Behind the Swipe

In this exciting episode of Behind the Swipe, we sit down with Sandra Mason, the vibrant and inspiring contestant from the recent season of The Golden Bachelor. Sandra shares her incredible journey, from her adventurous move to Atlanta, her bold decision to join the reality show, and her candid reflections on dating and relationships later in life.Join us as Sandra reveals her “why not?” attitude, offering valuable insights into stepping outside your comfort zone and embracing new experiences. We delve into her dating adventures, her thoughts on finding love after 60, and the importance of staying active and engaged.Plus, don’t miss our friendly football banter as we look forward to the upcoming showdown between her Kansas City Chiefs and my Cincinnati Bengals!This episode is packed with inspiration and practical advice for anyone looking to reignite their zest for life and love. Tune in for a conversation that’s sure to boost your spirits and motivate you to embrace your own adventures.ref-s0ojvvuu#SandraMason, #TheGoldenBachelor, #datingafter60,  #onlinedating, #relationships, #comfortzone, #inspiration, #football, #Chiefs, #Bengals, #BehindtheSwipe

In this enlightening episode of *Behind the Swipe*, host Hoyt Prisock sits down with writer Betsy Morris to explore her deeply personal and inspiring journey back into the dating world after divorce. Betsy shares insights from her blog series, *Adventures in Online Dating*, touching on themes of overcoming anxiety, navigating expectations, creating an authentic profile, learning to filter potential matches, and experiencing personal growth through the process.Betsy opens up about her initial fears and the courage it took to take the plunge into online dating, much like standing on the edge of a diving board. She discusses the challenges of presenting oneself authentically in a dating profile and the importance of self-discovery and adaptability. Her story is particularly relevant to listeners following our ongoing *Julie's Journey* series, which documents the real-time experiences of Julie, a newly divorced woman re-entering the dating world.Listeners will find Betsy's honesty and reflections both relatable and motivational. From learning to trust again to finding joy in new relationships, Betsy’s journey is a testament to the resilience and strength required to navigate the post-divorce dating scene. For those interested in delving deeper into Betsy's story, links to her *Adventures in Online Dating* posts are available on our Instagram feed at @behindtheswipepodcast. Join us as we offer a comprehensive look at what it means to start over with courage, vulnerability, and hope.Whether you're newly single or just looking for inspiration, this episode provides valuable insights and encouragement for anyone on a similar path. Tune in and take the first step towards your new beginning.

In this thought-provoking episode of Behind the Swipe, we sit down with Dr. Amy Robbins, a clinical psychologist and spiritual intuitive, to discuss how the awareness of death can shape our understanding of life and influence our relationships. Dr. Robbins shares her insights on spiritual compatibility, particularly the complexities and nuances for those over 50 navigating the online dating world. This episode delves deep into how embracing our spiritual essence can lead to more authentic and fulfilling relationships. We explore the challenges spiritually aware individuals face when seeking partners and how differences in spiritual paths can impact relationship dynamics. Whether you’re deeply spiritual or just starting to explore these aspects, this conversation offers valuable perspectives on living fully and loving wisely. Tune in as we merge the spiritual with the practical in the quest for love and connection. Remember to swipe fearlessly as you journey through the intriguing landscape of dating later in life.

Welcome to the premiere of "Julie's Journey: A Behind the Swipe Dating Makeover." In this enlightening first episode, host Hoyt Prisock and returning guest Cindy Hopper, a seasoned therapist from Atlanta, explore the critical first steps of re-entering the dating scene. Together, they delve into the emotional and practical aspects of crafting an authentic online dating profile for Julie, a vibrant single mom in her mid-fifties ready to take on the world of online dating with a fresh perspective. They discuss the importance of self-awareness, the impact of past relationships, and how to set realistic expectations without compromising genuine connections. Join us as we embark on this transformative series, designed to not only follow Julie’s personal journey but also to inspire and guide anyone looking to explore the world of online dating. Tune in and discover how understanding your true self is the key to unlocking meaningful connections.

