The Loved-Up Effect

Stuck in a Dating Rut? Let me show you how to get on a date you actually enjoy in 7 days, inside The Dating Reset. Click here to join now: https://www.emilybucknell.com/dating-reset _______________________________________ I want to remind you of what love is… "Love is the strongest force the world possesses.” – Ghandi Love isn’t bound by age, health, where you live, what dating app you’re on, appearance…ANYTHING. Love is limitless. …until of course, we humans get involved and put limits on it left, right and center. And of course, the craziest part of this is that 99% of the time we don’t even realize that we’re doing this. We don’t realize how the stories we tell ourselves, the beliefs that we hold are that powerful that they ultimately limit the love that we get to experience. Stories like: ‘There aren’t any decent men left to date.’ ‘I’m too old to find love.’ ‘I don’t have time to date (insert the next layer of stories here that you’re lacking in time!).’ ‘I’m not fully healed’ ‘No one will want to love me’ ‘I’m a single mum’ These stories that feel SOOOOOO real, that feel like set in stone reasons that you can’t get out there and date and find love are just that... Stories. Ways that you are limiting love. Inside this episode we’re going to get clear about all the ways you're limiting love, and start pulling apart these stories to get you back to the truth…that love is limitless. This HAS to be the story you start telling yourself if you want to have your dream relationship come into your life. Get listening now! ...and if you find this episode helpful, please let me know by leaving a rating, or review!! ________________________________________________________ Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove Or send me a DM on Instagram

Want to get on a date you actually enjoy in 7 days? Let me show you how, inside The Dating Reset: https://www.emilybucknell.com/dating-reset ________________________________________ Where are my Husband Hunting ladies at? My ladies that are on a MISSSSSSION to find your man?!?! You get to that point, don't you?  Where you've been hoping and praying that love would just happen for you like you've seen it happen for everyone else around you...and it doesn't.  You thought you'd be married, with kids right now.  So you do what all us, smart, successful, capable, strong and awesome women do, you decide to get out there and MAKE IT HAPPEN!! I love you for that. I seriously do...because that is also me! Here's what I learned from my years spent Husband Hunting...IT DOES NOT WORK.  Husband Hunting actually stops you from finding your husband.  Inside this episode I'm going to walk you through the 4 reasons that Husband Hunting isn't the approach you want to have when it comes to manifesting love...and obvs, what to do instead! Happy listening and please don't forget to leave me a review if you find this episode helpful! I always LOOOOOVE hearing from you! ________________________________________________________ Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove Or send me a DM on Instagram

Want to get on a date you actually enjoy in 7 days? Let me show you how, inside The Dating Reset: https://www.emilybucknell.com/dating-reset  This is a **SERIOUSLY** important episode, especially if you’ve been thinking that part of manifesting your dream love is accepting your life and future as a single person. Acceptance and surrender to what is, your life RIGHT NOW, is 100% and essential step in manifesting your dream relationship, but your future?! NOOOOOOO! So, if you’ve been struggling with this idea of acceptance, surrender, trying to feel ok being single, you’ve been picturing yourself as single forever or or you’re new to all of this and have NFI about what I’m talking about right now, then this episode is one you CANNOT miss. It’s short, sweet and will set you straight on what acceptance and surrender are, how to practice both in your life so that you truly do manifest your dream relationship. And if you like what you hear, be sure to let me know by leaving a review! ________________________________________________________ Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove Or send me a DM on Instagram

Want to get on a date you actually enjoy in 7 days? Let me show you how, inside The Dating Reset: https://www.emilybucknell.com/dating-reset ________________________________________________________ You’ve heard that saying, haven’t you? That Mr Right isn’t going to fall into your lap on Friday night while you’re chilling at home. Totally true. If you want to meet Mr Right then there is action that you need to take. I’m 100% behind this piece of advice. Where this advice gets single women into a whole lot of problems is falling into action for the sake of action. Like get out there and online date, get friends to set you up, be on the look out for genuine single men anytime you’re out and about, go to speed dating events, singles events, online date some more… I was one of these women. I thought all I had to do is take action and eventually I’d HAVE to meet him…right?! Wrong. If you’re taking alllllll the dating action and you’re not getting any closer to having the kind of loving relationship that you want, then this, right now, is your call to stop and listen to this week’s episode of The Loved-Up Effect podcast all about the Law of Inspired Action. This seriously beautiful Universal Law will help you determine what action is going to get you closer to love and what action is a big old waste of your time. If you want to learn what action is going to actually have your dream love come into your life, get listening to this episode now. And if you find what you hear helpful, please let me know by leaving a review! ________________________________________________________ Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove Or send me a DM on Instagram

