Love, Friendship, Heartbreak, Vampires, and Breaking Free of Patterns that Define us, Michael Lauria
Michael Lauria is a qualified therapist, author and philosophical mythologist. He has been in private practice since 2006 and has spent more than 25,000 hours in the chair, most of them with men and couples, along with two years sitting with the dying in hospice and a year on a suicide hotline. He has written 48 books. Under his own name he is the author of Obsolete, Twenty Years in the Chair (4 November 2026, foreword by Dr John Demartini) and The Three Sacrifices (17 November 2026), with another book due in December. He is also the mind behind The Architect, a body of work of thirty-three books, and The Architect Speaks, a podcast of more than 500 episodes. We talk about what a philosophical mythologist is, being a therapist, his upcoming book "Monsters of the Collective Unconscious," betrayal, emotions, attention spans, vampires and how we act like them, werewolves, suppression of anger and fear, zombies, how some have lost the ability to think for themselves, relationships, keeping score in relationships, narcissism and narcissistic tendencies, personality disorders and how we all might have a bit of them, how we might make ourselves available to narcissistic abuse in relationships, making our hearts like stone and losing the ability to fall in love, the perils of avoiding the chance of heartbreak, friendships and how some end, choosing work over attachment to relationships, the value of solitude, Hospice and dying, "The Five Regrets of the Dying," finding and honoring ourselves, finding patterns in what we avoid, an AI Michael created called The Atlas, myths in modern pop psychology, having to prove we are human, the shame of AI, using AI for good, and more.