Keeping the flame alive without sex ft El Shakar

This was first uploaded to my YouTube channel but is now being shared here so that you can listen on repeat if you want to. Enjoy 💓 “Yet true godliness with contentment is itself great wealth. After all, we brought nothing with us when we came into the world, and we can’t take anything with us when we leave it. So if we have enough food and clothing, let us be content. But people who long to be rich fall into temptation and are trapped by many foolish and harmful desires that plunge them into ruin and destruction. For the LOVE of money is the root of all kinds of evil. And some people, craving money, have wandered from the true faith and pierced themselves with many sorrows.” (1Timothy 6:6-10)

This was such an interesting topic! 😂 Be sure to share with others and invite them into the conversation. "He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the LORD." (Proverbs 18:22) Our guest's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/oyinoludapo How she met her husband: https://youtu.be/m8qz6xuqJb4?si=UZKdPnuAPF3hhjDK

Today’s episode is a laid back life update that first featured on my Youtube channel so you may hear me saying 'video' a lot but i thought you guys would love to listen to me gisting with you here like we’re on facetime about my content creation lows, struggles with being in the public eye, thoughts about going back to school or trying a 9-5, and so much more. Don’t forget to share with others!

Today’s conversation is long overdue! I wanted to have a real, raw, conversation around singleness and dating, especially in these times where so many opinions are flying around, leaving young people confused and discouraged. Who better to unpack this with than the IFBNW herself??? We’re discussing why men won’t commit, if women really have unrealistic standards, marriage shaming, movies on the 1st date, and so much more.

Today’s conversation is one that I have been eager to have with you guys – it’s literally been sitting in my brain for almost a year now and started after I heard from someone who expressed a desire to follow God but had acquired so much through stuff through her sinful past (exchanging sex for money). It was really hard for her to let go because she did not want to suffer. My friend, El Shakar has actually experienced this and gone through something similar and that’s why I was eager to have this conversation with him and bring you guys along.

I think that by simply being human beings, we’ve all experienced trauma in one way or the other however, it doesn’t have to become our identity – it can simply be a part of a story that God is redeeming. My guest today is Ini Leye and she will be sharing a very moving story about trauma that she faced and it doesn’t matter how many times I hear her story; it moves me every time how much she suffered and how God has been able to redeem that story to bless many lives.

Today's conversation is with my friend, Precious Ada about…friendship! Maybe you’re losing friends, ghosting some, being ghosted, struggling to text back and maybe even battling jealousy because some people in your friend group are growing or achieving things at a rate that makes you feel left behind, let's talk about it.

Ezinne Zara shares what she does when she's alone with her lover. The beautiful exchange of pouring out her heart to Him and letting Him pour out His into her.

Ezinne Zara shares her thoughts and understanding on Matthew 6:33 where all believers in Jesus Christ are instructed to seek God’s kingdom first and prioritise it above all else. May it bring Light, clarity and understanding to your mind. God bless you!

In the Season 1 finale, Ezinne answers questions and dilemmas sent in by you, our listeners, about everything ranging from dating, the coming elections in Nigeria, the waiting season and more.