In this bonus episode of "Behind the Swipe," host Hoyt Prisock introduces an exciting new series titled "Julie's Journey," which promises to transform theoretical knowledge of online dating into practical, real-life application. The series will closely follow Julie, a vibrant and active single mom in her mid-fifties, as she reenters the dating world with a fresh commitment to authenticity and high standards. After previous disheartening experiences with online dating, Julie is ready to dive back in with a renewed sense of self, equipped with expert guidance from life and dating coaches. The series aims to explore not just the mechanics of online dating but the deeper human emotions and experiences behind it, offering listeners candid insights into Julie's journey and the potential for personal growth and genuine connection. The narrative promises to adjust dynamically to Julie's experiences, providing a raw and evolving story of finding love and self-discovery in the digital age.

This week on Behind the Swipe, host Hoyt Prisock welcomes therapist Hilary Woodman, an expert in narcissistic personality disorder, for a deep dive into the complexities of narcissism in relationships. Hilary unpacks the clinical aspects of narcissism, distinguishing it from simple egocentrism, and sheds light on how these traits manifest in harmful ways within intimate relationships.Throughout the episode, Hilary discusses the defining characteristics of narcissism, such as a marked lack of empathy and a tendency to exploit personal interactions. With a blend of professional insights and relatable examples, she explains how to spot the difference between benign self-love and malignant narcissistic behaviors. The discussion also explores the profound psychological impacts on those entangled with narcissists, highlighting the often unseen emotional and mental toll.Listeners will find valuable guidance on identifying red flags in relationships and learn about the steps to take if they find themselves involved with a narcissist. Hilary offers advice on how to seek support, build resilience, and protect oneself from further abuse.The episode closes with a message of hope, emphasizing that recovery and renewal are within reach for those who have suffered in narcissistic relationships. Whether you're directly affected or simply curious about this pervasive issue, this episode provides essential insights into navigating and healing from these challenging dynamics.Join us for a compelling conversation that aims not just to inform but also to empower and inspire positive change in personal relationships.

In this engaging episode of Behind the Swipe, titled "Talk It Out, Don't Tough It Out," host Hoyt Prisock sits down with therapist Armann Fenger to explore the critical early stages of relationships. The conversation focuses on the inevitable "glitch" — those initial moments of conflict or misunderstanding that test the budding connection between partners. Armann, with his blend of professional expertise and relatable insights, challenges the traditional "tough it out" mentality, advocating instead for the transformative power of open communication.The episode delves into how fears and misunderstandings can manifest differently in men and women, shaped by societal expectations and individual experiences. Through compelling anecdotes and practical advice, Armann illustrates the importance of empathy, clear communication, and acknowledging each other's emotions to navigate these early relationship hurdles successfully.Listeners will gain valuable strategies for fostering deeper understanding and connection with their partners, emphasizing the crucial role of vulnerability and active listening in building a strong foundation for any relationship. This episode is not just a conversation; it's a toolkit for anyone looking to enhance their communication skills and deepen their romantic connections.As Hoyt wraps up the discussion, he encourages sharing this episode with those who might benefit from a fresh perspective on navigating the complexities of early relationships. Tune in to "Talk It Out, Don't Tough It Out" for an insightful exploration of love, communication, and the power of facing relationship challenges head-on, together. Join us on Behind the Swipe as we continue to swipe fearlessly in pursuit of genuine understanding and connection.

