To divorce or not to divorce? That is the question. Pt.1

Ever found yourself navigating the chaotic yet rewarding world of pet ownership? David and I reminisce about a lively evening at the Beach Eatery in Curl Curl, where a simple dog walk turned into a comedy of errors. From anthropomorphism to motivational reasoning, we dissect the quirky ways we justify our actions, both with pets and in personal relationships. We chat about how women can navigate the murky waters of manipulative behaviors and inspired by modern anthems like Dua Lipa's "New Rules," we champion the power of setting boundaries. Let's reshape the narrative, focusing on empowerment and critical thinking, inviting you to join our vibrant community of informed decision-makers.Meet with Annie - https://go.oncehub.com/AnnieMcCubbinWhy Smart Women YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@WhySmartWomenSend the Why Smart Women Podcast a Message

Ever wonder why we hold onto things even when it's time to move on? Inspired by behavioral economist Dan Ariely, we explore the emotional tangle of selling a family home of 24 years and the unexpected adventures that come with it—like our Groodles making a splash in their impromptu swim. Join me, Annie McCubbin, as I reflect on the chaos, nostalgia, and the quirky finds during this major life transition. Discover how overvaluing possessions can anchor us down, and what happens when we dare to let go.Meet with Annie - https://go.oncehub.com/AnnieMcCubbinWhy Smart Women YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@WhySmartWomenSend the Why Smart Women Podcast a Message

Unlock the truth about alternative medicine and its impact on traditional medical practices with Annie McCubbin as your guide. Promising an engaging exploration through dramatized exchanges and real-life stories, this episode of the Why Smart Women podcast takes you on a journey to unravel the misconceptions surrounding alternative health treatments. Discover why critical thinking is your best ally in making informed health decisions and how persuasive influencers may lead you astray.Send the Why Smart Women Podcast a Message

Could your financial future be at risk without you even knowing it? Join us on this episode of the Why Smart Women podcast as we unpack the unsettling reality of financial insecurity facing women in retirement, spotlighting the superannuation challenges in Australia. We're joined by Pascal Helya-Moray, author of "Rich Woman, Poor Woman," who offers striking insights into how one in six women retire into poverty, with the situation worsening for single women. Together, we scrutinize how systemic flaws like the late introduction of superannuation in 1992 and ingrained gender roles have left many women financially vulnerable, often leading to unexpected hardships like homelessnesPLEASE CHECK OUT - https://growmymoney.com.auMeet with Annie - https://go.oncehub.com/AnnieMcCubbinWhy Smart Women YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@WhySmartWomenSend the Why Smart Women Podcast a Message

Feeling overwhelmed by political noise and media echo chambers? Join me and my husband, David, on the Why Smart Women Podcast as we unravel the emotional and cognitive biases that cloud our judgment, especially around Trump's re-election and its ripple effect on Aussies like us. We candidly share how our media habits, from tuning into Stephen Colbert to Seth Meyers, boxed us into a distorted reality, making us question how we're influenced by confirmation and availability biases. It's time to face these biases head-on, step out of our comfort zones, and open our minds to a variety of perspectives.Meet with Annie - https://go.oncehub.com/AnnieMcCubbinWhy Smart Women YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@WhySmartWomen Send the Why Smart Women Podcast a Message

Ever assume your partner can read your mind? It's a common misstep in relationships, where the illusion of transparency often leads to misunderstandings and drama.Join us for a rollercoaster of emotions as David and I recount our adventures with a pressure water cleaner, the pressure of open house inspections, and the unexpected joys of cleaning. Moving isn't just about physical items—it's a journey through cognitive biases, emotional strain, and, surprisingly, the occasional hilarity of pets escaping through open gates. We'll share how these experiences tested our relationship and pushed us to communicate more effectively.Meet with Annie - https://go.oncehub.com/AnnieMcCubbinWhy Smart Women YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@WhySmartWomen Send the Why Smart Women Podcast a Message

Why do intelligent women sometimes remain in unsatisfactory relationships, and why do societal judgments harshly critique divorced women, especially mothers?We know that societal pressures like the ticking biological clock can lead women to settle for less, so how do encourage critical thinking in relationship decisions. These are just some of the provocative questions I explore with Skye Carmichael, a dedicated divorce coach who unpacks the gender biases and societal pressures faced by women navigating divorce.We also discuss the exclusion these women face, especially from married friends who may feel threatened by their presence.Meet with Annie - https://go.oncehub.com/AnnieMcCubbinWhy Smart Women YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@WhySmartWomenCoached by Skye - https://www.coachedbyskye.com Send the Why Smart Women Podcast a Message

Ever wondered if staying together for the kids is a fairytale or a trap? Join me, Annie McCubbin, as I unravel this complex question with Skye Carmichael, a former nurse who transformed her life into a relationship and divorce coach. What if the perfect marriage is just a facade? In the midst of unfulfilling marriages, why do we cling to optimism that things will magically improve? Together, Skye and I dissect the pressures women face, often shouldering the blame for relationship woes while awaiting a better future that may never come. We stress the need for safe spaces where brutal self-honesty is not only encouraged but necessary to escape dissatisfaction and regain control of one's life.Meet with Annie - https://go.oncehub.com/AnnieMcCubbinWhy Smart Women YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@WhySmartWomenCoached by Skye - https://www.coachedbyskye.com Send the Why Smart Women Podcast a Message

In our latest chat on the Why Smart Women podcast, my dear friend and mentor, Gai, and I discussed how engaging with our relationships often means balancing empathy with tough love. Explore how storytelling and identity shape our connections and why maintaining your sense of self is crucial when supporting others.  We’ll introduce you to the concept of "tend and blend," a fascinating gendered response to danger revealing how women might move towards threats, not away, as a survival tactic—a counterintuitive yet insightful survival mechanism.We examine how clinging to past mistakes or outdated narratives can hinder growth and how breaking free from these patterns can lead to personal evolution. Through acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), we highlight how avoidance of unpleasant emotions can trap us in unhealthy cycles. Together, we explore the power of changing our self-perception, and embracing new identities.Send the Why Smart Women Podcast a Message

What if downsizing after 24 years could transform your life in unexpected ways? Join us as my husband, David McCubbin, and I embark on a heartfelt exploration of our decision to leave our beloved family home on Sydney's northern beaches. We share the emotional rollercoaster of parting with cherished belongings and reflect on how our home's transformation from a neglected property to a cherished haven has shaped our identity. This episode promises a captivating journey through change, nostalgia, and the whimsical side of domestic life.Meet with Annie - https://go.oncehub.com/AnnieMcCubbinWhy Smart Women YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@WhySmartWomenSend the Why Smart Women Podcast a Message