i don’t want to “have it all” - and that’s okay

Get the SGSG hoodie: https://shopisla.co Subscribe to the Weekly ManifesTEA Newsletter: https://manifestelle.substack.com Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, host Elle dives deep into a hot topic - the ethics of girl code, friendship boundaries, and women’s misplaced anger. She uses a recent TikTok drama as a case study to discuss the implications of breaking girl code by showing interest in a friend’s partner. Elle also highlights the importance of genuine female friendships and how they should never be jeopardized for a romantic relationship. She discusses the cultural shift in social norms and the consequences of an “anything goes” culture. Additionally, she provides insight into the role men play in such scenarios and emphasizes the need to hold them accountable for disrespecting boundaries. The episode ends with a firm reminder to women about their worth and the importance of maintaining their peace.

Get the SGSG sweatshirt: https://shopisla.co Subscribe to the Weekly ManifesTEA Newsletter: https://manifestelle.substack.com Get the Dating Course: https://manifestelle.com/high-value-dating-protocol Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, Elle delves into the controversial topics of escape bank accounts, alimony, child support and the misogyny that often surrounds these subjects. She challenges societal taboos and calls for women to demand equitable treatment, particularly in cases of infidelity. Elle also discusses the role of marriage as a form of business and the necessity of splitting assets fairly upon dissolution. She highlights the importance of women having their own separate bank and investment accounts after marriage. Throughout the episode, Elle encourages women to value themselves and recognise their worth, while warning against lowering standards for the sake of validation from men. Tune in to hear Elle's fearless take on these critical issues.

Buy Merch: https://shopisla.co Subscribe to the Weekly ManifesTEA Newsletter: https://manifestelle.substack.com Get the Dating Course: https://manifestelle.com/high-value-dating-protocol Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, Elle discusses the importance of women reassessing their male friendships. She explores the concept of 'guy friend purge', shedding light on how such friendships can be disadvantageous and even dangerous to women. Elle takes us through several points including the hidden romantic feelings often present, the use of women as status symbols, and the potential threats to women's safety. She also delves into the concept of 'Canopy ministry', the negative impact on self-esteem, and the need for women to reclaim their inherent value and worth. This frank discussion is a call to action for women to redefine their boundaries and expectations, and to wake-up to their self-worth. Keywords: i have no friends, friendships, adult friendships

Buy Merch: https://shopisla.co Subscribe to the Weekly ManifesTEA Newsletter: https://manifestelle.substack.com Get the Dating Course: https://manifestelle.com/high-value-dating-protocol Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this in-depth and eye-opening episode of the Spoiled Girlie Support Group podcast, host Elle introduces listeners to a novel concept – dating for lifestyle, not love. She begins by explaining the idea behind this perspective, emphasizing that it's about aligning with a partner whose lifestyle mirrors your desired reality. This could be anything from a slow, homesteading life in the country to a hyper-luxurious lifestyle. Elle discusses the potential pitfalls of entering a relationship with the hope of changing your partner's lifestyle to suit your own. She underscores the importance of respecting both your own needs and your partner's established lifestyle. In an empowering segment, she calls on her listeners to remember their intrinsic worth and to avoid settling for less in their relationships. She also delves into societal expectations and norms that often put unnecessary pressure on women. Elle challenges these norms and explores the idea of playing life on 'easy mode' by making smart, beneficial choices for oneself. In addition, Elle discusses the criticism leveled against the idea of dating for lifestyle, debunking misconceptions and affirming the validity of women wanting fairness and satisfaction in their relationships. Throughout the episode, Elle's message is clear and powerful: love yourself enough to choose a lifestyle, not just love, in your relationships. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking a fresh perspective on dating and relationships.

Buy Merch: https://shopisla.co Subscribe to the Weekly ManifesTEA Newsletter: https://manifestelle.substack.com Get the Dating Course: https://manifestelle.com/high-value-dating-protocol Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode of the "Spoiled Girlie Support Group" podcast, host Elle explores the idea of achieving financial independence while being in a relationship where your partner provides for you. She begins by debunking the negativity surrounding this concept, emphasizing that it's neither impossible nor new. Elle introduces us to the concept of "Mrs. Watanabe". This term symbolizes the collective of Japanese housewives who, besides managing their household's finances, have also become influential players in the financial market. Through the story of Mrs. Watanabe, Elle underscores the importance of financial literacy and the role it plays in achieving financial security. She encourages listeners to arm themselves with the tools of financial literacy, asserting that this knowledge will bring peace of mind and security in their lives. Elle further delves into the importance of community in achieving financial independence. Drawing parallels with the Mrs. Watanabes of Japan, she emphasizes how these women leverage their community to share information, guide each other, and provide mutual support. She encourages her listeners to establish their own "spoiled girlie" community, emphasizing that one doesn't need to be a sophisticated investor to participate in financial growth and security. The podcast episode concludes with Elle reminding her listeners that a core part of being a spoiled girlie is taking ownership of your life, which includes being financially secure. She encourages listeners to have faith in themselves, seek knowledge, cultivate discipline, and foster a supportive community to achieve financial independence - or in her words, to "get that bag".

