And Now We Drink Episode 428: With Lola Fae

Join host Matt Slayer for another rollicking episode of "And Now We Drink," featuring the vivacious Lola Fae. Get ready to dive headfirst into a whirlwind of topics that range from the delightfully absurd to the genuinely introspective. This week's episode unfolds with Lola and Matt exchanging witty banter about manga, touching upon its role as a precursor to their favorite "hand-drawn" entertainment. But don't expect discussions about snowballs—Matt makes it clear that's not on the agenda! As the conversation lurches forward, Lola and Matt dive into everything from dietary preferences, debating the merits of veggies versus meat, to amusing anecdotes about past experiences in religious institutions. Lola, always the entertainer, brings up her culinary escapades with mushrooms and the ethics of eating meat, balancing the heaviness with her playful humor about leaving lava lamps behind during fictional break-ins. The episode isn’t all laughs—Lola gets candid about personal fears and relationships, especially her musings about romantic dynamics and self-identity. The underlying theme here is the courage it takes to embrace one’s true self and fears, whether it be about relationships or other personal choices.  Matt and Lola take listeners on a nostalgia trip as they reminisce about the old-school Concluding with Lola’s thoughts and playful tussle over tacos, this episode weaves through diverse topics with charm and a touch of irreverence. Whether you're here for the laughs, the insightful discussions, or the wild tangents—there's something for everyone. Tune in and enjoy the ride with Matt and Lola!     New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this lively episode of "And Now We Drink," host Matt Slayer sits down with the candid and spirited Khloe Kingsley. The conversation dives into Khloe's experiences and anecdotes as she navigates life both on and off camera. With her candid demeanor, Khloe opens up about the ins and outs of her career in the industry, including the dynamics of maintaining a relationship while being a part of it. The episode doesn't shy away from humor and candidness, as Khloe shares hilarious stories about on-set mishaps, the reality of managing personal and professional demands, and her surprising penchant for Costco’s generous return policy. Matt and Khloe explore the boundaries of her relationship with her boyfriend, adding a personal touch that highlights the complexities and understanding needed to make it work within the industry. Listeners will find themselves laughing along with the duo as they touch on lighter topics, like Khloe's music obsessions and humorous bathroom observations. Matt and Khloe’s chemistry is undeniable, bringing a blend of humor and sincerity to discussions of their life experiences. Whether they're discussing the practicalities of SW, the importance of authenticity, or just enjoying some playful banter, this episode offers a glimpse into the often-unseen world of  entertainment and the genuine people behind it. Khloe’s openness and humor make for an engaging listen, ensuring this episode is both entertaining and enlightening. So pour yourself a drink and tune in for an episode filled with laughter, honesty, and a touch of chaos.     New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

Get ready for another rollicking episode of "And Now We Drink" where host Matt Slayer welcomes the animated and eclectic Variety Istol to the mic. Known for her adventures in the world of kink and fetish, Variety brings a whirlwind of stories, laughs, and unexpected insights. This episode dives headfirst into the wild tales of karaoke nights gone awry, including a memorable song choice that left a distinct mark. Variety opens up about her ventures into the world of BDSM with her hand-crafted "bitch suit" and enthralls Matt with tales from kinky parties and fetish balls, complete with thrilling escapades and daring fashion choices. The conversation takes a twist into more reflective territories, discussing the challenges of being transgender in today's political climate, especially as a veteran navigating the complex landscape of gender-affirming care and rights. Despite the heavy undertones, Variety's humor and candid accounts of military life, unexpected run-ins with substances, and her views on societal norms keep the atmosphere lively. From unraveling the mystique of puppy play to the transformative power of hypnotic experiences, Variety is a beacon of openness, curiosity, and courage. Grab a drink, settle in, and join Matt and Variety as they explore the intersections of identity, kink, and the joys of living authentically on "And Now We Drink."     New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.anwd.net/bellflask use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this latest episode of "And Now We Drink," host Matt Slayer sits down with industry insider Vic Lagina for a candid and compelling exploration of the  film landscape. Vic, who has spent nearly two decades in the business, shares the highs and lows of his career—his path to the industry and what prompted his departure. The conversation flows through a range of topics, from the challenges and controversies in the  industry to the impact of new technologies like AI, which Vic believes could fundamentally change the way  content is produced. He and Matt also delve into the personal—discussing the psychology of performers, Vic's own relationships, and the lifestyle choices that have shaped his journey. Vic is unflinchingly honest, offering insights into the ethical dilemmas faced by those in the industry, as well as his personal experiences with burnout and the pursuit of a meaningful post-biz life. His sharp humor and unfiltered candor provide an engrossing glimpse into the life of someone who's thrived and survived in an ever-evolving world. By episode’s end, Vic's stories of resilience and reinvention inspire, leaving listeners contemplating the nature of success and fulfillment beyond the spotlight. Tune in for a dialogue that is as enlightening as it is entertaining, and be prepared to see the  film industry through a lens you’ve likely never considered before.     New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer

