How To Stand Up For Yourself If You Hate Conflict

Discover The 4 Emotions You Need To Make a Killer First Impression:http://bit.ly/2Frs8WXAnd for more on Dealing With Conflict, check out Charisma University: www.charismaoncommand.com/c-university_ _ _ _ _**Hello! Adding this in because some people missed the video on How To Stop People From Talking Over You. This is Ben! I'm the guy in this video. I founded Charisma On Command with Charlie four years ago. You can catch a bit of my story towards the end of this video when I introduce myself. Charlie is still creating videos! He's going to release his next one on Monday. Hope that clears things up a bit :-)_ _ _ _ _Have you ever had a tough conversation in front of you and not known exactly how to handle it?Maybe it was with your boyfriend or girlfriend, amongst friends or roommates, with your family, or at work. Difficult conversations are stressful because if you handle them poorly, it can do irreparable damage to your relationship or your career. And we never get taught how to do it correctly! So in this video I go over the principles you can apply to make almost any difficult conversation go well for you. You don’t need to use all of these in all situations. What I want to do is arm you with options so you can choose the right tool for whatever situation you're in.00:36 3 things to consider BEFORE tough conversations and difficult conversations00:42 Draw your line. Define what's acceptable and what's unacceptable.02:20 Thinking things through as if you're the other person 03:38 Set the tone that YOU want the conversation to have 04:10 Things to consider DURING a tough conversation04:30 State facts and feelings to prevent someone from being defensive05:30 What to do when someone is making jokes at your expense that you don't like06:48 Go on the record early so that a tough conversation isn't a surprise08:11 Have mutual understanding and don't assume about what the other person is thinking08:50 What to do when you're the one who made a mistake or how to receive feedback12:05 How to handle emotionally charged conversations and have confidence13:50 How to calm down a tough conversation that is getting heated15:40 A more formal introduction!Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-SubscribeConnect With Us Further:Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.comFacebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommandOr if you want to see my personal stuff (my regular life + Charlie playing music):Instagram: @IamBenAltman and @CharlieHoupert Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices