And Now We Drink Episode 429: With Jessica Aaren

In this engaging and candid episode of "And Now We Drink," host Matt Slayer sits down with the vivacious Jessica Aaren for a lively conversation promptly fueled by good drinks and even better banter. The episode kicks off with Jessica sharing her favorite concoction, a Blueberry Mint Mule, along with tales of her culinary exploits hailing from North Dakota, revealing her prowess in the kitchen—especially during Thanksgiving. As the show progresses, Jessica talks about her transition from North Dakota to the vibrant streets of Las Vegas, and potentially, to the greener pastures of Los Angeles. She shares insights into her life in the  industry, highlighting the dynamics between civilian and industry friendships, and what she has found to be essential in maintaining them. Jessica openly discusses her career aspirations, aiming to explore more feature work in the  film industry, capturing the nuanced performances that make movies memorable. Her thoughts are interspersed with witty reflections on life, friendships, and unabashed appreciation for good food and drink, which she cites as part of her Las Vegas routine. Listeners are treated to a blend of humor and honesty, as Jessica unpacks personal anecdotes, bursts some myths about life in and out of the industry, and courageously hints at her journey towards self-improvement and career growth. Whether you're interested in the nuances of the  industry or fascinated by Jessica's life story and bubbly personality, this episode provides an entertaining peek behind the curtain of Jessica Aaren's life.   New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

Indulge in the hilariously chaotic world of  "And Now We Drink" host Matt Slayer as he welcomes Millie Morgan to the show. In this episode, they dive headfirst into a maelstrom of engaging anecdotes, from unexpected dating misadventures with "piss pants" to navigating the trials of modern relationships in the  industry. The conversation takes wild detours into their love-hate relationships with societal norms,  and humorous musings on the concept of an ideal date at a strip club. Listeners are treated to a candid window into Millie’s life, filled with laughter and sincerity, as she discusses her career milestones, including manifesting a hotdog stand scene and her previous role as a cam girl. The episode takes a sincere turn as romance, spontaneity, and the struggle to reconcile personal and professional life in adult entertainment are laid bare with heart and humor. Engage with this sidesplitting narrative that captures raw moments and larger-than-life personalities in a single breath. This episode delivers another wildly entertaining showcase of engaging tales and realness straight from the heart of two industry mavericks. Tune in for laughs, unexpected philosophies, and a glimpse into Millie Morgan's uniquely vibrant world!     New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

Join host Matt Slayer for another rollicking episode of "And Now We Drink," featuring the vivacious Lola Fae. Get ready to dive headfirst into a whirlwind of topics that range from the delightfully absurd to the genuinely introspective. This week's episode unfolds with Lola and Matt exchanging witty banter about manga, touching upon its role as a precursor to their favorite "hand-drawn" entertainment. But don't expect discussions about snowballs—Matt makes it clear that's not on the agenda! As the conversation lurches forward, Lola and Matt dive into everything from dietary preferences, debating the merits of veggies versus meat, to amusing anecdotes about past experiences in religious institutions. Lola, always the entertainer, brings up her culinary escapades with mushrooms and the ethics of eating meat, balancing the heaviness with her playful humor about leaving lava lamps behind during fictional break-ins. The episode isn't all laughs—Lola gets candid about personal fears and relationships, especially her musings about romantic dynamics and self-identity. The underlying theme here is the courage it takes to embrace one's true self and fears, whether it be about relationships or other personal choices.  Matt and Lola take listeners on a nostalgia trip as they reminisce about the old-school Concluding with Lola's thoughts and playful tussle over tacos, this episode weaves through diverse topics with charm and a touch of irreverence. Whether you're here for the laughs, the insightful discussions, or the wild tangents—there's something for everyone. Tune in and enjoy the ride with Matt and Lola!     New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this lively episode of "And Now We Drink," host Matt Slayer sits down with the candid and spirited Khloe Kingsley. The conversation dives into Khloe's experiences and anecdotes as she navigates life both on and off camera. With her candid demeanor, Khloe opens up about the ins and outs of her career in the industry, including the dynamics of maintaining a relationship while being a part of it. The episode doesn't shy away from humor and candidness, as Khloe shares hilarious stories about on-set mishaps, the reality of managing personal and professional demands, and her surprising penchant for Costco's generous return policy. Matt and Khloe explore the boundaries of her relationship with her boyfriend, adding a personal touch that highlights the complexities and understanding needed to make it work within the industry. Listeners will find themselves laughing along with the duo as they touch on lighter topics, like Khloe's music obsessions and humorous bathroom observations. Matt and Khloe's chemistry is undeniable, bringing a blend of humor and sincerity to discussions of their life experiences. Whether they're discussing the practicalities of SW, the importance of authenticity, or just enjoying some playful banter, this episode offers a glimpse into the often-unseen world of  entertainment and the genuine people behind it. Khloe's openness and humor make for an engaging listen, ensuring this episode is both entertaining and enlightening. So pour yourself a drink and tune in for an episode filled with laughter, honesty, and a touch of chaos.     New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