Matt Slayer welcomes creator and former child-protection investigator Jen—better known as BarefootMamaMN—for a raw, funny, and unfiltered ride from Midwest mom-tok weather reports to OF stardom. Jen opens up about building a brand as a barefoot hippie from a small town. She shares the moment she publicly revealed her OF and jumped from a couple grand to 30k in a month, why success is more marketing than s*x, and why boundary and consent talks are non-negotiable before any scene. It’s not all laughs: Jen brings hard-earned insight from years investigating  crimes , calling out systemic failures, trafficking realities, and why empathy—and not moralizing—saves lives. She also dives into the real risks creators face: stigma, banking and housing discrimination, leaks, impersonators, and DM scams. The personal stories are wild and human: a revenge hookup that spiraled into a years-long trauma bond, dating in a small town while being open about SW, becoming a grandma at 38, going vegetarian out of pure spite, “toxic d**k” rehab jokes. There’s travel hacking, West Virginia algos, New Orleans ghosts, Minnesota deer stands, and yes—foot content with ranch dressing. Highlights Smart, spicy, and sincerely empathetic—this episode is equal parts chaos and clarity.   New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.anwd.net/bellflask use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this lively episode of "And Now We Drink," host Matt Slayer sits down with  industry sensation Serenity Cox for an unfiltered conversation that traverses the intricacies of nonmonogamy, the nuances of  entertainment, and everything in between. Serenity, who transitioned from a career in healthcare to a thriving position in  content creation, brings her unique perspective to the table, sharing insights on industry dynamics and personal growth. Matt and Serenity dive into the cultural differences between Canada and the U.S., discussing everything from healthcare systems to the simple pleasures of Canadian life. Serenity's transition from nursing to the industry reveals enlightening contrasts and similarities between her past and current professions, including memorable and sometimes humorous anecdotes from her time in the emergency department. Throughout the episode, Serenity candidly  offers a personal glimpse into her relationship with her husband and the discovery of what works best for them. Listeners will appreciate the openness with which Serenity shares the evolution of her career and personal life, highlighting the importance of understanding and adapting one's personal journey. With discussions that range from light-hearted moments to the deeper considerations of career and personal fulfillment, this episode is a testament to the diverse backgrounds and paths that bring people into the world of  entertainment. Tune in for a conversation that's as thought-provoking as it is entertaining, promising listeners an engaging narrative that's unafraid to tackle both the serious and the sensational aspects of Serenity's life and career.   New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this lively episode of "And Now We Drink," join host Matt Slayer and his dynamic guest, Justine Jakobs, as they dive into a whirlwind of entertaining and sincere conversations that promise to captivate and amuse. The duo shares personal anecdotes about the unexpected intersections of life, touching upon topics like the hilarity of rollerblading spills, the complexities of psychedelic experiences, and the balance of fitness with indulgence. Justine isn't shy to discuss her journey within the industry, emphasizing the empowering aspects of creating art and the importance of authentic connections. With candid reflections and hilarious misadventures, she reveals her nuanced relationship with her work while advocating for positivity and consent in all interactions. Meanwhile, Matt contributes his own tales from the field, navigating the quirks and unexpected turns of his professional endeavors and personal adventures. Listeners can also enjoy thoughtful discussions around societal pressures, the misconceptions associated with life choices, and the ongoing quest for personal growth and genuine human connection in a digital age. With the chemistry between Matt and Justine fully on display, this episode provides insights that are as enlightening as they are entertaining. Whether you're here for the laughs, the life lessons, or the intriguing behind-the-scenes looks, grab a drink and settle in for an enthralling conversation that intends to leave you both enlightened and entertained.   New Sponsor ALERT   We are proud to be brought to you by BellFlask   www.bellflask.com use promo code slayer20 for 20% off at checkout     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