Want to get on a date you actually enjoy in 7 days? Let me show you how, inside The Dating Reset: https://www.emilybucknell.com/dating-reset  Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove Or send me a DM on Instagram________________________________________________________  If you just do not feel confident dating, then first of all I want you to know that you’re not alone.  I remember feeling the same way myself. Simply the fact that finding love was such a struggle for me, like I was always the single friend, the one with all the relationship drama, crying on the phone to my friends, dumped and ghosted yet again, was a MASSIVE knock to my confidence. Love didn’t happen easily for me, so I saw myself as someone that wasn’t wanted by the awesome men I ultimately wanted a relationship with, and so whenever one of these guys came anywhere near me, I was an absolute ball of nerves, unsure of how to connect with them in a way that would lead somewhere. …which is the definition of a lack of confidence. Having confidence is literally having faith, belief, trust and certainty in yourself. I had none of that when it came to finding love. I was constantly looking for ways to fix or change myself in order to be more attractive to men. I didn’t truly believe I was someone that could have her dream relationship or that it was possible for me. And even just the thought of dating and the pressure to perform that I attached to it, meant I avoided dating as much as I possibly could. I didn’t think it was something I was any good at, so why bother putting myself through all the pain?! If you relate to that, and you simply don’t feel confident dating then get listening to this episode now!  Because as long as you don’t have the confidence to get out there and date as the most awesome you that you are, you’re unfortunately going to stay stuck exactly where you are. Inside this episode I’ll be walking you through how to start changing how you both feel about yourself and dating so you can get out there and date with confidence, able to finally make the kind of connections you want with the kind of men you want!

Want a proven process to manifest love and support along the way? Click here for all ways that you can work with me to make that dream relationship your reality: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove Or send me a DM on Instagram________________________________________________________ It can be one of the HARDEST things to do...letting that ex go (or at least it always was in my experience!).  Whether he broke up with you, you ended things and now regret it, it was a mutual break-up, you moved away, or there's some other reason why you're not in the committed relationship you ultimately want, then this is a MUST listen episode...because in holding on you're only stopping your ACTUAL dream love from coming into your life.  There are 5 steps to letting that ex go once and for all:  1. Attacking it from a logical perspective  2. Taking action to let go emotionally or energetically 3. Uncovering and shifting those deeper, root survival beliefs that have you holding on for dear life 4. Taking action to break any remaining ties 5. Step into the identity of you that HAS moved on.  If you found this episode helpful, please let me know by leaving a review!

For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you can manifest love and the relationship of your dreams, head here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove  Or send me a DM on Instagram________________________________________________________ If you want the BIG love life transformation, like to manifest your absolute dream love, then there’s a practice that I’d say is pretty much essential to get you there. It’s been absolutely essential for me to manifest my own dream love and the same has rung true for the many, many women I’ve coached in the last 5 years. The thing about this practice is that it’s not what you’d expect. We so often thing that a BIG transformation, requires BIG, complicated action…when in fact the reverse is true. If you want to get fit, then it takes consistent exercise and training to get there. If you want to save to buy a house, then it takes consistent saving to get there. A giant oak tree starts off as a tiny green shoot and grows consistency year after year until it becomes the giant tree. Get the theme here? Consistency. What do you need to do consistently to manifest your dream relationship?? This is exactly what you’re going to learn inside this episode! Get listening now and don't forget to leave me a review if you find what you hear helpful! xx

Join Stop The Soul Destroying Struggle To Find Love here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/stsds-registration  For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove  Or send me a DM on Instagram________________________________________________________ It’s the million-dollar question, isn’t it?! Why is it that you can want love more than anything, you can be doing ALLLLL the things (swiping till your thumbs bleed, wearing red dresses on first dates, not initiating contact, following all the rules, looking your best any time you’re out and about…) and trying your absolute hardest and still be stuck, no closer to finding love or having your dream relationship... …attracting all the less than awesome non-committal men, on the merry go round of first dates that go nowhere, situationships that you give your all to and that leave you heartbroken, constantly ‘the one before The One’… While your friends simply have to exist and they have the most incredible men fall into their laps and end up in the most loving and epic of relationships. Like WTF?! What’s the deal? Does life just hate you? Do you have some made karma from your past you’re now being punished for? Are you simply unlucky in love? …and not meant to ever have the kind of loving relationship you want? Girl, let me assure you it’s NONE of those things. Inside this episode I’m going into exactly why finding love seems to easy for everyone else while it’s the battle of a lifetime for you, so that you know what it is you need to do in order to have love happen just as easily for you! Because finding love isn't meant to be a struggle! If you find this episode helpful, please leave me a review to let me know!! With so much love,Em xx

For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove  Or send me a DM on Instagram________________________________________________________ If you’ve just been dumped, ghosted, you’re feeling heart broken and disappointed (yet AGAIN!) because things haven't gone as you had hoped, whether it's the end of a long term relationship, or you just haven't heard back from a guy you saw potential with, then this is the episode for you.  You aren't going to find any of the usual; let time heal your wounds, get to work looking your hottest and remind him what he's missing out on, find someone new to get over him (or make him jealous) or what you can do to fix the situation and get him back, because NONE of that is actually helpful.  What you're going to learn inside this episode will take you from where you are right now, which royally sucks, and have it propel you forward into your dream relationship rather than keeping you stuck experiencing the same kind of disappointment and heartbreak time and time and time again. Here are the reframe, or affirmations that you'll find inside this episode: This relationship CLEARLY wasn’t the right one for me (otherwise it wouldn’t have ended) This relationship ending is a gift because now I have the space for the relationship that is right for me What is meant for me, will NEVER pass me by Love is unlimited, it can happen, anywhere, anytime The relationships I have only get better and better and better My dream love is inevitable It’s all happening for me. If you found this episode helpful, please leave a review to let me know! xx LINKS & RESOURCES Reality of Relationship episode: https://www.emilybucknell.com/podcasts/the-loved-up-effect/episodes/2147967004  Self-Love Series (Part 1): https://www.emilybucknell.com/podcasts/the-loved-up-effect/episodes/2148097853 

For more info about me and all ways that you can work with me so that you have the loving relationship of your dreams, head here: https://www.emilybucknell.com/manifestlove  Or send me a DM on Instagram________________________________________________________ The million dollar question - “What do I need to do to find love?" And by far the one I get asked the most. And it’s a good question to be asking, because when you know what action to take then all that’s left to do is take it and your dream love is yours. It’s also the question that 99% of mainstream dating advice answers and in VAST volume. Like Google ‘what do I need to do to find love’ and 11 BILLION results come up. There’s a never-ending number of things to try to find love, online dating, making sure you have the best profile photos, speed dating, getting friends to set you up, going to sports bars, upmarket grocery stores or the gym where single guys hang out, making sure you look your best everywhere you go, scouting out naked ring fingers… It's a lot hey?! You probably feel like you’ve tried it all, am I right? And because you’ve taken so much action and it hasn’t got you any closer to love, you’re probably nearing that point where you’re wondering if ANYTHING will EVER work for you. What I want you to know is that if that’s where you’re at right now, then it’s simply because you’ve been taking the WRONG ACTION. WTF? What other action is there to take? What’s the right action? The action that WILL get you into your dream relationship? I’m answering all these questions inside this episode so get listening now! And if you find what you hear helpful, please leave me a review xx LINKS & RESOURCES: If you have a question you'd like me to answer on the podcast, then hit the link below and ask away! https://www.emilybucknell.com/ask-emily Send me a DM on Instagram