328. The Not-Yet Zone: How to Survive the Messy Middle of Life & Leadership with Dan Waldschmidt
In this raw, unpolished conversation, Mark brings back bestāselling author, ultraārunner, and "billionādollar strategist" Dan Waldschmidt for a deep dive into what he calls the "not yet zone" ā the liminal hallway between who you were and who you're becoming. They go way past highlight reels and talk honestly about divorce, losing a parent, sleepless nights, and the heavy responsibility of leading people when you feel completely lost yourself. Dan shares what it's really like to step off the stage, go dark on social, buy a nearābankrupt company, run it for years as CEO, and then hand the keys to someone else so he can face the question, "What's after Edgy?" He unpacks Misogi ā choosing a seemingly impossible challenge on purpose and walks through his brutal 100āmile race in the Florida Keys, where heat, dehydration, and a 7āmile bridge turned finishing into a full-on spiritual battle. Together, Mark and Dan build a practical playbook for surviving the "inābetween": why you can't trust your 2 a.m. emotions, how movement changes your brain chemistry, where postātraumatic growth comes from, the power of reaching out instead of isolating, and why small acts of generosity and sharing your story might be the very things that pull you through the forge. If you feel like you're stuck in a long hallway with no doors, this episode will remind you you're not crazy, you're not alone, and you're not done. https://www.linkedin.com/in/danielwaldschmidt/ Chapters: 00:00 ā Intro: Mark, Dan & 10+ Years of Friendship Who Dan is, "Edgy Conversations" selling ~700k copies, billionādollar strategy work, and why he disappeared from the spotlight to build his own company. 07:10 ā The Liminal "Not Yet" Zone & The Long Hallway Defining liminality, the "not yet zone," foggy seasons, and why most of life is spent between what was and what will be. 14:55 ā Misogi & UltraāRunning: Choosing Hard Things on Purpose Dan's 38,000 miles, 200āmile races, 3,100āmile goals, Misogi explained, and how his son's first halfāmarathon changed his identity. 24:20 ā Grief, Fog, and Not Trusting 2 A.M. Emotions Mark on losing his mom, supporting his dad, running a growing business, and learning to stop believing every catastrophic thought in the dark. 33:50 ā Impostor Feelings, Healthy Paranoia & Leadership Anxiety Balancing high standards with selfādoubt, overāforecasting worstācase scenarios, and catching yourself when fear turns irrational. 47:30 ā Movement as Medicine: Fit45, Running & "Something Is Better Than Nothing" Why exercise is a chemical reset, doing 20 minutes instead of zero, and using small wins to pull yourself out of emotional spirals. 52:50 ā Inside the Keys 100: Heat, Vomiting & Finishing Third Dan's full 100āmile race story: goals, 7āmile bridge, kidneys and nausea, his crew, missing his time target but finishing as first American & what that did to his mindset. 1:06:50 ā PostāTraumatic Growth vs. PTSD & Helping Others While You're Hurting Mark's jail story, owning your part, veterans, mentoring others, and how serving people in their pain rewires your own. 1:15:40 ā Generosity, Presence & Reframing Scarcity TD Jakes' "spontaneous generosity," giving time in the middle of a busy day, and how giving convinces your brain you actually have enough. 1:24:20 ā The Forge, The Roof, and Doing Everything You Can The blacksmith/forge metaphor, "quit tomorrow," and the Gospel story of friends tearing off a roof to get their friend to Jesus ā faith plus insane action. 1:32:30 ā Dan's 6āStep Playbook for the NotāYet Zone & Where to Find Him Recap (don't trust wild emotions, don't quit, move your body, reach out, be generous, learn from others' stories), plus Dan's newsletter at fyra.co and how to help push "Edgy Conversations" past 1 million copies. Thank you all for making our podcast Elevating Beyond with Mark Minard, in the top #100 on iTunes, Apple Podcasts, Spotify , and In over 52 difference countries : šļøšļøĀ https://www.markminard.net/podcast Also, thank you all so much for purchasing my new book, and making it a best seller--the world needs you, LEADERS, now, more than ever! š„Watch all our podcasts in the new Elevating Beyond Studio , here on our new YouTube Channel Ā Ā Ā /Ā @markminardĀ Ā Check out Mark's best selling book on Leadership Strategy: š16 Reasons Why Your Business Sucks: How To Be Freakin' Awesome At Every Level of Your Business, Leadership, Finances, & Build Your Own Dream Team! š§On Audible : https://adbl.co/3Gjoujp šPaperback on amazon :Ā https://bit.ly/AmazonPaperback16Reasons Connect With Mark Minard Here: ā
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