Toye's Musings

A myth,reality or necessity?

Do you hear an African man speak and you mentally think she/he should erase their dialects in other or be politically correct? Jokes on you…The various African dialects in all its diversities are beautiful languages that ought to be embraced in its totality.

If she/he is inconsistent, that’s all there is to it. There’s no hidden reason to it it other than “YOU ARE NOT A PRIORITY AND NOTHING OF YOUR DOING CAN EVER MAKE YOU BE”… don’t be the perfect package at the wrong address

The way Nigerians reason should be studied! How do we act? Our reactions? Slangs and coping mechanisms…We definitely a different specie lol

People are being advised to keep their relationships private… To keep it off social media but how coded is too coded? Where do draw the line?

The stigmatization around marrying single Parents in the African society should be discussed

Knowing your partners sexual history really important to you/relationship?

The unspoken struggles a typical African girl faces as a result of using birth control pills or the lack of access it to her, having an abortion or educating her African male partner to have a vasectomy is never spoken and based mainly or hinged on hypocrisy. What then is the ripple effect of these behaviors and policies…

What should you do or expect from your first date experience

Love at first sight exits?