Get ready for another rollicking episode of "And Now We Drink" where host Matt Slayer welcomes the animated and eclectic Variety Istol to the mic. Known for her adventures in the world of kink and fetish, Variety brings a whirlwind of stories, laughs, and unexpected insights. This episode dives headfirst into the wild tales of karaoke nights gone awry, including a memorable song choice that left a distinct mark. Variety opens up about her ventures into the world of BDSM with her hand-crafted "bitch suit" and enthralls Matt with tales from kinky parties and fetish balls, complete with thrilling escapades and daring fashion choices. The conversation takes a twist into more reflective territories, discussing the challenges of being transgender in today's political climate, especially as a veteran navigating the complex landscape of gender-affirming care and rights. Despite the heavy undertones, Variety's humor and candid accounts of military life, unexpected run-ins with substances, and her views on societal norms keep the atmosphere lively. From unraveling the mystique of puppy play to the transformative power of hypnotic experiences, Variety is a beacon of openness, curiosity, and courage. Grab a drink, settle in, and join Matt and Variety as they explore the intersections of identity, kink, and the joys of living authentically on "And Now We Drink."     New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.anwd.net/bellflask use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this latest episode of "And Now We Drink," host Matt Slayer sits down with industry insider Vic Lagina for a candid and compelling exploration of the  film landscape. Vic, who has spent nearly two decades in the business, shares the highs and lows of his career—his path to the industry and what prompted his departure. The conversation flows through a range of topics, from the challenges and controversies in the  industry to the impact of new technologies like AI, which Vic believes could fundamentally change the way  content is produced. He and Matt also delve into the personal—discussing the psychology of performers, Vic's own relationships, and the lifestyle choices that have shaped his journey. Vic is unflinchingly honest, offering insights into the ethical dilemmas faced by those in the industry, as well as his personal experiences with burnout and the pursuit of a meaningful post-biz life. His sharp humor and unfiltered candor provide an engrossing glimpse into the life of someone who's thrived and survived in an ever-evolving world. By episode's end, Vic's stories of resilience and reinvention inspire, leaving listeners contemplating the nature of success and fulfillment beyond the spotlight. Tune in for a dialogue that is as enlightening as it is entertaining, and be prepared to see the  film industry through a lens you've likely never considered before.     New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer

Matt Slayer welcomes creator and former child-protection investigator Jen—better known as BarefootMamaMN—for a raw, funny, and unfiltered ride from Midwest mom-tok weather reports to OF stardom. Jen opens up about building a brand as a barefoot hippie from a small town. She shares the moment she publicly revealed her OF and jumped from a couple grand to 30k in a month, why success is more marketing than s*x, and why boundary and consent talks are non-negotiable before any scene. It's not all laughs: Jen brings hard-earned insight from years investigating  crimes , calling out systemic failures, trafficking realities, and why empathy—and not moralizing—saves lives. She also dives into the real risks creators face: stigma, banking and housing discrimination, leaks, impersonators, and DM scams. The personal stories are wild and human: a revenge hookup that spiraled into a years-long trauma bond, dating in a small town while being open about SW, becoming a grandma at 38, going vegetarian out of pure spite, "toxic d**k" rehab jokes. There's travel hacking, West Virginia algos, New Orleans ghosts, Minnesota deer stands, and yes—foot content with ranch dressing. Highlights Smart, spicy, and sincerely empathetic—this episode is equal parts chaos and clarity.   New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.anwd.net/bellflask use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this lively episode of "And Now We Drink," host Matt Slayer sits down with  industry sensation Serenity Cox for an unfiltered conversation that traverses the intricacies of nonmonogamy, the nuances of  entertainment, and everything in between. Serenity, who transitioned from a career in healthcare to a thriving position in  content creation, brings her unique perspective to the table, sharing insights on industry dynamics and personal growth. Matt and Serenity dive into the cultural differences between Canada and the U.S., discussing everything from healthcare systems to the simple pleasures of Canadian life. Serenity's transition from nursing to the industry reveals enlightening contrasts and similarities between her past and current professions, including memorable and sometimes humorous anecdotes from her time in the emergency department. Throughout the episode, Serenity candidly  offers a personal glimpse into her relationship with her husband and the discovery of what works best for them. Listeners will appreciate the openness with which Serenity shares the evolution of her career and personal life, highlighting the importance of understanding and adapting one's personal journey. With discussions that range from light-hearted moments to the deeper considerations of career and personal fulfillment, this episode is a testament to the diverse backgrounds and paths that bring people into the world of  entertainment. Tune in for a conversation that's as thought-provoking as it is entertaining, promising listeners an engaging narrative that's unafraid to tackle both the serious and the sensational aspects of Serenity's life and career.   New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this lively episode of "And Now We Drink," join host Matt Slayer and his dynamic guest, Justine Jakobs, as they dive into a whirlwind of entertaining and sincere conversations that promise to captivate and amuse. The duo shares personal anecdotes about the unexpected intersections of life, touching upon topics like the hilarity of rollerblading spills, the complexities of psychedelic experiences, and the balance of fitness with indulgence. Justine isn't shy to discuss her journey within the industry, emphasizing the empowering aspects of creating art and the importance of authentic connections. With candid reflections and hilarious misadventures, she reveals her nuanced relationship with her work while advocating for positivity and consent in all interactions. Meanwhile, Matt contributes his own tales from the field, navigating the quirks and unexpected turns of his professional endeavors and personal adventures. Listeners can also enjoy thoughtful discussions around societal pressures, the misconceptions associated with life choices, and the ongoing quest for personal growth and genuine human connection in a digital age. With the chemistry between Matt and Justine fully on display, this episode provides insights that are as enlightening as they are entertaining. Whether you're here for the laughs, the life lessons, or the intriguing behind-the-scenes looks, grab a drink and settle in for an enthralling conversation that intends to leave you both enlightened and entertained.   New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

Get ready for another wild ride on "And Now We Drink," with your host, Matt Slayer, as he sits down with the dynamic Dani Synclair. In this lively and unfiltered episode, Matt and Dani dive headfirst into an entertaining mix of humor, life in the world of  content, and the fascinating intricacies of being professionally mean to people. Dani, a professional switch, reveals her unique career working at a dungeon, where she gets paid to be mean to people as part of her dynamic lifestyle. The conversation takes playful turns as the two share laugh-out-loud moments and banter about everything from naps and neurodivergence to the trials of real-world adulting.  Dani's honest reflections on personal and professional boundaries lead to a candid discussion on how she navigates her work and personal life—a balancing act of kink events, plushie collections, and sometimes, very unexpected vehicular mishaps involving helpful strangers. Listeners also get a peek at what it's like being sought after in the  industry, the nuances of safe play, and Dani's ambitions within prominent studios . Sprinkled throughout are hilarious anecdotes that underscore Dani's unrivaled ability to keep things both sassy and spontaneous. Whether you're a long-time listener or a curious newcomer, this episode promises hilarity, vulnerability, and a tantalizing glimpse into the life of someone who can enthrall simply by being unapologetically herself. So grab a drink and tune in for an episode that's equal parts entertaining and enlightening.       Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink