Wake Up! with Kamden

Do you struggle with feeling like there are always a million little tasks to complete? It doesn't take long to start to feel a great deal of overwhelm and anxiety due to the lack of tying up loose ends. In this episode let's explore what may be an intentional action you can start to implement as a part of your normal life to help "close the loop" when it comes to tasks and events leading to greater peace, control and mental capacity. Enjoy Episode 19- "Close the Loop: Are you around for the closing credits?"   It was "A Bugs Life"! Here are the parodies at the end of the show that I was so happy I stuck around for: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5j1m2wwdcVA   Interest in joining The Coaching Connection? Check out more information here: www.theadhdirectory.com

What is hoarding? People with hoarding disorder excessively save items that others may view as worthless. They have persistent difficulty getting rid of or parting with possessions, leading to clutter that disrupts their ability to use their living or work spaces.   Hoarding is not the same as collecting. Collectors look for specific items, such as model cars or stamps, and may organize or display them. People with hoarding disorder often save random items and store them haphazardly. In most cases, they save items that they feel they may need in the future, are valuable or have sentimental value. Some may also feel safer surrounded by the things they save.   https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/hoarding-disorder/what-is-hoarding-disorder   Professional organizers will work with you to decide what you want to keep, and to identify where unwanted items will go. They will, in many cases, facilitate the disposal, donation or sale of belongings a client wants to part with.   https://www.nytimes.com/2019/01/16/smarter-living/professional-organizers-productivity-clutter.html#:~:text=Professional%20organizers%20will%20work%20with,client%20wants%20to%20part%20with.   I have so many great ideas but no idea where to start I cant let go of this idea bc I may forget about it.    “This idea is incorporated in the KonMari Method as expressing gratitude to your belongings for taking care of you,” she said. “If you are letting go of an item, giving thanks is also a way of properly saying goodbye, so that you can mark the end of your relationship with the item and release it without guilt.”   https://www.huffpost.com/entry/marie-kondo-saying-thank-you_l_5c49ebc9e4b06ba6d3bb31e6#:~:text=%E2%80%9CThis%20idea%20is%20incorporated%20in,and%20release%20it%20without%20guilt.

So many of us want everything fixed in one go overnight. We think if we were just given the perfect schedule, parenting tip, or sales technique we'd be all set.  I've learned this is a lie our brain tells us. We often have everything we need already upstairs in our amazing creative brain. While it is great to continue learning and seeking council it is just as important to take the time to slow down and determine how we want to spend our time and if it aligns with who we are working on becoming.  It is my experience that getting deep on a few vital items is so much more powerful than being shallow on one-hundred of them.      "The Success of a vision is determined by its ownership by both the leader and the people." -John C. Maxwell "Everything changes for the better when you take ownership of your own problems." -Robert Ringer

I reached an absolute breaking point in the name of personal growth, I don't want you to make the same mistake. Here are a couple amazing articles that support my experience.  Take time to care for yourself. You are invaluable.    Self-Care In The Quest For Personal Growth Actually, Science Says Pushing Yourself Way Outside Your Comfort Zone Is a Terrible Idea

It's true people I'm having a baby, the final #4, we are so happy and thankful. I am praying that everything goes well and end with a healthy little one at the end of all of this. Life changes can be expected or unexpected, how do you currently approach change and how would you prefer to approach change. In today's episode we talk more about the change I've been embracing and what other professionals in the field have suggested may help.   Psychology Today Article-Ten Ways to Cope with Big Changes Accidental Inventions Article

Sometimes it is good to sit back and reflect upon how far we have come! With busy brains it is easy to always be onto the next thing, I suggest we slow down for a second and feel gratitude for where we are and all that has come to pass that we once counted only as a dream. 

I grew up thinking in order to be really good at something I was required to strain, struggle, and experience pain.  I'm beginning to believe more and more this is not actually a requirement for success and progress. We don't have to associate hardship with growth and hard work doesn't have to be painful. We can put in the work and still love the process, we can show up with ease and peace and expect immense growth and progress.     This weeks WEBINAR is on January 28, 2021 Register Here! https://view.flodesk.com/pages/5fed00883a5df1098468d3c7

Let's face it we're human and if you're anything like me you're still trying to figure it all out. But something I have realized is that where I want to live in order to feel my best self the most often is not pushing the extremes of my emotions but enjoying the steady pace of my resting heartbeat.  WEBINAR REGISTRATION NOW OPEN!! Register for my webinar on January 28, 2021 "Get Shiz done and Still Have Fun."

When you are feeling overwhelmed with tasks and nearly paralyzed try this to get you back moving along. That fence really does not feel so cozy.    Sign up for the free webinar on January 28, 2021 "Get shiz done and still have fun!" https://view.flodesk.com/pages/5fed00883a5df1098468d3c7

Am I pleasing others at the expense of disappointing myself?   Sign up for the free webinar on January 28, 2021 "Get shiz done and still have fun!" https://view.flodesk.com/pages/5fed00883a5df1098468d3c7