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A couple I worked with had the same argument every few weeks. The subject changed, but the ending never did: harsh words, then silence, then moving on with nothing resolved.

The problem isn't that you argue. It's what happens once an argument starts. You stop trying to understand your partner and start trying to win, and you can't do both at once.

You'll learn a simple two-step process. Take a short break, then come back with one question that shows you want to understand, not just be right.

Couples who argue with curiosity don't stop disagreeing, but they stop carrying resentment from one argument into the next.

Daily Relationship Tips helps couples strengthen relationship communication, rebuild emotional intimacy, restore relationship trust, develop healthy relationship habits, and reconnect before emotional distance becomes permanent.

Hosted by Alastair Duhs, relationship coach and creator of Reconnected.

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