Get ready for another wild ride on "And Now We Drink," with your host, Matt Slayer, as he sits down with the dynamic Dani Synclair. In this lively and unfiltered episode, Matt and Dani dive headfirst into an entertaining mix of humor, life in the world of  content, and the fascinating intricacies of being professionally mean to people. Dani, a professional switch, reveals her unique career working at a dungeon, where she gets paid to be mean to people as part of her dynamic lifestyle. The conversation takes playful turns as the two share laugh-out-loud moments and banter about everything from naps and neurodivergence to the trials of real-world adulting.  Dani's honest reflections on personal and professional boundaries lead to a candid discussion on how she navigates her work and personal life—a balancing act of kink events, plushie collections, and sometimes, very unexpected vehicular mishaps involving helpful strangers. Listeners also get a peek at what it's like being sought after in the  industry, the nuances of safe play, and Dani’s ambitions within prominent studios . Sprinkled throughout are hilarious anecdotes that underscore Dani’s unrivaled ability to keep things both sassy and spontaneous. Whether you’re a long-time listener or a curious newcomer, this episode promises hilarity, vulnerability, and a tantalizing glimpse into the life of someone who can enthrall simply by being unapologetically herself. So grab a drink and tune in for an episode that’s equal parts entertaining and enlightening.       Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this electrifying episode of "And Now We Drink," host Matt Slayer is joined by the dynamic and magnetic  performer Taylor Nicole. A conversation as unpredictable as it is intriguing leads listeners through a myriad of topics. Taylor candidly shares captivating stories from her experiences in the  industry, including a wild tale of  that offers a humorous yet insightful glimpse into her world. She discusses the shifting dynamics of the  work landscape, the challenges performers face with modern content creation, and the impact of social media on their careers. Matt and Taylor dive into personal stories, including post-relationship reflections, unexpected travel adventures, and even a surprising encounter with a cult leader. With disarming honesty, Taylor opens up about the realities behind the scenes, from navigating the intricacies of hooking up to the pitfalls of dating within the industry. They also banter about pop culture staples, such as the quirks of late-night dining preferences and the endearing chaos of convention experiences. The episode wraps up with light-hearted discussions on everything from club security dynamics to surprising revelations about favorite travel destinations. Listeners will find this episode a perfect mix of humor, candidness, and insider insights, giving a raw and real glimpse into lives less ordinary. Whether you're here for the wild tales or the astute industry commentary, there's something for everyone in this can't-miss conversation. Tune in, relax, and drink up as Matt Slayer and Taylor Nicole pull no punches on "And Now We Drink."   Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink

In this latest episode of And Now We Drink, host Matt Slayer sits down with the spirited Alexis James for a compelling and laid-back conversation that is sure to entertain. Known for her candid viewpoints and openness, Alexis delves into a variety of topics with Matt, exploring everything from personal k**ks to travel ambitions. As the episode unfolds, Alexis shares her unique take on relationships offering insight into her thoughts on commitment and her unapologetic love for s**ual freedom. The duo discusses the nuances of the  industry, touching on the realities of Corn s*x versus real-life encounters, and Alexis’s intriguing methods of maintaining excitement in her personal life. Listeners will also be intrigued by Alexis’s desire to explore new experiences, such as her aspiration to skydive and her fascination with travel. Her stories are vibrant and unabashed, offering both humor and reflection as she navigates through tales of past romances, awkward public encounters, and her vivid fantasy life. Matt and Alexis's dynamic is both engaging and raw, providing an atmosphere where no topic is off-limits, whether it’s the intricacies of navigating life in Los Angeles or the playful banter about what truly makes them tick. This episode is a thrilling dive into the mind of Alexis James and is sure to leave listeners both entertained and eagerly anticipating what she’ll do next. Don't miss out on this electrifying episode of And Now We Drink!   Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink