa&_r=1 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast?igsh=ODA1NTc5OTg5Nw== THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe 🥰 #datingapps #onlinedating #datinginyour20s #datingpodcast #relationshippodcast #toxicmen #datingappdisaster #datingbehaviours #singlewomen #datingin2024 #ukpodcast #moderndating #modernrelationships #datingstorytime #bumbledatefail #datingstories #bumbledatedisaster #datingstorytime #datinghorrorstories #isawhimfirstpodcast #everythingwrongwithonlinedating --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/isawhimfirst/message

Let's get into the latest season of Love is Blind with this no-nonsense recap! The lies from Jimmy, the betrayal from Jeramey, the insecurities from Chelsea and AD, the toxic behaviour from Trevor, the cheating scare from Clay, the proclaimed Megan Fox look-alikeness from Chelsea, the cheeky epi pen comment from Jessica, the Sarah-Ann drama, the girl's girl comment from Laura, the Amy & Johnny love story, the reunion.. and much more :) I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉 Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy ?sub_confirmation=1 Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?_t=8itkTzzKyYa&_r=1 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast?igsh=ODA1NTc5OTg5Nw== THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe 🥰 #LoveIsBlind #loveisblindseason6 #loveisblindSeason6Recap #MeganFoxLookAlike #datingshow #blinddate #realitytv #realitytvshows #realitytvstars #loveisblindcast #datingpsychology #highvaluemen #insecurities #onlinedating #datingpodcast #relationshippodcast #toxicrelationships #datingproblems #datingbehaviours #datingadviceforwomen #singlewomen #datingin2024 #datingadvice #ukpodcast #moderndating #modernrelationships #relationshipadvice #datingtips #isawhimfirstpodcast (This video is about: Love is Blind Season 6, Love is Blind recap, Megan Fox look alike, Love is Blind review, reality TV, Netflix, relationships, drama, romance, blindfolded love, must-watch, couples, plot twist, love is blind reunion, love is blind exclusive) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/isawhimfirst/message

EVERYTHING WRONG WITH MODERN DATING. Unfiltered and absolutely unginged podcast today about the toxic realities of modern dating! From swiping patterns on dating apps to dating trends, dating psychology, hypergamy, looks maxxing, and all the other challenges of today's modern dating landscape. I also spoke about the impact of hookup culture on commitment. So whether you're navigating the dating scene yourself or simply curious about the trends shaping modern relationships, this podcast episode offers valuable insights and thought-provoking analysis. ENJOY :))))))) TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Everything wrong with modern dating 00:33 Intro 00:47 No. 1 - False Perception of our attractiveness 06:30 No. 2 - Delusion 11:14 No. 3 - Hypergamy and the education gender gap 13:54 No. 4 - Maxmizers 16:21 No. 5 - Commitment issues & hookup culture I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉 Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy ?sub_confirmation=1 Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?_t=8itkTzzKyYa&_r=1 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast?igsh=ODA1NTc5OTg5Nw== THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe 🥰 #hypergamy #datingapps #datingpsychology #highvaluemen #onlinedating #datingpodcast #relationshippodcast #toxicrelationships #datingup #datingapps #datingbehaviours #datingadviceforwomen #singlewomen #datingin2024 #datingadvice #ukpodcast #moderndating #modernrelationships #relationshipadvice #datingtips #isawhimfirstpodcast #chriswilliamson #modernwisdom #jordanpeterson #tamkaur #courtneyryan #caseyzander #everythingwrongwith --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/isawhimfirst/message

Modern dating really is the survival of the fittest! Today's podcast is a thought-provoking discussion about our swiping patterns on dating apps as women, compared to men. This was inspired by a Reddit post about beauty standards and societal perception of the regular everyday man on the physical attractiveness scale. Has online dating really become so superficial and heavily skewed towards the higher percentile of attractive men - aka "High Value Men"? Are most men really ugly? #highvaluemen #hypergamy #askreddit #redditstories #onlinedating #mostmenareugly #datingapps #relationshippodcast #girlchat #highstandards #dating #datingup #moderndating #podcastondating #datingpodcast #DatingLife #SingleLife #DatingAdvice #genuineconnection #truelove #lovelife #superficiallove #looksmatter #looksmaxing #survivalofthefittest #unrealisticexpectations #unpopularopinions #ukpodcast #isawhimfirstpodcast Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy ?sub_confirmation=1 THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe. (This video is about: a reddit post about whether or not most men are ugly, why women think this way, the men that women find the most attractive, hypergamy, high value men, the education gender gap, dating in 2024, swiping on the top 15% of men on dating apps) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/isawhimfirst/message

