Gaydars for Gaysians

Surprise! The T pot isn’t fully empty yet. this episode we talk about something that all gays have to do (unless you are a homophobic politician) -- yes, we are talking about coming out. We start with some very early sexual awakening (involving THREE guys) and then move onto some more traumatic story. Prepare some tissue because you definitely will be crying (either from laughing too hard or empathizing). And as always, stay around as we try to fuck, marry, and kill some more bodily fluids.Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Holy f*cking mother of god — that’s what you’ll be screaming when you finish listening to this week’s episode. For this episode, we have invited a guest who will talk about her scandalous (wink) life: from a K-Pop fuckboy’s ever-returning love for her to a once-in-a-lifetime experience with a movie star. She also gives some blowjob tips and we all get a little bit personal with our history of eating disorders. And then as if nothing had happened, we fuck, marry, and kill bananas, eggplants, and cucumbers. Just make sure that you have some burn medication on the side during and after we’ve spilled all the tea. Because the tea is what? Scalding hot.Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Apologies for the late update, but we're back with our 30th episode with no other but our own host, Kenneth! He spills all the tea about gay men in the military, straight fuckboy-wanna-be's, & his No Nut November. If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

We are already at our 10th episode!! And what better way to celebrate it than with an exclusive episode about all stuff yaoi and BL featuring a special guest? With the help of our former Yaoi manga translator, we talk about the different types of bl involving bears and twinks, obviously some anal sex involving pregnancy, and try to understand what the f*ck a cake-verse entails. Our primary goal, as it always has been, is to ~educate~ our audience so by the end of this week’s episode, you’ll know the difference between uke and seme or fudanshi and fujoshi. At the end we also have some questions for our guests regarding her work so be ready for that!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

The long wait brings the most special guest ever...the ex. Aster brings on his ex-girlfriend (cis and straight) to spill the whole tea about their past relationship: how they met, why they were attracted to each other how they broke up, what challenges they faced, ~technical difficulties~, yadayadayada. You never wanna miss this one. If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Send us your questions and stories through our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, and follow our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!Comment! Rate! Subscribe! Please I beg you....

Aster's back with a steamy topic that cis people have been craving about for decades: how do trans people have sex? Joined by our first trans femme guest, Vera, the two trans hotties talk about how they navigated their gender journeys, how their relationships with their bodies and sex have changed over time, and how they enjoy sex while dealing with body dysphoria. The ultimate trans sex liberation has come! Tune in till the end to listen to Vera's hookup stories, which are the wildest ones to be released on the face of internet.If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Send us your questions and stories through our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, and follow our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!Comment! Rate! Subscribe! Please I beg you....

Aster's back from his long break (I promise I'll be back next week) with a steamy interview with Robert Steele, the author of Banned from California, a biography of Jim Foshee, a gay runaway—and later, gay rights activist—who, after a childhood spent first in an orphanage and then a mental hospital, found himself in the underground world of the early queer scene of 1950s Los Angeles.  Robert explains why he chose Jim as the subject of his book, how Jim endured his abusive childhood and his time in prison, and how he finally transitioned into a gay rights activist and queer history researcher. Robert and Aster also discuss themes such as hypersexuality in gay men culture and Jim's resilience. For more information visit BannedCA.comBuy at https://www.amazon.com/Banned-California-Persecution-Redemption-Liberation/dp/1734010800If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Send us your questions and stories through our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, and follow our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!Comment! Rate! Subscribe! Please I beg you....

Who has been showered with rejections before? I know I have. Aster is back with our favorite Single Since Birth Karen (ep 14,15,29) to talk about rejections. Join us in our verbal diarrhea of healing from rejections from career opportunities, relationships, and family, as we bare all of our most embarrassing stories of rejections. Sharp right, we give fashion tips because we be fashionable like dat. Cheers!  If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Send us your questions and stories through our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, and follow our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!Comment! Rate! Subscribe!

And we're back! Aster has been taking some time off because he was vacationing in therapy. In this episode, he sits down with a psychiatrist-to-be Dr. Velma Pepper to talk about everything therpy: why we started therapy, what we talk about in therapy, what kind of therapists we love & hate, why people don't go to therapy, and why therapy can be questionable at times. Tune in to learn about our deepest darkest secrets, and answers to our listener questions collected through instagram related to toxic friendships, lying in therapy, & restarting therapy! If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!

Hi, pretty bitches Jackie and Aster are back talking about everything related to our lewks and bodies, this time specifically about eating disorders, body dysmorphia, and fitness culture. Jackie goes deep into her history with various eating disorders, while Aster rants about how his OCD facilitates his body dysmorphia, separate from his body dysphoria. They discuss fitness culture as well, which they have distinct experiences regarding fitness trainers. You won't expect what Aster had to go through with his personal trainer :)If you want to send Kenneth a message while he's in the military, send him a DM on instagram!Follow our instagram @gaydarsforgaysians, our personals @asterhwang and @kenkang__, and our youtube channel!