Merch: https://shopisla.co Subscribe to the Weekly ManifesTEA Newsletter: https://manifestelle.substack.com Get the Dating Course: https://manifestelle.com/high-value-dating-protocol Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this podcast episode, Elle advises listeners to avoid dating financially unstable men, associating their financial insecurity with potential negative behavior towards women. She cites the example of Keke Palmer and the experiences she had with a financially unstable boyfriend as a cautionary tale. Elle encourages her listeners to seek relationships with men who are successful, respectful, and have a clear purpose, mission, and vision in life. She emphasizes the importance of a reciprocal relationship where both partners contribute and respect each other.

Merch: https://shopisla.co Weekly ManifesTEA Newsletter: https://manifestelle.substack.com Dating Course: https://manifestelle.com/high-value-dating-protocol Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In today's episode, join Elle as we delve into the complex world of modern motherhood, relationships, and divorce. We explore the challenges faced by 'married single mothers' - women who are legally married but shoulder single mother responsibilities. We discuss the reasons why women initiate the majority of divorces and the societal expectations placed on women. We also dive into the phenomenon of women "glowing up" post-divorce, shedding light on the factors that contribute to this transformative journey. The episode also unpacks the implications of outlawing no-fault divorces and how this affects women at various levels. Elle offers a compelling perspective on the importance of recognizing one's worth and value, and the need for women to be vigilant against exploitation in relationships. Wrapping up, we discuss the concept of 'divesting' and the importance of expanding one's dating pool. Tune in for an enlightening discussion about women's roles, relationships, and the pursuit of equality. Remember to like, subscribe, and hit the notification bell so you never miss an episode.

Merch: https://shopisla.co Weekly ManifesTEA Newsletter: https://manifestelle.substack.com Dating Course: https://manifestelle.com/high-value-dating-protocol Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle Join Elle in today's podcast episode as she explores some intriguing theories about how men can impact women's appearance and health. With a focus on the science and psychology behind these concepts, Elle dives into the fascinating world of bi-directional DNA exchange during pregnancy, and its potential effects on a woman's looks. She also discusses the damaging physical effects of stress derived from toxic relationships and introduces the concept of "boyfriend air" - a phenomenon where a woman's appearance changes for the worse after getting a boyfriend. This episode serves as a reminder of the importance of maintaining healthy relationships and prioritizing self-care. So, tune in, learn, and remember: you are the source, the creation, the prize!

Merch: https://shopisla.co Weekly ManifesTEA Newsletter: https://manifestelle.substack.com Dating Course: https://manifestelle.com/high-value-dating-protocol Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, we delve into a societal issue referred to as the "sassy man apocalypse". Elle discusses the phenomenon where men, due to a lack of fatherly guidance, remain in a state of perpetual boyhood, characterized by selfishness and a dependency on women. She passionately argues against women tolerating this behavior and encourages them not to shoulder the responsibility for men's lack of maturity. Throughout the episode, Elle empowers her listeners to recognize their own inherent worth and refuse to enable immature male behavior. She wraps up the episode with a powerful message, reminding all women that they are truly the "prize" and should never allow anyone to devalue them.

Subscribe to the Weekly ManifesTEA - https://manifestelle.substack.com get paid sweater - https://shopisla.co/products/get-paid-sweater Buy merch to support our channel - https://shopisla.co ✨All other links - https://beacons.ai/manifestelle In this episode of the Spoiled Girlie Support Group podcast, host Elle dives into the topic of "Golden Retriever Men: Benevolent Sexism or Chivalry?" She explores the concept of men who go above and beyond to show love and support for their partners. Elle discusses the significance of recognizing and valuing women's worth in relationships, and shares examples of healthy dynamics between couples. Tune in to gain insights into navigating modern dating and understanding the importance of mutual respect and appreciation. Join the conversation and let us know your thoughts in the comments below! Listen to the full episode on your favorite podcast platform or visit our website for more empowering content. Don't forget to subscribe and hit the notification bell to stay updated with future episodes. Thanks for tuning in to the Spoiled Girlie Support Group podcast! Keywords: 35k ring street interview, spoiled girlie, podcast, female podcast, relationship advice, dating advice, benevolent sexism, chivalry, golden retriever boyfriend, golden retriever men, labrador men