Let's talk about the complexities of modern dating. In a world where casual relationships and hookup culture is quickly becoming the norm, it has become so uncool to admit that you want a genuine connection. When did wanting to be loved become so uncool? Perhaps this is perceived as being synonymous with desperately longing for love and affection? In this candid episode, I recap a recent encounter during a house party and share my thoughts on the state of modern dating in 2024. From dating apps to "Love is Blind" Season 6! No spoiler :) But it's not all doom and gloom! Loneliness is a normal emotion. What's important is keeping your standards high while navigating the dating scene. Remember, wanting that passionate, crazy kind of love is NOT uncool! TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 relatable AF? 00:48 podcast intro 00:59 let's talk about it 01:19 casual sex and hookup culture 02:22 girl chat - house party recap 03:55 desperate for love vs wanting a true connection 07:00 love is blind Season 6 08:42 the state of modern dating 11:25 loneliness is just like every other emotion 12:52 keeping your standards high 14:18 wanting to be loved is not uncool 16:22 i want that passionate crazy kinda love #moderndating #hookupculture #loveisblindseason6 #loveisblind #casualsex #girlchat #onlinedating #datingin2024 #datingapps #casualdating #datingtomarry #highstandards #loneliness #datinginyour20s #datingintheuk #Relationships #dating #ModernRelationships #datingpodcast #relationshippodcast #ukpodcast #ukdatingpodcast #solopodcast #DatingJourney #relationshipadvice #DatingLife #SingleLife #singleladies #SelfReflection #SelfImprovement #DatingAdvice #Introspection #EmotionalGrowth #SelfEmpowerment #isawhimfirstpodcast Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy ?sub_confirmation=1 THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe. (This video is about: Dating Life, why is it so uncool to want love? dating in your 20s, love is blind season 6, online dating, dating in the UK, Relationships, Single woman, Single Life, Self Reflection, why you should stop dating for fun, casual sex, Life Choices, Self Awareness, Love Yourself, Personal Journey, casual dating, Relationship Goals, Self Improvement, hookup culture, Dating Advice, Life Decisions, Single Living, Introspection, Self Empowerment, Self Discovery Journey, Life Lessons Learned, Healthy Relationships, Inner Peace, Personal Development, Growth Mindset, dating with standards) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/isawhimfirst/message

Society loves to tell women that as long as he's a "good guy," nothing else matters. But is that true, or are you really just settling for less than you deserve in a relationship? In this thought-provoking podcast, I delve deep into the pervasive myth of dating the so-called "good guys" and why it may not always lead to happy ending you may have pictured!Contrary to popular beliefs, being with a good guy does not mean that you're with the right guy, and caring about seemingly superficial things like height, physical attraction and social status (AKA high value men), does not make you TOO PICKY. So I hope this video inspires you to break free from societal norms and find genuine connection, longevity, and complete satisfaction in your love life. P.S. This dating advice is not just for single women. People in relationships can benefit from this, and hopefully, it changes the way you approach dating and relationships forever. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Good guys can be hot too 00:30 Welcome back to my podcast 00:46 Can women have it all? 01:18 You don't have to settle 01:53 The best or worst decision of your life 02:42 Do you have unrealistic expectations? 03:05 Things you should value in a relationship 04:06 Dating storytime 05:13 What you shouldn't compromise on 06:44 Societal expectations to settle for "nice guys" 08:06 Walking away from a good man 09:53 "stop being too picky" 10:40 wait, you deserve to be with the right person 12:42 why you should never settle for the wrong relationship #bestdatingadvice #dontsettleforless #datingpodcast #girlchat #highstandards #SelfReflection #Relationships #dating #goodguys #niceguys #datingup #ModernRelationships #podcastondating #datingadviceforwomen #relationshippodcast #relationshipadvice #DatingLife #SingleLife #DatingAdvice #relationships #settling #datinggoodguys #relationshipsatisfaction #genuineconnection #ltruelove #lovelife #expertinsights #unpopularopinions #relationshipfulfillment #isawhimfirstpodcast Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy ?sub_confirmation=1 THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe. (This video is about: society telling women to settle, why dating good guys alone is not enough, dating in your 20s, dating life, dating in the UK, Relationships, Single woman, Single Life, Self Reflection, why you want the best for yourself, never settling in dating, Life Choices, Self Awareness, Relationship advice, Self Improvement, Dating Advice, Life Decisions, Single Living, Introspection, Emotional Growth, Self Empowerment, Self Discovery Journey, Self Realization, Dating Lessons Learned, Healthy Relationships, Personal Development, dating with standards, high standard, hypergamy, societal norms in dating, dating expectations) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/isawhimfirst/message