In this special episode of "Behind the Swipe," host Hoyt Prisock takes us on a journey back through the pivotal moments of season one, weaving together the rich tapestry of online dating experiences for those venturing into love's digital frontier in their later years. Highlights include a deep dive into the nature of rebound relationships from episode two,  where the conversation transcends the superficial to touch on the profound need for validation and connection after the end of long-term relationships.We also revisit insights on the complexities of engaging with newly single partners from a female perspective, emphasizing the importance of healing and readiness before pursuing new romantic endeavors. The episode "The Paradox of Choice," featuring a discussion with Cindy Hopper, illuminates the overwhelming nature of endless dating options, illustrating how an abundance of choices can lead to indecision and dissatisfaction rather than meaningful connections.Furthermore, dating coach Christine Baumgartner, in the episode titled "How to Reverse Engineer Online Dating," offers invaluable advice on the significance of self-awareness, clarity, and communication in navigating the online dating world. Through a blend of expert insights and personal stories, this episode distills the essence of "Behind the Swipe," offering guidance, hope, and encouragement for those over 45 seeking companionship in the ever-evolving landscape of online dating.

In this profoundly personal episode of Behind the Swipe, we delve into the world of early-stage dating relationships with the esteemed Wendy Palmer Patterson. With over 40 years dedicated to enhancing the fabric of romantic partnerships through Imago Therapy, Wendy's wisdom is a beacon for those navigating the often turbulent waters of love, especially in the digital age.As your host, I've had the privilege of Wendy's guidance in my own life, an experience that's not only transformative but deeply cherished. Her approach, focusing on the 'us' in relationships as a separate, nurturable entity, has opened my eyes to new dimensions of connection and understanding. It's this profound impact that I'm eager to share with you, my listeners, as we explore the nuanced dance of communication and connection in the early throes of romance.This episode isn't just another discussion; it's a journey into the heart of what it means to build meaningful connections. Wendy's insights into active listening, mirroring, and validation as tools for fostering a deeper bond offer a fresh perspective on how we can approach new relationships with intentionality and grace. Her belief in addressing subconscious "scripts" that guide our interactions illuminates a path to healthier, more fulfilling partnerships.Our conversation extends beyond theoretical concepts, grounding Wendy's advice in practical, actionable strategies. These are not just tips for dating but life lessons that enrich our understanding of ourselves and others. It's a dialogue that promises to peel back layers of confusion, shining a light on the possibilities that conscious dating can bring, especially for those of us in the second half of life.Behind the Swipe is more than a podcast; it's a community where we confront the challenges of online dating head-on, armed with wisdom and a sense of adventure. This episode, in particular, is a testament to the transformative power of expert guidance, a theme that resonates deeply with me. Wendy's expertise isn't just professional; it's personal, woven into the fabric of my own experiences and growth.As we navigate the complexities of online dating together, let this episode be a reminder of the beauty in vulnerability, the strength in understanding, and the endless potential for growth that lies in every swipe. Join us on this enlightening journey, where the quest for love is not just a solitary endeavor but a shared exploration of the depths of human connection.

In this week's episode of Behind the Swipe we delve into the intricate dance between love and the potent neurochemicals that guide our hearts and decisions in the realm of online dating, especially for those navigating the scene in their 40s, 50s, and beyond.Join host Hoyt Prisock and guest expert Dawn Maslar-Biggie, author of "Men Chase, Women Choose" and renowned as the Love Biologist, as they explore the fascinating world where biology meets emotion. This episode sheds light on how hormones such as dopamine, oxytocin, and vasopressin play pivotal roles from the initial spark of attraction to the deepening of connections and the critical choices that lead us to select one partner over another.But here's the twist – understanding the science behind these automatic reactions doesn't strip away the magic of love; instead, it empowers us. We uncover how recognizing these autonomic responses can allow the advanced, rational parts of our brain to step in and navigate these complex waters with wisdom and clarity, reminding us that we are not merely at the mercy of our biology.Whether you're a seasoned swiper or just dipping your toes into the digital dating pool, "My Neurochemical Romance" promises to enlighten, entertain, and perhaps even challenge your perceptions of what drives our desires and decisions in the quest for love. Let's navigate the complexities of love and attraction together, armed with knowledge and ready for whatever comes our way.