Curious about why someone would put the brakes on dating in their 20s? Should you stop dating too? Will I really never date again? Whether you're navigating your own dating journey or simply intrigued by the idea of taking a break from the dating scene, this video is for you! In this candid storytime, I delve into the personal journey that led me to make the decision to stop dating at 25. From the multiple failed relationship to unmet expectations, being told you have standards that are too high, self-discovery, self doubt, and then living the lonely single life.. I share all the raw and honest reasons behind my choice. Join me as I explore the complexities of modern relationships in 2024.#moderndating #highstandards #SelfReflection #Relationships #dating #hypergamy #datingup #ModernRelationships #datingpodcast #relationshippodcast #PersonalGrowth #SelfLove #DatingJourney #SelfDiscovery #relationshipadvice #BreakFromDating #DatingLife #SingleLife #SelfReflection #SelfAwareness #PersonalJourney #EmotionalWellness #SelfImprovement #DatingAdvice #LifeDecisions #Introspection #EmotionalGrowth #SelfEmpowerment #SelfDiscoveryJourney #isawhimfirstpodcast Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy ?sub_confirmation=1 THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe. (This video is about: DatingLife, why i stopped dating, dating in your 20s, dating in the UK, Relationships, Single woman, Single Life, Self Reflection, why you should stop dating, Mindfulness, Life Choices, Self Awareness, SelfCare, Love Yourself, Personal Journey, Emotional Wellness, Relationship Goals, Self Improvement, Millennial Life, Dating Advice, Life Decisions, Single Living, Introspection, Emotional Growth, Self Empowerment, Self Discovery Journey, Self Realization, Self Love Journey, Finding Yourself, Life Lessons Learned, Healthy Relationships, Inner Peace, Personal Development, Growth Mindset, dating with standards, high standards. ) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/isawhimfirst/message

So it's VALENTINE'S DAY! 🎉 But for some people, it may be the end of their relationships 🥲 Well, I'm back with some actionable relationship advice for you! By the end of this video, you'll certainly get some clarity about whether or not to end your relationship. Are you at a crossroads in your relationship? Wondering if it’s time to say goodbye to the love of your life? Unsure about where it all went wrong? Should I stay or should I go? In this Valentine’s Day special, I give some tangible advice on how to know when it's time to break up with your partner. Is your relationship over? Or does it deserve a second chance? Well, watch to find out! Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & Self-Developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe. #ValentinesDay #breakupadvice #breakuptips #whentoendarelationship #Breakups #relationshipadvice #LoveAndHeartbreak #MovingOn #breakingupwithyourboyfriend #EndingARelationship #BreakupTipsforwomen #ValentinesDaySpecial #relationshipissues #datingadvice #isawhimfirstpodcast (This video is about: When to end a relationship, Valentine's Day special, Relationship advice, Love advice, Signs of a failing relationship, Ending a relationship with grace, Moving on after a breakup, Healthy relationships, Relationship tips, Heartbreak recovery, Relationship Advice, dating advice, Valentine’s Day, Breakup Tips, Love and Heartbreak, Emotional Healing, Moving On, Self-Discovery, Ending a Relationship, ending a relationship, when to Breakup, Relationship ending advice, Breakup advice, Relationship red flags, Knowing when to break up, Letting go of a relationship, Coping with heartbreak, Relationship closure, Moving forward after a breakup, Relationship support, Healing after a breakup, Ending a relationship with someone you still love) --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/isawhimfirst/message

Have you ever wondered why we DON'T feel bad for rich people? This is a very intriguing episode of my podcast where I delve into the paradoxical concept of empathy towards the rich and powerful people of the world. I explained the psychological phenomenon known as Hedonic Adaptation (Hedonic Happiness or the Hedonic Treadmill) and its profound implications on our perceptions of wealth and happiness. Contrary to conventional and popular beliefs, I explore the thought provoking reason why it's not valid to dismiss the feelings of those who seemingly have it all, but rather see them for what they really are.. HUMAN. Through a compelling exploration of positive psychology, this podcast is meant to challenge existing narratives, offer a fresh perspective on the emotional experiences of the wealthy, and reshape your understanding of wealth, happiness, and emotional wellbeing. Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British Podcast about Dating & Relationships, Self Development, Psychology & Neuroscience, Self Love and Happiness. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, comment, subscribe, and share with someone 🥰 #hedonicadaptation #psychologyofmoney #moneyandhappiness #contentment #lifesatisfaction #hedonism #richpeoplehabits #wealthypeople #beingrich #ukpodcast #doesmoneybuyhappiness #wellbeing #incomeandwellbeing #moneyvshappiness #psychologystudies #psychologyfacts #richpeoplelifestyle #selfimprovement #selfdevelopment #sciencebacked #selfdevelopmentpodcast #psychologypodcast #psychologyvideos #neurosciencenuggets #chriswilliamson #jordanpeterson #drjoedispenza #isawhimfirstpodcast (This video is about: money, money and happiness, psychology of money, can money buy happiness, does money buy happiness, rich people, contentment, financial freedom, affluence, kim kardashian, wealth, wealthy people, hedonism, Hedonic Adaptation, Hedonic treadmill, happiness adaptation, money vs happiness, income, high income, earning a lot of money, making money, income and wellbeing, psychology studies, psychology research, psychology facts, psychology of rich people, rich people habits, wealthy people behaviour, self improvement, self development, science backed, self development podcast, psychology podcast, psychology videos, neuroscience nuggets, self improvement podcast, the psychology of money and happiness, psychology secrets, the neuroscience of money and happiness, how to be happy, are rich people happy). --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/isawhimfirst/message